Why do Cancer men and women get such a bad wrap?

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Cancer men and women only get a bad wrap on this forum, probably from the same 4-5 people that post about it over and over and also probably under new, fake accounts.

Water sign women and cancer women in particular are among the most desired signs, both physically and from a mate point of view.

The men are too but you have to want that type of sensitive-emotional type of guy.

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Every sign has its pros and cons. The signs that trash ours happen to be tunnel visioned people who can't look at other points of views but their own. it's all about what people like and don't like. Such as I don't enjoy Aquarius distance or a virgos criticism to where they think they're only right and won't even try looking at what they did/doing. And then the Aquarius don't like my insecurities and the virgos don't like my random mood swings.
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Posted by rabidtalker
Cancer men and women only get a bad wrap on this forum, probably from the same 4-5 people that post about it over and over and also probably under new, fake accounts.

Water sign women and cancer women in particular are among the most desired signs, both physically and from a mate point of view.

The men are too but you have to want that type of sensitive-emotional type of guy.


Water sign here and ALL woman! 😄 🤗 cyber hug!

Love,

Eva
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From personal experience I'd say that the good cancers aren't really worth coming onto a forum to complain about or seek advice about.

The ones that are talked about tend to be extremely manipulative which is very confusing and hurtful to the people that care about them. And the only place that we can express our true feelings is on forums like this because we can't actually have a "real" talk with our cancers about the situations for fear of being shut out by them.
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A lot of people don't understand us, heck I don't even think most of us understand ourselves tbh. Let me ask you this, if you just stayed in the shallow end of the ocean would you be able to explain what it's like in the deep end without experiencing it? We are soo multi-faceted and many of us have Gemini, Leo, etc aspects that influence and may even dominate our Cancer personality sooo not really fair or accurate to blame it all as a "Cancer thing"
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I think they're too emotionally unhinged, and you don't really notice it until you start getting to know them; and I think that's hard for air and fire signs to deal with. But they're okay as friends, most of the time.

Yes, we feel on such a deep emotion wavelength it becomes all consuming. I think only with time, maturity and understanding can a Cancer learn to manage and utilize the power of water and moon to it'smost effective capability 🙂
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I think they're too emotionally unhinged, and you don't really notice it until you start getting to know them; and I think that's hard for air and fire signs to deal with. But they're okay as friends, most of the time.


Looooooooool this coming from a libra with Aries moon?

The most unhinged bitter woman I met was a libra!

She's pure garbage
Lol, the most fucked in the head people I've met have been Cancers.
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Hmmno nice to say about how others perceive you lol
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Like when I read forums or blogs about Cancer's personalities, it usually makes us look pretty bad. Grant, Cancers are moody and all that good stuff, but what water sign isn't? When the pros are listed, there is always more cons than pros for Cancers! Or they either say Cancers are very attractive or homely! LOL
it is what it is.. deal with it.

maybe because they are telling the truth? cancers have more cons because its simply true.

you have to face the truth. its ugly and mean.. I know! but its the reality...

face it 🙂

" what doesnt kill you, makes you stronger " ..lol
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And we are stronger because of people like you who like to hate on others, so thank you 😛
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Posted by rabidtalker
Water sign women and cancer women in particular are among the most desired signs, both physically and from a mate point of view.

The men are too but you have to want that type of sensitive-emotional type of guy.


It's a double edged sword.

Water signs build deeper connections in relationships. When it doesn't work out and it all disappears it leaves a larger impact on people and they come to dxp.

?Circle of life more or less
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Who gives a fuk! Thank you OP for opening up a thread for losers who can't even imagine their own faults to judge crabs!



I'm not going to sit here and get insulted by a fuking libra

No siree


Lmao! You said previously that you did not care, but here you are getting all worked up.

Emotionally unhinged.

Crazy!
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https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/shrugs-on-air-signs-6056656/

CrankyCrab loves to hate us .. it's very sweet of her =)
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Lol you got me confused I gives little fuks but why are you on the crab board?

Were you invited? Who invited you? To speak out your dumb neck?



I'm sensitive or are you mad cause someone actually responded to your drama post?

You're a clown
Think it's just you being sensitive.
No bytch I'm not sensitive but I'm not going to sit here and allow some random nobody to insult my board



You are so worked up over this. You are only insulted because you know it's the truth. You're being sensitive, dramatic and slightly cuckoo.

I think you've had too much internet for the day.
I think you need to fuk off the crab board. Take your useless adjectives they don't mean anything
Lol Okay, we won't carry this conversation on any longer. Take a Zoloft or 30 you crazy fuck.
bytch shut your mouth

dont' talk to me. I'm tired of you useless brainless females all over our board spitting your venom



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Who gives a fuk! Thank you OP for opening up a thread for losers who can't even imagine their own faults to judge crabs!

I'm not going to sit here and get insulted by a fuking libra

No siree

Lmao! You said previously that you did not care, but here you are getting all worked up.

Emotionally unhinged.

Crazy!
Thank you dimwit! I'm not going to sit here and get insulted! This has nothing to do with emotions troll!

As if... I just think it's absurd that a mothefuking libra has am opinion!

Most crabs don't even like y'all passive azz lame fukers

I know I don't

This is why you guys get a bad wrap.
Your mother gets a bad wrap ho!
Lmao! She's a cancer too! Y'all are crazy.
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what's that supposed to mean? if she does bad behavior, she passes because she's cancer? so that what happens at libra board when you all have bad behavior, you all pack together and then when it's other signs you think they are bad when they have bad behavior? that's messed up.
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Who gives a fuk! Thank you OP for opening up a thread for losers who can't even imagine their own faults to judge crabs!

I'm not going to sit here and get insulted by a fuking libra

No siree

Lmao! You said previously that you did not care, but here you are getting all worked up.

Emotionally unhinged.

Crazy!
Thank you dimwit! I'm not going to sit here and get insulted! This has nothing to do with emotions troll!

As if... I just think it's absurd that a mothefuking libra has am opinion!

Most crabs don't even like y'all passive azz lame fukers

I know I don't

This is why you guys get a bad wrap.

Your mother gets a bad wrap ho!

Lmao! She's a cancer too! Y'all are crazy.

what's that supposed to mean? if she does bad behavior, she passes because she's cancer? so that what happens at libra board when you all have bad behavior, you all pack together and then when it's other signs you think they are bad when they have bad behavior? that's messed up.



Read what you wrote and edit it, because I am not fully grasping what you are trying to say.
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oh I re-read and I still mean what I wrote. lol if she is your mother why do you have to put her down? relationshps with mother/daughter are hard but she's still your mother. you have to endure and bear it.

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Also, people fail to realize that a Cancer can have a Capricorn moon, making it hard for them to be as "emotional" and "overly dependable" as they paint us out to be. Honestly, it's ignorance. But I agree, it can be pretty bothersome when people have much to say about a sign when there's more to it than just being a Cancer. We are among the cardinal signs - which includes ARIES, LIBRAS, AND CAPRICORNS

So I'll be crying my way to the bank because I work too damn hard right along side the Alphas 🙂