I hear that most Cancer men don't just sleep around? Any cancer men that engage in one night stands or strictly sexual relationships or would you rather have an emotional connection ?
Do cancers sleep with people just for sport?
I have cancer ex man who SLEEPS AROUND ALOT. However he keep's trying to get me to sleep with him again.
I guess I was nothing more than a memorable fuck, who stirred his emotions and I continue to do so.........stir his emotions that is
I guess I was nothing more than a memorable fuck, who stirred his emotions and I continue to do so.........stir his emotions that is
To be perfectly honest, when I am not committed I do fuck everything....however, when I am in a relationship I am perfectly loyal and don't play around under any circumstances.
Posted by incandescentcancer
To be perfectly honest, when I am not committed I do fuck everything....however, when I am in a relationship I am perfectly loyal and don't play around under any circumstances.
Have you ever had an exclusive just sexual relationship ?
Posted by ariespiscesgirl
I have cancer ex man who SLEEPS AROUND ALOT. However he keep's trying to get me to sleep with him again.
I guess I was nothing more than a memorable fuck, who stirred his emotions and I continue to do so.........stir his emotions that is
How do you know he sleeps around a lot ? And if he is still trying to have sex with you do you think it's more than just sex maybe some emotion involved?
Definitely not...Or at least I don't anyway. I like to feel connection, and plus sex is 1000000 times better when it's with someone you care about. 😛
Posted by CancerLadyforLife
Definitely not...Or at least I don't anyway. I like to feel connection, and plus sex is 1000000 times better when it's with someone you care about. 😛
of course...cancer men are different than cancer women. however, you can't place all cancers in the same category, it also depends on whats happened to them in their life that makes them sleep around with everyone. Maybe they had a terrible EX and now they trust no one and only sleep around because there's no attachments. who knows right? haha
Posted by CancerLadyforLifePosted by CancerLadyforLife
Definitely not...Or at least I don't anyway. I like to feel connection, and plus sex is 1000000 times better when it's with someone you care about. 😛
of course...cancer men are different than cancer women. however, you can't place all cancers in the same category, it also depends on whats happened to them in their life that makes them sleep around with everyone. Maybe they had a terrible EX and now they trust no one and only sleep around because there's no attachments. who knows right? hahaclick to expand
True Everyone is different and men are def different then women ! Emotional connection is def important to me as well
Posted by InlovewithacancerPosted by incandescentcancer
To be perfectly honest, when I am not committed I do fuck everything....however, when I am in a relationship I am perfectly loyal and don't play around under any circumstances.
Have you ever had an exclusive just sexual relationship ?click to expand
Why would I want it to be exclusive, that's like having a girlfriend but not....
It gives me freedom, I love sex and I don't see any need for exclusivity, she can do whomever she wants too you know...
Posted by InlovewithacancerPosted by ariespiscesgirl
I have cancer ex man who SLEEPS AROUND ALOT. However he keep's trying to get me to sleep with him again.
I guess I was nothing more than a memorable fuck, who stirred his emotions and I continue to do so.........stir his emotions that is
How do you know he sleeps around a lot ? And if he is still trying to have sex with you do you think it's more than just sex maybe some emotion involved?click to expand
Because he told me , now that we are not together, we have a pretty open friendship. He reveals a lot to me, about his past sexcapades befor me,......and why he's so damn good in bed. His need for sleeping around may be the reason I never go back to him for a serious relationship.
I don't know if emotion is involved with him, maybe.
Posted by ariespiscesgirl
Because he told me , now that we are not together, we have a pretty open friendship. He reveals a lot to me, about his past sexcapades befor me,......and why he's so damn good in bed. His need for sleeping around may be the reason I never go back to him for a serious relationship.
I don't know if emotion is involved with him, maybe.
Just to point out something here, if you went back to him and got involved in a serious relationship he isn't going to cheat on you. Most times, Cancer guys are loyal to their SOs, so if you think his general sexual proclivities make him an untrustworthy partner....your judgement is flawed.
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by ariespiscesgirl
Because he told me , now that we are not together, we have a pretty open friendship. He reveals a lot to me, about his past sexcapades befor me,......and why he's so damn good in bed. His need for sleeping around may be the reason I never go back to him for a serious relationship.
I don't know if emotion is involved with him, maybe.
Just to point out something here, if you went back to him and got involved in a serious relationship he isn't going to cheat on you. Most times, Cancer guys are loyal to their SOs, so if you think his general sexual proclivities make him an untrustworthy partner....your judgement is flawed.click to expand
Um no I think the fact that he is a cheater, makes him an untrustworthy partner.
so my judgement isn't flawed, who want's to be in a serious relationship, with a known cheater? He's a sweet guy and we are friends but like I said he revealed himself to me
Why not? Everyone else is!
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by InlovewithacancerPosted by incandescentcancer
To be perfectly honest, when I am not committed I do fuck everything....however, when I am in a relationship I am perfectly loyal and don't play around under any circumstances.
Have you ever had an exclusive just sexual relationship ?
Why would I want it to be exclusive, that's like having a girlfriend but not....
It gives me freedom, I love sex and I don't see any need for exclusivity, she can do whomever she wants too you know...click to expand
Ok well I'm with a Cancer we aren't in a committed relationship but been dating almost a year there is exclusivity without commitment but I guess that really makes no sense
Posted by ariespiscesgirlPosted by incandescentcancerPosted by ariespiscesgirl
Because he told me , now that we are not together, we have a pretty open friendship. He reveals a lot to me, about his past sexcapades befor me,......and why he's so damn good in bed. His need for sleeping around may be the reason I never go back to him for a serious relationship.
I don't know if emotion is involved with him, maybe.
Just to point out something here, if you went back to him and got involved in a serious relationship he isn't going to cheat on you. Most times, Cancer guys are loyal to their SOs, so if you think his general sexual proclivities make him an untrustworthy partner....your judgement is flawed.
Um no I think the fact that he is a cheater, makes him an untrustworthy partner.click to expand
Could it be timing and bit bring mature enough yet for a commitment ? Could you look past the past if he promised you a new future?
Posted by ariespiscesgirl
so my judgement isn't flawed, who want's to be in a serious relationship, with a known cheater? He's a sweet guy and we are friends but like I said he revealed himself to me
He doesn't become cheater because you imagined a relationship....lol...
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by incandescentcancer
To be perfectly honest, when I am not committed I do fuck everything....however, when I am in a relationship I am perfectly loyal and don't play around under any circumstances.
ewww gross...click to expand
Good for you!
Posted by Inlovewithacancer
Ok well I'm with a Cancer we aren't in a committed relationship but been dating almost a year there is exclusivity without commitment but I guess that really makes no sense
i think you should just ask him how HE sees it, instead of every other cancer on the planet....you know what I mean?
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by Inlovewithacancer
Ok well I'm with a Cancer we aren't in a committed relationship but been dating almost a year there is exclusivity without commitment but I guess that really makes no sense
i think you should just ask him how HE sees it, instead of every other cancer on the planet....you know what I mean?click to expand
You are absolutely correct can't seem to get a straight answer yet so looking for advice in the meantime plus I like your answers lol
Posted by Inlovewithacancer
You are absolutely correct can't seem to get a straight answer yet so looking for advice in the meantime plus I like your answers lol
What sign did you say you are?
Posted by LunarMaiden
Why not? Everyone else is!
Wow Lunar, is your new mantra, "I do it because it feels good" and "Why not, everyone else is?" No accountability or responsibility on you, huh?
Blame the other parties involved or the crowd so you don't have to practice morals or have an ethical code? *smh*
If that's the way you want to live, so be it but if you're going to spread it around the board... I'm going to judge it.
That's fugly behaviour...
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by ariespiscesgirl
so my judgement isn't flawed, who want's to be in a serious relationship, with a known cheater? He's a sweet guy and we are friends but like I said he revealed himself to me
He doesn't become cheater because you imagined a relationship....lol...click to expand
No one imagined a relationship, we dated and I broke up with his clingy ass. He is currently trying to cheat on his girlfriend with me. Thats why I had to block his number, regardless of any friendship i had with him. He's already cheated on her once before and he's trying to seduce me as well. Screw that....there are too many men.
Stop getting so emotional defending a cheating and promiscuous cancer , you know nothing about
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by Inlovewithacancer
You are absolutely correct can't seem to get a straight answer yet so looking for advice in the meantime plus I like your answers lol
What sign did you say you are?click to expand
I didn't but I'm a Gemini
The problem is... that people don't judge enough. Everyone does it (in private) but most people keep it to themselves because it is not Politically Correct. Since when does media and government ever follow anything ethical? yet, they govern or suggest what we should accept and not accept from other people.
Someone can't make racial slurs to their neighbour. People would be shocked and outraged because PC doesn't allow it. But if someone is creeping with a married person or engaging in morally slimy behaviour... we are told, "Don't judge?"
fuck that shit. Telling someone that they have skanky behaviour doesn't make me popular. Good thing I don't give a shit about that either.
Someone can't make racial slurs to their neighbour. People would be shocked and outraged because PC doesn't allow it. But if someone is creeping with a married person or engaging in morally slimy behaviour... we are told, "Don't judge?"
fuck that shit. Telling someone that they have skanky behaviour doesn't make me popular. Good thing I don't give a shit about that either.
Just because he's cheated before doesn't mean he'll do it again. If a person is serious and really loves, trusts, and respects you, no matter what his/her past may hold, they wont cheat on you. Most of the time when people cheat it's because somethings wrong in their relationship and for some reason or another they are unhappy, so, they linger on for some else to fill the void. But under no circumstances would a person cheat if they genuinely loved their partner. It just wouldn't happen. Cancers would NEVER cheat on the SO's if they're truly in love with them. If they do cheat, it's because they didn't care for the relationship to begin with I feel like.
Posted by CancerLadyforLife
Just because he's cheated before doesn't mean he'll do it again. If a person is serious and really loves, trusts, and respects you, no matter what his/her past may hold, they wont cheat on you. Most of the time when people cheat it's because somethings wrong in their relationship and for some reason or another they are unhappy, so, they linger on for some else to fill the void. But under no circumstances would a person cheat if they genuinely loved their partner. It just wouldn't happen. Cancers would NEVER cheat on the SO's if they're truly in love with them. If they do cheat, it's because they didn't care for the relationship to begin with I feel like.
well I'm not going to be the person a cancer man cheats with
Posted by ariespiscesgirlPosted by CancerLadyforLife
Just because he's cheated before doesn't mean he'll do it again. If a person is serious and really loves, trusts, and respects you, no matter what his/her past may hold, they wont cheat on you. Most of the time when people cheat it's because somethings wrong in their relationship and for some reason or another they are unhappy, so, they linger on for some else to fill the void. But under no circumstances would a person cheat if they genuinely loved their partner. It just wouldn't happen. Cancers would NEVER cheat on the SO's if they're truly in love with them. If they do cheat, it's because they didn't care for the relationship to begin with I feel like.
well I'm not going to be the person a cancer man cheats withclick to expand
And that's just as it should be. NO woman should ever want to be the woman a man cheats with, but there are plenty of them out there. You don't seem like one of them, but in general if he really loved and cared about his current SO he wouldn't even be trying to cheat in the first place. It's because his feelings aren't really there. And for some weird ass reason he's addicted to whatever you were doing way back when when you were doing something. I'm glad to hear you respect yourself enough to not give in. It's not worth it. But in general, cancers don't cheat. and if they do, like this guy you know then it's because he doesn't give a shit in the first place. But I'm 100 percent sure that when he finds the woman he loves, he will not cheat on her.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by LunarMaiden
Why not? Everyone else is!
umm cause my coochie is not a revolving doorclick to expand
Now, I wonder why your coochie is the issue.
Shouldn't that be because spiritually and mentally you just not that type of person?
Posted by ariespiscesgirlPosted by incandescentcancerPosted by ariespiscesgirl
so my judgement isn't flawed, who want's to be in a serious relationship, with a known cheater? He's a sweet guy and we are friends but like I said he revealed himself to me
He doesn't become cheater because you imagined a relationship....lol...
No one imagined a relationship, we dated and I broke up with his clingy ass. He is currently trying to cheat on his girlfriend with me. Thats why I had to block his number, regardless of any friendship i had with him. He's already cheated on her once before and he's trying to seduce me as well. Screw that....there are too many men.
Stop getting so emotional defending a cheating and promiscuous cancer , you know nothing aboutclick to expand
LOL...if you're the one who is getting all so defensive and annoying to some stranger on the internet, who is the one getting emotional?? you're a riot...lol.
And listen moonbeam, this is the internet, people like you come here and tell their half assed stories and expect opinions, when you can't handle it then you scream about not knowing the whole story. how the fuck am I supposed to know your twisted story? Now do everyone a favour and piss off.
Posted by CluelessCancer
how many women have you slept with? Are you *gasp* EASY?
Quite a lot and no, that doesn't mean I am easy. I have very particular standards, I just know how to find interesting women.
Posted by Inlovewithacancer
I didn't but I'm a Gemini
If you're a gemini, my sincere advice to you is to not get too tensed about this whole thing and just take it easy. I know gems can get a bit nervous and react badly but don't. It'll all be fine.
Posted by BlackIndian22
By the way, i would never do a friends with benefits thing. I rather be with one woman forever, love & sex included. Plus it's nasty as hell to sleep around with different people you barely know. You can catch a ga-jillion diseases too. So i say no to that lol. I think a one night stand & friends with benefits is the worst thing to involve a Cancer in. We weren't made for that. This is just my opinion
Thanks for that! I think sleeping around is nasty as well ! I do really have feelings for my cancer he states that we are "best friends" but I don't sleep with my friends! It's like he doesn't want to put a title on it but he doesn't want me to leave!
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by Inlovewithacancer
I didn't but I'm a Gemini
If you're a gemini, my sincere advice to you is to not get too tensed about this whole thing and just take it easy. I know gems can get a bit nervous and react badly but don't. It'll all be fine.click to expand
Thanks for that easier said then done I thrive on communication ! I am patient though and I love him
I tried the FWB thing with someone but we had been friends for a long time. Yeah not my thing. Never again.
Posted by BlackIndian22
@Inlovewithacancer Well he won't commit to a relationship, then there is no sex. You gotta show him that you got respect for yourself. If he respects your decision to have commitment 1st, then you got a good one. A real guy wouldn't force it on you. So remember, Love is something that is shown, not told. Real love that is. Go by his actions & that will tell you his real feelings. Be Safe 🙂
True Story ! And thank you very much I do have to be respected that I deserve and if it means goodbye so be it
Posted by BlackIndian22
By the way, i would never do a friends with benefits thing. I rather be with one woman forever, love & sex included. Plus it's nasty as hell to sleep around with different people you barely know. You can catch a ga-jillion diseases too. So i say no to that lol. I think a one night stand & friends with benefits is the worst thing to involve a Cancer in. We weren't made for that. This is just my opinion
Amen!!!
Posted by shellshockerPosted by LunarMaiden
Why not? Everyone else is!
Wow Lunar, is your new mantra, "I do it because it feels good" and "Why not, everyone else is?" No accountability or responsibility on you, huh?
Blame the other parties involved or the crowd so you don't have to practice morals or have an ethical code? *smh*
If that's the way you want to live, so be it but if you're going to spread it around the board... I'm going to judge it.
That's fugly behaviour...
click to expand
No, that's not my mantra. That's you trying to give me one.
I don't know what you are talking about, I think you have something personal to address.
My behavior is actually pretty damn good. Until I decide to be bad. 🙂
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