How to be patient and not kill a cancer

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Posted by fullwaterpisces
This is a good topic if people could simply focus on anwser the question could be very helpfull for all... I want to know suggestions on this from cancer and from those how has mastered this art of being succesfully patient with lovely crabs

i love them but i hate the but i love them just because i would have to hate myself if i dont... Is part of me



This isn't a real question.
She's the type of person that needs drama and he gives it to her.
When it all blows over she thinks about leaving him.

Like attracting like really.
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Posted by SuperMissMan
Oh no it's a real question. I genuinely want to work it out with him and not end up killing him in the kitchen while cutting the onions. And I don't want to murder my brother either..or my cousin. I love cancers but sometimes I honestly want to kill them, the put the worst buttons



Well at least its onions.
Bad form would be killing said person while cutting the cheese.
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SuperMissMan
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I need to add that back months a go when ibfirst wrote aboutbhim, he was very scared of dating me because he has "trust issues" with girls and he took it really badly and I didn't help by fighting him all the time. But one day I stopped talking to him and he realized how stupid and irrational he was being and he stopped completely, and now months later he's been treating me like a princess, EXCEPT he can't seem to know how to focus on someone elses emotions. He can't cheer me up without putting himself out there, and he's trying, he wrote me a long poem telling me he's sorry and is writing me a song (he never sings) and is singing it to me. He's defiantly an idiot but he's still a sweet loyal cancer. You can't have nearly all 7 important placings in lives and cancer and expect a mean hearted person.
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Adina
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Either you have patience with him, either you don't. I've learned this the hard way. I don't know your background story but what you've told us in your previous post, he may be too scared yet to come out fully to you.
Cancers do require a lot of attention, care and trust and when they need their alone time or whatever, just focus on yourself. Do something you love doing. They're not drifting away, believe me, you'll know if they do. Just be there when they come out of their shell.

There's really such thing as a magical solution. We're so busy analising everything and every move and what's missing and we forget to appreciate what we do have. He wrote you a song, I think that's pretty damn cute if you ask me.