Help Get Leo female to See Cancer Male

I just joined because I need to get my leo gf to see me! We have been together for 5 yrs. I messed up by lying to her about ex-virgo gf. Ex-virgo ratted me out to leo to get revenge for me dumping her! Leo responded by taking a long break - over a year!! We had two breaks before, never this long and she ALWAYS kept in touch. Now she won't take my calls, respond to texts or even see me!!! I know I messed up but she's not even giving me a chance. It's not like her AT ALL. Last week I heard from my sources where she works that she was hanging out with this scorpio (they're in same dept.) She worked with him on a project two years ago and I guess now they're hanging out— WTF!!! He's total vermin piece of shit! She doesn't have the ability to cut me off this long on her own and I know he is just playing his position with her. She tends to be too trusting and honest and see the best in people. So even if I was to try to tell her what he was - she wouldn't believe me and think I'm just being jealous, but I'm not! How do I get her to see me— Would appreciate any cancer men who's been in a long term relationship with a leo female. I'll post this also on the Leo board.

You can move on now.

No, I didn't cheat on her -knew the truth would hurt her. Suggestions—? Anyone—

You say this is not like her AT ALL...
but in fact, this is exactly what she IS like- when she has decided to move on.
...Hence why you have not seen this behavior before I'm afraid.

I know she still loves me. If she sees me her feelings for me will come out!

Would you take you back?

Posted by crabbycrab76
I know she still loves me. If she sees me her feelings for me will come out!

I doubt it.

If she wanted to see you, she would.

Personally, I would be looking into a restraining order... because

that ^^ is crazy talk.

Posted by crabbycrab76
You can move on now.

No, I didn't cheat on her -knew the truth would hurt her. Suggestions—? Anyone—

I'm with a Leo, and I cannot help you.

She has moved on, so should you. Maybe the Virgo will take you back.

She is done and she is moving on, idk what happened but you shouldn't play games with a Leo it sounds like u made her feel like second when she was ur gf and Should of been first, she's just doing what you did to her

Entitlement.

That's it.

And LoL at Camp II Cancer

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Posted by Ssupes
You sound like a desperate, egotistical, lying piece of shit to me.

I would like to apologize for this reply.

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Thx! I was able to confirm they are not dating, so not sure what he's to her. Will try to see her again tonight - gated community so not so easy to just get in. Gotta try.

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Posted by Ssupes
You sound like a desperate, egotistical, lying piece of shit to me.

I would like to apologize for this reply.

Thx! I was able to confirm they are not dating, so not sure what he's to her. Will try to see her again tonight - gated community so not so easy to just get in. Gotta try.

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Wow.

This can't be real.

Oh cancer, please don't do that to yourself, maybe they aren't dating but have something new going on. It's not fair for you to do that to her, you put her second and now youre upset you aren't her first? You did this to yourself, she is not the one for you let her go and be happy for her

Posted by LunarMaiden
Would you take you back?

Under the circumstances, I would atleast hear me out.

If she wants to move on, FINE, just want to hear it from her - that's all.

Posted by MoonshineLeo
She is done and she is moving on, idk what happened but you shouldn't play games with a Leo it sounds like u made her feel like second when she was ur gf and Should of been first, she's just doing what you did to her

You're right, she should been first. I guess I wasn't sure for the longest time - but then knew and acted.

Her issue was the fact that I lied when she 'straightly asked me and she had to hear it from *her* ' (meaning ex). I guess I felt no need to hurt her like that when I knew I had officially broke it off with ex for good.

Posted by MoonshineLeo
Oh cancer, please don't do that to yourself, maybe they aren't dating but have something new going on. It's not fair for you to do that to her, you put her second and now youre upset you aren't her first? You did this to yourself, she is not the one for you let her go and be happy for her

He's had a WHOLE year! Why is she not dating him yet? Know he's tried. She's not the type that can get involved with someone when she has feelings for another. She's always true to herself. ALWAYS. So, I'm not suppose to atleast give her the opportunity to come back? I'm suppose to just walk away—

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
She is done and she is moving on, idk what happened but you shouldn't play games with a Leo it sounds like u made her feel like second when she was ur gf and Should of been first, she's just doing what you did to her

You're right, she should been first. I guess I wasn't sure for the longest time - but then knew and acted.

Her issue was the fact that I lied when she 'straightly asked me and she had to hear it from *her* ' (meaning ex). I guess I felt no need to hurt her like that when I knew I had officially broke it off with ex for good.

You lied to her face when she already knew the truth. How is that "her" issue?

This is "your" issue as the title of the thread clearly states.

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Her issue *with me*...

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
Oh cancer, please don't do that to yourself, maybe they aren't dating but have something new going on. It's not fair for you to do that to her, you put her second and now youre upset you aren't her first? You did this to yourself, she is not the one for you let her go and be happy for her

He's had a WHOLE year! Why is she not dating him yet? Know he's tried. She's not the type that can get involved with someone when she has feelings for another. She's always true to herself. ALWAYS. So, I'm not suppose to atleast give her the opportunity to come back? I'm suppose to just walk away—

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okay cancer you came on here looking for help so im going to help you, this is what you need to do...IF you have tried talking to her recently and she has not responded then leave her alone for a few months, IFFF you want you can text her apologizing and i mean REALLY apologize from the bottom of your heart let her know how u feel and how u see how u made HER feel and you would like to fix things. LEAVE it at that, if she responds awesome and if she doesnt you have to let it gooooo. Dont go looking for her around her neighborhood because she will find out you are trying to sneak like that and will be turned off completely, not to mention she might call the cops and put a restraining order against you. But really you should try to move on, im sure you did everything you could...next time dont make your gf feel second its not fun is it?

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
Oh cancer, please don't do that to yourself, maybe they aren't dating but have something new going on. It's not fair for you to do that to her, you put her second and now youre upset you aren't her first? You did this to yourself, she is not the one for you let her go and be happy for her

He's had a WHOLE year! Why is she not dating him yet? Know he's tried. She's not the type that can get involved with someone when she has feelings for another. She's always true to herself. ALWAYS. So, I'm not suppose to atleast give her the opportunity to come back? I'm suppose to just walk away—

okay cancer you came on here looking for help so im going to help you, this is what you need to do...IF you have tried talking to her recently and she has not responded then leave her alone for a few months, IFFF you want you can text her apologizing and i mean REALLY apologize from the bottom of your heart let her know how u feel and how u see how u made HER feel and you would like to fix things. LEAVE it at that, if she responds awesome and if she doesnt you have to let it gooooo. Dont go looking for her around her neighborhood because she will find out you are trying to sneak like that and will be turned off completely, not to mention she might call the cops and put a restraining order against you. But really you should try to move on, im sure you did everything you could...next time dont make your gf feel second its not fun is it?

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How can I apologize and tell her anything when she has me blocked and won't even see me? I left many voice and txt msgs - all telling her how sorry I am. I wrote her a letter a month ago. Sent flowers 2 months before that. She didn't call, text - nothing. If only she would see me.

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Posted by crabbycrab76
If she wants to move on, FINE, just want to hear it from her - that's all.

Shes telling you.........just not in the way YOU want.

Just let it go bro.........dont be "that guy".

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Ssupes, you're right man. I don't want to be 'that guy', so I took a chance that she would be working late - found her car and left a note which basically said that
I got that we were over and I wanted her to know how very sorry I was for every tear I caused her to cry, every pain I caused in her heart. Told her I knew in my heart, she was my forever and will always be and wished her nothing but happiness.

No man deserves a woman like my lioness, but I was lucky to have had her for five years!

A vision of perfection she was. Smart. Funny. Strong. Independent. Loyal. Protective. Sacrificial. Kind. Generous. Fearless and Fierce. Adventurous. Beautiful. Sexy and Hot!

What door did she walk through that her light didn't shine?
What secret energy source did she pull from that gave her the ability to give so much of herself to others with plenty to spare?

And her love. Wow. Her love. It just was.

She would wrap you all up in it and make you just pray she never let go. Through all my moods and shitty remarks, her love remained consistent, persistence and strong! Never manipulative. Never belittling. Always telling the truth. Always standing her ground - no matter how shaky that ground was. But commanding respect all at the same time. Who can pull such a thing off so effortlessly? My lioness!

Thx to everyone who responded. Even those who gave me shit. SSupes thx a lot! Though you gave me shit at first, I couldn't get: *I didn't want to be 'that man'* out of my head - it made me feel differently about things. MoonshineLeo thx for everything you said!

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
Oh cancer, please don't do that to yourself, maybe they aren't dating but have something new going on. It's not fair for you to do that to her, you put her second and now youre upset you aren't her first? You did this to yourself, she is not the one for you let her go and be happy for her

He's had a WHOLE year! Why is she not dating him yet? Know he's tried. She's not the type that can get involved with someone when she has feelings for another. She's always true to herself. ALWAYS. So, I'm not suppose to atleast give her the opportunity to come back? I'm suppose to just walk away—

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"... opportunity"

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LOL. Mamba dug this one right up!

Sorry, but you are toast. Any time someonr cheats on me, it is OVER. Now, I may take you back and put you through the same thing, but deep down you will never be forgiven. And when i say "take you back" it's literally only to get revenge. Sorry. Leo females are ruthless beatches when you really hurt us.

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Posted by Ssuperman
LOL. Mamba dug this one right up!

trying to wrap around my head around this hot azz mess. crabs can't be this messy. this is a troll

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It's not a troll. See Stihl46... he cannot move on for maximum 2 yrs with an ex scorp. lol

He really does love her tho....i dunno what happened with the Virgo..but he's extremely heartfelt.

Posted by crabbycrab76
I just joined because I need to get my leo gf to see me! We have been together for 5 yrs. I messed up by lying to her about ex-virgo gf. Ex-virgo ratted me out to leo to get revenge for me dumping her! Leo responded by taking a long break - over a year!! We had two breaks before, never this long and she ALWAYS kept in touch. Now she won't take my calls, respond to texts or even see me!!! I know I messed up but she's not even giving me a chance. It's not like her AT ALL. Last week I heard from my sources where she works that she was hanging out with this scorpio (they're in same dept.) She worked with him on a project two years ago and I guess now they're hanging out— WTF!!! He's total vermin piece of shit! She doesn't have the ability to cut me off this long on her own and I know he is just playing his position with her. She tends to be too trusting and honest and see the best in people. So even if I was to try to tell her what he was - she wouldn't believe me and think I'm just being jealous, but I'm not! How do I get her to see me— Would appreciate any cancer men who's been in a long term relationship with a leo female. I'll post this also on the Leo board.

I have a leo friend. She's in love with an ex scorp. She said it was her best love for all the zodiac sign she was dating.

But I noticed about her when I have problem with my current cancer man at this time all she said is that.. M, that dude won't change. Drop him.

She's a cool leo. Tough. Driven.

Posted by crabbycrab76
I know she still loves me. If she sees me her feelings for me will come out!

Because you are dwelling in the past. Emotions change. Plans change. All you have to do if you were honest prove it to yourself. Leave her with peace of mind.
Actions speaks Volume. The less you talk, the more you get her attention.

I doubt how true you were honest. I was really suspicious when you kept digging Peito and cancer dude issues. I don't talk. I observed more. I know people.. I listened. I observe more.

Posted by thestruggle

i thought you were marrying him.

you two sound too unstable

That's a plan. will see. We don't quit though. So far so good Communication is constant.