Missyxo
@Missyxo
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First time dating a Cancer man, advice?
Cancer's energy is very much about protecting. I think you just need to talk to him honestly about what you're feeling and where you're headed. He would appreciate that, and you'd get your answer.
Posted by Missyxo
I usually attract Leos, Geminis, and Tauruses... This is my first time dealing with a Cancer. ?
I'm currently dating/seeing a divorced Cancer man. He has 2 young children and has co-parenting arrangments with his ex wife. I have never been married and I don't have any children... he's much older than I am.
He's very caring and kind towards me. Makes me feel very protected. He loves cooking for me and taking me out. Time flies so quickly whenever I'm with him.
We've been dating/seeing each other for 6 months. Not sure where this is going or if he's serious about me? Is there a possibility that I'm not the only person he's seeing as we haven't brought up exclusivity?
For some signs like cancer exclusivity is not something that needs to be talked about. He's already exclusive with you! And cancer's love to cook but not just for anyone so I really feel like your already in their. And like bamacrab87 said be up front us cancer's love when you express what you want makes us feel secure. But don't forget to show it too that is what really counts. Just remember honesty is the route to take and loyalty is always going to be his strong suit as long as you continue showing him affection!
Posted by bamacrab87Thank you for your response. I'm kind of hesitant to ask him directly because he's older than me... I only see him once a week. Aaahhh! ?
Cancer's energy is very much about protecting. I think you just need to talk to him honestly about what you're feeling and where you're headed. He would appreciate that, and you'd get your answer.
RUN!!!! JK i hear leos and cancers are good together.. I dunno why
For some signs like cancer exclusivity is not something that needs to be talked about. He's already exclusive with you! And cancer's love to cook but not just for anyone so I really feel like your already in their. And like bamacrab87 said be up front us cancer's love when you express what you want makes us feel secure. But don't forget to show it too that is what really counts. Just remember honesty is the route to take and loyalty is always going to be his strong suit as long as you continue showing him affection!
I have been honest and loyal with him... however, recently, he mistakenly slipped saying that I called him "Daddy" in bed. I have never called him that so it makes me wonder if I'm not the only one. Again, he's much older so maybe he doesn't take me seriously and everything he's done so far is just out of politeness and fun. ?
Posted by Missyxo
For some signs like cancer exclusivity is not something that needs to be talked about. He's already exclusive with you! And cancer's love to cook but not just for anyone so I really feel like your already in their. And like bamacrab87 said be up front us cancer's love when you express what you want makes us feel secure. But don't forget to show it too that is what really counts. Just remember honesty is the route to take and loyalty is always going to be his strong suit as long as you continue showing him affection!
I have been honest and loyal with him... however, recently, he mistakenly slipped saying that I called him "Daddy" in bed. I have never called him that so it makes me wonder if I'm not the only one. Again, he's much older so maybe he doesn't take me seriously and everything he's done so far is just out of politeness and fun. ?
Did he tell you not to? Because in my experience as a cancer that's the type of thing you aim for in a relationship and there is no just for fun! Trust me he would not be willing to bring someone into his life, especially around his kids and keep them around for so long and not think that you where worthy of being in his life. As a cancer it's all about complexity and making sure your willing to follow suit and stay with him since he has already had a failed relationship before! And with the daddy thing since he does have kids it might come off as 'sort of weird' , just like this much ( ) but don't fret about it, maybe try other kinky words it might have made him worry because daddy is something you don't just say to any old regular Joe! He's probably worrying himself sick wondering if that means your going to be around for a while or if his good fortune is about to luck out, after all he is older and probably has more experience with the good disappearing than any regular Joe should have! Try not to worry too much about it because it will only double his own stress and make him wonder if you will be around even more then he will start to withdraw from you and he might slip out of your hands for good. He's really fatherly like and only wants what's best for the whole world; you and his kids! So he just needs to be reassured that if he wants you to stay around you will and that will make him all the more happier, just don't say anything you don't mean. You should be fine, since cancer's are loyal and you are too he might be worries that you are maybe calling other men daddy, so let him know you are already exclusive!
Posted by boxcarmirntaLOL really?
RUN!!!! JK i hear leos and cancers are good together.. I dunno why
Posted by MissyxoI know a lot of couples with these signs. Cuz leos like an audience and prolly to be tamed or whatever you lions do.Posted by boxcarmirntaLOL really?
RUN!!!! JK i hear leos and cancers are good together.. I dunno whyclick to expand
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