waiting for the catch... (Page 5)

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by roxyfalcon2006 on Wednesday, June 22, 2011 and has 205 replies.

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@tiki33
19 Years10,000+ Posts

Also that stare thing is a dominant gesture...many women mistake it as romantic and romanticize the staring, it's a territorial gesture and it's his way of trancing out his victim to be completely focused in on him, it works too, many women find themselves feeling quite attached and obsessive, she mistakes this stare as intense love and/or adoration but it's nothing close to that.

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@roxyfalcon2006
15 YearsVirgo

this is why I'm glad I was raised with a sharp eye for this kind of stuff, my dad's a divorce lawyer and always told me and my sisters about different domestic violence cases he dealt with and to NEVER take crap like that from a man. he was also the head of a domestic violence board committee...so don't worry, I'm well-educated in that kind of stuff and I know what signs to look for.

I know he has a past but it wasn't HIM abusing anyone, it was his dad and he was raised by his mother to treat women right (so I've seen so far). I can't leave him just because his father abused his mom and he's never done ANYTHING remotely like that to me, that's not fair. He's been nothing but gentle and caring to me.

He doesn't actually like to drink that much, but we are in are early 20s so we party and stuff but he usually drinks less than I do, lol. The thing about the wrong number of women really does bug me too, I don't know if he was lying or trying to make me jealous or what...he's always talking about "this friend of mine that was in LOVE with me but I didn't like her.." different girls that liked him and stuff, and he kept going on and on about he liked the girl from Garbage and asked if it was bothering me..I really get this gut feeling that he's trying to make me jealous and confirm my feelings for him though, I read somewhere that Cancers do that.. Normally I'm super jealous about that kind of stuff but it's not real women on the street, just actresses that he's mentioned 2 or 3 times. If he starts talking about real girls we know though I'll for sure tell him to stuff it haha.

Today I cooked him dinner and he brought me flowers...not just flowers...like, months ago I mentioned how I love hibiscus's and he came to my house with a freaking potted hibiscus TREE it's awesome!

But I will still keep my eyes open. Like I said before, we had the "L word" talk and I basically told him I really like him but it's hard for me to express my emotions and I've never been in love so it might take a while. I just hope that once (or if I do) fall for him, he won't change into the psychopath you're all talking about.