So I've been seeing this cancer for 9 months and I'm so crazy about him. He has a very very demanding job and is a single dad as well. He's never been a big texter from the beginning. At first he obviously was all about thae constant texting bc it was new and exciting. I completely understand that keeping that up is unrealistic. I just don't know what we are doing or if he cares about me. I feel like he does. He's very stoic and broody. He is very hard to read and definitely doesn't wear his heart on his sleeve. I admit I got really needy when he pulled away and it made things worse..he backed off alot. But he communicated how it made him feel and I've worked on it. We've done this dance for the past 9 months of me getting upset and saying I'm going to end things but then I never do. I know it's immature. I want to move forward with him but he's soooooo slow with this whole thing. He asked if I was seeing anyone else or if I've been with anyone else and told me he hasnt dated anyone or met anyone else. I told him I haven't and I've told him how I feel about him. He rarely seems to initiate but he's always there when I text. He will call here and there but it's never predictable. He's brought me coffee when he was working nearby. He's not very romantic or emotional yet I think he shows more by how affectionate he is with me when we are together then he ever will with words. I feel like I've been pushing things and that just makes his walls higher. Hes told me he knows how this works and that he should do more but his schedule is so packed and busy all the time and that's why he ends up alone. I seen him Friday and have not heard from him since. Should I just wait for him to contact me? Usually I don't 😢 but I dont know what to do anymore or how to get more from him. I just need advice...I want to be with him. I just want more of his time though.
