Cancer man testing me

So there's this cancer man we had a one night stand 4 years ago but we been in the same social circle about 10years so we knew of each other. So after that situation he was cordial but didn't pursue me do we stopped talking but he still watches me...so bam quarantine happens and we don't see each other for a year and a half. The bar opens in my city I never hung there before but all of my pre quarantine people do. Well guess who's there Mr. Cancer but this time the staring is different he's relentless like I asked my cancer woman best friend like an I tripping or is he watching me. She' says yes he's watching you. Now I'm Pisces and very intuitive so I can feel him looking and when I turn around or look up he is right there. Me and him have had 3 conversations during this time all light and not too deep. So I got drunk and asked him why does he keep staring at me and he said he's not interested...so I went back inside and kid you not he came in 5minutes later and watched me tell my best friend what happened like he watched me for like ten minutes straight... Like why does he keep watching me and looking for me ...when I talk to people he turns to me when he hears my voice. He smiles when I walk by and looks at me from head to toe. So why doesn't he just go for it because I know I can make him happy...ugh

It’s weird that you’re intrigued by a creep.

Almost like you want him to be interested.

Why do some women waste so much time overthinking the creepiest and rude people?

I’m sure there were more attractive men in that bar.

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You could just ask him out? 😂😂

Also looking at someone is ‘creepy’ now 🤣

Yes it’s predatory. If it’s continually done.

Can’t you empathize with a woman?

All of my female friends get uncomfortable when men continuously stare. Do you not have any attractive female friends that just want to go out and not be gawked out?

Clearly not.

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Posted by ATGR

You could just ask him out? 😂😂

Also looking at someone is ‘creepy’ now 🤣

Yes it’s predatory. If it’s continually done.

Can’t you empathize with a woman?

All of my female friends get uncomfortable when men continuously stare. Do you not have any attractive female friends that just want to go out and not be gawked out?

Clearly not.

Not when we like the guy. And she obviously likes the guy.. they had their romp so it’s not like he’s a stranger.

Pisces, the best thing you can do is when a man tells you he’s not interested, believe him. Especially cancer men. They’re cardinal signs. They go for what they want without hesitation. He would not tell you he wasn’t interested if he was. Unless you guys are like 12.

Maybe he’s looking at your friend? Or maybe he’s looking at you wondering why you’re looking at him. Idk... but I think it’s always best to take a man serious when he says he’s not interested or doesn’t want a relationship or doesn’t want the same thing, etc.

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My point exactly. Why like a man who says nothing on 10 years and then just stares and rejects her when she asks if interested, and then continues to stare?

Y’all probably think Ted Bundy is hot as well.

This is why these men think disrespecting a woman keeps her on a string. All while she’s clearly making herself available for him to play with.

Quit finding assholes attractive and then y’all won’t be up on Astro boards fawning over his romanticized astrological sign, or thinking he’s troubled and needs your bosom to cuddle into.

I've been ignoring him since he said he's not interested we don't talk at all but the energy is weird

He doesn't like my best friend she's married and he and her husband are friends we all hang out together these are my peers... Well I'm just ignoring him for now...I gotta make him stand on what he said even if it hurts...thanks for the feed back it helps clear my head.

He doesn't like my best friend she's married and he and her husband are friends we all hang out together these are my peers... Well I'm just ignoring him for now...I gotta make him stand on what he said even if it hurts...thanks for the feed back it helps clear my head.

@complicatedpiseces I would definitely beg him for a better understanding of his thoughts to get clarification with the looks he gives you. Continue to message him and manifest your love to the Cancer ♋️ with the moon in Taurus. Do not be fooled by his aloofness and claim what is in your heart and you know how to make him happy after already doing the deed. So just commit 💯..... I will be rooting for a positive outcome for you two

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He doesn't like my best friend she's married and he and her husband are friends we all hang out together these are my peers... Well I'm just ignoring him for now...I gotta make him stand on what he said even if it hurts...thanks for the feed back it helps clear my head.

You can do so much better. Don’t waste your time with a staring statue.

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He doesn't like my best friend she's married and he and her husband are friends we all hang out together these are my peers... Well I'm just ignoring him for now...I gotta make him stand on what he said even if it hurts...thanks for the feed back it helps clear my head.

You can do so much better. Don’t waste your time with a staring statue.

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She can get him back if she’s gives it her all.

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Posted by ATGR

You could just ask him out? 😂😂

Also looking at someone is ‘creepy’ now 🤣

Yes it’s predatory. If it’s continually done.

Can’t you empathize with a woman?

All of my female friends get uncomfortable when men continuously stare. Do you not have any attractive female friends that just want to go out and not be gawked out?

Clearly not.

Not when we like the guy. And she obviously likes the guy.. they had their romp so it’s not like he’s a stranger.

Pisces, the best thing you can do is when a man tells you he’s not interested, believe him. Especially cancer men. They’re cardinal signs. They go for what they want without hesitation. He would not tell you he wasn’t interested if he was. Unless you guys are like 12.

Maybe he’s looking at your friend? Or maybe he’s looking at you wondering why you’re looking at him. Idk... but I think it’s always best to take a man serious when he says he’s not interested or doesn’t want a relationship or doesn’t want the same thing, etc.

My point exactly. Why like a man who says nothing on 10 years and then just stares and rejects her when she asks if interested, and then continues to stare?

Y’all probably think Ted Bundy is hot as well.

This is why these men think disrespecting a woman keeps her on a string. All while she’s clearly making herself available for him to play with.

Quit finding assholes attractive and then y’all won’t be up on Astro boards fawning over his romanticized astrological sign, or thinking he’s troubled and needs your bosom to cuddle into.

Right. Because men never like unavailable women, only women do that

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No one said that.

No one should be wasting their time over someone playing with them.

No one owes anyone their commitment because they hooked up.

No one should waste time on indirect people.

If you think this is a gender thing, because I’m sick of seeing women wasting their time on douchebags, because I addressed “women”, then maybe you’re trying to deflect for your own reason for fawning over douchebags.

Op was wasting her time on a dick. If you want her to chase a dick, because you’ve settled for that type in your life, then maybe look at why you bother.

And if you want to make it about men waiting for unavailable women, well that’s just stalkerish and creepy. A woman says “NO NOT INTERESTED”, he better take a hike.

It’s about creating boundaries on your heart and them creating them on their lack of interest.

He's not interested but he is creepy... and you had a one night stand so He's probably wondering if you are going to let him hit it again.

Cancers have weird stares tho too and they don't know they are doing it. It's like this piercing scowl stare like they are trying to figure out why you have snot coming out of your nose. If you call them out on it they will deny it.

Same social circle for 10 years

One night stand 4 years ago

when you ask him what's up he says he's not interested

like woof, how many more blows can your ego take?

If he wanted to be with you he's had ample time and opportunity to do so

stop buying into your married friends fantasy of getting her and her husbands besties to double date. It ain't happening.

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You could just ask him out? 😂😂

Also looking at someone is ‘creepy’ now 🤣

It’s only creepy when there isn’t a mutual attraction.