HELLLP IM CONFUSED BY NEW CANCER MAN

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by AQUAash on Thursday, October 13, 2011 and has 3 replies.

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@nimbue
15 Years1,000+ Posts

ruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuun for your life.

sorry. i had to 😄

err, he's a man they go bit weird after sex. they think clearer after it, we think clearer before. just leave him for a bit. then call him if you don't hear from him...don't be antsy/insecure about it. just a normal, causal chat...

he sounds like he's in the 'evaluating phase.' if you wade in now he'll just panic and abort mission haha 😄 but seriously, he's a cancer, they have shells! big, scary shells that they shell into! let him have his 'fire-gazing' time 😉

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@shellshocker
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by AQUAash
I met him last Saturday on my way to work,

That night we indulged in intercourse but I felt as if I'd been with him forever.

My question is why does he pick up my callls or answer my text right away when he harassed me for my number and to meet up with me. I did notice when I was with him he doesn't carry his cell phone at all times and leaves it in the car or he watches his calls. Or did I give in too easy and now hes no longer interested. I am an Aquarius

As a Cancer, I don't "indulge in intercourse"... I loose myself in a person and I need time for that attraction to build if it's going to be more than a quickie. The chase just adds to it cause the more you resist, the more I want it. Isn't this a human nature, supply and demand thing, tho? Sorry, off topic...

He'll come out of his shell eventually but it may not be the same again. You felt like you'd been with him forever because a Cancer can sense what you want in bed and are more than willing to give it to you. 🙂

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@AQUAash
14 Years

Well I spoke with him today and hes only concerned with seeing me...my phone is broken so there's np way I can speak with him if I am not home. I am going to try to contact him tomorrow and hopefully the verdict will be worth your while. THANK YOU BOTH =]

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@krobe03
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I think you gave in way too easy and you're his target for sexual encounters. I wouldn't expect a relationship. You are calling him, meaning you are open and available to him. Most men prey on easy so watch out.

Won't expect it to last long. Once you get serious, he will pull a disappearing act for ages. The only thing you two have in common now is sex.

I agree with who told you to run for your life. Why would you want to keep seeing a man who boned the first night? You know he will do the next lady in the next car with the same outfit.

I don't know, me personally I would think he was trying to give me something I would regret. You have to really know your partner in this day and age. The package is no jk.