I just started dating this cancer guy 3 weeks ago. He came on so affectionate but then I got snowed in with him for two weeks. It was great the whole time, but when I left he got distant and no longer sending heart emojis and saying I’m beautiful. Just short texts. Should I say something or just act like everything is fine? I’m sad 😞
Help with cancer man
Posted by blackphvse
Probably cause you were only dating a week then he got stuck with you for 2.. Probably a bit overwhelming.
He wanted me to stay the week, but it turned in to two. What should I do?

I suggest not being overtly needy, and getting in your head too much. Let him have space to think. I mean you guys haven't even dated a month, and he was with you straight for 2 weeks. That's a lot for any new relationship.

Usually guys need a bit of distance after intimacy. Have you heard of the rubber band analogy? Its cliché but a good one.
You should absolutely reach out. But in a chill way without expectation of an instant response. Let him know you had a good time despite the snow in. Sweet and simple. Then leave it be and let him reach out to you next.
You should absolutely reach out. But in a chill way without expectation of an instant response. Let him know you had a good time despite the snow in. Sweet and simple. Then leave it be and let him reach out to you next.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →

