What attracts Cancer men in Taurus women?

Your opinion please if that can work and how.

you literally need to do nothing but be yourself and accept everything about him good and bad. be a mommy when he is sick or hungry and a granny when he does something wrong... sort of baby him... make him feel safe... I know this works hell my cancer calls me his mama LOL

Yeah two bulls I'm friends with are with Cancers and the bull woman makes the crab feel safe and it's really a hard bond to break. Well the bulls that are soft and feminine, some bulls are real aggressive and they repeal Crabs.

If you read up on what attracts Cancer men, and then read up on the characteristics of Taurus women, you'll connect A LOT of freakin dots 🙂

Is she holding a beer(s)?

Taurus girls 🙂



What's not to love?!

@OP- Have you met a cancer man? And well— How is it?

I prefer a Taurus Moon in every woman I meet. Taurus Sun can sometimes take me the wrong way. Taurus Moon is an underneath strength that is very appealing to me in a relationship.

Also Taurus seems to be fascinated with Sags and when they are horny they usually like to pick Scorpios over us lol. My Pisces friend married a Taurus Woman and it made him much more stable. a total 360.

I just never find myself in a situation where I feel like a Taurus woman would let me know it was ok to come onto her so I usually never get past step one. If I do they usually have some charismatic person with them and I get insecure instantly knowing that's not who I am unless I know the people I am talking to. I just feel like I bore them by being too nice when they seem to really like a sort of controlled provocative behavior or something along those lines. They arent easy to impress either.

They are kind like us where they arent really aware of their attractiveness so its hard getting this match off the ground in my opinion.

They are good-looking, good with money, calm and serene, which is the opposite of impulsive and rash. They will do what they say and you generally know where you stand with them. These are very attractive qualities.

@HighTide

I've never met one Taurus woman that fits this description. Of course, everyone has different experiences.

Taureans, and Earth signs in general take a lot of pride in being able to keep their inner thoughts private. So if you're a Robin Hood with your psychological arrows, you might want to intentionally miss a few, sporto. They're just not going to like it if they feel like you're reading them, unless they've let you in and want to share their feelings with you.

Actually, I think Taureans can be a bit vain. Not as much as Libras, but they are diligent and proficient in methods of beauty and enhancement. What they are seemingly unaware of is how attractive their personalities can be. Quite often the things they don't like about themselves, others don't mind, or even find pleasant/adorable.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- Have you met a cancer man? And well— How is it?

Yes, but he seems to like me more than I do. Besides, he once said he's not the one to marry, though he seems not to mind a proper relationship. The thing is in my life i want a solid relationship which would eventually lead to marriage and children. I understand we recently stated seing each other. But he's all that touchy-feely. If i become so too, I could fall pretty much. But I wouldn't like to do that knowing we're looking for different things.

Posted by HighTide
Also Taurus seems to be fascinated with Sags and when they are horny they usually like to pick Scorpios over us lol. My Pisces friend married a Taurus Woman and it made him much more stable. a total 360.

I just never find myself in a situation where I feel like a Taurus woman would let me know it was ok to come onto her so I usually never get past step one. If I do they usually have some charismatic person with them and I get insecure instantly knowing that's not who I am unless I know the people I am talking to. I just feel like I bore them by being too nice when they seem to really like a sort of controlled provocative behavior or something along those lines. They arent easy to impress either.

They are kind like us where they arent really aware of their attractiveness so its hard getting this match off the ground in my opinion.

That's not true. Cancers have always attracted me. But they have always seemed to clingy esp at the beginning. As for a Taurus it takes a good while to warm up to the person. I guess that's all about patience and waiting out. But most Cancers don't understand we want to get to know someone better before KISSING THEN PASSIONATELY.

@OP- As a Taurus I hear you loud and clear about that. I can often be into a guy more than myself. I can take initiative and then it seems to me that I start losing interests after a while especially if i feel it's hot in the beginning and then something isn't matching as a person who looks in the future should know and need in life.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- As a Taurus I hear you loud and clear about that. I can often be into a guy more than myself. I can take initiative and then it seems to me that I start losing interests after a while especially if i feel it's hot in the beginning and then something isn't matching as a person who looks in the future should know and need in life.

He tried to kiss me loads of times already. But I CAN'T and this drives me angry. I usually like kissing but here I JUST CAN'T...
I think there's nothing left but to tell him friends is probably the best way. But that would be difficult for me as I like him a lot.

@OP- What is your moon? rising? and venus?

But with that said if a guy states he isn't into marriage or kids, then at some point that attraction fades. And eventually A Taurus will leave the situation no matter what the heart ache or time it took to get to know someone. It could be 1 year solid friendship and then blame it's over just that fast. It could be overwhelming to keep trying years perhaps to it just being in regret why I didn't move away sooner.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- What is your moon? rising? and venus?

But with that said if a guy states he isn't into marriage or kids, then at some point that attraction fades. And eventually A Taurus will leave the situation no matter what the heart ache or time it took to get to know someone. It could be 1 year solid friendship and then blame it's over just that fast. It could be overwhelming to keep trying years perhaps to it just being in regret why I didn't move away sooner.

Moon in Libra. Venus in Gemini. Ascendant Aquarius.
His moon in Virgo. Venus in Leo. IDK rising

I still think it is a good idea to evaluate by yourself and really ask yourself what you need for a potential lover long term...

If you do not want kids or marriage of course do whatever you want, but that is not your case I don't think..

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
If you do not want kids or marriage of course do whatever you want, but that is not your case I don't think..

I don't want them right now BUT I need to know we are going in the same direction.

This is where you just got to ask that question to him. If you guys been together awhile then express it and see what he says. No matter what communicate..

All you have to ask is what direction are we going simple? Don't be afraid you're a bull but do what is necessary for you at this point. So you don't waste time with a guy in the near future that doesn't want what you want..

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
This is where you just got to ask that question to him. If you guys been together awhile then express it and see what he says. No matter what communicate..

All you have to ask is what direction are we going simple? Don't be afraid you're a bull but do what is necessary for you at this point. So you don't waste time with a guy in the near future that doesn't want what you want..

Yes. That's the right thing to do. It may really hurt him and he won't talk to me again. But my inner balance first after all.
Thank you for your support here 🙂

@ Op- What are some of the red flags you both have or seen in him?

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@ Op- What are some of the red flags you both have or seen in him?

what do you mean?

@ OP- No problem..

Nevermind lol

Posted by Crabra
@HighTide

Actually, I think Taureans can be a bit vain. Not as much as Libras, but they are diligent and proficient in methods of beauty and enhancement. What they are seemingly unaware of is how attractive their personalities can be. Quite often the things they don't like about themselves, others don't mind, or even find pleasant/adorable.

I will both agree and disagree with this statement to an extent.
An insecure, unevolved Bull will resort to beauty and enhancements , mainly the real young ones do.
These type of Bulls rely on constant flattery, and can possibly be easy to manipulate .

But a more evolved Bull, is quite humble, whether she's aware of it or not, and to be honest, can be quite embarrassed by compliments.

I will agree with you on this one, these Bulls rely on the magnetic draw of their personalities to other people's personalities.