Libra Woman/Cancer Man

Okay,

So, I've been scouring the archives looking at all the Libra/Cancer posts and it doesn't look promising, but I have a Cancer moon and Mars and Venus in Scorpio and I really like this Cancer guy who has Venus in Cancer...(I can post both our charts if necessary)

I just met him and I slept with him on date #2...although I didn't want to. He pretty much seduced me into it until I felt it would be rude and awkward to go...I literally was saying the entire time "I have to go" and he kept kissing me saying, "Okay, let me just kiss you all over your body, first"

Now, as a Libra, I can admit that I had a hard time deciding how much I really wanted to go, and of course I enjoyed it...for the most part...I'm just already confused.

He keeps asking me to come over his house (which is gorgeous, btw) and see him, but I'm thinking, "Um, does he not have a car?" (he told me he does, but I have yet to see it...then again it's only been 2 weeks...)

I just don't know and kinda feel like I'm in over my head already. I feel when I am in his presence he can read me so accurately it's stupid.

I'm thinking of falling back because I really really like who he's presented himself to be thus far...

Any thoughts? Comments? Advice, please?

Mocha

P.S. the only contradiction that he has is: he says he hates texting and wishes it were never invented YET we text all day long (696 texts in 2 weeks!) and he rarely calls...I don't like when ppl who say one thing and do the total opposite, but perhaps, this is too petty to mention? (I haven't said one nagging word to this man about anything at all period). Please advise.

Posted by mochacaremel
Okay,

I just met him and I slept with him on date #2...although I didn't want to.

P.S. ...I don't like when ppl who say one thing and do the total opposite...

I'm not even going to touch on the house and car comments, but generally if you actually like someone - these sorts of things are the last thing (if ever) on your mind.

I wouldn't expect a whole lot of help from this thread (but then again I might be wrong).

What's his chart ?

I have a close female friend with Libra sun/Cancer moon. Many things look to be good with you all watered down but I think your biggest challenge in this is going to be with yourself. Your moon conjuncting his sun is great but your sun squares your own moon. I have quite a few friends whose suns square their moons and it's really difficult for them to find the right relationship because of their own internal war between their head and their heart. They never seem to know what they really want.

The main problem is that this combination seems to produce hyper-social yet hyper-sensitive personality. She attracts suitors by presenting her outgoing, extroverted, fun-loving Libra side and catches them completely off guard when the moody Cancer shows up after the first date.

Cancer and Libra like to jump into bed way too soon and it can be detrimental to the relationship if you're not careful. Cancer is well known to get clingy. While you may get that way yourself (Cancer moon) you may simultaneously be repulsed by it when it happens to you (Libra sun). Cancer may throw you for a loop when the sex becomes regular and will start wanting space and time to himself.

Just have fun. There are so many other placements that can make it work. I know a Virgo and Gemini couple that have been together for 9+ years and they're great together (he has a Gemini moon). You never know!

I really like mochacaremel, I would love to help, but I need lots of information. (I feel a moral obligation to help out such a watery person).

Anyway, my quick and dirty advice:

Nothing funny going on. Do something that you're not 100% sure you want to do and I will sell your favorite shoes on ebay to the lowest bidder.

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Tell him to slow the fuck down.


That's pretty much it.

Ooooo *popcorns* Yeah um why would you sleep with someone on date #2 no offense or anything but that's a bit questionable. You're an air sign you might as well walk away from this one right now and save yourself the trouble.

Okay, me and the Cancer man are back! I'll surely be back for more input/insight...well I really shouldn't say "we're back" but we agreed to meet for coffee at Starbucks to talk things over...if it weren't for him moving so fast to the bedroom, I'd say he's about perfect. I wonder if I can get him to slow down some...?

Mocha

please add the major planet chart......for him and you... I am in a relationship with a libra and im a cancer. Our relationship works because we are open to self improvement and we communicate well. Time will tell... This is my first libra relationship and I like challenges,,, It will get hot and cold at times and fast paced then slow. but thats what I like is that its not routine...Good luck.....

Cancer Gal
Moon -Gemini
Mars-Taurus
Venus-Gemini
Ascendant- Sag.

My Libra
Moon -Cancer
Mars-Libra
Venus-Virgo
Ascendant- Sag

Sun Libra 2.26 Ascendant Aquarius 5.49
Moon Cancer 20.35 II Pisces 24.31
Mercury Virgo 28.31 III Taurus 2.16
Venus Scorpio 14.41 IV Taurus 28.32
Mars Scorpio 4.04 V Gemini 19.38
Jupiter Leo 3.39 VI Cancer 10.16
Saturn Virgo 7.37 VII Leo 5.49
Uranus Scorpio 14.07 VIII Virgo 24.31
Neptune Sagittarius 15.47 IX Scorpio 2.16
Pluto Libra 16.04 Midheaven Scorpio 28.32
Lilith Cancer 28.01 XI Sagittarius 19.38
Asc node Virgo 26.47 XII Capricorn 10.16


Thank you for your post WhataRiot, I am posting my chart above.

mocha

Sun Cancer 6.50
Moon Libra 14.17
Mercury Gemini 14.56
Venus Gemini 3.59
Mars Libra 12.04
Jupiter Scorpio 0.26
Saturn Libra 15.36
Uranus Sagittarius 1.16 R
Neptune Sagittarius 25.22 R
Pluto Libra 24.08 R
Lilith Capricorn 0.51
Asc node Cancer 13.21

This is his chart, time unknown...


mocha

P.S. Good luck to you as well!

Looking at our charts, I think that I am a watery air sign and he is an airy water sign...I hope it works out.

mocha

I'm off to go research Venus in Gemini...all this time I thought he was Venus in Cancer. SMH

I think it could be a good match if you learn to understand each other and make an effort to work on your differences.
May not be easy to do.

I should add that some astrology books call me a "Virgo-Libra" because I am 25th of Sept. So perhaps that will help...

mocha