He likes to cook for me

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I had rejected his offer to go for a date in September. In November I met him at his house, he asked me to cook for him. We kissed and made out on his couch. He held my hand and took me to his bed but we did not do anything except kisses and a passionate make out.

We are meeting since then every alternate day at his house and he cooks dinner. He just loves to cook and always ask me to come over for dinner. Second time when I met him, he lifted me from my armpits and took me to his bed and again we kissed and made out passionately.

Third time again when I met him for dinner he lifted me with my legs around his waist, swung me and took me to his bed. We again kissed and made out and I slept next to him. We were hugging while sleeping and very few light kisses.

We are not having sex yet as I have a yeast infection inside my vag and he is patiently waiting I guess.

Yesterday we met for dinner but we did not do anything, man it was disappointing. We only kissed few times on his couch. I was so upset inside but did not say anything and left in few hours. He said he just wants to play with me and do nothing much tonight.

I am suppose to meet him for dinner tonight again. I am going for an international business trip for 5 weeks and I am so feared that I might lose him. But I don't want to say anything as it feels I am being possessive and clingy. He is very sweet, clever and cute. I just love the way he loves his dog πŸ™‚ He calls me sweetie and texts me a lot of kisses emojis.

Mercury Rx makes me feel very insecure.
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What's up with these cancer bishes loving to cook.

Don't mind me I'm hatin....
wait, she's a Taurus - he's a Cancer





Yes. I'm hating on Cancer. They cook and nurture indiscriminately. How's a girl suppose to know these things. I thought I was special. So you cook your nana's recipe for everyone? Hmm



Sorry don't mind me....I'm bitter. Back to the OP.

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it's ok - you can be bitter

I hope it works for the @OP

I'm glad it didn't work for me because after all - "not Taurus worthy" - lol
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Posted by RedemptionSong
What's up with these cancer bishes loving to cook.

Don't mind me I'm hatin....
wait, she's a Taurus - he's a Cancer





Yes. I'm hating on Cancer. They cook and nurture indiscriminately. How's a girl suppose to know these things. I thought I was special. So you cook your nana's recipe for everyone? Hmm



Sorry don't mind me....I'm bitter. Back to the OP.

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Not at all, I was sharing my so far experience with him. I just don't have courage to ask him where is this going
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Posted by RedemptionSong
Posted by tctao
Posted by RedemptionSong
What's up with these cancer bishes loving to cook.

Don't mind me I'm hatin....
wait, she's a Taurus - he's a Cancer





Yes. I'm hating on Cancer. They cook and nurture indiscriminately. How's a girl suppose to know these things. I thought I was special. So you cook your nana's recipe for everyone? Hmm



Sorry don't mind me....I'm bitter. Back to the OP.


it's ok - you can be bitter

I hope it works for the @OP

I'm glad it didn't work for me because after all - "not Taurus worthy" - lol
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Not Taurus worthy? :O
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Posted by tctao
Posted by RedemptionSong
What's up with these cancer bishes loving to cook.

Don't mind me I'm hatin....
wait, she's a Taurus - he's a Cancer





Yes. I'm hating on Cancer. They cook and nurture indiscriminately. How's a girl suppose to know these things. I thought I was special. So you cook your nana's recipe for everyone? Hmm



Sorry don't mind me....I'm bitter. Back to the OP.


it's ok - you can be bitter

I hope it works for the @OP

I'm glad it didn't work for me because after all - "not Taurus worthy" - lol
Not Taurus worthy? :O
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no he wasn't - I wish you well - keep us posted

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Posted by RedemptionSong
What's up with these cancer bishes loving to cook.

Don't mind me I'm hatin....
wait, she's a Taurus - he's a Cancer





Yes. I'm hating on Cancer. They cook and nurture indiscriminately. How's a girl suppose to know these things. I thought I was special. So you cook your nana's recipe for everyone? Hmm



Sorry don't mind me....I'm bitter. Back to the OP.


Not at all, I was sharing my so far experience with him. I just don't have courage to ask him where is this going


He seems interested. But I can't read cancers so I don't know.
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He is not kissing me as much passionately as he did before.
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Posted by RedemptionSong
What's up with these cancer bishes loving to cook.

Don't mind me I'm hatin....
wait, she's a Taurus - he's a Cancer





Yes. I'm hating on Cancer. They cook and nurture indiscriminately. How's a girl suppose to know these things. I thought I was special. So you cook your nana's recipe for everyone? Hmm



Sorry don't mind me....I'm bitter. Back to the OP.


Not at all, I was sharing my so far experience with him. I just don't have courage to ask him where is this going


He seems interested. But I can't read cancers so I don't know.
He is not kissing me as much passionately as he did before.
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The first kiss with my Cancer was the best kiss of my life. I could feel his lips shaking, he was so nervous. Awww, I just loved that!
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First time when I kissed him, it was directly french kiss. We always do long frenchs.

Last night was just kisses. Not deep passionate ones. I felt little odd but he was making plans to meet tonight too so I did not feel like to say anything.

Its been two weeks since we started hanging out together. He does not say if we are seeing each other or any official name for our relation either. He does not call me his friend either.

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Okay, so he again cooked for me last night. He was a professional chef, he is a great cook.

He was cooking and we were talking.

We had to go for grocery shopping as he thought to make chocolate truffles for me. He did not leave my hands and my back even for a second. This is the first time we went out in public and he was a lot touchy-feely while shopping for chocolate chips πŸ˜„ He was all singing and dancing while driving back and just telling me how much pretty I am. I could just see on his face, the shine in his eyes and that enjoyment that he is happy doing whatever he is doing right at the moment.

It was obvious that we are going to do something when we return home but I found an emergency email from my manager and I had to take an action immediately. He waited patiently and slept on couch. That's just so friggin cute. I kissed him few times and just left.

I feel its not necessary to hop on another person's body every time you meet them. Just enjoy the small small moments together. πŸ™‚
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@redemptionsong the next time i ask the universe for bishes i'll ask for a gemini dominant one for you.

all the way down

gemini moon

gemini mercury

gemini venus

gemini mars

πŸ˜„

LOL. Evil


that would be a perfect chart for me with all my aries. maybe i'll give yours a taurus moon. πŸ˜†

or just not ask for you because then i'll get an angry thread EDGELORD YOU SPAWNED A GEMINI DOMINANT MOTHERFUCKER FOR ME. lmao

Lol. Cap moon would be fine too. I like Gemini energy. Never dealt with one emotionally though


how dare you. 😐 you know i prefer pisces to mate with taurus placements. i'm gonna ignore you mentioning a cap placement. lolol

actually if i had really wanted to be mean i could've given you leo all the way down. though you could have conjunct moons with a first decan leo moon. ^.^

No worries god never gives me what I want. I will end up with a whorish Sag.

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Okay, so he again cooked for me last night. He was a professional chef, he is a great cook.

He was cooking and we were talking.

We had to go for grocery shopping as he thought to make chocolate truffles for me. He did not leave my hands and my back even for a second. This is the first time we went out in public and he was a lot touchy-feely while shopping for chocolate chips πŸ˜„ He was all singing and dancing while driving back and just telling me how much pretty I am. I could just see on his face, the shine in his eyes and that enjoyment that he is happy doing whatever he is doing right at the moment.

It was obvious that we are going to do something when we return home but I found an emergency email from my manager and I had to take an action immediately. He waited patiently and slept on couch. That's just so friggin cute. I kissed him few times and just left.

I feel its not necessary to hop on another person's body every time you meet them. Just enjoy the small small moments together. πŸ™‚
well yeah and you do have that vag thing going on as well so
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Okay, so he again cooked for me last night. He was a professional chef, he is a great cook.

He was cooking and we were talking.

We had to go for grocery shopping as he thought to make chocolate truffles for me. He did not leave my hands and my back even for a second. This is the first time we went out in public and he was a lot touchy-feely while shopping for chocolate chips πŸ˜„ He was all singing and dancing while driving back and just telling me how much pretty I am. I could just see on his face, the shine in his eyes and that enjoyment that he is happy doing whatever he is doing right at the moment.

It was obvious that we are going to do something when we return home but I found an emergency email from my manager and I had to take an action immediately. He waited patiently and slept on couch. That's just so friggin cute. I kissed him few times and just left.

I feel its not necessary to hop on another person's body every time you meet them. Just enjoy the small small moments together. πŸ™‚
well yeah and you do have that vag thing going on as well so

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I was really trying to forget that. Lol
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Well, I know its def funny and internet has all the rights to laugh at it πŸ™‚ Its all good now though.

We are in long distance right now for 4 weeks and he texted me that although we are not at girlfriend-boyfriend stage yet but he is not romantically involved with any other girl than me and he looks forward eagerly to spend time with me once I return.

We do text every day to know what is happening with each other. Fingers crossed. xoxo
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Posted by AquaNextDoor
So happy for you πŸ™‚ and I admire people who are honest about stds/infections/whatever and you were for the necessary extent.

When do you meet again?
Thank you Aqua for appreciating my honesty. It was a mere infection which has healed now. I get back to US on 12 January so around that time we should meet.

He was born on 21 January so I think he is still more Cancer than Gemini? He does not party or go out at all unnecessarily. All the time I met him so far was at his house. Very simple life style , nothing exaggerated or fancy. He likes to spend time just holding me after having dinner, sometimes kissing or caressing or maybe just watching a movie.

The only thing which concerns me is that he told me that he has slept with a lot of women and he is a lot more experience in bed than me. I am not, makes me feel if I won't be able to give him satisfaction in bed ultimately. I gotta talk to him about it when I meet him in January.

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So happy for you πŸ™‚ and I admire people who are honest about stds/infections/whatever and you were for the necessary extent.

When do you meet again?
Thank you Aqua for appreciating my honesty. It was a mere infection which has healed now. I get back to US on 12 January so around that time we should meet.

He was born on 21 January so I think he is still more Cancer than Gemini? He does not party or go out at all unnecessarily. All the time I met him so far was at his house. Very simple life style , nothing exaggerated or fancy. He likes to spend time just holding me after having dinner, sometimes kissing or caressing or maybe just watching a movie.

The only thing which concerns me is that he told me that he has slept with a lot of women and he is a lot more experience in bed than me. I am not, makes me feel if I won't be able to give him satisfaction in bed ultimately. I gotta talk to him about it when I meet him in January.

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You mean 21 june? Because january 21 is aqua territory 😎😎😎

I don't think you have to be concerned about his history as long it stays there. Nothing worse than an ex who is still in the picture.. but I guess thats not the case with him. I think its good that he is experienced and with you it will be a new experience! Every woman is different and has different needs so a first time with a new partner is always a new experience for both.

I hope that you made it clear that you are in for something serious only. I know of too many women who wait and wait for things to finally get official and get disappointed in the end because it didn't move further than a "situationship". The right man won't run away from a woman who makes it clear she won't make time for a fling. Nobody should have time for that

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You mean 21 june? Because january 21 is aqua territory 😎😎😎

I don't think you have to be concerned about his history as long it stays there. Nothing worse than an ex who is still in the picture.. but I guess thats not the case with him. I think its good that he is experienced and with you it will be a new experience! Every woman is different and has different needs so a first time with a new partner is always a new experience for both.

I hope that you made it clear that you are in for something serious only. I know of too many women who wait and wait for things to finally get official and get disappointed in the end because it didn't move further than a "situationship". The right man won't run away from a woman who makes it clear she won't make time for a fling. Nobody should have time for that

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I am sorry, yes its June 21, 1988. I am May 7 1990. He has not mentioned about any other girl at all except when he was giving a brief history of his past relationships.

He wanted to have sex first time we met and I was not ready and he understood. I told him how much I want to wait and he said he won't do anything until I say anything. I know how much he wants to do that with me but he stays quiet and patiently wait till I am ready. He has not touched me inappropriately or without asking me first. We have been engaged in physical intimacy and I have slept next to him in the same blanket under moonlight, he still did not do anything to me except hugging or few kisses on forehead. Questioning his motives here makes me feel I don't trust him but I do. πŸ™‚