man, oh man...this cancer of mine (Page 2)

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ariesheart
@ariesheart
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Posted by BlackMamba
You've figured us out. Congratulations. We just seek security and if you're there...we'll eventually trust you enough to let go of the "odd" patterns of disappearing, reappearing, questioning, suspicion.
Wow, thank you. It's been a struggle but I wanted him! I'll do whatever is needed to keep him. Now in return, I couldn't ask for more! He's my favorite guy and I'm his favorite gal.
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ariesheart
@ariesheart
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Posted by kinner_bear
well ariesheart, because of you are aries like i am, i will follow your advice so i can work things out with my cancer guy. thanks
Thank you. I hoped I helped as much as I can. I didn't hear from my cancer yesterday. I texted him this morning telling him my stomach hurts, he's leaving work now, even when I told him not to! Such a sweetie. It helps to give space when needed
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ariesheart
@ariesheart
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Posted by MissGemmi
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Posted by ariesheart
He brought me a rose and Pepto!!! Hilarious and adorable!
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Like I said, when I dont bother him, and he comes without hearing, WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN, he does the most. Always there when needed
Wonderful!!! But don't you feel like you have to 'manipulate' the situation and keep yourself on a string all the time to get this behavior? It works best for people who don't notice these facts. Like it comes off naturally to them not to ask where he's been. If it's not part of your personality to not question someone's absence (because you simply miss this person a lot), then you may get annoyed after a while. I want to be able to express how I feel passionately, but sometimes this comes off as too much for a Cancer, like I expect all these things back, I don't. Funny thing is that I heard a cancer once said, I don't like it if people all overly nice to me or hung up on me, because I feel like I need to give it back, while I can't or don't feel like doing so.

By the way, this is a general statement, not to ariesheart in particular. You sound happy and he seems like a very cute and nice guy. Enjoy it!!!

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Good sight! But not at all!!!! Once you stop questioning, they'll tell you eeeevvvveeerrrryyy ttthhhiiinnnggg!!!!!! He told me what he did yesterday. Told me he had a good day. It's all about security and trusting you with who they are, what they like to do during their leisure time, who they're closest friends are, family issues. When we're together, I can't get him to shut up lol.
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ariesheart
@ariesheart
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"Funny thing is that I heard a cancer once said, I don't like it if people all overly nice to me or hung up on me, because I feel like I need to give it back, while I can't or don't feel like doing so."

Although I'm an Aries, I'm an introvert and feel the same way. The fact that my cancer and I both feel that way makes it easier to shower each other with so much affection. Weird right. That's why I say it's not always about the signs, but who an individual really is