HE ACCPTED FR BUT I HAVE A SMALL PROBLEM :/

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by coumari on Thursday, October 13, 2011 and has 23 replies.

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@coumari
15 Years

Hey 🙂

lots of prblems occured between my cancer nd i.till the last reaction,he removed me from MSN about one and half month..since he removed me from facebook 7 months ago.so,since a month and half i never logged to facebook,bcs i was so sad and got no mood thou i got so many inboxes from my friends asking if am ok or even some wrote on my wall in facebook,but i never reply to any.i just pretend am not around thou i had no mood for anything.and they knew who i am.i like to laugh,hang around ,make comments on posts or even post songs.so,no mood for anything since a month and half.

I think he knew or we got mutual friends but i never knew who is that person that sometimes tell hi m whats up.so,he knew since a month and half when he removed me from msn ,i never logged to facebook.
until few hrs ago,he accpted FR and sent a poke. and saying in the inbox message.... ...

ewww ! .. just wanted to check on you .. I got worried .. thanks god your fine .. I understood now
reply me that you are okaii !! am waiting 🙂

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My question is how to deal in this situation ? should i reply to him or even log to everyone in facebook and say am ok ?🙂 xx

or should i wait few days or few hrs 🙂?? xx
i hope u help in such situaion..hahha xx

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@littlearcher
15 Years

i'm pretty sure oceandeep is a female the coumari was speaking to on here to give her advice about her cancer male

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@coumari
15 Years

Lmaooo !! hahaha the same i dont know since am new here.u wud have known such ages aso lol hahaha
But,it seams u so anxious to know 😉 lol xDDD

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@coumari
15 Years

🙂 is by mistake then whn he is written instead of she the **S** is out 🙂 am sorry 😉
but her profile pic can say SHE is instead 🙂mermaid

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@virgodreamz
17 Years1,000+ Posts

I think Ocean Deep is a she

I think Thomas is right - UR Fuct

If someone pays attention to you for ignoring them. You will always have to ignore them for their attention.
See what happens when you start answering him....
It's a lose/lose situation but I guess you'll figure that out on your own time 😢

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@virgodreamz
17 Years1,000+ Posts

PS I didn't mean your fuct up - if that's what he meant.
I mean you're in a situation where you are effd.
You seem like someone who doesn't know how to read people's signals and it makes them run ie: Your Cancer + Ocean D
You should learn how to let other people be drawn to you instead hunting them down.

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@tryandguess
14 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Posted by coumari
Hey 🙂

lots of prblems occured between my cancer nd i.till the last reaction,he removed me from MSN about one and half month..since he removed me from facebook 7 months ago.so,since a month and half i never logged to facebook,bcs i was so sad and got no mood thou i got so many inboxes from my friends asking if am ok or even some wrote on my wall in facebook,but i never reply to any.i just pretend am not around thou i had no mood for anything.and they knew who i am.i like to laugh,hang around ,make comments on posts or even post songs.so,no mood for anything since a month and half.

I think he knew or we got mutual friends but i never knew who is that person that sometimes tell hi m whats up.so,he knew since a month and half when he removed me from msn ,i never logged to facebook.
until few hrs ago,he accpted FR and sent a poke. and saying in the inbox message.... ...

ewww ! .. just wanted to check on you .. I got worried .. thanks god your fine .. I understood now
reply me that you are okaii !! am waiting 🙂

-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
My question is how to deal in this situation ? should i reply to him or even log to everyone in facebook and say am ok ?🙂 xx

or should i wait few days or few hrs 🙂?? xx
i hope u help in such situaion..hahha xx

Facebook is such a joke, it's becoming what myspace was. I delete people off my facebook all the time (when I'm actually on) just to see their reaction. If he deleted you from something pretend you don't even notice.

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@lildol
17 Years5,000+ Posts

oh GAWD we must be on the Cancer board with folks actually not gagging at caumari...

(no offense girl, just a Cap's perspective 🙂).