Because it's super early on? Play it cool. Settle.
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Don't play it cool, but do get to know her and don't expect her to jump into bed with you that fast. The backing off is usually a Cancer way of taking stock of how we feel about something. Security is huge for most of us, so she will want to know you're trustworthy and worth getting her emotions tangled up with you, first. Once you do get that far, POW!!....fireworks!
Posted by MoonArtist
Don't play it cool, but do get to know her and don't expect her to jump into bed with you that fast. The backing off is usually a Cancer way of taking stock of how we feel about something. Security is huge for most of us, so she will want to know you're trustworthy and worth getting her emotions tangled up with you, first. Once you do get that far, POW!!....fireworks!
TRUE!!!
I like the Scorpio man/Cancer woman pairing.They make you feel safe and that its alright to love them.
Are cancers bad texters overall?
fearless indeed....
Posted by crabRiotPosted by MoonArtist
Don't play it cool, but do get to know her and don't expect her to jump into bed with you that fast. The backing off is usually a Cancer way of taking stock of how we feel about something. Security is huge for most of us, so she will want to know you're trustworthy and worth getting her emotions tangled up with you, first. Once you do get that far, POW!!....fireworks!
TRUE!!!click to expand
That is the key, by the way, even if she is into her studies... believe me... she could text you back, but us Cancerians are pretty cautious.
Posted by StarChild63
Are cancers bad texters overall?
Depends. Usually I have no problem texting back and forth, but I have to be not too busy, and it has to be someone I'm close to. Everyone else either gets ignored or gets a delayed response.
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by StarChild63
Are cancers bad texters overall?
Depends. Usually I have no problem texting back and forth, but I have to be not too busy, and it has to be someone I'm close to. Everyone else either gets ignored or gets a delayed response.click to expand
To add...if you're someone who needs your ego stroked non stop by having attention constantly, then don't bother a cancer unless you have a very close connection with one. We don't kiss ass like that.
She texted me today. I am going to do what moonartist said and slowly show her that I can bring her the security she needs.
She told me she has a bit of a sore throat so I asked her if I could bring something for her. I said I wish I could comfort her somehow. She said no but she appreciated it.
It's funny that she is so short over text but in person she never stops talking. She talks a lot about unimportant things I think because she is nervous, especially when I get really close to her and smell her hair. I just love kissing those cheeks and lips. I definitely want her as my girlfriend. I feel so comfortable around her and completely trust her. My jealousy is never triggered. Hopefully she can sleep over soon and make me breakfast in the morning.
"The backing off is usually a Cancer way of taking stock of how we feel about something."
Why is cancer so cautious then? I think I made her really comfortable besides grabbing her gently and picking her up. I also always checked if she was okay. Do you want some more water? Can I get you anything? Stuff like that.
She told me she has a bit of a sore throat so I asked her if I could bring something for her. I said I wish I could comfort her somehow. She said no but she appreciated it.
It's funny that she is so short over text but in person she never stops talking. She talks a lot about unimportant things I think because she is nervous, especially when I get really close to her and smell her hair. I just love kissing those cheeks and lips. I definitely want her as my girlfriend. I feel so comfortable around her and completely trust her. My jealousy is never triggered. Hopefully she can sleep over soon and make me breakfast in the morning.
"The backing off is usually a Cancer way of taking stock of how we feel about something."
Why is cancer so cautious then? I think I made her really comfortable besides grabbing her gently and picking her up. I also always checked if she was okay. Do you want some more water? Can I get you anything? Stuff like that.
Awwww Scorpi is In luvvvvvvv lol
We're cautious because we don't want to get hurt.
We love hard and unfortunately we feel the same intense pain when we are hurt..So we gotta be cautious mannnnn.
We are also dedicated and loyal to our boos
You gotta earn that type of commitment..We won't just hand it to you like that..
You gotz work to do buddy!
We're cautious because we don't want to get hurt.
We love hard and unfortunately we feel the same intense pain when we are hurt..So we gotta be cautious mannnnn.
We are also dedicated and loyal to our boos
You gotta earn that type of commitment..We won't just hand it to you like that..
You gotz work to do buddy!
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by MoonArtistPosted by StarChild63
Are cancers bad texters overall?
Depends. Usually I have no problem texting back and forth, but I have to be not too busy, and it has to be someone I'm close to. Everyone else either gets ignored or gets a delayed response.
To add...if you're someone who needs your ego stroked non stop by having attention constantly, then don't bother a cancer unless you have a very close connection with one. We don't kiss ass like that.click to expand
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by MoonArtistPosted by StarChild63
Are cancers bad texters overall?
Depends. Usually I have no problem texting back and forth, but I have to be not too busy, and it has to be someone I'm close to. Everyone else either gets ignored or gets a delayed response.
To add...if you're someone who needs your ego stroked non stop by having attention constantly, then don't bother a cancer unless you have a very close connection with one. We don't kiss ass like that.click to expand
Your right on the money. Yes I've come to learn this. Being friends for so long with my cancer taught me how to just be myself without the ego. For some reason I only get that way with her. I try to do better but she brings out that side of me
Fearlessscorp I feel the love
Posted by FearlessScorpio
She texted me today. I am going to do what moonartist said and slowly show her that I can bring her the security she needs.
She told me she has a bit of a sore throat so I asked her if I could bring something for her. I said I wish I could comfort her somehow. She said no but she appreciated it.
It's funny that she is so short over text but in person she never stops talking. She talks a lot about unimportant things I think because she is nervous, especially when I get really close to her and smell her hair. I just love kissing those cheeks and lips. I definitely want her as my girlfriend. I feel so comfortable around her and completely trust her. My jealousy is never triggered. Hopefully she can sleep over soon and make me breakfast in the morning.
"The backing off is usually a Cancer way of taking stock of how we feel about something."
Why is cancer so cautious then? I think I made her really comfortable besides grabbing her gently and picking her up. I also always checked if she was okay. Do you want some more water? Can I get you anything? Stuff like that.
You're a scorpio, so tap into that shared water energy and you'll instinctively know what to do for her. Similarities of water signs: we feel everything intensely, we love loyalty, we are highly intuitive, we are passionate, we have a deep interest in deep matters, we are protective, we are moody. How the 3 different water signs deals with these similarities is where the differences lie.
Cancers are cautious because we love with all we have....and we get intensely and equally hurt. We can also hate with all we have, so betrayal is always a bad thing. We are all or nothing people. Myself, I'm picky about who gets into the inner circle, who gets my heart, because what I give is exactly what I expect to receive. I play for keeps. I want heart, mind and soul. Security, trust, knowing your partner is there for you for the good and the ugly, the fun and the not so fun, that's what we want, and that's what we give. We know exactly what it's worth, and we don't give it away cheap.
Posted by Arielle83
Cancer woman and scorp man is the only relationship I've ever really considered long term. I love how scorpio courts a cancer.
It's pure magic, in my opinion.
Yeah, you gotta let that connection build over time...TIME being the key word here 😉 It's about the quality of your connection over time. For me, it takes months before I even want to go beyond kissing and the more pressure I feel from a guy the more I want to run away, and often do).
I am going on a date with her tonight.
I have to get a carwash quickly. I made reservations for a Cuban and Japanese steakhouse so we can pick together. I think she prefers Cuban since she is Cuban. But my goal is to first go to my apartment and hopefully never leave. I am going to try to keep kissing her and more until she says I'm hungry.
Any tips or nuggets of wisdom for tonight? I also wrote her a little Valentine's card. I know it's late but I want to give her the card. It's not too heavy but also very nice and genuine. I can't wait to see her. Off to the carwash now.
I have to get a carwash quickly. I made reservations for a Cuban and Japanese steakhouse so we can pick together. I think she prefers Cuban since she is Cuban. But my goal is to first go to my apartment and hopefully never leave. I am going to try to keep kissing her and more until she says I'm hungry.
Any tips or nuggets of wisdom for tonight? I also wrote her a little Valentine's card. I know it's late but I want to give her the card. It's not too heavy but also very nice and genuine. I can't wait to see her. Off to the carwash now.
Sounds to me like you're too eager to fuck her. You all had a first date, the second date technically never happened (you made an attempt to have sex), and now you're hoping the 3rd date doesn't happen so you can have sex with her. You really need to follow through on your dates or else she will notice, and think the same thing I'm thinking now, that you just want to have sex. Wait for her to give you a sign that she is ready to, and not force her into positions to make her feel uncomfortable.
Yep, I'm agreeing with CancerrifiC.....you're too antsy for the sex. Why not have the date and then spend that time actually talking to her and figuring out what you both like? If you think she's not reading you like a book, you're horribly mistaken. We usually don't let on that we're doing it, but we are.
Posted by MoonArtist
Yep, I'm agreeing with CancerrifiC.....you're too antsy for the sex. Why not have the date and then spend that time actually talking to her and figuring out what you both like? If you think she's not reading you like a book, you're horribly mistaken. We usually don't let on that we're doing it, but we are.
+1
Posted by deathnirvana
It's all about the sex. Let us know how it all went after you bang her !
Lol, I couldn't help it.
Ha. ha. It's all about sex until she gets him to hand his heart over on a silver platter. Just wait and see. ~starts voodoo hex to send a Cancer girl to Death~
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by deathnirvana
It's all about the sex. Let us know how it all went after you bang her !
Lol, I couldn't help it.
Ha. ha. It's all about sex until she gets him to hand his heart over on a silver platter. Just wait and see. ~starts voodoo hex to send a Cancer girl to Death~click to expand
Cancer's signature move!!!
Posted by fullwaterpiscesPosted by MoonArtistPosted by deathnirvana
It's all about the sex. Let us know how it all went after you bang her !
Lol, I couldn't help it.
Ha. ha. It's all about sex until she gets him to hand his heart over on a silver platter. Just wait and see. ~starts voodoo hex to send a Cancer girl to Death~
Cancer's signature move!!!click to expand
hehehehe, yep! I'm curious to find out if he gets hooked and tries to run, or if he is a happy and willing victim in the end.
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by deathnirvana
It's all about the sex. Let us know how it all went after you bang her !
Lol, I couldn't help it.
Ha. ha. It's all about sex until she gets him to hand his heart over on a silver platter. Just wait and see. ~starts voodoo hex to send a Cancer girl to Death~click to expand
LOL Yep!^^^^he thinks he's hooked now....wait until he gets it.
Posted by CancerrifiCPosted by MoonArtistPosted by deathnirvana
It's all about the sex. Let us know how it all went after you bang her !
Lol, I couldn't help it.
Ha. ha. It's all about sex until she gets him to hand his heart over on a silver platter. Just wait and see. ~starts voodoo hex to send a Cancer girl to Death~
LOL Yep!^^^^he thinks he's hooked now....wait until he gets it.click to expand
Drowning....by happiness. So much salty, wet bliss!
Posted by MoonArtist
Yep, I'm agreeing with CancerrifiC.....you're too antsy for the sex. Why not have the date and then spend that time actually talking to her and figuring out what you both like? If you think she's not reading you like a book, you're horribly mistaken. We usually don't let on that we're doing it, but we are.
I did listen to you and CancerrifiC. I picked her up and she asked "what are we doing to do?" I told her I reserved two spots at the Japanese and Cuban place, but she says she has Cuban all the time so let's do Japanese. Instead of taking the lead and telling her let's go to my apartment first, I asked her if she was hungry and she said she wanted to go eat now (she is smart because she knows I am going to try to confuse her and turn her on with my touch). So anyway, I remember the dxp advice and I agreed. We drove there and had a nice dinner. We talked a bit and lots of eye contact. It was nice. Shared some food etc. The waiter's English was bad and I had to repeat myself. I started to get a bit irritated at him. Later I said "so do I have the good fortune of watching a movie with you in a bit? I promise I won't touch you. The night is still young." She said no I need to go back and study. I smiled at her and while I was a bit dismayed, it did not affect my feelings for her.
Now this waiter came back and he asked if we had anything planned for the night. I said "I would love to but my lady needs to go back and do some work. She has exams next week" I said with a grin. "Ooooo but still early!" the waiter said. I now loved this guy and tipped him 20% .
So anyway, we drove back but we got into such a nice conversation that we agreed on just driving around a bit and talking. We got to know each other really well in my car. It was good. I asked her what she looks for in a man. She says good conversation, someone who makes her laugh, and someone who can protect her because she is very short. I also noticed that she is sometimes uncomfortable with silences, which I am perfectly fine with. I don't know why but I told her that silences are not bad. Sometimes you can say more with less. Of course, I loved the red lights and traffic halts, because I would give her little pecks on the cheek and lips, but I was not victorious tonight. I can't wait to have this woman!!
I am going to hit my punching bag and watch a movie and sleep. Good night.
Posted by deathnirvana
It's all about the sex. Let us know how it all went after you bang her !
Lol, I couldn't help it.
She is not an easy woman. lol
Posted by CancerrifiCPosted by MoonArtistPosted by deathnirvana
It's all about the sex. Let us know how it all went after you bang her !
Lol, I couldn't help it.
Ha. ha. It's all about sex until she gets him to hand his heart over on a silver platter. Just wait and see. ~starts voodoo hex to send a Cancer girl to Death~
LOL Yep!^^^^he thinks he's hooked now....wait until he gets it.click to expand
Once I get it she is going to be the one hooked I guarantee it. I will be the one in control
She just texted me "I had a great time tonight." Very sweet of her.
Posted by FearlessScorpioPosted by CancerrifiCPosted by MoonArtistPosted by deathnirvana
It's all about the sex. Let us know how it all went after you bang her !
Lol, I couldn't help it.
Ha. ha. It's all about sex until she gets him to hand his heart over on a silver platter. Just wait and see. ~starts voodoo hex to send a Cancer girl to Death~
LOL Yep!^^^^he thinks he's hooked now....wait until he gets it.
Once I get it she is going to be the one hooked I guarantee it. I will be the one in controlclick to expand
Mmmhmmm....but that's a two-way street.
Did she ask what you look for in a woman?
Posted by MoonArtist
Did she ask what you look for in a woman?
No she did not, but I told her she is the exact woman I'm looking for and that I'm very selective. I think she isn't too worried about whether or not I like her.
Unrelated, but she does tend to fill in silences with little nervous ticks and filler. I don't understand why she can't just enjoy the present moment without feeling the need to talk.
Posted by FearlessScorpioPosted by MoonArtist
Did she ask what you look for in a woman?
No she did not, but I told her she is the exact woman I'm looking for and that I'm very selective. I think she isn't too worried about whether or not I like her.
Unrelated, but she does tend to fill in silences with little nervous ticks and filler. I don't understand why she can't just enjoy the present moment without feeling the need to talk.click to expand
Interesting.
It depends on what placements she has in her chart, her maturity, and her age, etc. Some people just aren't comfortable with silences, but they're usually the ones who aren't comfortable being alone. I personally love some alone time.
Posted by FearlessScorpio
Unrelated, but she does tend to fill in silences with little nervous ticks and filler. I don't understand why she can't just enjoy the present moment without feeling the need to talk.
In the silence is where all the non verbal vibes, sexual tension and attraction is the strongest and hardest to resist. She was not going there with you tonight so she probably was trying to ward of your feelers by keeping things on this plane via conversation and a way of maintaining some control and not giving in.
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by FearlessScorpioPosted by MoonArtist
Did she ask what you look for in a woman?
No she did not, but I told her she is the exact woman I'm looking for and that I'm very selective. I think she isn't too worried about whether or not I like her.
Unrelated, but she does tend to fill in silences with little nervous ticks and filler. I don't understand why she can't just enjoy the present moment without feeling the need to talk.
Interesting.
It depends on what placements she has in her chart, her maturity, and her age, etc. Some people just aren't comfortable with silences, but they're usually the ones who aren't comfortable being alone. I personally love some alone time.click to expand
Mercury in gemini... I like her conversations though. She definitely prefers talking over listening, so I just let her talk her head off while I sit there smiling at her beautiful face. Sometimes I like interrupting her by kissing her face or her lips. All of a sudden she gets quiet when I do that.
lol lol 😄😄
Posted by FearlessScorpioPosted by MoonArtistPosted by FearlessScorpioPosted by MoonArtist
Did she ask what you look for in a woman?
No she did not, but I told her she is the exact woman I'm looking for and that I'm very selective. I think she isn't too worried about whether or not I like her.
Unrelated, but she does tend to fill in silences with little nervous ticks and filler. I don't understand why she can't just enjoy the present moment without feeling the need to talk.
Interesting.
It depends on what placements she has in her chart, her maturity, and her age, etc. Some people just aren't comfortable with silences, but they're usually the ones who aren't comfortable being alone. I personally love some alone time.
Mercury in gemini... I like her conversations though. She definitely prefers talking over listening, so I just let her talk her head off while I sit there smiling at her beautiful face. Sometimes I like interrupting her by kissing her face or her lips. All of a sudden she gets quiet when I do that.
lol lol 😄😄click to expand
As soon as she figures out that game (and she might have, already), she's going to turn the tables on you. You won't know it, though, and you will definitely like it. BWAHAHAHAHA! Ok, I'm done with the maniacal laughter.
I haven't seen her yet. I texted and called a couple of time because I wanted to be persistent but not overbearing. She said let's go see Kingsman and of course I wanted to but something came up and I had to cancel. I cancelled 6 days in advance so I did not flake. She went quiet so I texted her name "Eady". Nothing else.
She responded and said she had to go back home. I told her I was an unlucky man but that I would be patient for her of course. I told her that I listened to some music she recommended. Some texting back and forth and I was being polite but also direct about seeing her again. She said she was busy again. I realized that in the past I would always check in to see how her aunt was doing because she has cancer (disease not the sign) and Eady visits her a lot. But I have a lot going on in my own life and although I was polite I forgot to check in and ask her how she was. Instead I was focused on seeing her. Maybe this affected her??
Everything is good but I sent her 9 texts since Thursday of last week and no response. There's this pisces girl in class who likes to sit next to me and she has been talking to me a lot. She is very pretty, but since I'm talking to Eady I haven't done anything and kept it platonic. Should I move on? Why do you Cancers go radio silent? Just tell me "stop texting me I'm not interested." I would appreciate that more.
She responded and said she had to go back home. I told her I was an unlucky man but that I would be patient for her of course. I told her that I listened to some music she recommended. Some texting back and forth and I was being polite but also direct about seeing her again. She said she was busy again. I realized that in the past I would always check in to see how her aunt was doing because she has cancer (disease not the sign) and Eady visits her a lot. But I have a lot going on in my own life and although I was polite I forgot to check in and ask her how she was. Instead I was focused on seeing her. Maybe this affected her??
Everything is good but I sent her 9 texts since Thursday of last week and no response. There's this pisces girl in class who likes to sit next to me and she has been talking to me a lot. She is very pretty, but since I'm talking to Eady I haven't done anything and kept it platonic. Should I move on? Why do you Cancers go radio silent? Just tell me "stop texting me I'm not interested." I would appreciate that more.
If we go silent without an obvious reason, like being upset with you, it usually means we're super stressed about something.
Honestly, if I were to put myself in her shoes, I would think you had an agenda. Making out with her so soon was a bad move and put you on the "watch list" as in watch out for this one's intentions...Maybe she will come around again if she likes you, if not there's always Pisces :p
Why not call? Texting all the time makes you look lazy and insincere.
The texting nine times and no response isn't good.
The texting nine times and no response isn't good.
Posted by FearlessScorpio
I haven't seen her yet. I texted and called a couple of time because I wanted to be persistent but not overbearing. She said let's go see Kingsman and of course I wanted to but something came up and I had to cancel. I cancelled 6 days in advance so I did not flake. She went quiet so I texted her name "Eady". Nothing else.
She responded and said she had to go back home. I told her I was an unlucky man but that I would be patient for her of course. I told her that I listened to some music she recommended. Some texting back and forth and I was being polite but also direct about seeing her again. She said she was busy again. I realized that in the past I would always check in to see how her aunt was doing because she has cancer (disease not the sign) and Eady visits her a lot. But I have a lot going on in my own life and although I was polite I forgot to check in and ask her how she was. Instead I was focused on seeing her. Maybe this affected her??
Everything is good but I sent her 9 texts since Thursday of last week and no response. There's this pisces girl in class who likes to sit next to me and she has been talking to me a lot. She is very pretty, but since I'm talking to Eady I haven't done anything and kept it platonic. Should I move on? Why do you Cancers go radio silent? Just tell me "stop texting me I'm not interested." I would appreciate that more.
So let me get this straight.
She has an aunt suffering from cancer and spends a lot of time with her and instead of straying around to support her you want to start dating this Pisces chick?
WOW, maybe you should just move on and chase fake and fantasy.
Cancer women need strong compassionate men who will be there for us when we are going through the throws of real life.
She's not responding because you are not nearly as important as seeing an aunt who is probably in the last days of her life. And if you have not established yourself as someone who truly cares for her and her well being there is no reason for her to reach out to you until she is through this difficult time in her life.
Posted by MoonArtist
If we go silent without an obvious reason, like being upset with you, it usually means we're super stressed about something.
Should I wait a week before I send text #10 or call her for the 5th time? How can I help her if she's stressed and she's ignoring me? Give me some practical advice here.
Posted by Moonbutter
Honestly, if I were to put myself in her shoes, I would think you had an agenda. Making out with her so soon was a bad move and put you on the "watch list" as in watch out for this one's intentions...Maybe she will come around again if she likes you, if not there's always Pisces :p
I did that because I am crazy about her. I also gave her a Valentine's card in which I wrote that I am glad I met her and that I really like her. I'm not looking to just use her physically for one night and nothing else.
Posted by Kim31
Why not call? Texting all the time makes you look lazy and insincere.
The texting nine times and no response isn't good.
I did call several times. She never picks up. She even said that she hates talking on the phone, which is a red flag to me. If you like someone, you can pick up the phone for 2 minutes. So I didn't care about her statement and called her several times anyway. No response.
She does pick up right before our dates when I am calling to find out where she is so I can pick her up. I don't understand it.
Posted by LunarMaidenPosted by FearlessScorpio
Everything is good but I sent her 9 texts since Thursday of last week and no response. There's this pisces girl in class who likes to sit next to me and she has been talking to me a lot. She is very pretty, but since I'm talking to Eady I haven't done anything and kept it platonic. Should I move on? Why do you Cancers go radio silent? Just tell me "stop texting me I'm not interested." I would appreciate that more.
So let me get this straight.
She has an aunt suffering from cancer and spends a lot of time with her and instead of straying around to support her you want to start dating this Pisces chick?
WOW, maybe you should just move on and chase fake and fantasy.
Cancer women need strong compassionate men who will be there for us when we are going through the throws of real life.
She's not responding because you are not nearly as important as seeing an aunt who is probably in the last days of her life. And if you have not established yourself as someone who truly cares for her and her well being there is no reason for her to reach out to you until she is through this difficult time in her life.click to expand
I'm not sure if she spends that much time with her. Her aunt is 4 hours away. She goes to school full-time and is very chatty and has room mates. I asked her what her hobbies and interests were and she said I like talking with my best friends. (Okay, so you like talking to them on the phone, but not me?)
I think she may be a virgin, so maybe she's just nervous around me. And I am very strong and I am very compassionate. Don't imply that I'm fake. Also, when I text you "How is your aunt?" then you can send me a quick text message replying "ok" or "could be better". Instead I get nothing.
And I don't want to move onto the pisces, because I'm talking with Eady. I'm just saying that if she doesn't want me and I'm bothering her, then should I move on? Should I keep texting and calling her? Show up to her dorm with roses? What?
You crabs tell me what to do. I don't know how to decode her behavior.
Posted by FearlessScorpioPosted by MoonArtist
If we go silent without an obvious reason, like being upset with you, it usually means we're super stressed about something.
Should I wait a week before I send text #10 or call her for the 5th time? How can I help her if she's stressed and she's ignoring me? Give me some practical advice here.click to expand
Why is it one extreme or the other? Why wait so long or too frequently? Pick a middle of the ground amount. Maybe wait a couple days and then call her. The only way you can help her is by offering, and then being willing to accept that she might not take the offer of help. Crabs can be independent that way, and we don't like burdening others. So, when you call her, say something along the lines of "I know you've been busy and worried for your aunt. I want to help make things less stressful for you. Let me know if you need anything: an ear for venting, a lite distraction, some help with errands. I'm there for you."
Posted by FearlessScorpioPosted by Kim31
Why not call? Texting all the time makes you look lazy and insincere.
The texting nine times and no response isn't good.
I did call several times. She never picks up. She even said that she hates talking on the phone, which is a red flag to me. If you like someone, you can pick up the phone for 2 minutes. So I didn't care about her statement and called her several times anyway. No response.
She does pick up right before our dates when I am calling to find out where she is so I can pick her up. I don't understand it.click to expand
How much time do you actually spend with her physically?
How old is she?
I used to say I hated talking on the phone when I was in my twenties.
And with texting being so popular I imagine a lot of people have substituted talking for texting.
Which can hamper a real connection.
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by FearlessScorpioPosted by MoonArtist
If we go silent without an obvious reason, like being upset with you, it usually means we're super stressed about something.
Should I wait a week before I send text #10 or call her for the 5th time? How can I help her if she's stressed and she's ignoring me? Give me some practical advice here.
Why is it one extreme or the other? Why wait so long or too frequently? Pick a middle of the ground amount. Maybe wait a couple days and then call her. The only way you can help her is by offering, and then being willing to accept that she might not take the offer of help. Crabs can be independent that way, and we don't like burdening others. So, when you call her, say something along the lines of "I know you've been busy and worried for your aunt. I want to help make things less stressful for you. Let me know if you need anything: an ear for venting, a lite distraction, some help with errands. I'm there for you."click to expand
Okay. I will do it.
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I'm not going to get into the details, I want to know why the bond between a Cancer guy and Scorpio woman never goes awa
Im sort of copying the post that Missfisk made about someone putting a shotgun to your head and saying you had to marry
My best guy friend of 5 years is a Scorpio Moon, I am a Cancer Moon. Last year we decided we'd just start hooking up for
Thought we'd have our own (there's a cancer or pisces one in the scorpio thread.) So my fellow Pisces, what do you prefe
So me(Nov, 25 1993)& my cancer man ( July 6 1991) has been together going on 4 yrs and living together since December 20
From your perspective, please explain this relationship to me. This man is making me nuts. Tell me your stories if you c
Cancers, please explain this relationship to me. This man is making me nuts. Tell me your stories if you can't offer an
Hello everyone :) Do any of you have this placement or know anything about it? The one thing I do not understand abou
Im a female cancer. Ive been dating my scorpio man for 2 months. I am 19 and he is 26. This is my first real relatio
How does this work out? Easy? Hard? I need all the deets. I met a cancer man (June 25th) on a dating site. We talked
If you've been in a long-term relationship with a Cancer, what was it like? Yay or nae?
I dated a Scorpio guy for a couple of months a few months ago. I am very much into astrology and when I found out he was
This guy is shy, guarded, sarcastic, witty and hard working. He is a Scorp sun, mercury and venus with cancer moon and m
I'm a cancer female. My friend is a Scorpio male. We've never had sex which is probably why we are constantly getting
I think all water signs can be secretive. We tend not to want to reveal our emotions. Which water sign do you thin
sooo, i am a leo married to a cancer man whom i love dearly but his wall gets too high a lot of times that climbing is v
Which one is the best?
Okay, I watched a battle between a crab and a scorpion, even though I didn't like how the dude is treating the animals.