Cancer man mixed signal

Hi everyone. I decided to share my story with the cancer man i recently met.

Excuse my english because its not my mother language.

I met him couple week ago. He pursue me clearly. Giving hints and everything.telling me that he wanted to marry someone (he describe someone exactly like me skin tone, age etc) and only one women in this world.

So i just do it casual, talk etc and come to one time he figure out that i have fave idol which is a man. And he's unhappy. He said man only have one heart for a women, theres only one in there. And start from there every topic will lead to that idol. Like why dont you think about him, why dont you listen to him only. Go look at him only.

I grow feeling to him, when i dare to ask him if he like me ( cause all the hint anf attention he gave me) he said no, i dont like you. Thats hurt.

And then he keep asking me to be his friend. Its beyond favorite feeling he said. And i ask him some favour and he keep going circle. And always related to that man idol. The i said why are you hate me? He answer i dont like all the other women except you.

This is confusing. Now i go MIA.

Any good insight? Thank you in advance.

@GC06 i thought so. He's a singer celebrity. Im so surprised that he make a big deal out of it. But again indeed @waterbearerwearer man idols are cool 🙂

@perperuna yeah, i dont want to waste my time thats why i go MIA now.

Thank you everyone for the insight♡

Huge red flag anytime a man starts talking marriage after only just meeting you.

Ime it’s either a ploy to get those panties to drop.

Or he has something hideously wrong with himself so he is attempting to lock you down ASAP and trap you.

Either way, red flag. You want someone to get to know you, fall in love with your exterior and interior, and then chose to make you their life partner. Not fall in love (aka lust) with the outside shell and then get bored and then repeat with someone else.