Cancer women—? Cheating?

I had a relationship with a cancer girl. It was good in the beginning but she got waaaayy too emotional. She would cry for everything, it seemed like everything i did would upset her. I couldnt go to the store by myself without pissing her off, or go to a family party without her feeling all left out and stuff. it was too much. I finally told her we were better off just being friends but of course that didnt even work. she got married and cheated on her husband with me and would always tell me she would leave her husband for me. I of course didnt want any part of her and her abusive husband, the last thing i wanted was some crazy guy after me because his wife couldnt keep her feelings in check. They got separated and she was dating someone else and was still coming to me practically begging me to sleep with her, she gave me head one time at a park where we decided to meet up and talk, and wanted me to do her after but i couldnt (already blew my load).. She would later go on to occasionally attempt to seduce me while still being in a committed relationship..i finally decided to just cut things off because it pained me to see her so sad .It really shocked me that she would do all that while being married. I know i shouldnt have messed around with her while she was in a relationship but SHE was the one who came to me..im use to being the guy that women come to cheat on their husbands with, im not proud of it.. sorry for all the graphic details lol, but my question is, do cancer women really cheat this bad?

Posted by Arielle83
think shes lookin for love in all the wrong places. Cancer chick would never cheat if she felt loved

I think all water signs are like this. It's all about the feelings and sex is wrapped up in feelings for water. If a water sign doesn't feel loved they will chase the feelings they need in different ways/people. Security in one, sexual desires in another. The only difference between them really is how they chase it.

Cancer will chase others with emotions.
Scorpios will chase others with fact finding maneuvers.
Pisces will chase with dreams of love that may or may not be possible with that other person.

All this is done to form the bond. Not a bond they want it to be —THE?? bond.

If you can't give a Cancer the love and security they give you... they may cheat.
If you can't give a Scorpio the level of devotion they give you... they may cheat.
If you can't give a Pisces the dreaminess of love they give you... they may cheat.

She loved you and that made her insecure and jealous. Things ended and she went to someone else to fill the void you left. And that went on and on and on. Unless you desire drama you ought to leave her be, no friendship no nothing because she won't be able to handle it. Don't feed a fire unless you know how to put it out..

Posted by aquavita
when they are not loved. they are not doormats. they also know how to divorce. if you are aware of abuse you need to inform the police. you mention being afraid of her husband yet you are not concerned she might be in danger. typical leo.

I forgot to mention how she WOULDNT leave her husband. I told her she needed to leave that guy for her safety and her kids, but I guess she liked that he was like that... Everyone else already told her to leave the guy but I guess she felt" loved" that he would be that way with her..and me being afraid of her husband? Please, I would've kicked that fat short son of a pigs azz,, like a typical leo.

I'm in the army.. I don't get to go back to San Diego very often.... I didn't have any issues with him. Apparently she had several attempts to leave him but wouldn't. At that point, what does one do? She even had him arrested but took him back after he would plead to her that he changed, All this while still telling me how she wanted to go where I was and live with me... Trust me, I told her how it was wrong.. But she wouldn't listen.

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Posted by aquavita
when they are not loved. they are not doormats. they also know how to divorce. if you are aware of abuse you need to inform the police. you mention being afraid of her husband yet you are not concerned she might be in danger. typical leo.

I forgot to mention how she WOULDNT leave her husband. I told her she needed to leave that guy for her safety and her kids, but I guess she liked that he was like that... Everyone else already told her to leave the guy but I guess she felt" loved" that he would be that way with her..and me being afraid of her husband? Please, I would've kicked that fat short son of a pigs azz,, like a typical leo.

why did not you?

judging by his profile picture? The UCMJ.

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That too. I wasn't gonna risk getting arrested and getting demoted or getting kicked out because this girl wouldn't listen.

I noticed that despite judging her for her cheating you STILL accepted sleeping with her. Don't judge her when you were a willing partner in that.

As for the abuse: it's not as easy to get out of a relationship like that as you think, especially for a Cancer, because we hang onto people we love. Since she has kids with the man she is going to do everything she can to "make it work" until she realizes it won't. She needs to realize that it's bad for the kids more than divorce is.

Posted by MoonArtist
I noticed that despite judging her for her cheating you STILL accepted sleeping with her. Don't judge her when you were a willing partner in that.

As for the abuse: it's not as easy to get out of a relationship like that as you think, especially for a Cancer, because we hang onto people we love. Since she has kids with the man she is going to do everything she can to "make it work" until she realizes it won't. She needs to realize that it's bad for the kids more than divorce is.

Don't know why it's difficult for a cancer to get out of a relationship like that. Regardless of kids or not, that kind of thing is wrong for the kids to grow up and watch, and that's also how murder-suicides happen.

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Posted by MoonArtist
I noticed that despite judging her for her cheating you STILL accepted sleeping with her. Don't judge her when you were a willing partner in that.

As for the abuse: it's not as easy to get out of a relationship like that as you think, especially for a Cancer, because we hang onto people we love. Since she has kids with the man she is going to do everything she can to "make it work" until she realizes it won't. She needs to realize that it's bad for the kids more than divorce is.

Don't know why it's difficult for a cancer to get out of a relationship like that. Regardless of kids or not, that kind of thing is wrong for the kids to grow up and watch, and that's also how murder-suicides happen.

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Because when we tie ourselves to someone emotionally, we tie in tight and we absolutely hate putting people aside. I'm sure she knows it's not good for the kids to see the abuse, but she's also thinking of how hard divorce is on kids. Then there's the financial part of it. If her husband is like most abusers, he has control of the money and she's afraid of what will happen to her and the kids if she's on her own. Food for thought.

By the way, that scorpio moon should be giving you more empathy than your leo sun normally has. Put it to use. Put yourself in her shoes, if you can.

" im use to being the guy that women come to cheat on their husbands with, im not proud of it."

You're use being a man-wh***? Why are you dicking a married woman then judging her desire to get dicked?

Sort of off topic yet relevant to the original post- Is it common for men not to go a second round? I haven't bumped in to that before.

Posted by kim30
Sort of off topic yet relevant to the original post- Is it common for men not to go a second round? I haven't bumped in to that before.

Immediately after busting a nut? Gotta take a few minutes for the testes to fill back up.

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Posted by kim30
Sort of off topic yet relevant to the original post- Is it common for men not to go a second round? I haven't bumped in to that before.

Immediately after busting a nut? Gotta take a few minutes for the testes to fill back up.

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how long of a nap?

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Posted by kim30
Sort of off topic yet relevant to the original post- Is it common for men not to go a second round? I haven't bumped in to that before.

Immediately after busting a nut? Gotta take a few minutes for the testes to fill back up.

how long of a nap?

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Maybe 5 minutes at the most, once the mushroom tip stops feeling all sensitive and what not, then it's back to putting them legs behind the ears and plowing away.

Then why not wait five minutes then
give her what she asked for?

Posted by kim30
Then why not wait five minutes then
give her what she asked for?

Oh wow, am I some sort of slut or something lol jk. I found it odd she wanted to have sex knowing very well we didn't have a condom

Why are you asking me when you said you were use to married women coming to you to cheat.
I was holding back with my initial response. Really the post should ask why would a cancer woman not only cheat but cheat with a man who can't dick her down right. That's what irks me above all else.

Lol dick her down right? Yea tell that to her husband. I've dicked her down plenty of times before she met him, while with him and separated from him. She kept coming back for a reason, I didn't that moment because we had no rubbers, I'm not gonna stick my junk in some girl known to cheat around, with no condom.

rofl....says the guy who sleeps with lots of married women! Omg, that's rich 😆

Why would I tell that to her husband? Is he on dxp posting about this woman too?

If a woman is going to have an affair, it wouldn't be with someone who waves his dick in her face and too lazy to get it done. She sounds desperate for attention or an escape. "Any dick will do" type. There. I just answered my own question.

Of course I meant it sarcastically... This got way out of topic lol, bottom line. I was just curious to know if this was a cancer girl type thing. Maybe it was just her.

IMO, cheating isn't really a sign thing...no matter what sign.

True.. True

Sarcasm from me as well. Fucking a married woman makes you a cheater also. Are you a cancer girl?

Posted by AL4813
I had a relationship with a cancer girl. It was good in the beginning but she got waaaayy too emotional. She would cry for everything, it seemed like everything i did would upset her. I couldnt go to the store by myself without pissing her off, or go to a family party without her feeling all left out and stuff. it was too much. I finally told her we were better off just being friends but of course that didnt even work. she got married and cheated on her husband with me and would always tell me she would leave her husband for me. I of course didnt want any part of her and her abusive husband, the last thing i wanted was some crazy guy after me because his wife couldnt keep her feelings in check. They got separated and she was dating someone else and was still coming to me practically begging me to sleep with her, she gave me head one time at a park where we decided to meet up and talk, and wanted me to do her after but i couldnt (already blew my load).. She would later go on to occasionally attempt to seduce me while still being in a committed relationship..i finally decided to just cut things off because it pained me to see her so sad .It really shocked me that she would do all that while being married. I know i shouldnt have messed around with her while she was in a relationship but SHE was the one who came to me..im use to being the guy that women come to cheat on their husbands with, im not proud of it.. sorry for all the graphic details lol, but my question is, do cancer women really cheat this bad?

You were a willing participant in an extramarital affair.
You are a grown man, no one forced you.
Stop screwing married women, especially unstable ones.

So you're that douche who has no respect for other men and feels like it's okay to get it on with a married chick? And you expect her to be loyal to you? No that's a laugh. Moral of the story. Don't mess with women who come attached to other men cuz happy endings don't flow from bad beginnings. And you knew this was wrong from word go.

It sounds like she has a real problem. I think someone may need to intervene especially if she has kids.

You sound like a d-bag. But I still salute you!!

Posted by kim30
Sarcasm from me as well. Fucking a married woman makes you a cheater also. Are you a cancer girl?

Lol.

Sad to say but I cheated on my husband once when we were married.

Posted by AL4813
I had a relationship with a cancer girl. It was good in the beginning but she got waaaayy too emotional. She would cry for everything, it seemed like everything i did would upset her. I couldnt go to the store by myself without pissing her off, or go to a family party without her feeling all left out and stuff. it was too much. I finally told her we were better off just being friends but of course that didnt even work. she got married and cheated on her husband with me and would always tell me she would leave her husband for me. I of course didnt want any part of her and her abusive husband, the last thing i wanted was some crazy guy after me because his wife couldnt keep her feelings in check. They got separated and she was dating someone else and was still coming to me practically begging me to sleep with her, she gave me head one time at a park where we decided to meet up and talk, and wanted me to do her after but i couldnt (already blew my load).. She would later go on to occasionally attempt to seduce me while still being in a committed relationship..i finally decided to just cut things off because it pained me to see her so sad .It really shocked me that she would do all that while being married. I know i shouldnt have messed around with her while she was in a relationship but SHE was the one who came to me..im use to being the guy that women come to cheat on their husbands with, im not proud of it.. sorry for all the graphic details lol, but my question is, do cancer women really cheat this bad?

But another answer to your question is that it seems like you have some serous issues and two people with serous personality issues draw towards each other.

Hey asshole, you are creating a lot of bad karma by having sex with married women. You are a cockroach in terms of integrity, and it's only a question of time before you get what's coming to you. I'm just sorry I won't get to be the one who kills you.

Hey asshole, you are creating a lot of bad karma by having sex with married women. You are a cockroach in terms of integrity, and it's only a question of time before you get what's coming to you. I'm just sorry I won't get to be the one who kills you.

Posted by canerleo101
Sad to say but I cheated on my husband once when we were married.

1.) Why did you cheat on your husband?

2.) Did you know the person you cheated with BEFORE you got married?

3.) How long were you married before the divorce?

Posted by ScorpioFish

Posted by canerleo101
Sad to say but I cheated on my husband once when we were married.

1.) Why did you cheat on your husband?

2.) Did you know the person you cheated with BEFORE you got married?

3.) How long were you married before the divorce?

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1. My husband was physically abusive to me but that is not why I cheated. The reason why I cheated was because it was the holidays, and he spend Christmas with his family instead of with me (by that time his family and I did not get along)

2. I cheated on him with someone who I knew before I got married. But the bad part is that these guys were sworn enemies (but I didn't know that they were enemies, I didn't even know that the knew each other, when I first met my husband I found that out soon after)

3. We stayed married for about a year and a half after I cheated. However I never told my husband that I cheated. But one day my husband checked my voice mail and the other guy left a message so he probably was suspicious. Whats ener crazier is that both of these guys are Leo's.

Posted by Arielle83
What were you like after the cheating? Did you feel empowered? Regretful? Sad? Wanted?

I could imagine that dealing with an abusive husband it might have been an escape and a need to feel wanted.

I'm a very vengeful person so I felt good about getting even.

Posted by Arielle83
I moved to australia for a man who i believed was sincere...i soon found out he was full of it. He was stringing loads of women along...emotional cheater...he would put me down all the time, compare me to people...I was never good enough and his moods were fucked...

He cut me off sexually, but he would be texting other women all over the place...it made me suspicious and he always said it was all in my head...one day he went out of town for a bucks party, and since he gets his phone usage mailed to us i checked that night he was away and sure enough he was repeatedly calling and texting a chick in the city...i confronted him and it was all ur crazy blah blah...i said who calls another woman at 2am...you're drunk...what else would you want?

One night i was at the pub with a bunch of locals and he didnt come with me...i was pretty drunk so his bestbud walked me home and then he came onto me and i didn't push him away...i felt bad after the fact but never told him...but at the same time i felt alive again due to that ex's constant demands and abuse and lies...soon after that i realized he is not for me...too much suffering

The strange thing about my situation is that my ex-husband never put me down or called me names he was just physically abusive at times.

Posted by ScorpioFish
Hey asshole, you are creating a lot of bad karma by having sex with married women. You are a cockroach in terms of integrity, and it's only a question of time before you get what's coming to you. I'm just sorry I won't get to be the one who kills you.

You tell 'em ScorpFish! I'm too pissed!!

Why am I the only one annoyed by his inability to fuck?

I don't believe any of it. This BS about being the man women come to for affairs + not being able to please her after she sucked him off + needing a five minute nap between rounds makes the WHOLE story fictional.