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Dear All,

Thank you for reading this

I am a divorced cancer girl and I met this warm Leo man . we hit off so well . He is so ideal for me , I cant explain. He is French and I am an indian.

Anyway, he asked me out and then he within 10minutes, cancelled the plan as something came up. Now I am quite suspicous , I kept asking him why did he cancel. He was polite enough to answer that he was really busy and he still thinking of meeting me, Then I , like a psycho, told him that I dont play games and all that mad mad stuff,.

Then he added me on instagram .

He was starting to chat a bit more, when I told him I was divorced. 😢

Anyway, I say good Night and messaged him a bit more and when he dint reply, my psycho self again asked him why he is so detached,😢 omg!! I am soooo embarrassed.

Then today , I have messaged him like 50 messages and 10 calls and all have gone unanswered 😢

what should I do? Or feel?

I right now feel so low, so please dont say I am a loser because I already feel like one
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You sound psycho.

50 messages and 10 calls in a day and you haven't even met? Jfc
You are cold hearted bitch!

Have you ever tried to send 50 messages (wait...wasnitbin kne day? Whatever)...

and don’t care about carpal tunnel syndrome? To a dude you’ve known for 10 min? No? So stfu! What if it’s live? Do you ever care about anyone but yourself?

Judging people harshly like that for making little communication going?

Well...even if it’s one sided and she probably scared shitless his French ass off?

So what’s the big deal? Oh! 10 calls throw you to be mean? Lmao

I am glad I am laying down...or I would fall on my face laughing...seriously!

Now I’ll never fall asleep! Happy now—

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Wtf yo that sounds nuts af and I would've blocked you. Why are you acting so desperate? Biggest turn off. If you're going to move on you gotta turn off the crazy.
Can you imagine her if she was actually the gf? Fuckkkkkkkk thatttttttt
I'm trying not to mean but yo for real lol
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No! You HAVE to be mean or she will send another 150 and drive dude into impotency at makenhim want to become gay! Lmao
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Wtf yo that sounds nuts af and I would've blocked you. Why are you acting so desperate? Biggest turn off. If you're going to move on you gotta turn off the crazy.
Can you imagine her if she was actually the gf? Fuckkkkkkkk thatttttttt
I'm trying not to mean but yo for real lol
No! You HAVE to be mean or she will send another 150 and drive dude into impotency at makenhim want to become gay! Lmao
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LMAOOO I WAS BEING NICE OUT OF EMPATHY! But true posting on here she clearly was looking for someone to validate her actions and say that was okay and he won't think she's crazy, but no my dear I'm sure he'll run if he sees you. Now time to learn from this.
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You guys just don't understand crabs
I mean my mom is a cancer and I know a few but doing crazy shit is doing crazy shit mane lol. She gotta cool it or she's def gonna scare ppl away. From his perspective it's not his problem if she hasn't healed. All it looks like to him is that she must be bat shit.
Yeah

But in her mind she's found a connection that is extremely hard to find

Like the antithesis of her husband probably

So she wants to make sure she doesn't lose him

But she sabotages due to not being able to control herself

But that's what makes her lose the possibility she sees

Calling her names isn't going to help her

She knows she fuked up



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I get that but tbh she should get a counselor to help her get through those feelings from her past. This is a form of taking it out on him. She doesn't even know the guy. I called her behavior crazy. I'm not going to validate it and I know she may be looking for that and that's why the post was made. Now I've been crazy in my past life so I'm empathizing. I needed someone to be straight with me back then so I'm gonna be straight with her.
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My intuition is telling me this. Any guy that acts like that ...is bat butter ..you RIGHT now are also bat butter..

I guess if you were not in this place...you would have never have fallen for him. Your intuition would have told you he was off.

When people are in a bad place ...they fall prey.
Then, perhaps I'm also off because I don't see anything wrong with his behavior...besides the fact that he added her on ig after the way she latched on.
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Wtf yo that sounds nuts af and I would've blocked you. Why are you acting so desperate? Biggest turn off. If you're going to move on you gotta turn off the crazy.
Can you imagine her if she was actually the gf? Fuckkkkkkkk thatttttttt
I'm trying not to mean but yo for real lol
No! You HAVE to be mean or she will send another 150 and drive dude into impotency at makenhim want to become gay! Lmao


LMAOOO I WAS BEING NICE OUT OF EMPATHY! But true posting on here she clearly was looking for someone to validate her actions and say that was okay and he won't think she's crazy, but no my dear I'm sure he'll run if he sees you. Now time to learn from this.

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Good! I was afraid you are nice and you meant to continue and it’s not healthy here...to be nice. ❤️
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You guys just don't understand crabs


People acting like all prissy like love never made them act out.

I've called 50x plus just on general principle. That's not crazy. Not crazy by far.


When you find that rare connection

Crabs are always looking for that

😂 i feel bad for her

My Leo moon makes me too proud to beg

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I'm shameless. Would not even care. Life is too short to be prideful
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Also, I'm going to give you the book that will save your life. It's called Women Who Love Too Much by Robin Norwood. Helped me figure out my shit. I know it will help you out. I'm super sure so please find it and read it and thank me later 🙂
I read that book

First though you got to read a book on sociopaths

When you're into a sociopath you love too much
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I mean even just looking up what they are will help but even outside of that that book helped me with shit I didn't even realize lmaoo
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You guys just don't understand crabs


People acting like all prissy like love never made them act out.

I've called 50x plus just on general principle. That's not crazy. Not crazy by far.


When you find that rare connection

Crabs are always looking for that

😂 i feel bad for her

My Leo moon makes me too proud to beg

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CC! One more time please...crabs are looking for being bother all day?

That’s not what I’ve heard...

Do tell...

And please state if you talking about unemployed crabs. Because I am talking the one who is really busy and I have to put up and shut up until spoken to...

I can do it! For one day! Lmao
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I don't think you're psycho, op. Dating after a divorce is scary as hell just sounds like you need more time to yourself.
People can tend to feel a connection with just about everyone ...i know i can sometimes it means we are meant to be friends ..etc or learn something.



But 50 messages ...i would say she means five literally
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I believe there is something to be learned I'm every interaction.

And yeah, hopefully it was just a figurative 50. Lol

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You guys just don't understand crabs


People acting like all prissy like love never made them act out.

I've called 50x plus just on general principle. That's not crazy. Not crazy by far.


When you find that rare connection

Crabs are always looking for that

😂 i feel bad for her

My Leo moon makes me too proud to beg


CC! One more time please...crabs are looking for being bother all day?

That’s not what I’ve heard...

Do tell...

And please state if you talking about unemployed crabs. Because I am talking the one who is really busy and I have to put up and shut up until spoken to...

I can do it! For one day! Lmao
Lol women are more fanatic than the men
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Good! So I can proceed? Lmao
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Also, I'm going to give you the book that will save your life. It's called Women Who Love Too Much by Robin Norwood. Helped me figure out my shit. I know it will help you out. I'm super sure so please find it and read it and thank me later 🙂
I read that book

First though you got to read a book on sociopaths

When you're into a sociopath you love too much
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Not true! They make sure you don’t know!

They act like perfect mates because they looking for a prey who has no power figure behind them like a father or a brother...they prey on weak! It’s a while world of horror!
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You guys just don't understand crabs


People acting like all prissy like love never made them act out.

I've called 50x plus just on general principle. That's not crazy. Not crazy by far.


When you find that rare connection

Crabs are always looking for that

😂 i feel bad for her

My Leo moon makes me too proud to beg


CC! One more time please...crabs are looking for being bother all day?

That’s not what I’ve heard...

Do tell...

And please state if you talking about unemployed crabs. Because I am talking the one who is really busy and I have to put up and shut up until spoken to...

I can do it! For one day! Lmao
Lol women are more fanatic than the men
Good! So I can proceed? Lmao
Hmmmm hmmmm why not

Try it and see

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If Cancers women vs Cancers men as same as Gem women vs Gem men...you have no idea! We are different species.

However he seems to be awfully nice and

when he has tantrum - always apologizing. But I know it’s my fault. I jerk his brains off! Lol

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Dear All,

Thank you for reading this

I am a divorced cancer girl and I met this warm Leo man . we hit off so well . He is so ideal for me , I cant explain. He is French and I am an indian.

Anyway, he asked me out and then he within 10minutes, cancelled the plan as something came up. Now I am quite suspicous , I kept asking him why did he cancel. He was polite enough to answer that he was really busy and he still thinking of meeting me, Then I , like a psycho, told him that I dont play games and all that mad mad stuff,.

Then he added me on instagram .

He was starting to chat a bit more, when I told him I was divorced. 😢

Anyway, I say good Night and messaged him a bit more and when he dint reply, my psycho self again asked him why he is so detached,😢 omg!! I am soooo embarrassed.

Then today , I have messaged him like 50 messages and 10 calls and all have gone unanswered 😢

what should I do? Or feel?

I right now feel so low, so please dont say I am a loser because I already feel like one
He dodged a bullet. You sound crazy.
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You sound psycho.

50 messages and 10 calls in a day and you haven't even met? Jfc
She sounds like she just got divorced and is having a hard time adjusting

Psycho? Really
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Yes, psycho.

If she got issues with neediness and self esteem, jumping into a relationship immediately is dumb af.

Second, "connecting" with someone to the point of going ape shit nuts, as she admitted, shows obvious attachment issues she needs to work out before she can have a healthy relationship.

Third, in a span of 16 hrs (allotting 8 hrs for sleep) she obsessively messaged and called him over her perceived "connection" with him. He obviously didn't feel the same, so this thread and her continued antics is self serving and selfish on her part.

Last, making excuses for her behavior and saying it is okay that she exhibits this type of behavior is called enabling.

P.s. you've never been divorced, so you're the last person that could relate.

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You sound psycho.

50 messages and 10 calls in a day and you haven't even met? Jfc
She sounds like she just got divorced and is having a hard time adjusting

Psycho? Really
Yes, psycho.

If she got issues with neediness and self esteem, jumping into a relationship immediately is dumb af.

Second, "connecting" with someone to the point of going ape shit nuts, as she admitted, shows obvious attachment issues she needs to work out.

Third, in a span of 16 hrs (allotting 8 hrs for sleep) she obsessively messaged and called him over her perceived "connection" with him. He obviously didn't feel the same, so this thread and her continued antics is self serving and selfish on her part.

Last, making excuses for her behavior and saying it is okay that she exhibits this type of behavior is called enabling.


Did she wear depend diapers drive across country without stopping to check on her man. Nope

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You must do this type of stuff the op does.
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You sound psycho.

50 messages and 10 calls in a day and you haven't even met? Jfc
She sounds like she just got divorced and is having a hard time adjusting

Psycho? Really
Yes, psycho.

If she got issues with neediness and self esteem, jumping into a relationship immediately is dumb af.

Second, "connecting" with someone to the point of going ape shit nuts, as she admitted, shows obvious attachment issues she needs to work out before she can have a healthy relationship.

Third, in a span of 16 hrs (allotting 8 hrs for sleep) she obsessively messaged and called him over her perceived "connection" with him. He obviously didn't feel the same, so this thread and her continued antics is self serving and selfish on her part.

Last, making excuses for her behavior and saying it is okay that she exhibits this type of behavior is called enabling.

P.s. you've never been divorced, so you're the last person that could relate.


So you should have more empathy since you have divorced

All you're doing is knocking her and calling her crazy terms
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Nope. Cause I'm not going to tell any woman or man that this shit is okay.

It's not.

NOT even close.
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You sound psycho.

50 messages and 10 calls in a day and you haven't even met? Jfc
She sounds like she just got divorced and is having a hard time adjusting

Psycho? Really
Yes, psycho.

If she got issues with neediness and self esteem, jumping into a relationship immediately is dumb af.

Second, "connecting" with someone to the point of going ape shit nuts, as she admitted, shows obvious attachment issues she needs to work out before she can have a healthy relationship.

Third, in a span of 16 hrs (allotting 8 hrs for sleep) she obsessively messaged and called him over her perceived "connection" with him. He obviously didn't feel the same, so this thread and her continued antics is self serving and selfish on her part.

Last, making excuses for her behavior and saying it is okay that she exhibits this type of behavior is called enabling.

P.s. you've never been divorced, so you're the last person that could relate.


So you should have more empathy since you have divorced

All you're doing is knocking her and calling her crazy terms

Nope. Cause I'm not going to tell any woman or man that this shit is okay.

It's not.

NOT even close.


Nobody says it's OK

But your using terms like psycho

That's a reach
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Nope. She even calls herself it in her own post.

She's never met him, and more than likely talked to him for a brief time. She is exhibiting delusional obsessive qualities.

Psycho.
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You sound psycho.

50 messages and 10 calls in a day and you haven't even met? Jfc
She sounds like she just got divorced and is having a hard time adjusting

Psycho? Really
Yes, psycho.

If she got issues with neediness and self esteem, jumping into a relationship immediately is dumb af.

Second, "connecting" with someone to the point of going ape shit nuts, as she admitted, shows obvious attachment issues she needs to work out before she can have a healthy relationship.

Third, in a span of 16 hrs (allotting 8 hrs for sleep) she obsessively messaged and called him over her perceived "connection" with him. He obviously didn't feel the same, so this thread and her continued antics is self serving and selfish on her part.

Last, making excuses for her behavior and saying it is okay that she exhibits this type of behavior is called enabling.

P.s. you've never been divorced, so you're the last person that could relate.


So you should have more empathy since you have divorced

All you're doing is knocking her and calling her crazy terms

Nope. Cause I'm not going to tell any woman or man that this shit is okay.

It's not.

NOT even close.



You seem crazy now.

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This coming from the dumbass that posts dead kids and tells people to kill themselves.

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You sound psycho.

50 messages and 10 calls in a day and you haven't even met? Jfc
She sounds like she just got divorced and is having a hard time adjusting

Psycho? Really
Yes, psycho.

If she got issues with neediness and self esteem, jumping into a relationship immediately is dumb af.

Second, "connecting" with someone to the point of going ape shit nuts, as she admitted, shows obvious attachment issues she needs to work out before she can have a healthy relationship.

Third, in a span of 16 hrs (allotting 8 hrs for sleep) she obsessively messaged and called him over her perceived "connection" with him. He obviously didn't feel the same, so this thread and her continued antics is self serving and selfish on her part.

Last, making excuses for her behavior and saying it is okay that she exhibits this type of behavior is called enabling.

P.s. you've never been divorced, so you're the last person that could relate.


So you should have more empathy since you have divorced

All you're doing is knocking her and calling her crazy terms

Nope. Cause I'm not going to tell any woman or man that this shit is okay.

It's not.

NOT even close.


Nobody says it's OK

But your using terms like psycho

That's a reach
Nope. She even calls herself it in her own post.

She's never met him, and more than likely talked to him for a brief time. She is exhibiting delusional obsessive qualities.

Psycho.
She says she met him in the first line

Delusional obsession doesn't make you Psycho

You're throwing around words like you're a therapist..

Sheez
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He was polite enough to answer that he was really busy and he still thinking of meeting me.

She never met him in person. She met him online.

She's psycho.
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You sound psycho.

50 messages and 10 calls in a day and you haven't even met? Jfc
She sounds like she just got divorced and is having a hard time adjusting

Psycho? Really
Yes, psycho.

If she got issues with neediness and self esteem, jumping into a relationship immediately is dumb af.

Second, "connecting" with someone to the point of going ape shit nuts, as she admitted, shows obvious attachment issues she needs to work out before she can have a healthy relationship.

Third, in a span of 16 hrs (allotting 8 hrs for sleep) she obsessively messaged and called him over her perceived "connection" with him. He obviously didn't feel the same, so this thread and her continued antics is self serving and selfish on her part.

Last, making excuses for her behavior and saying it is okay that she exhibits this type of behavior is called enabling.

P.s. you've never been divorced, so you're the last person that could relate.


So you should have more empathy since you have divorced

All you're doing is knocking her and calling her crazy terms

Nope. Cause I'm not going to tell any woman or man that this shit is okay.

It's not.

NOT even close.



You seem crazy now.


This coming from the dumbass that posts dead kids and tells people to kill themselves.

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You are being waay over the top.

I have noticed this about you. You go in war mode like it matters.

I never told anyone to kill themselves. The picture was from a news thing ....but sorry it upset people.

I think you tend to get really emotional for no reason tho in general.
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👌 you never told anyone to kill themselves
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You sound psycho.

50 messages and 10 calls in a day and you haven't even met? Jfc
She sounds like she just got divorced and is having a hard time adjusting

Psycho? Really
Yes, psycho.

If she got issues with neediness and self esteem, jumping into a relationship immediately is dumb af.

Second, "connecting" with someone to the point of going ape shit nuts, as she admitted, shows obvious attachment issues she needs to work out before she can have a healthy relationship.

Third, in a span of 16 hrs (allotting 8 hrs for sleep) she obsessively messaged and called him over her perceived "connection" with him. He obviously didn't feel the same, so this thread and her continued antics is self serving and selfish on her part.

Last, making excuses for her behavior and saying it is okay that she exhibits this type of behavior is called enabling.

P.s. you've never been divorced, so you're the last person that could relate.


So you should have more empathy since you have divorced

All you're doing is knocking her and calling her crazy terms

Nope. Cause I'm not going to tell any woman or man that this shit is okay.

It's not.

NOT even close.


Nobody says it's OK

But your using terms like psycho

That's a reach
Nope. She even calls herself it in her own post.

She's never met him, and more than likely talked to him for a brief time. She is exhibiting delusional obsessive qualities.

Psycho.
She says she met him in the first line

Delusional obsession doesn't make you Psycho

You're throwing around words like you're a therapist..

Sheez
He was polite enough to answer that he was really busy and he still thinking of meeting me.

She never met him in person. She met him online.

She's psycho.
It never says she met him online

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Why would he ask her to meet, if they already met?



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You sound psycho.

50 messages and 10 calls in a day and you haven't even met? Jfc
She sounds like she just got divorced and is having a hard time adjusting

Psycho? Really
Yes, psycho.

If she got issues with neediness and self esteem, jumping into a relationship immediately is dumb af.

Second, "connecting" with someone to the point of going ape shit nuts, as she admitted, shows obvious attachment issues she needs to work out before she can have a healthy relationship.

Third, in a span of 16 hrs (allotting 8 hrs for sleep) she obsessively messaged and called him over her perceived "connection" with him. He obviously didn't feel the same, so this thread and her continued antics is self serving and selfish on her part.

Last, making excuses for her behavior and saying it is okay that she exhibits this type of behavior is called enabling.

P.s. you've never been divorced, so you're the last person that could relate.


So you should have more empathy since you have divorced

All you're doing is knocking her and calling her crazy terms

Nope. Cause I'm not going to tell any woman or man that this shit is okay.

It's not.

NOT even close.


Nobody says it's OK

But your using terms like psycho

That's a reach
Nope. She even calls herself it in her own post.

She's never met him, and more than likely talked to him for a brief time. She is exhibiting delusional obsessive qualities.

Psycho.
She says she met him in the first line

Delusional obsession doesn't make you Psycho

You're throwing around words like you're a therapist..

Sheez
He was polite enough to answer that he was really busy and he still thinking of meeting me.

She never met him in person. She met him online.

She's psycho.
It never says she met him online


Why would he ask her to meet, if they already met?




I took that as bad English

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Her entire post is easily read and has no area that shows improper grammar or use of vernacular.
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You sound psycho.

50 messages and 10 calls in a day and you haven't even met? Jfc
She sounds like she just got divorced and is having a hard time adjusting

Psycho? Really
Yes, psycho.

If she got issues with neediness and self esteem, jumping into a relationship immediately is dumb af.

Second, "connecting" with someone to the point of going ape shit nuts, as she admitted, shows obvious attachment issues she needs to work out before she can have a healthy relationship.

Third, in a span of 16 hrs (allotting 8 hrs for sleep) she obsessively messaged and called him over her perceived "connection" with him. He obviously didn't feel the same, so this thread and her continued antics is self serving and selfish on her part.

Last, making excuses for her behavior and saying it is okay that she exhibits this type of behavior is called enabling.

P.s. you've never been divorced, so you're the last person that could relate.


So you should have more empathy since you have divorced

All you're doing is knocking her and calling her crazy terms

Nope. Cause I'm not going to tell any woman or man that this shit is okay.

It's not.

NOT even close.


Nobody says it's OK

But your using terms like psycho

That's a reach
Nope. She even calls herself it in her own post.

She's never met him, and more than likely talked to him for a brief time. She is exhibiting delusional obsessive qualities.

Psycho.
She says she met him in the first line

Delusional obsession doesn't make you Psycho

You're throwing around words like you're a therapist..

Sheez
He was polite enough to answer that he was really busy and he still thinking of meeting me.

She never met him in person. She met him online.

She's psycho.
It never says she met him online


Why would he ask her to meet, if they already met?






on a date?

meet for coffee?

She says he asked her within ten mins of them meeting ...to meet up.

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Grown folks are talking. Go try and get validation in another thread.
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You sound psycho.

50 messages and 10 calls in a day and you haven't even met? Jfc
She sounds like she just got divorced and is having a hard time adjusting

Psycho? Really
Yes, psycho.

If she got issues with neediness and self esteem, jumping into a relationship immediately is dumb af.

Second, "connecting" with someone to the point of going ape shit nuts, as she admitted, shows obvious attachment issues she needs to work out before she can have a healthy relationship.

Third, in a span of 16 hrs (allotting 8 hrs for sleep) she obsessively messaged and called him over her perceived "connection" with him. He obviously didn't feel the same, so this thread and her continued antics is self serving and selfish on her part.

Last, making excuses for her behavior and saying it is okay that she exhibits this type of behavior is called enabling.

P.s. you've never been divorced, so you're the last person that could relate.


So you should have more empathy since you have divorced

All you're doing is knocking her and calling her crazy terms

Nope. Cause I'm not going to tell any woman or man that this shit is okay.

It's not.

NOT even close.


Nobody says it's OK

But your using terms like psycho

That's a reach
Nope. She even calls herself it in her own post.

She's never met him, and more than likely talked to him for a brief time. She is exhibiting delusional obsessive qualities.

Psycho.
She says she met him in the first line

Delusional obsession doesn't make you Psycho

You're throwing around words like you're a therapist..

Sheez
He was polite enough to answer that he was really busy and he still thinking of meeting me.

She never met him in person. She met him online.

She's psycho.
It never says she met him online


Why would he ask her to meet, if they already met?






on a date?

meet for coffee?

She says he asked her within ten mins of them meeting ...to meet up.


Grown folks are talking. Go try and get validation in another thread.
You entire existence on here is to seek validation ...GO YOU! Why not like 😉
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Totally. Thats why i post nonstop in user comments and insert myself constantly.

Oh wait...
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Posted by nikkistar
You sound psycho.

50 messages and 10 calls in a day and you haven't even met? Jfc
She sounds like she just got divorced and is having a hard time adjusting

Psycho? Really
Yes, psycho.

If she got issues with neediness and self esteem, jumping into a relationship immediately is dumb af.

Second, "connecting" with someone to the point of going ape shit nuts, as she admitted, shows obvious attachment issues she needs to work out before she can have a healthy relationship.

Third, in a span of 16 hrs (allotting 8 hrs for sleep) she obsessively messaged and called him over her perceived "connection" with him. He obviously didn't feel the same, so this thread and her continued antics is self serving and selfish on her part.

Last, making excuses for her behavior and saying it is okay that she exhibits this type of behavior is called enabling.

P.s. you've never been divorced, so you're the last person that could relate.


So you should have more empathy since you have divorced

All you're doing is knocking her and calling her crazy terms

Nope. Cause I'm not going to tell any woman or man that this shit is okay.

It's not.

NOT even close.


Nobody says it's OK

But your using terms like psycho

That's a reach
Nope. She even calls herself it in her own post.

She's never met him, and more than likely talked to him for a brief time. She is exhibiting delusional obsessive qualities.

Psycho.
She says she met him in the first line

Delusional obsession doesn't make you Psycho

You're throwing around words like you're a therapist..

Sheez
He was polite enough to answer that he was really busy and he still thinking of meeting me.

She never met him in person. She met him online.

She's psycho.
It never says she met him online


Why would he ask her to meet, if they already met?




I took that as bad English


Her entire post is easily read and has no area that shows improper grammar or use of vernacular.
Lol she's not even here

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I know. I was bored and Leeb mooning for fun.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
You guys just don't understand crabs
I mean my mom is a cancer and I know a few but doing crazy shit is doing crazy shit mane lol. She gotta cool it or she's def gonna scare ppl away. From his perspective it's not his problem if she hasn't healed. All it looks like to him is that she must be bat shit.
Yeah

But in her mind she's found a connection that is extremely hard to find

Like the antithesis of her husband probably

So she wants to make sure she doesn't lose him

But she sabotages due to not being able to control herself

But that's what makes her lose the possibility she sees

Calling her names isn't going to help her

She knows she fuked up



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OMG...one person who has been kind, thank you... you described perfectly what I thought
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