@CapriWLady
9 Years
Do I still stand a chance?
Understanding Your Chances with a Cancer Sun and Moon Man
A Cancer man values emotional connection and consistency. His fluctuating behavior suggests he is unsure or overwhelmed. While there is potential, patience and clear communication are key. Focus on building trust and showing genuine care to increase your chances of rekindling the relationship.
You guys don't even really know each other and you went on a vacation together? If you had spent a little more time getting to know him, you would've figured out he's a passive-aggressive asshole before wasting time and money on a joyless vacation.
He may have figured out while on the vacation with you that he isn't interested. If that's the case, he handled it wrong. Whatever the case may be, you would've been better off taking things more slowly.
Posted by Koniuchaa
Sounds like a turd. Next!
You are mean!
Posted by Koniuchaa
Sounds like a turd. Next!You are mean!
What?! ?
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M.e.a.n...
How much clearer can it get?
Guy touched her knee!!! Common...
Because we clicked so well and went out so many times within a week, I thought it should be alright since it was just a super short trip. We were both really comfortable with each other everytime. And the trip was initiated by him. He kept asking for a trip together.
Posted by CapriWLady
I was texting everyday from morning to night with this guy with Cancer in his Sun and Moon for a month and in this one month, we met up for meals and movie about 8 or 9 times, holding hands sometimes and went to his house twice for dinner. We then went for a 2D2N trip arriving at night. The first night we were touchy but we did not have sex as I think it's too fast. I did ask him if he likes me and he said 'what do you think?'. I replied 'I don't know' and he did not reply after that.There were some unhappiness the next day and we did not talk or touch anymore at night. The next day we had some unhappiness again and quarreled outside, but everything seems alright after the fight. Went to the airport and he even ordered my favourite drink for me and poke my cheek when I was sleeping in the plane. When we returned and took our own different cab, he said bye without even looking at me and continue using his phone.
We texted just a bit after returning and no textes anymore after that. The last sentence he said was 'talk to you later' and gone. He used to message me no matter how busy he was. Today is the 3rd day already. Do you guys think I still stand a chance?
Oh, on the flight towards our destination, we was putting his hands on my legs but when returning, he wasnt.
Is it because he is just too tired or am I too sensitive?
So cricket sounds after you asked him if he liked you and then he proved it.
He's doing you a favor by not leading you on I know that.
nope, i did not sound demanding. I even asked when is he free and etc and he requested as soon as possible. I even checked with him if the dates and timing are alright for him and etc.
What exactly happened to yours?
Posted by CapriWLady
I was texting everyday from morning to night with this guy with Cancer in his Sun and Moon for a month and in this one month, we met up for meals and movie about 8 or 9 times, holding hands sometimes and went to his house twice for dinner. We then went for a 2D2N trip arriving at night. The first night we were touchy but we did not have sex as I think it's too fast. I did ask him if he likes me and he said 'what do you think?'. I replied 'I don't know' and he did not reply after that.There were some unhappiness the next day and we did not talk or touch anymore at night. The next day we had some unhappiness again and quarreled outside, but everything seems alright after the fight. Went to the airport and he even ordered my favourite drink for me and poke my cheek when I was sleeping in the plane. When we returned and took our own different cab, he said bye without even looking at me and continue using his phone.
We texted just a bit after returning and no textes anymore after that. The last sentence he said was 'talk to you later' and gone. He used to message me no matter how busy he was. Today is the 3rd day already. Do you guys think I still stand a chance?
Oh, on the flight towards our destination, we was putting his hands on my legs but when returning, he wasnt.
Is it because he is just too tired or am I too sensitive?
So cricket sounds after you asked him if he liked you and then he proved it.
He's doing you a favor by not leading you on I know that.
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but after I asked, he continued to be touchy and kissed me and in the morning, wanted me to help him apply moisturizer and etc.
first night you didn't hook up, what about the next?
Posted by justagirl
first night you didn't hook up, what about the next?
Not sure. See how things goes first?
One of two things depending on your answer
1. He took you on a "trip" to get with you and got what he wanted
Or
2 he took you on a trip becuase he wanted to take things forward and you failed asking if he likes you and he's gone.
Posted by justagirl
first night you didn't hook up, what about the next?Not sure. See how things goes first?
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Wut?
Did you guys fuck or what? Lol
Posted by justagirl
first night you didn't hook up, what about the next?Not sure. See how things goes first?
Wut?
Did you guys fuck or what? Lol
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sorry, but what does treetrunk means?
Posted by justagirl
One of two things depending on your answer1. He took you on a "trip" to get with you and got what he wanted
Or
2 he took you on a trip becuase he wanted to take things forward and you failed asking if he likes you and he's gone.
I guess I was afraid that he may think I'm a loose person or something.....
Posted by justagirl
first night you didn't hook up, what about the next?Not sure. See how things goes first?
Wut?
Did you guys fuck or what? Lol
sorry, but what does treetrunk means?
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First turn your profanity filter off.
Did you guys have sex? I'm about to bail on your thread thou.. Cause starting to question the validity.
2 he took you on a trip becuase he wanted to take things forward and you failed asking if he likes you and he's gone.
The ball fumbled so easily! The harsh inches of life
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Lmao
Well id give more info but she's being evasive about doing the deed.
Posted by justagirl
One of two things depending on your answer1. He took you on a "trip" to get with you and got what he wanted
Or
2 he took you on a trip becuase he wanted to take things forward and you failed asking if he likes you and he's gone.
I guess I was afraid that he may think I'm a loose person or something.....
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Okay so no sex.
That's why he took you, he was trying to get some. He's gone because that was his goal.
Don't waste your time. IMO.
No, we really did not have sex.
2 he took you on a trip becuase he wanted to take things forward and you failed asking if he likes you and he's gone.
The ball fumbled so easily! The harsh inches of life
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Plus you know with crabs it's three steps forward, 6 sideways steps, 5 steps back.. Gotta learn their ways man. ?
Yea, it's my first time handling Cancer guy, and the sudden disappearance kinda shocked me.
Hmmm...not sure either.
Posted by leowww
Fighting so early on when you don't know each other yet... Might have turned him off.With reason.
Should be a red flag to you too btw.
This. I don't think it was sex.
There are some weird crabs tho
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Did you message your cancer after he disappear?
Posted by CapriWLady
No, we really did not have sex.
Even if you had it's no one else's business here, you don't need to prove anything.
Wondering why people love sticking their nose where it doesn't belong
He seems childish. What's his age??
Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
Posted by leowww
Fighting so early on when you don't know each other yet... Might have turned him off.With reason.
Should be a red flag to you too btw.
This. I don't think it was sex.
There are some weird crabs tho
Did you message your cancer after he disappear?
Ya that's how i knew he wasn't interested
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You did? Do you mind telling me what you said?
I was wondering if I should text my final message saying it was nice meeting you although there were some unhappy things happened or something.
Main reason I asked was to help sort out why he is in no contact after the trip. To an outsider it seems as if he was mainly interested in getting that. Maybe he wasn't, but there are some real sleeze guys around, and that is all they want.
I agree with Leoww, that the fighting is a red flag since you guys didn't know each other very well yet. Then asking him if he liked you..he was on an overnight trip with you, that in itself should have told you he was into you.
I still stand behind what I said, I think he was interested in sex, the fighting the next day was backlash for it not happening. Which sucks if that's the case- and if it is, move on from him.
I've had experience with crab guys...so take what you will from my posts.
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
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You should never spend your money on guys.
Let them prove themselves first
Posted by justagirl
@capriwladyMain reason I asked was to help sort out why he is in no contact after the trip. To an outsider it seems as if he was mainly interested in getting that. Maybe he wasn't, but there are some real sleeze guys around, and that is all they want.
I agree with Leoww, that the fighting is a red flag since you guys didn't know each other very well yet. Then asking him if he liked you..he was on an overnight trip with you, that in itself should have told you he was into you.
I still stand behind what I said, I think he was interested in sex, the fighting the next day was backlash for it not happening. Which sucks if that's the case- and if it is, move on from him.
I've had experience with crab guys...so take what you will from my posts.
Yea I understand that you are just trying to analyze the situation so I'm just try to answer the question you asked. =)
We fought but got well after that we were back to normal. Or were that all acting? Does crab guys act well?
I did not intend to ask until he started kissing and touching and like wanted to do it already.
haha, okay. thank you justagirl.
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
You should never spend your money on guys.
Let them prove themselves first
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Oh I did not spend on him. I like to travel too so I was thinking like just having someone to travel with me this time.
So you agree to not messaging him too?
Posted by leowww
Fighting so early on when you don't know each other yet... Might have turned him off.With reason.
Should be a red flag to you too btw.
This. I don't think it was sex.
There are some weird crabs tho
Did you message your cancer after he disappear?
Ya that's how i knew he wasn't interested
You did? Do you mind telling me what you said?
I was wondering if I should text my final message saying it was nice meeting you although there were some unhappy things happened or something.
No ignore the mother fuker.
Ignore him hard
He'll come running
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hahahah....
yea I read alot of comments saying not to reply but some say depends on situation. So I decided to post a topic to ask.
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
You should never spend your money on guys.
Let them prove themselves first
Oh I did not spend on him. I like to travel too so I was thinking like just having someone to travel with me this time.
So you agree to not messaging him too?
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Messaging ?? girl he disrespected you in every way possible.
NO CONTACT !! even if he comes back, try to stay away from him
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
You should never spend your money on guys.
Let them prove themselves first
Oh I did not spend on him. I like to travel too so I was thinking like just having someone to travel with me this time.
So you agree to not messaging him too?
Messaging ?? girl he disrespected you in every way possible.
NO CONTACT !! even if he comes back, try to stay away from him
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hahah, alright. Thank you pisceanloves and everyone. =)
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
You should never spend your money on guys.
Let them prove themselves first
totally spend money on guys
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Why??
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
You should never spend your money on guys.
Let them prove themselves first
totally spend money on guys
Why??
You ever think why not?
Do you think men deserve treats at times?
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Mostly they don't deserve a shit 😄
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
You should never spend your money on guys.
Let them prove themselves first
totally spend money on guys
Why??
You ever think why not?
Do you think men deserve treats at times?
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I guess you mean having a sugar mama?
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
You should never spend your money on guys.
Let them prove themselves first
totally spend money on guys
Why??
You ever think why not?
Do you think men deserve treats at times?
I guess you mean having a sugar mama?
If you think that going out your way by getting your man a gift with your pocket to show your appreciation labels you a sugar mama.... Then sureeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.
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That's not what I mean.
But okay whatever
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
You should never spend your money on guys.
Let them prove themselves first
totally spend money on guys
Why??
You ever think why not?
Do you think men deserve treats at times?
Mostly they don't deserve a shit 😄
Ah. I see.
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Just that I have no luck with guys that's it lol
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
You should never spend your money on guys.
Let them prove themselves first
totally spend money on guys
Why??
You ever think why not?
Do you think men deserve treats at times?
Mostly they don't deserve a shit 😄
Ah. I see.
Just that I have no luck with guys that's it lol
sooo dismiss them right off the back? lol Not sure that's a good call coach
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Generally when they make mistake I'm over. I'm not good at forgiveness
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
You should never spend your money on guys.
Let them prove themselves first
totally spend money on guys
Why??
You ever think why not?
Do you think men deserve treats at times?
Mostly they don't deserve a shit 😄
Ah. I see.
Just that I have no luck with guys that's it lol
sooo dismiss them right off the back? lol Not sure that's a good call coach
Generally when they make mistake I'm over. I'm not good at forgiveness
That's surprising, i'd figure pisces energy you'd be a teddy bear to every transgression lol
I feels ya
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Haha I don't know, I'm not typical Pisces I guess. What's your sign?
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
You should never spend your money on guys.
Let them prove themselves first
totally spend money on guys
Why??
You ever think why not?
Do you think men deserve treats at times?
Mostly they don't deserve a shit 😄
Ah. I see.
Just that I have no luck with guys that's it lol
sooo dismiss them right off the back? lol Not sure that's a good call coach
Generally when they make mistake I'm over. I'm not good at forgiveness
That's surprising, i'd figure pisces energy you'd be a teddy bear to every transgression lol
I feels ya
Haha I don't know, I'm not typical Pisces I guess. What's your sign?
I identify as a crabby patty.
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Oh we've got lots of crabs here. Is that your dominant sign?? 🙂
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
You should never spend your money on guys.
Let them prove themselves first
totally spend money on guys
Why??
You ever think why not?
Do you think men deserve treats at times?
Mostly they don't deserve a shit 😄
Ah. I see.
Just that I have no luck with guys that's it lol
sooo dismiss them right off the back? lol Not sure that's a good call coach
Generally when they make mistake I'm over. I'm not good at forgiveness
That's surprising, i'd figure pisces energy you'd be a teddy bear to every transgression lol
I feels ya
Haha I don't know, I'm not typical Pisces I guess. What's your sign?
I identify as a crabby patty.
Oh we've got lots of crabs here. Is that your dominant sign?? 🙂
HBU fishy? Also made me google haha
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Everything you need to know is on my profile lol
OP
what the disagreements or unhappiness was about?
cancers are very sensitive, so maybe he got offended because of something? Or felt rejected?
I mean, if you had constant contact, you met 8-9 times during this one month, you went for a trip..... it was not unreasonable to expect to have sex....
i mean, maybe its the only thing what he wanted, maybe he is a bad person or a player..... but from the info you provided is hard to say
For cancers (and specially cancer moons!!) not wanting to have sex with them is rejection
So, what the quarelling was about?
I am surprised nobody asked that question and everybody went with leave him alone he is a marker.... is there an additional info everybody else is privy?
Why he is quiet now, there can be different reasons:
1. he felt rejected
2. were you flirty with other man by chance? (for cancer moons smiling at the receptionist or bartender is a flirt 🙂 )
3. money questions
4. he is not interested
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
You should never spend your money on guys.
Let them prove themselves first
totally spend money on guys
Why??
You ever think why not?
Do you think men deserve treats at times?
Mostly they don't deserve a shit 😄
Ah. I see.
Just that I have no luck with guys that's it lol
sooo dismiss them right off the back? lol Not sure that's a good call coach
Generally when they make mistake I'm over. I'm not good at forgiveness
That's surprising, i'd figure pisces energy you'd be a teddy bear to every transgression lol
I feels ya
Haha I don't know, I'm not typical Pisces I guess. What's your sign?
I identify as a crabby patty.
Oh we've got lots of crabs here. Is that your dominant sign?? 🙂
HBU fishy? Also made me google haha
Everything you need to know is on my profile lol
Wait nooo. I don't see where it says dominate sign. And my information is on my profile too!
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Lol I had to use google too
Element Power Percent
Fire: 81.3 / 11.9%
Earth: 195.9 / 28.6%
Air: 145.7 / 21.3%
Water: 261.5 / 38.2%
Mode Power Percent
Cardinal: 265.3 / 38.8%
Fixed: 129.9 / 19.0%
Mutuable: 289.2 / 42.3%
Posted by pisceanloves
He seems childish. What's his age??Only thing what really bothers me is that you had to spend your money. Hope it wasn't much but plane trip— eehhh that's sad
He is 28, older than me by 2 years. haha, not sure about childish but he is very strict in alot of things, maybe because he is from the army.
yea, money was spent on an unhappy trip. 😢
You should never spend your money on guys.
Let them prove themselves first
totally spend money on guys
Why??
You ever think why not?
Do you think men deserve treats at times?
Mostly they don't deserve a shit 😄
Ah. I see.
Just that I have no luck with guys that's it lol
sooo dismiss them right off the back? lol Not sure that's a good call coach
Generally when they make mistake I'm over. I'm not good at forgiveness
That's surprising, i'd figure pisces energy you'd be a teddy bear to every transgression lol
I feels ya
Haha I don't know, I'm not typical Pisces I guess. What's your sign?
I identify as a crabby patty.
Oh we've got lots of crabs here. Is that your dominant sign?? 🙂
HBU fishy? Also made me google haha
Everything you need to know is on my profile lol
Wait nooo. I don't see where it says dominate sign. And my information is on my profile too!
Lol I had to use google too
Element Power Percent
Fire: 81.3 / 11.9%
Earth: 195.9 / 28.6%
Air: 145.7 / 21.3%
Water: 261.5 / 38.2%
Mode Power Percent
Cardinal: 265.3 / 38.8%
Fixed: 129.9 / 19.0%
Mutuable: 289.2 / 42.3%
You are cardinal/mutable dominate. Earth and water.
You sound nitpicky and fussy LOL
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Nitpicky?? maybe a little bit, fussy?? Noooo😄
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I was texting everyday from morning to night with this guy with Cancer in his Sun and Moon for a month and in this one month, we met up for meals and movie about 8 or 9 times, holding hands sometimes and went to his house twice for dinner. We then went for a 2D2N trip arriving at night. The first night we were touchy but we did not have sex as I think it's too fast. I did ask him if he likes me and he said 'what do you think?'. I replied 'I don't know' and he did not reply after that.
There were some unhappiness the next day and we did not talk or touch anymore at night. The next day we had some unhappiness again and quarreled outside, but everything seems alright after the fight. Went to the airport and he even ordered my favourite drink for me and poke my cheek when I was sleeping in the plane. When we returned and took our own different cab, he said bye without even looking at me and continue using his phone.
We texted just a bit after returning and no textes anymore after that. The last sentence he said was 'talk to you later' and gone. He used to message me no matter how busy he was. Today is the 3rd day already. Do you guys think I still stand a chance?
Oh, on the flight towards our destination, we was putting his hands on my legs but when returning, he wasnt.
Is it because he is just too tired or am I too sensitive?