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Maybe I’m old school but I say you should ask for her phone number and have a real conversation. There’s nothing more draining than a guy who thinks I can sit and stare at my phone texting back and forth all day long. It sucks up so much of her time.

I’m not a cancer sun but have a cancer moon. There are probably multiple men that are trying to text her all day long.. be different from the rest of them, take some initiative and ask if you can call her sometime.

I did lol she gave me an excuse.
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As a Cancer woman, yeah, you should just move on.

Also to others suggesting that he's getting played by Cancer, no, that's not always the case. Personally, I have left male interests hanging NOT because I had other male interest, but because the under-developed cancer in me was too scared to outright reject them and hurt their feelings. We sugar-coat stuff too much. So the mind games kinda do happen.
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Funny it’s happening again but a different story. Slow to text but still texting.

Saturday night met another cancer woman. We spent whole night vibing getting to know one another at an event then it turned into an unexpected date. We both enjoyed our time and i got her number end of the night. Texted her the next day to set up us hanging out. She even implied we were gonna hangout again during our “date” and also after she beat me to pay the tab.

So is this same case different person? Should I try calling her this week or let it be?

That sounds like the kind of real interest worth reciprocating.

Enjoy!
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Trying to set up a date for earlier in week. Texted her Tuesday evening. She said maybe Saturday she might be free. Let her know I’m leaving Saturday night for a vacation so we’d have to play it by ear. No reply back afterwards

Never accept a maybe date from a woman regardless of your vacation situation. If she does not firmly agree, pullback and ask her to get in touch when she's free or wait a week and reach out.

Don't ask more than twice.

Gotcha. Yea cause a mayyybe isn’t a yes. Between the maybe and slow text starting to think it was just an enjoyable night. If someone is interested they’ll make time
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Stall her out. You're going on vacation so the ball needs to be in her court..

saying "let's play it by ear" is now a maybe request from you. She never said she was free so now tell her to reach out when she's available.

You don't need to do anything else. Women will do the leg work for you if they're actually interested.

Don't delete her number either. Their emotions fluctuant and she could come back and say this was a really busy week for her.

Nah won’t delete numbers unless I feel it’s no point of having. We’re in a singles group together she’ll see me post or again at another event and mood could change like you said.

Yeah, just keep it moving as if she isn't going to reach out. But stay cordial if you do bump into her again.

Fight her on that tab also.. She's way too comfortable with that and there's little rapport.
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When I told her I was gonna pay for it she said we’ll hangout again as like saying I got this you got the next one. How I took it. Told her thanks for the wings and she said thanks for the company.

Like the whole night we vibed out. I walked around to give her some space cause she was talking to someone else then she came to find me afterwards.

On flip side read if a woman pays for date their not interested. All this crap confusing.

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I’ve offered to split the bill when I wasn’t interested, because I felt guilty about having to reject them, so at least they’d get some of their money back lol

I hate texting. I'll do it, if it feels too awkward to call, but I'd prefer a call.