Cancan
@Cancan26
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cancers .....do you ever feel...
Posted by claylol I thought you were a taurus or gemini?
yes
Posted by Cancan26Yes buttt tbh I've been the other way, I fall in deep for someone whos super sweet and supportive and consideration. I really do melt when a girl treats me like the crab I am lol
like that you being nice or kind ...is often mistaken for romantic interest ...
I notice this a lot on the board especially with the men ...in an age of tinder, fucking, and no emotional connection ...I can see how kindness, emotional connection and consideration can be confused with a romantic interest
this has also happened to me a few times as well... being too "nice" to someone has translated into me wanting something else...
Yes, not on here, in real life.
rarely. only if they are obviously used to lots of women chatting them up and are still at that stage in life/ mentally where they think every woman who talks to them is chatting them up.
Posted by KodakYes I do notice most crabs (including myself) have a its on the inside that counts type of mentality when dating 🙂Posted by Cancan26Yes buttt tbh I've been the other way, I fall in deep for someone whos super sweet and supportive and consideration. I really do melt when a girl treats me like the crab I am lol
like that you being nice or kind ...is often mistaken for romantic interest ...
I notice this a lot on the board especially with the men ...in an age of tinder, fucking, and no emotional connection ...I can see how kindness, emotional connection and consideration can be confused with a romantic interest
this has also happened to me a few times as well... being too "nice" to someone has translated into me wanting something else...click to expand
Yup. I have to do the "whoa there I'm just trying to help. "
i'm not cancer or cancer dominant, but this happens to me a lot in real life in the past. so I simmer it down and am not that friendly. Only if i'm with my husband then i'm smiles of course, to be polite. it really sucks, because you are just being nice. and men/ boys fall in love with a nice person. so I figured if i'm mean, it'd help. lol
Posted by DivaCanLeooohh makes sense why you are grouchy.
this happens to me alot, where i can't even extend myself at all, for friendship or anything, everyone assumes im trying to get with them, when i'm really not!
its like wtf
keeps the undesirables away while you're sniffing out for good game out there, or better prospects. 😛 😄
Posted by tiziani😆Posted by Cancan26Should be the opening to a book.
...in an age of tinder, fucking, and no emotional connection ...click to expand
Posted by tiziani"In an age of tinder, fucking, and no emotional connection, a hero arises from the dating wasteland....his (or her) bearing, aura, and poise causes all heads to turn and the world is breathless as he (or she) opens their mouth to speak....he (or she) looks around at the throng, a steely gaze, a confident gaze, a gaze that holds the promise of redemption...and there is a gasp as the words echo in the silence as he (or she) walks off into the distance---"Fuck this shit""Posted by Cancan26Should be the opening to a book.
...in an age of tinder, fucking, and no emotional connection ...click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8Yeah that's where I am being not so friendly, still doesn't help. They fall in love anyway. Geez
i'm not cancer or cancer dominant, but this happens to me a lot in real life in the past. so I simmer it down and am not that friendly. Only if i'm with my husband then i'm smiles of course, to be polite. it really sucks, because you are just being nice. and men/ boys fall in love with a nice person. so I figured if i'm mean, it'd help. lol
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp^^^^^^^Posted by tiziani"In an age of tinder, fucking, and no emotional connection, a hero arises from the dating wasteland....his (or her) bearing, aura, and poise causes all heads to turn and the world is breathless as he (or she) opens their mouth to speak....he (or she) looks around at the throng, a steely gaze, a confident gaze, a gaze that holds the promise of redemption...and there is a gasp as the words echo in the silence as he (or she) walks off into the distance---"Fuck this shit""Posted by Cancan26Should be the opening to a book.
...in an age of tinder, fucking, and no emotional connection ...click to expand
this is epic 😏
I like to help others but I don't want to date them.
Yes I'm nice to Saggitarius she think I like her
Posted by ParisianCappy😱 nooooooo.....I thought what we had ...was so warm and tender ...
so there were nothing between us, cancer lady are cold ! ?
Reading this just made me think of the time tbat my cancer friend thought that I was falling in love with him. Things couldnt be furtherer than the truth! Not my fault if he took my friendly nature to mean something else!
Posted by oEUoYes... To my downfall.
People can criticize all they want but they know they love the Cancer touch.
I dunno about romantic expectations, but I find they think I'm more into them than I'm actually am.
Yes a lot
Posted by rabidtalkerSame..
Yes, not on here, in real life.
Friend of mine said 'There's some men you just
can't be nice to. '
She's right.
-.-
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Aries Moon 9th House
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I notice this a lot on the board especially with the men ...in an age of tinder, fucking, and no emotional connection ...I can see how kindness, emotional connection and consideration can be confused with a romantic interest
this has also happened to me a few times as well... being too "nice" to someone has translated into me wanting something else...