
SweetestFatale
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Posted by SweetestFataleya - it goes like that - enjoy the dance !
So, I thought someone said Caps don't say I Love You often. So I guess Cap/Sags are an exception to the rule? Cap guy told me very casually (I think we're past the emotional late night declarations) "143. Goodnight". For those who don't know 143= I love you (number of letters in the words). I said "I love you too" but I think next time I'll just say 1433.
Before now I had a really hard time saying it. (My own issues, twice bitten once shy)
We've been spending lots of time together. He asked me to cook for him, I asked him to come over earlier just in general terms. The next day he left work early to come over and his plate was waiting for him. Lol I didn't know he was leaving work and he didn't know I was cooking. I love the fuck out of him ❤. When we're in sync it's amazing, when we're not we're learning.



Posted by SofiaV87I was totally like ?, especially since my Love Language is Quality Time and our schedules don't allow for much. He really filled my love tank.
Wow i forgot about 143, nice reminder..that's sweet that u both ended up being in sync like that .. I would be like ? Lol

Posted by SweetestFataleI personally think it's cute. I remember back in the days when I had a beeper, this guy i dated at that time( he was a Leo) used to page me 143. It's the thought that counts. Plus, doesn't it take a while and a half for a cap to even open up? So the fact that this cap did something as small as say/type 143 is still better than nothing at all. As long as later on in life, you hear "i love you" then even better 🙂 But other than that, I'm happy for you!
It's a song for those of you who don't know. The premise of the song is "I've said the words so many times, this is all that I haven't said". Personally I'd rather say it with something cute and casual than the heavy declarations that he has made before that feel overwhelming to me (I have a Cap Moon) or not at all. I think there will be moments the words will certainly be in order.
Lol its so funny to me how some comments are so negative.

Posted by SweetestFatalePosted by SofiaV87I was totally like ?, especially since my Love Language is Quality Time and our schedules don't allow for much. He really filled my love tank.
Wow i forgot about 143, nice reminder..that's sweet that u both ended up being in sync like that .. I would be like ? Lol
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Posted by caIiberHe has said it numerous times. I think for me 143 was cute because it was casual like saying it before you hang up as opposed to his usual grand declarations of love. I'm not very good at responding to those declarations but with 143 I just blushed and said "I love you too". I felt like it took some of the pressure off of me.
I dunno if going for scraps like "143" is a good thing.. ? why not just say it? Seems like a bit of a chicken shit move..
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Before now I had a really hard time saying it. (My own issues, twice bitten once shy)
We've been spending lots of time together. He asked me to cook for him, I asked him to come over earlier just in general terms. The next day he left work early to come over and his plate was waiting for him. Lol I didn't know he was leaving work and he didn't know I was cooking. I love the fuck out of him ❤. When we're in sync it's amazing, when we're not we're learning.