he's a virgo man with cancer mars and cancer venus

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This is my first time dealing with a cancer venus man.

Him: Virgo sun, Aries Moon, Libra mercury, Cancer mars+venus

He has his shit together (finances, job, family-oriented). We have been talking for 2 weeks now, all day everyday. We went on date 1 on sunday, it was nice. Our second date is tomorrow.

Anything i need to watch out for? What are men with cancer mars+venus like?
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Defenders of home, defenders of children and loved ones, but if a persons Sun or Moon or the child's placements are Sun or Moon in Cancer, he will not have the patience nor depth to understand them and will inflict damage.

Moon is friendly to Mars only in a personal chart as it ramps up the ego self and ability to survive on ones own merit, but in synastry a very explosive combination.

Sun and Mars together create big ego conflicts. Mars especially will want to fight the natural expression of the Sun in Cancer.

I only have 2 experience of Mars in Cancer, my father and a friend, and well my ego don't like my father and my friend always tried to out strength me not understanding my personal Mars placement which ended up in him getting hurt in the end.


what about in romance?
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my condolences.

what do you mean "my condolences"—??

Is it that bad? Why is it bad? 😭
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a sun sign that deals in logic a moon sign that deals in impatience a mars sign that goes to war by feelings and a venus sign that's going to muddy logic with emotions.

outside of him having his finances together and being family oriented... how stable do you think he is mentally during a break up or misunderstanding?
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Me being a man having both mars and venus in cancer id probably not date myself if I saw another me. And I wouldn't be foolish to let my good looks lure me in myself without knowing me first.

Why? If you don’t mind me asking

Well... since everybody keep claiming it's killer placements.
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Lmaoooo

Do you mind telling me what you like in a woman? How you are when courting? In a relationship?

Also, do you usually open up on a second date?
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Me being a man having both mars and venus in cancer id probably not date myself if I saw another me. And I wouldn't be foolish to let my good looks lure me in myself without knowing me first.

Why? If you don’t mind me asking

Well... since everybody keep claiming it's killer placements.

Lmaoooo

Do you mind telling me what you like in a woman? How you are when courting? In a relationship?

Also, do you usually open up on a second date?
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Courtship I'm shy at first. And I mean VERY shy. Of course I'm not the first to talk so a woman need not look for that to happen. It takes lots and lots of patience and hard work to gain my romantic interest. And no I don't open up that early. I honestly couldn't tell you how long exactly it would take for me to open up on a date. There first has to be trust on both our ends. Too many trust issues this way.

As far as what I like in a woman. Um I might have to come back later to reply to that when I unfog my cloudy brain cells. It's too early in the dawn and right now I can't think clearly just yet.
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Me being a man having both mars and venus in cancer id probably not date myself if I saw another me. And I wouldn't be foolish to let my good looks lure me in myself without knowing me first.

Why? If you don’t mind me asking

Well... since everybody keep claiming it's killer placements.

Lmaoooo

Do you mind telling me what you like in a woman? How you are when courting? In a relationship?

Also, do you usually open up on a second date?

Courtship I'm shy at first. And I mean VERY shy. Of course I'm not the first to talk so a woman need not look for that to happen. It takes lots and lots of patience and hard work to gain my romantic interest. And no I don't open up that early. I honestly couldn't tell you how long exactly it would take for me to open up on a date. There first has to be trust on both our ends. Too many trust issues this way.

As far as what I like in a woman. Um I might have to come back later to reply to that when I unfog my cloudy brain cells. It's too early in the dawn and right now I can't think clearly just yet.
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😄 yeah no problem lol

I recommend coffee ☕️
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Me being a man having both mars and venus in cancer id probably not date myself if I saw another me. And I wouldn't be foolish to let my good looks lure me in myself without knowing me first.

Why? If you don’t mind me asking

Well... since everybody keep claiming it's killer placements.

Lmaoooo

Do you mind telling me what you like in a woman? How you are when courting? In a relationship?

Also, do you usually open up on a second date?

Courtship I'm shy at first. And I mean VERY shy. Of course I'm not the first to talk so a woman need not look for that to happen. It takes lots and lots of patience and hard work to gain my romantic interest. And no I don't open up that early. I honestly couldn't tell you how long exactly it would take for me to open up on a date. There first has to be trust on both our ends. Too many trust issues this way.

As far as what I like in a woman. Um I might have to come back later to reply to that when I unfog my cloudy brain cells. It's too early in the dawn and right now I can't think clearly just yet.

😄 yeah no problem lol

I recommend coffee ☕️
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What I can say is as a cancer venus I like em to be pretty but not one that I'm prettier than. I like one that would give me my space and freedom. Not one that stalks my every mood to check to see if I'm gone cheat. It probably would help if she can cook too in case I get too lazy to cook myself for the two of us. But even still I like to be the one to wear the pants in a relationship. I don't get this "a woman's place is in the kitchen" balony. As an eater I like the kitchen to be MY place.
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Watch out for cancer mars

Wait what do you mean watch out for cancer mars?? Yall are scaring me

Lol not scaring you . Just telling that its not an ideal place for moon. I see some unnecessary mood swings and anger there .

But then everything is fine if it matches with your temperament.
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As a Cancer moon dealing with an Aries moon, I find it fairly easy to deal with. As a Gem, I can roll with the mood swings and stay stable in my emotions. He ends up wearing himself out and I'm still there........shining in the sky.
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Leave us Cancer Mars folk alone. We didn't do anything to anyone! We just want a safe space to hide in.

Pls explain cancer mars folk to me bc idk what to think
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It's a shitty placement I admit that.

I've been dating a Virgo Sun cancer mars man for the past 7 years so I have some insight on that. We mirror each other a lot but it makes things easier I think since we can call each other out on our bullshit. It has helped me understand this placement more.

Things I've noticed that we do... we are passive aggressive. I think that is why we are called the murder mars placement.

The best I can describe it is if you think about a real life crab...what do they do? They like to retreat into their shells and hide. So do we. Our home is our safe place.

Crabs walk sideways.... Cancer mars ppl like to side step around situations. We are masters at it. You will never get a direct answer from us unless we want to give one. We can be vague as shit too.

We don't like to cuddle but we like to cuddle. It's a weird mix. And we can be clingy but it's not as obvious as it is with say a cancer sun. Moon or Venus. Like I said...vague.

We love big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.

We are foodies. Love a good meal. The Virgo and I send food pictures to each other all the time....either random food that looks good...food we are eating at a restaurant....or food we cooked ourselves.

That's all I can think about at the moment.
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Looking at just those placements. If he has intigrated his mars with that cancer energy.. Ya a real go getting.

If you guys get serious be prepared to give him space when he ASKS for it to figure things out and talk things out. Libra and Gemini do well together intellectually. I know a Libra moon with cancer mercury. Listen to the sub speak. Lion mentioned passive aggressive behavior. With that Libra mercury expect more subtle verbal communication about himself and your relationship.
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Me being a man having both mars and venus in cancer id probably not date myself if I saw another me. And I wouldn't be foolish to let my good looks lure me in myself without knowing me first.

Why? If you don’t mind me asking

Well... since everybody keep claiming it's killer placements.

Lmaoooo

Do you mind telling me what you like in a woman? How you are when courting? In a relationship?

Also, do you usually open up on a second date?

Courtship I'm shy at first. And I mean VERY shy. Of course I'm not the first to talk so a woman need not look for that to happen. It takes lots and lots of patience and hard work to gain my romantic interest. And no I don't open up that early. I honestly couldn't tell you how long exactly it would take for me to open up on a date. There first has to be trust on both our ends. Too many trust issues this way.

As far as what I like in a woman. Um I might have to come back later to reply to that when I unfog my cloudy brain cells. It's too early in the dawn and right now I can't think clearly just yet.

😄 yeah no problem lol

I recommend coffee ☕️

What I can say is as a cancer venus I like em to be pretty but not one that I'm prettier than. I like one that would give me my space and freedom. Not one that stalks my every mood to check to see if I'm gone cheat. It probably would help if she can cook too in case I get too lazy to cook myself for the two of us. But even still I like to be the one to wear the pants in a relationship. I don't get this "a woman's place is in the kitchen" balony. As an eater I like the kitchen to be MY place.
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ahh thank you for the insight. He is a gentleman for sure, always respectful and wants a family+kids.
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Leave us Cancer Mars folk alone. We didn't do anything to anyone! We just want a safe space to hide in.

Pls explain cancer mars folk to me bc idk what to think

It's a shitty placement I admit that.

I've been dating a Virgo Sun cancer mars man for the past 7 years so I have some insight on that. We mirror each other a lot but it makes things easier I think since we can call each other out on our bullshit. It has helped me understand this placement more.

Things I've noticed that we do... we are passive aggressive. I think that is why we are called the murder mars placement.

The best I can describe it is if you think about a real life crab...what do they do? They like to retreat into their shells and hide. So do we. Our home is our safe place.

Crabs walk sideways.... Cancer mars ppl like to side step around situations. We are masters at it. You will never get a direct answer from us unless we want to give one. We can be vague as shit too.

We don't like to cuddle but we like to cuddle. It's a weird mix. And we can be clingy but it's not as obvious as it is with say a cancer sun. Moon or Venus. Like I said...vague.

We love big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.

We are foodies. Love a good meal. The Virgo and I send food pictures to each other all the time....either random food that looks good...food we are eating at a restaurant....or food we cooked ourselves.

That's all I can think about at the moment.
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if i like a man, i don't mind it if he is clingy tbh

Also this man has cancer venus and he deff loves physical touch and cuddling. Its adorable.

I also love how open he is with his emotions. A stark contrast to the last virgo i dealt with lmao
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Leave us Cancer Mars folk alone. We didn't do anything to anyone! We just want a safe space to hide in.

Pls explain cancer mars folk to me bc idk what to think

It's a shitty placement I admit that.

I've been dating a Virgo Sun cancer mars man for the past 7 years so I have some insight on that. We mirror each other a lot but it makes things easier I think since we can call each other out on our bullshit. It has helped me understand this placement more.

Things I've noticed that we do... we are passive aggressive. I think that is why we are called the murder mars placement.

The best I can describe it is if you think about a real life crab...what do they do? They like to retreat into their shells and hide. So do we. Our home is our safe place.

Crabs walk sideways.... Cancer mars ppl like to side step around situations. We are masters at it. You will never get a direct answer from us unless we want to give one. We can be vague as shit too.

We don't like to cuddle but we like to cuddle. It's a weird mix. And we can be clingy but it's not as obvious as it is with say a cancer sun. Moon or Venus. Like I said...vague.

We love big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.

We are foodies. Love a good meal. The Virgo and I send food pictures to each other all the time....either random food that looks good...food we are eating at a restaurant....or food we cooked ourselves.

That's all I can think about at the moment.

if i like a man, i don't mind it if he is clingy tbh

Also this man has cancer venus and he deff loves physical touch and cuddling. Its adorable.

I also love how open he is with his emotions. A stark contrast to the last virgo i dealt with lmao
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Cancer venus will def make someone more affectionate.

I enjoy physical touch but not all the time.
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Leave us Cancer Mars folk alone. We didn't do anything to anyone! We just want a safe space to hide in.

Pls explain cancer mars folk to me bc idk what to think

It's a shitty placement I admit that.

I've been dating a Virgo Sun cancer mars man for the past 7 years so I have some insight on that. We mirror each other a lot but it makes things easier I think since we can call each other out on our bullshit. It has helped me understand this placement more.

Things I've noticed that we do... we are passive aggressive. I think that is why we are called the murder mars placement.

The best I can describe it is if you think about a real life crab...what do they do? They like to retreat into their shells and hide. So do we. Our home is our safe place.

Crabs walk sideways.... Cancer mars ppl like to side step around situations. We are masters at it. You will never get a direct answer from us unless we want to give one. We can be vague as shit too.

We don't like to cuddle but we like to cuddle. It's a weird mix. And we can be clingy but it's not as obvious as it is with say a cancer sun. Moon or Venus. Like I said...vague. We love big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.

We are foodies. Love a good meal. The Virgo and I send food pictures to each other all the time....either random food that looks good...food we are eating at a restaurant....or food we cooked ourselves.

That's all I can think about at the moment.
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And teddy bears too. In addition to big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.

That whole cancer venus/ mars thing whichever one it is I can relate to. Good interpretations.
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Leave us Cancer Mars folk alone. We didn't do anything to anyone! We just want a safe space to hide in.

Pls explain cancer mars folk to me bc idk what to think

It's a shitty placement I admit that.

I've been dating a Virgo Sun cancer mars man for the past 7 years so I have some insight on that. We mirror each other a lot but it makes things easier I think since we can call each other out on our bullshit. It has helped me understand this placement more.

Things I've noticed that we do... we are passive aggressive. I think that is why we are called the murder mars placement.

The best I can describe it is if you think about a real life crab...what do they do? They like to retreat into their shells and hide. So do we. Our home is our safe place.

Crabs walk sideways.... Cancer mars ppl like to side step around situations. We are masters at it. You will never get a direct answer from us unless we want to give one. We can be vague as shit too.

We don't like to cuddle but we like to cuddle. It's a weird mix. And we can be clingy but it's not as obvious as it is with say a cancer sun. Moon or Venus. Like I said...vague. We love big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.

We are foodies. Love a good meal. The Virgo and I send food pictures to each other all the time....either random food that looks good...food we are eating at a restaurant....or food we cooked ourselves.

That's all I can think about at the moment.

And teddy bears too. In addition to big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.

That whole cancer venus/ mars thing whichever one it is I can relate to. Good interpretations.
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I saw him on Wednesday it was a good date and we opened up to each other. We decided we’ll see each other on this weekend (tomorrow or Sunday). Now he says he can’t, I kinda feel bummed out. I wanted to see him and he is traveling the entire month of august :/

Looks like this ship may not sail
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Leave us Cancer Mars folk alone. We didn't do anything to anyone! We just want a safe space to hide in.

Pls explain cancer mars folk to me bc idk what to think

It's a shitty placement I admit that.

I've been dating a Virgo Sun cancer mars man for the past 7 years so I have some insight on that. We mirror each other a lot but it makes things easier I think since we can call each other out on our bullshit. It has helped me understand this placement more.

Things I've noticed that we do... we are passive aggressive. I think that is why we are called the murder mars placement.

The best I can describe it is if you think about a real life crab...what do they do? They like to retreat into their shells and hide. So do we. Our home is our safe place.

Crabs walk sideways.... Cancer mars ppl like to side step around situations. We are masters at it. You will never get a direct answer from us unless we want to give one. We can be vague as shit too.

We don't like to cuddle but we like to cuddle. It's a weird mix. And we can be clingy but it's not as obvious as it is with say a cancer sun. Moon or Venus. Like I said...vague. We love big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.

We are foodies. Love a good meal. The Virgo and I send food pictures to each other all the time....either random food that looks good...food we are eating at a restaurant....or food we cooked ourselves.

That's all I can think about at the moment.

And teddy bears too. In addition to big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.

That whole cancer venus/ mars thing whichever one it is I can relate to. Good interpretations.

I saw him on Wednesday it was a good date and we opened up to each other. We decided we’ll see each other on this weekend (tomorrow or Sunday). Now he says he can’t, I kinda feel bummed out. I wanted to see him and he is traveling the entire month of august :/

Looks like this ship may not sail
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Hm maybe another cancer venus and Mars man might come your way I reckon.
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Leave us Cancer Mars folk alone. We didn't do anything to anyone! We just want a safe space to hide in.

Pls explain cancer mars folk to me bc idk what to think

It's a shitty placement I admit that.

I've been dating a Virgo Sun cancer mars man for the past 7 years so I have some insight on that. We mirror each other a lot but it makes things easier I think since we can call each other out on our bullshit. It has helped me understand this placement more.

Things I've noticed that we do... we are passive aggressive. I think that is why we are called the murder mars placement.

The best I can describe it is if you think about a real life crab...what do they do? They like to retreat into their shells and hide. So do we. Our home is our safe place.

Crabs walk sideways.... Cancer mars ppl like to side step around situations. We are masters at it. You will never get a direct answer from us unless we want to give one. We can be vague as shit too.

We don't like to cuddle but we like to cuddle. It's a weird mix. And we can be clingy but it's not as obvious as it is with say a cancer sun. Moon or Venus. Like I said...vague. We love big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.

We are foodies. Love a good meal. The Virgo and I send food pictures to each other all the time....either random food that looks good...food we are eating at a restaurant....or food we cooked ourselves.

That's all I can think about at the moment.

And teddy bears too. In addition to big plushy comfortable things like blankets, beds and pillows.

That whole cancer venus/ mars thing whichever one it is I can relate to. Good interpretations.

I saw him on Wednesday it was a good date and we opened up to each other. We decided we’ll see each other on this weekend (tomorrow or Sunday). Now he says he can’t, I kinda feel bummed out. I wanted to see him and he is traveling the entire month of august :/

Looks like this ship may not sail

Hm maybe another cancer venus and Mars man might come your way I reckon.
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Yeah, im not committed to anyone so i still have my dating apps

We will see