Do Cancerian Men Cause Women to Become Psychotic? (Page 3)

I would have voted for Libra forum.

IMO cancer males are the easiest to understand and get along with...

We make women GA GA GOO GOOO!!!

in short: yes :-p

i've never been as "crazy" as I have been with my Cancer guy. i absolutely feel it's because of his lunar mood swings, because otherwise i am pretty low temperament. but i get pulled into his moods, and then have that sort of outer body moment when i'm like OH! DUH! but the ups and downs can def make a chick go a little off her rocker, even after 2-3 years. 🙂

and i 100% fully agree that once they learn what buttons to push, they will use that knowledge. it's somewhat admirable...if he worked for the CIA. but in a personal relationship, coming to that realization that they purposely sting you to get a reaction out of you, and to ultimately get you to back off/give them space...it's a mindfcuk, for sure. but the only thing i can control is my reaction...and i like to think i've gotten better over the years. i just can't help getting huffy about his attention span sometimes lol. I WANT HIM ALL TO MYSELF. ugh.

Cancer men don't cause women to become psychotic but 2 women playing for the same man sure will get crazy. And rarely, very very rarely is the man even worth the effort. What is yours will come to you. Don't compete for a man's affection. Love should not be a competition and when it is there usually aren't any winners except for the man who got his ego stroked by it all. Fuck that shit.

Cancer men are like catnip.

Yes and yes....I'm beginning to understand that a cancer's 'mood swings' and push and pull makes them a bit on the narcissistic side.... therefore we the woman in love with them get sucked in the cycle and breaks us down psychologically... that's what mind games are use for ...to break a persons perception and reality...to cause doubt and confusion..... I am learning that to deal with a cancer successfully you have to be or become an emotionally detached person ....and if your not like that by nature you can become a bit psychotic ...LOL....I believe that cancer people are there to teach us many lessons about ourselves.... man is deep stuff.... they can bring out all the insecurities you never knew you had ....and that could be a good thing if you work with it instead of against it..... cancers can bring out the best in you or the worst... but is us to us to decide that.... they just expose it ...but we have the control to dwell, change or fix it...... just my little obv.....

At 13-14 I dated a cancer for 13 months. He was very sweet the first three months and turned into a self-centered asshole.

Now for over half a year I've been dating another cancer, I'm 16 he's almost 17.

I'm not gonna lie...I used to be soooooo patient and kind with everyone, even guys. I was known for it.

That first cancer fucked me up. I became SOOOO mean to guys you can't even imagine. I can't help it, all fucking patience GONE! DESTROYED! All kindness is slipped away..

Now as for the cancer now...(they share the same birthday bit different year) I think he's caused me to express that anger to everyone because I'm so agry all the time that I can't even tak it out on just one person. I flip out like never before it's terrible.

Maybe hormones and shit, but these cancer men are manipulative, sneaky, sleazy, and victimized assholes. I fucking hate them. They would drive ANYONE psychotic.

Posted by Cbo
Ok I am a cancer man and everyone gets us completely all wrong. The reasons for are head games is we seek security, so we are going to push you psychologically to find out what makes you tick. We need to know that you can take us at our best and worse and vice versa. We are trying to setup our one stable partner all for ourselves and no one else; only after we will give our undying and completely loyal selves. All other signs go in blind and hoping for the best, not good enough for cancer, we are very good at reading people and know everyone is not " the one", hence why we push. Years of seeing other relationships and our own fall apart we can't help but to dissect every single thing that went wrong. We live in the past and when a mistake of a previous partner come into play into the new relationship we are going to make it harder for you to want us, not because we don't like you, but its either watch the same mistake happen again or see if they love you at your worst. It's a constant test of loyalty and once we get the one to pass our tests, that's when we're happy. We seem unstable and we are but there is always a reason for everything and we pick up on everything. We feel too intensely and get so caught up in hiding our emotions that when shit hits the fan we go all out. problem is what emotion is it going to be? Alls we want is unconditional/faithful love; once proven cancers cannot be happier, but you might not know because we might be still in our shell. Cancer is super complex, super fragile, super emotional, and all of its bottled up. Pass the tests and learn to handle the emotions, and you will have love for life. IMO no one will love you more intensely, but no one will test you more.

This helped me tremendously! If you're still on dxp I would hope you respond. I'm dating this cancer guy and his friends keep hitting on me and then they go back in his ear about it. It's making me exhausted honestly and I started declining his invited so I can breathe from it. Being a Taurus woman we hate not being trusted cause we are honest people and come direct. But I'm in the lime light and so is he, so I understand he needs to make sure I ain't a groupie or I'm being for real. However it's starting to just make me feel like does he really want to be serious or he's just like the rest where he's trying to see the girl who is down for whatever and on top of that the hot and cold is starting to make me want to run. It's becoming Tiring to say the least. I really like him but not trying to figure him out anymore.

Need help regarding a cancer man

Posted by pr_princess
what do you mean "once they have sex with us"—?

Posted by Shaniajam

Posted by Cbo
Ok I am a cancer man and everyone gets us completely all wrong. The reasons for are head games is we seek security, so we are going to push you psychologically to find out what makes you tick. We need to know that you can take us at our best and worse and vice versa. We are trying to setup our one stable partner all for ourselves and no one else; only after we will give our undying and completely loyal selves. All other signs go in blind and hoping for the best, not good enough for cancer, we are very good at reading people and know everyone is not " the one", hence why we push. Years of seeing other relationships and our own fall apart we can't help but to dissect every single thing that went wrong. We live in the past and when a mistake of a previous partner come into play into the new relationship we are going to make it harder for you to want us, not because we don't like you, but its either watch the same mistake happen again or see if they love you at your worst. It's a constant test of loyalty and once we get the one to pass our tests, that's when we're happy. We seem unstable and we are but there is always a reason for everything and we pick up on everything. We feel too intensely and get so caught up in hiding our emotions that when shit hits the fan we go all out. problem is what emotion is it going to be? Alls we want is unconditional/faithful love; once proven cancers cannot be happier, but you might not know because we might be still in our shell. Cancer is super complex, super fragile, super emotional, and all of its bottled up. Pass the tests and learn to handle the emotions, and you will have love for life. IMO no one will love you more intensely, but no one will test you more.

This helped me tremendously! If you're still on dxp I would hope you respond. I'm dating this cancer guy and his friends keep hitting on me and then they go back in his ear about it. It's making me exhausted honestly and I started declining his invited so I can breathe from it. Being a Taurus woman we hate not being trusted cause we are honest people and come direct. But I'm in the lime light and so is he, so I understand he needs to make sure I ain't a groupie or I'm being for real. However it's starting to just make me feel like does he really want to be serious or he's just like the rest where he's trying to see the girl who is down for whatever and on top of that the hot and cold is starting to make me want to run. It's becoming Tiring to say the least. I really like him but not trying to figure him out anymore.

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I'm glad you broke it down to some other woman so they can know how to handle the cancer man. As far as us Aquarius women we don't really care about the mind games you guys play it's entertaining for us. So you guys keep on entertaining us Thank You!

Posted by menbay12
i am a cancer and so was the man i was married to for 14 years. i divorced him because he could make me so angry i could have snapped. didn't like the idea of going mental..lol
not saying all cancer men are like this..but my was a total button pusher..still is..
we are still good friends, but he still knows how to push my buttons.

Good for you I'm glad you let him go they will try to drive you crazy if you let them. I've flipped the script now I'm driving him crazy I told him I loved him now I'm ignoring him he is confused. I will make you go back in that shell and never come out again. Aquarius Girl

Posted by SuperMissMan
At 13-14 I dated a cancer for 13 months. He was very sweet the first three months and turned into a self-centered asshole.

Now for over half a year I've been dating another cancer, I'm 16 he's almost 17.

I'm not gonna lie...I used to be soooooo patient and kind with everyone, even guys. I was known for it.

That first cancer fucked me up. I became SOOOO mean to guys you can't even imagine. I can't help it, all fucking patience GONE! DESTROYED! All kindness is slipped away..

Now as for the cancer now...(they share the same birthday bit different year) I think he's caused me to express that anger to everyone because I'm so agry all the time that I can't even tak it out on just one person. I flip out like never before it's terrible.

Maybe hormones and shit, but these cancer men are manipulative, sneaky, sleazy, and victimized assholes. I fucking hate them. They would drive ANYONE psychotic.

I don't hate but I can honestly say Gemini, Scorpio, and Cancer men are not to be played with they are all sneaky and crazy I don't like them at all to many mind games, but they can't deal with us Aquarius women because we like to detach, and that's what I've done with all these signs Now I'm married to a sweet balanced Libra that loves to be in love without all the mind games. Goodbye Losers lol. Stay away from these signs Run Forest Run!!!!!!! #Themastermindgamewomen

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LOL this title perfectly describes the idiot that resurrects an 11 year old thread, then proceeds to quote shit from more than 5+ years ago HAHAHAHHA

Posted by nikkistar
LOL this title perfectly describes the idiot that resurrects an 11 year old thread, then proceeds to quote shit from more than 5+ years ago HAHAHAHHA

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