Cancers. . . Do you gold grudges ?

Cancers. . . Do you gold grudges ?

Yes I have before, but I am in the phase and evolving stage of letting go of all the hatred baggage and just simply releasing those people from my life who cause that pain and just living my best life. To all Cancers who still do, just know holding it hurts you more than the intended target.

Mostly silver, I'd say.

I used to all the time...lol and still do sometimes..itz juz that if i feel like ur worth me making up with then, ill be the bigger person...but if not..i'll juz hold the grudge because i wouldnt care lol...

I do hold grudges, but I've gotten a lot better as I've gotten older. I used to let things eat at me and it would become an obsessive habit to think about all those who have done me wrong. Luckily I've gotten to a place now where I can turn that part of my brain off and just let it go. I just have to remind myself that people screw up, but I never forget what they did and I expect nothing more than what I received from them last time around. I suppose that makes me a little pessimistic, but I think that's better than being screwed over again and again!

It depends on what they did.