Libra Woman/Cancer Man...sexually curious.... (Page 3)

I see all the neg. when it comes to Libras and Cancers, but really- there are so many levels to be explored. Trust me, I have the L. Goodman's sun signs and the libra/cancer chapter had a crease in the binding- that's how much I read it.
But nature over nurture and vice versa- I suppose I just want to read the good posts and forget all the warnings. I suppose I balance my Aquarius moon to a Libra man's sun. Throw in some Leo looks and style . and hope that just the postive traits of my native Cancer (which is not ALL that bad-*note we get two thumbs up in Bedroom antics 😉

Libra's can be the biggest asses when crap doesnt go their way (I know). This guy would be like the 5th Libra to get closer than just an aquaintence w. me. I have dated no other sign or been friends (guy/girl) than Libras.

I cant escape.

The attraction with Libra/Cancer is so intense. It is unreal. The ups are so amazing, but the downs of the relationship are awful. I was married to a Capricorn for many many years. Through our ups and downs, I learned so much about myself and what I want in a man. My cancer friend appeared to have so much potential. I realize now that we are not meant to be long term lovers. I care so much about him, but if I allowed myself to get tied up in the whirlwind of it all, I know later on down the line I would just feel neglected. The writing is on the wall. I will always care about him, but I am not willing to change who I am and what I believe for a few moments of AMAZING! However, it still hurts. Just need to get that off of my chest.

Hi everyone, not sure if anyone can help me on this. I'm a 23yo cancer male. I knew a Libra girl but we didn't actually meet up for the first time until the end of Jan. After that I went back to my home country for a month. We keep in touch throughout that time and everything seems to be fine. we went out the 2nd time. By then things get a bit uneasy. I feel like she is quite reserved, we don't have much to talk about compare to the first time. Maybe we're both new to each other or maybe my tense feeling (I'm into her) was making her feeling uncomfortable. Since then, we went out for another 2-3 times. And its all the same we just can't find alot of things to talk about. but when we chat over msn, she seems normal, she laugh, flirt, but when we meet, i can hardly make her laugh at all. throughout the time, we keep in touch through emails and sms. I try to make an effort to call her during weekend so I can get to know her more. But she never pick it up or call back. since last week, she totally didnt reply my emails at all. I'm not sure if she is too busy on work or wat actually happen? and i know it will be darn hard to open her up if theres really a problem. Anyone had any idea how should i go from here?

I think luckystar has a point, however I will add that sometimes it takes a while for cancers and libras to find there nitch. In the beginning things may seem a little off balance. I find it very easy to chat verses speaking on the phone. I have to have a man that is really outgoing and knows what he wants. You can't be to forceful. Just smooth! It also helps if you are confident and funny. She will come around. Whatever you do don't act desperate. Let us know what happens!

thanks luckystar and SMN for your advice. Ya i guess what i really can do now is wait and see. I mean I dont want to appear like a stalker or something. But my plan is that if she dont reply me at the end of the week, I'm thinking of doing this for the last time telling her like 'i like to know what actually happened, i hope you can tell me when you're ready.." things like that. and then thats probably the most i can do i suppose. But still i like to think what you guys have to say..

ok so, im a libra girl, interested in a cancer man...so theres no hope? looking for cancer man help lol !!!

gosh i have no idea... i am sept 27, he is july 21st. to be honest i think i know in my heart there really is no hope here, but if anyone has a success story of libra lady cancer man, i'd like to hear it, i think reading all these stories, i lost hope before i even started.

thanks for your post....his birth year is 1975 and mine is 1966... ive been readin up on cancers and it seems there always questions on how to "know" if a cancer man likes you.... ? are there any real signs besides words? we are doing some business together so need to spend lotsa time together, the one thing i can not get out of my mind, is the way this guy looks at me... every time we talk he stares me dead in the eye and will not look away.. his eyes are all twinkly and bright and if we speak 10 times in a day, he always comes very close and looks at me that way.... i wind up having to look away, because my feelings just fill me up... but he never looks away.... i think there is something vbehind the looks ? am i loosimg it completely, thinking theres something beind the "eyes" ?

this has got to be the longest running post...
Libraladie: have you looked at this guys moon sign as well and how that matches with yours? His Mars sign and Venus signs as well?? I am Cancer Sun/Aqua Moon/Leo Asc.
I have read some of this post...but geez, water signs are very intuitive people- (**Dreamxcite- note- we are also very private people that like to do things in our own time...we dont mind being chased-if we really dig the person that is chasing us...and even then I think sometimes we like to decide whether its a go or not).

im sorry i dont get to my computer except 3x a week...no i havent looked at any signs or how it matches? i dont know how even? so thanks for the insult .. about being intuitive. was just trying to get outside opinions, since i see on the message boards cancers are so hard to read. so forget it.

omg lucky star .. thank you you are very kind.....and yes it does help. i do not know the exact times we were born but i will try to find out....and you are right the attraction is HUGE ! almost unbearable.. i literally have to keep my hands in my pocket otherwise i think i would just throw my arms around him and never let go.... hes coveyed to me that he is having a terrible time w/his GF... just last week they broke up and he said he was gonna give her another chance 😢 lol Since cancers are so loyal, would it be disrepectful for me to let him know how i was feeling ? i dont want to "disgust" him or have him think i take it lightly...thanks again for any help 😉

U have known each other for years and didn't do anything? Damn

uh, ya- whatever Lib.ldy. a little sensitive are we? chill- you read the cliff notes and not the whole book...water signs are intuitive and that remark was directed at something previous you wrote...I suppose I could balance the scales a bit and throw in some Libra b.s. to you...ah, forget it.

yet another libra!
I find this thread really interesting. I am entering into a relationshaip for a cancer man, first ever relationship!

lol....Libra/cancer friendship or relationship wish I could just say the hell with it all! What is the big attraction. Are we all just crazy or what? I wish you all the best of luck...it's going to definitely be a roller coaster ride.

Hi, I'm a Cancer man dating a Libra woman, the most difficult thing is knowing that the she is really interested in me, as she doesn't contact me much, we live in different countries for the moment. Do Libra women really feel strongly for their man even if they don't contact them often? (I'm referring to the occasional e-mail or SMS like once or twice a fortnight).

Her Venus sign is in Virgo, her Moon sign, if I'm correct, Capricorn, I hope that helps.

If I had to base it on the only relationships I've known with a libra female (my sister) - she doesn't get along with any of the cancers I/she have in our lives:

Our Oldest Sister - They only love eachother because their sisters
My 1st cancer boyfriend - They argued all the day-yum time
My 2nd cancer boyfriend - They argued and then drank to their problems
My 1st cancer son - They argue about who's food is whos
My 2nd cancer son - They argue about everything

So you see - can cancer/libra's really get along in my view? NAH!

Thanks Luckystar.
My Venus sign is in Leo, my Moon sign is also Leo. My Rising sign is Sagittarius, as to her Rising sign, I don't know as I don't know yet her time of birth.

I'm new on this website. I'm a Libra girl who so happens to like a Cancer guy. Usually the zodiac says that a Libra's soul mate should either be an Aquarius, Virgo, or Gemini, in which I think is so untrue. I've just been interested in Taureans,Pisceans, Sagittarians, and other Libras. This is a first for me of liking a Cancer guy. It's just that he's so sweet, concerning, good looking, makes me laugh all the time, and knows how to end and start conversations really well. He is the most respectful guy I've ever ran into in my entire life besides my father!!! Hopefully me and him can get to hook up someday sometime soon!!!

I've joined this board solely to contribute to this thread! It's been a long one.
I'm a Libra girl who likes (really likes) a Cancer boy and, having looked at our charts, I think we're pretty compatible. He's got quite a lot of Gemini in his chart and I have Scorpio rising.
BUT. There's a whole lot else that comes into it unrelated to astrology. Of course it helps if you've got compatible charts but make sure you've also got common interests! If you like the same stuff, respect (and fancy) each other, then even the most incomatible signs can have a relationship. I think it is true that signs in the same element group (fire, water etc) have a smoother ride because they gel easier but relationships are possible between any zodiac combination. Have faith!
Good luck to all Libra/Cancer couples on this board!

I am seeing a cancer man now. It's still in the "new" phase b/c I just met him 3 days ago, and since then he has been telling me how much he likes me and cant stop thinking about me. I have NOT had a problem with this man telling me what he wants and makes sure I know that he is VERY interested by every sense. He is moving WAY to fast for me is the problem. He is wanting me to spend a few days with him, and even went out of his way getting another ticket to his work Christmas dinner!!! I am shocked at how fast he is moving, but I am AH when he looks at me, I find myself getting lost in those dreamy eyes of his, and the way he has made me feel so special, but I am afraid to move as fast as he is. He is going through a divorce and it will be final JAN 1st. His ex a Taur cheated on him after being married 8 years to her and they have a 1 yr old son together. He tells me that he did the whole ego boost with women after that and had his own woman in mind but thought she wasn't out there till I came along, and he said he isn't going to do anything to mess it up. Is it because I am a challenge to him? Could all these romantic things he is doing be true? Are they really this out spoken? Someone please give me some advice I so need it and fast!

like this forum.., but the only posts I see about "Libra woman & Cancer Men" are from 2008.
Am I missing something here.., or..?.🙂

Will someone please tell me if a Cancer guy doesn't like you why would he spend all those amazing' nights with you and after lots of big fights still want to be friends—
Its ridiculous how he still wants to be friends after all that has happend. I like him a lot but he doesn't, we sleep around have a fall out and he wants to be friends forever...B***S*** !!!
Will cancer guys please help me decide if i should be frnds with him or NOT—
cuz i have told him several times i cannot be frnds with him.....

frustrated with this Cancer guy! We met strangely enough on Facebook and were introduced through a friend of a friend. I was looking for a room to rent and he had one to offer. From the beginning I had the impression he was very interested in me (more than becoming his roommate) as he pursued me endlessly with messages. We joked back n forth lightheartedly and he asked me out on several occasions which I couldn't make. We made arrangements to meet so I could see his place and he literally took care of me as I got lost on the subway and completely turned around several times. It was embarrassing but we both laughed about it.
In the end I decided not to take his place as it was further out of the city than I wanted to be which I explained to him. We continued to message and joke and flirt more and when he invited me over to cuddle and watch a movie I jumped right in. I was attracted to him and felt very comfortable with him. I was a little nervous he would want to have sex with me which I didn't want to do so I asked him if that was his intention and he said no.
When I arrived he had candle's lit, the couch ready as well as some blanket's to keep us warm as we cuddled. It was such a wonderful feeling being held in his arms and when he started to touch me all over it took everything in my power to resist him. I felt consumed by him, his touches and kisses. It was intense. After a while I said no but he continued and I just couldn't resist. We ended up having sex and he asked me to sleep over. I didn't but now regret it. I let him know when I got home and the following day we messaged a little. Then he didn't talk to me for 4 days.
I initiated the conversation which I've been doing for a month now and it sucks. He's completely changed and went from funny, romantic to moody and brooding.
It took two weeks of rarely speaking to discover he had seriously injured his back which explained the moodiness and his innuendoes that his life was over. Now when ever we do speak he only talks about sex and again I'm doing all the initiating. I've tried to meet up with him a few times making suggestions to do things, get to know one another better but he either doesn't directly respond or isn't interested.
It's only been a little over a month and I just don't understand if he's interested or not. If it is just sex why not invite me over instead of just sexting?

My boyfriend is Cancer and I am a Libra, we have been together for 6 months now, based on my experience Cancers need reassurance that you are interested in them but like any other guy they also like the chase at the beginning, they like a challenge and at least mine commented on how much he liked that I made him wait for over 2 months to have sex with me, and this is not only because he is a Cancer, he is a guy after all!!! If you are interested in a serious relationship with any guy and you are both dating, having sex with him too soon tells him that you would do that with any other guy...

How do you fix this?? Stop having sex with him, stop any sexual conversation or sexting, if he is not asking you out for dinner, icecream, movies, etc hi is only interested in sex and you should not allow this. Be nice, be sweet, be funny but , be engaging but also do not allow the relationship to move int FWB territory, once you are on the "only for fun" category, you rarely move to "serious girlfriend" Be smart!!

My ex wife is a Libra. The sex was OK at best. Lacked passion and seemed to be more as a way of just releasing stews as time went by.
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Wtb an edit button phone auto correct ftl stews=stress

Btw libras are one of the worst signs for long term relationships for us crabs

I have never gotten along with Libras, they rub me the wrong way. If you want to preserve your friendship, don't have sex with him!

Posted by Bollyhips
Hey you Cancer men,

Libra females are the unsung heroines for you. You guys shy away too fast. If you give us a chance, you will never go back.

I'm Cancer man with Libra moon and with the tons of Libra women I've known and the few I have been with intimately, I must say I think there are better and more captivating matches for cancer man. But to each his own..

New to this board. Just read all of the posts. I am wow'd by the posts as I thought I was the only Libra woman not understanding her Cancer man. In a relationship (I think...LOL) with a Cancer man. In the beginning he came on fast and strong. Wanted to spend every free minute together, talking, texting, holding hands, intimacy, everything!!! I was swept off my feet and in total awe. It was perfect!!! He expressed his love to me within a week. Five weeks in, we had a disagreement that I didn't really give a second thought about. Mr Cancer, on the other hand, got all bent out of shape and withdrew from me. I asked what was wrong and asked him to talk to me about it. He said nothing was wrong. Being a Libra, and needing communication, I persisted. This was of no help. So, more little arguments ensued because the initial argument was never handled and he further withdrew.
I kept wanting to talk...to no avail. He would tell me to talk, that he was listening, but would not talk back and share his feelings. This went on for about a week. We continued to see each other but intimacy, texting and phone calls became much less on his part. In public he acted as though nothing was wrong, but when we were alone he would ignore me.
I persisted that he talk to me which resulted in him having a fit of intense anger and throwing something. He then yelled and cursed at me. I offered to leave but he said he didn't tell me I had to leave. I was so confused!!!
Since then, communication has slowed to a crawl, he will not see me, but sends little inconsequential texts from time to time. Each time we have talked on the phone it seems to start well but ends up with him hanging up on me because he gets mad. I do not yell or curse at him, may raise my voice occasionally. He questions me about everything. He does not own his part in the arguments. He says he doesn't like to argue but does nothing to fix the arguments and starts new ones.
I've asked him several times if he wants to end the relationship. All he says is " I didn't say that". Now he wants to take it slow. But there is extremely limited communication. I haven't seen him for three weeks.
This is very disheartening. I feel lost. I care for him a lot but do not have a clue how to handle him. I am feeling rejection and feel punished. Yesterday I asked if he just wants to be friends. He said I wouldn't be his friend. Why would he pull this far back and want to continue to be in a "relationship" if we have no communica

Yep. Be friends and cuddle. That's all there is.

Definitely has potential but then something happens there's like a block, or somewhere this match gets stuck. Speaking on the Libra male/ Cancer female of course but either way Cancer men/women are very similar.