Those claws really hurt......... (Page 5)

Over indulgence in such unhealthy,fatty foods is probably why youre so chubby crab23. Looking at those pictures makes me hurl. Remember - you are what you eat.

i like a thick sista ,mmmmmmm thick big women mmmmmm come here crab23,come here sweets mmmmm,lol

Such a touchy little crab you are. Ill crush you and feed your remains to the crocodiles.

ha ha ha

You're too easy, you little sensitive crab. You're now dismissed.

lol Crab if we are what we eat then we are some scrumptious sweet chics.

Hayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy BK Hun.

lol I've never had a complaint from the Cancer dept. as long as there is enough for both of us to indulge he's having what Im having.

lol BK, if you werent already taken by a TGirl I might be on my way to NY ...lol let me find out you like ya girls thick.

cant we all just get along? 🙂

🙂

awww ladies, even I cant get with the flagrant name calling. I can't blame her for being coocoo for Cancer Puffs, but....all the while, I think we should try to find a way to agree to disagree because I dont forsee anyone going anywhere *sigh*

1. I'm amazed at the drastic turn this thread has taken.
2. I am extremely disappointed at the moderators of this site for allowing this to continue. It reached inappropriate awhile ago.
3. Why is it there are procedures in place so that you can't say any profane words, but you can use the "N" word? As an African American woman, I'm extremely offended not just that it was said (and then repeated) but the fact that this was allowed. It means that the powers that be behind the site think it's ok. Very telling.
4. This is cyberspace, there are all kinds of people trolling this site good and bad. When you run across the ignorance of a person like Scorp Sting, if you don't have to deal with them, you ignore them. Eventually they'll go away. What you DON'T do is continue providing them the attention they are seeking. For them, it doesn't matter if it's good or bad it's the attention they're after.

I've been visiting this board since July '07 and since that time I've always thought that the women on here have some pretty good insight. We're ALL strong women with strong opinions and it's ok to disagree with each other but to let it deteriorate into name calling has to be considered unacceptable by all of us, that responsibility doesn't fall on the ignorant, it falls on those of us who know better. Since the moderators of this site don't actively police the threads we have to police ourselves. So when a thread turns as ugly as this one has, it's time to start flagging.

well.... dont blame dxp, im sure they have better things to do..........but yes it is a shame.

well I was out at the store and things really blew up in here..... All I have to say is the only people in here slinging racial slurs are the two claiming to be the victims of the jealousy, bitterness, and hatred....amazing... the rest of us can get along just fine even if we don't always agree...and sometimes get into fights.... the first time I have seen racial slurs in almost a year here is from those two....

leokitten - I'm not hurting anymore, I'm very happy 🙂

lol - you mean lady scorp's negativity dust? nah.... I think those two have nogh already 😉

*enough

why is scorpio hiding the posts, if u using racists remarks i think in fact i know dxp have to take a serious look into that. Yeesh anyways dat cheesecake looks mighty fine about now yummersssss

I keep the dust on hand for those of us who need help keeping up with them 😉

"well he's not for you"

I know he's NOT...only YOURS angel..😉

Hey all...Crab..Angel, Sweets, Vanessa and everyone!

That cake looks YUMMY...u r making me HUNGRY Crab...😛

Crab... just ignore Sting's comments...She's not worth any of our ATTENTION...

i know she's reading n been watching...even the OTHER one..
Let her keep on fooling herself by saying things...

She's a coward by hiding her post after she said bad things about other people...

Dinner?? nyum...nyum..

Maybe some italian food perhaps? 😉

that's right crtab - we bulls aren't that easy 😉

nah - she didn't feel bad.....something like that shouldn't even have been posted..... as much as she calls the rest opf us bitter and jealus ahters how bitter, jealous and angry must she be to use words like that?

damn....my typos are awful...I gotta get used to this new keyborad....

If I feel bad for hurting someones feelings, I hide them too. I try to keep race out my mouth, but if you think about it, I need to keep name calling out as well. Maybe she had some deep feelings about what she said, just maybe......"

Yeah understands that...🙂

But someone has started with name calling and it's too much...keep on saying just like what Angel has already pointed it out...

Well u know crab..she just push that BUTTON too far...

Uhhh crab!! YUMMY!!!!!

I dont think i can finish it all by myself!

Would anyone want to join me?? BK? Sweets? Angel? Cj? Anyone—?

I've got a little white zin here

Yummerrrrrssss.... Yeah i HATEEEEE seeing people hungry.or thirsty. I would feed ur ass to death and poor a lil hennesy or blu vodka,lol. Or da cheapest thing on earth ..water.

*sliding a chair up to the table* dont mind if i get a bite to eat.

For those who know I have some sad news....Im parting ways with lovely Mr.Cancer. He got his old job back and just hasnt the time for a relationship right now...so I'mma just leave it alone. Who knows there might be something more in the future for us if these parting paths bring us back together. I thought we could reconcile and come up with a plan to make things work but he shelled on me and Im just too impatient and frustrated.

lol you're really good at finding those web images

Uhh..SF... im sorry to hear that...😢

Things will get better with time...

its cool MsPi. It didnt end badly and he isnt a bad man so who knows, things may fall into place for us. If they dont he still has a friend in me when/if he needs. I mostly came to the decision because I didnt want to leave him feeling guilty that I was trying to be with him and work with him and he still wasnt able to give me what I was asking for. Im actually pretty comfy with it because I have my own projects to pick up.

Im sad he's hurt, but he always said he never felt I was selfish and he was happy I worked with him when I did so maybe he'll see a second chance when/if his load lightens.

SF... YOu hang in there...

we all give ya a HUG!!! XOXO

really crab? its really hard to think that he doesnt make time and then when i get frustrated with him he acts hurt but it seems like he feels like he should be hurt instead of sitting with me and working out some sort of understanding where we can both get some back up.

lol I hear you Ms.Pi. I know I miss him lots already. I anticipate him coming by to show a little indifferent friendly attention every now and again.

thank you LS.

he really does crab. On top of working 3 jobs he takes most of the responsibility for taking care of his mother's bills and his sick aunt. He tries to keep his younger brother and cousins out of trouble as much as he can.

I have an idea of what kind of stress he is feeling, but I've told him many times I wont know where is he coming from (with his behavior in our relationship) if he doesnt tell me what he is going through. I cant react to something I dont know about

yeah, I understand. we went through this before and really I just hate it, but i think going into it more willingly this time will allow me to focus on what I need to do to get over my little quirks, hopefully he'll do the same and we'll find one another. If that doesnt happen then I know that I would have grown from it either way.

"Sometimes, us cancers will rather leave a touchy situation alone, until the tide calms. I would argue with my enemy or try to prove a point to a stranger, but not with the one I want to spend my life with. I rather let things lie down, then press them down. I hopew you understand what I mean. I rather not press my point to my love one, because I feel like they should understand me. I would love for them to read my mind so I wouldn't have to say nothing. But let the evil roll, and build the love in quiet peace."

That's right.

Anyway, communications are really important in any relationship...for me...if you want to know abt me and my problem...you just hv to ask instead of making any assumptions abt me.. it's just the time that may not be appropriate to point things out...there are times when we need time for ourselves to figure out things on our own. There are also time when we want you to just be there instead of offering any help. hope it helps..🙂

in the time being...just let him hv all the time that he wants.. you need to focus on yourself also.. eventually when things are getting better n he is ready to leave that shell..he will find you. 🙂

Sorry to hear about that Sweets but you're right. Sometimes I think we're so busy trying to understand them and fail to see what their actions are actually doing to us. The whole distancing themselves thing wears you down. You never know where they're going to come from so we don't ever get a solid footing in the relationship. It seems that it's always a day away from being back on shaky ground. I told my cancer bf to not call me again, the emotional rollercoaster was getting to me. One day he's there with me communicating and everything's fine. But then he's right back in that shell, because of God only knows what reason and I'm supposed to go ok he's in his shell that's why he's ignoring me so I should just understand/accept it. Maybe, but at the same time it doesn't make ME feel secure about the relationship either.

So maybe for our sanity sake it's best this way. They clearly aren't ready, that's not to bad mouth them but we can't change who they are. My cancer bf will be 40 this year and it's pretty obvious why he's never been married (I've been referring to him as the broke George Clooney). Maybe he was hurt, who knows but I can't fix him and you can't fix yours either. Maybe once he's out of your life for awhile he'll realize what he had (you seemed like such a sweetheart to him) but even if he doesn't we'll just have to move on. It hurts though.

"we went through this before and really I just hate it, but i think going into it more willingly this time will allow me to focus on what I need to do to get over my little quirks, hopefully he'll do the same and we'll find one another. If that doesnt happen then I know that I would have grown from it either way."

Things that dont kill you will make you stronger...
Both of you hv already been in situations before...who knows..maybe in the future it will make your heart grow stronger for each other more than you'll ever know...

Thank you. I feel what you're saying Scorpi, exactly and to the T. Mine isnt 40 yet so maybe there is hope for him still, who knows. It was good while it lasted and I'll always keep that with me. Im positive and optimistic because Im young and lovely and I have so much going for me. Im not torn up just a little disappointed.

Im almost sure he'll never completely leave my life, but how much he's in it depends on his initiative alone at this point.

this cold is kickin my booty. As much as I want to stay up Im tired of blowing my nose so Im going to get a swig of Nyquil and lay it down.

wow....everytime I'm on here it's dead but as soon as I have something important to do [ahem...Paul.... 🙂] it gets crazy in here....

Well goddess all I have to say is I know you're strong [stronger than me!] and you'll be okay - and D will get it together and make time for you when he has the rest of his life straightened out 🙂

OoOooOo Thank you Crab. I like coffee beans. Chocolate covered espresso beans yummy! And thank God, I do actually feel better. I can't wait til Im over this cold and I hope its the last one of the season (I work at a daycare center tho, so there's really no telling when the kids will stop passing me their germs lol, luckily my immune system is strong enough that the stomach viruses dont bother me)

Thank You Angel, I hope things do go like that. 🙂

thank you Chocolate & LK. *huggs*

They're really good in my opinion Crab. If you like all those other scrumptious sweets Im sure you'll like those too. I almost wish I really had a slice of cake that looked like that.

lol you're crazy if you dont think I copy and pasted that recipe. Im going to try it soon for my mother and her friends. I know she'll flip for that cake.

wow....that cake looks way to sweet for me! plus coffee makes me irritable 😢

mmmmm.....that looks good

Holy crap! what's going on here?:S

Hmmmmmmm.........where is Krobe!!!!!

Oh that's right Tiki takes her place when she leaves........or when they try and Tag Team someone!!!!


Chocolate, KROBE has a LIFE outside of DXP and arguing with dead beat horses. I work and love to spend time with my man. I don't have time to keep up with you cyberhorses everyday. I HAVE A LIFE!

Which man is that? the one who is hiding from you?.....

ANYWAY......that chocloate cake with the strawberries looks delicious!! ooohhh...I'm gonna gain ten pounds just reading this thread......