Is this 'Too Much' to do for a Cancer bf? (Page 3)

you do such a good job at ignoring people they don't even realize you're doing it! I mean I totally feel like you read my post. Two thumbs up for your awesome IGNORE skills 🙂

oh good, for a second there I thought there was going to be another fight 🙂

Posted by moon_eyes
O nice cappy dont say hi. interesting very interesting.

hehehehehe ^_^.

I've been waiting for you to say hi to me 🙂


Hey Moony_eyes. There was nothing interesting last night. My freaking laptop went dead on me lol. I couldn't do anything but set there and say, ohhhhh no :/

I have a new adapter. I can't wait to try it out, I hope it works, I need it to work 😢-

Hey All... ok, wow, so this forum turned into a huge thing that, honestly, intimidated the heck out of my little Pisces self.

BUTTTTT... that being said, I did want to give everyone a finale and a follow-up to this story, since we were all bickering and what not about how my Cancer bf would react to me cleaning the house and cooking and stuff.

So here's what happened. I called the contractor on Friday morning to find out when I could pick up the keys. Turns out the place hadn't been finished yet, but they were going to work on it on holiday Monday. I called Monday afternoon and they still weren't finished... which SUCKED - so I had to abandon all plans and go pick him up at the Airport and tell him the bad news.

So instead of all the cooking and cleaning and everything, I bought him a Swiffer starter kit and a box of refills for when the contractor finally finishes his new floors. He thought that was the cutest, most thoughtful gift. He ended up crashing at my place last night and we went out for dinner together. He was super mushy, and the night was SOOOOO romantic. We went swimming instead, and made plans to call in sick to work on Friday to paint his place together.

Awwwwww... he's such a cutie... god, what a keeper. He must have said "I love you" about 400 times last night... swoon - sorry, I'm a totaly Pisces and I've never met a guy who was so unreserved in telling me he loves me and he misses me. It's refreshing... other Cancer boys - don't ever be afraid to be yourself that way!!!

"So instead of all the cooking and cleaning and everything, I bought him a Swiffer starter kit and a box of refills for when the contractor finally finishes his new floors. He thought that was the cutest, most thoughtful gift. He ended up crashing at my place last night and we went out for dinner together. He was super mushy, and the night was SOOOOO romantic. We went swimming instead, and made plans to call in sick to work on Friday to paint his place together."

Doing things together is the sweetest gesture and IMO the most effective way to say to a man I'm genuinely INTO YOU for you which is a high self esteem attitude that makes a man feel a level of deep deep attraction for a woman thus the 400 I love you's, that was my point it seemed you picked up really fast...little things go a long way and have a bigger impact in my opinion.

Doing things together keeps the relationship fresh and balanced for the both of you, I'm glad everything worked out so well, seems like you have a really nice man in your life that has no problem expressing his feelings...if one person gives more of themselves than the other it CREATES tension and pressure and kills attraction, yet if things are balanced it builds attraction and creates a better relationship for the both of you.

LOL

I love this ignore user function

Lmao im sorry but this is the funniest thing ever. Yall could ya saved so much energy and webpages if you just told her to do what felt right and what she (as the only person on this board who truely knows this man in any capacity) thinks is best (and i few of you did). And look at that, that what she ended up doing and it turned out all right. Im happy for you Firefox that this man didnt toss you in the gutter on account of helpfulness.

funny ass thread.

basic question though....if you are putting so much thought and energy into a simple question....why do you have an inner desire to plese so much? seems like a pretty straightforward deal you had going there...except you analyzed it everywhich way to sunday....which really says a hell of a lot more about you and your need for acceptance than anything else.

ps- i loves you at three months do not necessarily sustain for years🙂 but it does sound like he got himself a great little helper to do all the work with him!!