@Stargurl
8 Years
if im being honest, much longer than now.
and If its anything like my cancer
I took him discovering actually losing me for him to do something about it
He's being wierd. I haven't contacted him first since last Friday. He's been texting like every other day to say hi/light convo. Whatev. He can eff off or not. At this point, I'm mirroring his generic actions and letting him contact me only.
Posted by HoneyXx
with a sag. 1 day max.
Lol i dont do them. Omg hell no.
So, I wanted to share this. For the last week, I've been just as aloof w/ this Cancer man as he's been with me. The moment I truly felt like walking away for good (maybe his intuition told him), his aloof behavior stopped. I then started getting texts that seemed to attempt to squeeze any amount of love I still have for him out so he could see, and be reassured. Lol
He's back. Good morning texts are back. He says he's been dreaming of me, needs my hugs and kisses and wants to see me. I'm truly busy preparing for a big event, so it'll have to be next week. But, he's his old self again.
Wanted to share that pro tip. Want the real them to come back? Mirror their aloofness. They seem to hate that shit. They need some reassurance even in their aloof state. Lol
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Left to me, i would go on dates because he hasn’t mentioned exclusivity to me. That’s just me though