any cancer men Capricorn won experiences here (Page 2)

Well i actually like Capricorns, i had some bad experiences with Capricorn female friends. But i still like the sign. @SilverDollar that Cancer guy CLEARLY doesn't care about you if he gotta Fuq with his ex. Most Cancers are extremely loving & loyal. I think it's just the guy you dealing with, not the zodiac sign. You deserve someone who will always love, honor, & respect you. You shouldn't accept anything less than that. If they actions not matching what they are telling you, Then Fuq em lol.

But i believe Cancers can learn alot from Capricorns. I certainly have. You all have what we lack & we do for y'all as well. Sorry you met a rotten apple

I hadn't been on this site in awhile...so Yu REALLY shouldn't feel that way...happy belated bday tho...would that work from me on behalf of every Capricorn—;from ME...Silverdollarpiece

Also...all of you are right...if he can't give ME what is due;respect...then i should get gone...i thought maybe it was just meant to me a lesson...

Rotflmao...with matters of the heart and soul...we May love at different levels as you cancers...but i have notice all water signs are very sensitive AND the level y'all wanna be loved on is at the" fuck everybody,cause it's all about Me, but instead Of addressing the issue you throw a pissy pout tantrum...be resentfull as Hell towards those who've you felt have wronged you...but still bother to DO for them what you felt was a sweet jest.. only to feel like you didn't get proper treatment in return...miscommunication ...misconception...AND misbehavior are issues at hand here...it's the opposite of Capricorn...we wouldn't know anything's wrong until you speak on it...BUT your gonna know when we have a problem cuz we gonna address it to you and it won't be any misconstrued communicating other than that we may not say it nice enough...but that's one of you cancers problem to so you know what you DO then when you don't wanna hurt someone's feelings

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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
None of the above is based on feelings, but it does take into consideration that one is dealing with other human beings.

As far as not meaning to be harsh and being concise, see the "Cancer mantra" comment.
Added beyond the core subject matter, unnecessary, and intentionally harsh.

LOL. It's definitely about feelings. You just confirmed it.

My "Cancer Mantra" comment was referencing what my ex used to say to me all the time. I made that clear, yet you've obviously personalized it in true Cancer fashion.

No, you did NOT make it clear. Your text, as posted, can be read as a generalization. It was not put in context with, for example, "I heard that 1000 times from my Cancer ex".
I was calling you out on a generalization made, and although you can continue to deny it, it was made as a perjorative. You further confirm this by referencing it as a generalization for Cancers.
So, is this a case of being concise to the point of omitting pertintent context, or a dodge from the usage of a generalization/supposition?

It wasn't about YOU specifically, you just happened to echo EXACTLY what she used to say to me -- and you happen to be a Cancer -- like her. I found it humorous, while you obviously took it the wrong way.

Once again, supposition based on the fact I just happen to be of the same sun sign as your Cancer ex.

There goes my tin ear again....dadgummit. (That last comment I made there was abrasive -- barely).

You mentioned personalization? Pot, meet kettle.

Reading Caps ain't your game.

That's not what my response was about. And definitely not an attempt to "read Caps".
I responded to what you posted.

Beyond the subject matter, yes. I'll give you that. I interjected myself into the convo, and expected to get a laugh out of it. Ummm, obviously not. I was just spinning off into a personal story, while using your phraseology as my springboard. Please accept my apologies for butting in.

Forgive any sloppy sentence structure or clumsy wording.....I was in a hurry.

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Apology accepted. Contrary to the general twaddle about Cancers floating around this site and the web in gen

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Posted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
It is amazing indeed 😉 i felt as if i was taken outta this galaxy...BUT he had a baby on the way by another girl...so i read in between lines to come to a conclusion

He has a baby on the way with another girl?

My advice is to run. Avoid this headache and messy situation. You're always going to have baby momma drama and cancers aren't good about standing their ground in this type of situation. She's going to be able to guilt trip him all the time and he will let her because he will do whatever it takes for his kid. Which he should, but do you really want to deal with the drama?

If you choose to stay, then please, please, please pay attention to how he deals with this situation because if it becomes you with a baby on the way, the way he treats this woman is the way he will treat you.

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Getting back on track, this is good advice. ^^

@SilverDollar I think you met some infectious Crabs lol. Yes i agree on the sensitive part. I admit to my flaws. Now if i get upset about something, i usually voice it myself. You can't pressure a Cancer to do anything. If you do that, you'll get more "Shell" time. But i learn from my Capricorn Dad, that it's ok to speak up IF you know you are right about something. If your wrong, shut up lol. I think both people in a Cancer/Capricorn relationship have to be willing to understand each other. If someone is slacking, of course it'll fail.

& you know that what i like about Capricorns, if they aren't ok with something, they'll let you know what bothers them. That's an attractive quality. I just don't like the Capricorns who are very mean to you, disappear on you; even though i was good them & supported them. But i blame that on the person, not their sign.

There we go...not all signs are exactly the same...but have this qualities under Sun sign profile...this part about if your wrong shutting up...that's exactly how caps are...BUT usually i only disappear from society when I'm overwhelmed...need to recenter...so that i CAN recharge...

Those things that im right about i know which ones they are...what's understood ain't gotta be explained...what's explained should be tried to be understood...

lol ok @ silverdollar

"Your text, as posted, can be read as a generalization."

"it's not what you say, but the way you say it"


Is that the Cancer mantra, or something? ^^^^

Can be read as a generalization? Looks like a question to me. See the question mark thingy?

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"It was not put in context with, for example, "I heard that 1000 times from my Cancer ex". "


Jeez, I bet I heard that a thousand times. My reply was always "It's not how I said it, it's how you perceived it." Went over like a lead balloon.


The ex is not mentioned specifically here ^^^. But, notice the past tense, implying a prior personal experience. Also, stated "a thousand times", yet I've only heard you say it once -- prompting my reply. Obviously, not about you.

And, later in my post:

"With my Cancer, every word spoken had a "feeling" attached to it."

So, once again, not a generalization. Are you incapable of putting 2 and 2 together? I'm sure anyone else that has read that post had no problem comprehending who I was talking about.

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"I was calling you out on a generalization made, and although you can continue to deny it, it was made as a perjorative. You further confirm this by referencing it as a generalization for Cancers."


^^^^^^^
And you were wrong, and you still are. I don't have to continue denying it, my post stands as it is, and I've pointed out your flawed claims several times now.

Again -- a question is not a generalization, unless of course, you think my question was rhetorical? It was not.

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"Contrary to the general twaddle about Cancers floating around this site and the web in gen"


^^^^^^
Now you've found your generalization about Cancers -- only you uttered it, not me. Of course, you are speaking of others 'generalizing Cancers' which is probably true. But, that's what people do, especially in astrology, if you haven't noticed. That kind of happens when you separate everyone human on earth into 12 astrological signs.

Are you butthurt about that, too? 🙂

Smiley face...just a joke. 😉

Posted by CluelessCancer
I notice not many caps wished me a happy birthday even tho i wished many of you a happy birthday and even created threads.

so no i don't think we make a good match at all, i would get resentful that my sweetness is not being reciprocated and that caps in general are extremely selfish individuals.

i give this relationship/friendship a 0. My cap coworker did buy me a latte and made sure to get me really good bakery items tho, but we're tight, she's one of a kind, i don't think many of you can achieve her level of kindness.

Happy belated birthday CC. It was my bday in June and I didn't get many bday wishes either but I'm not regular on the Cancer board but have had some great feedback from the caps on this board.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Happy Belated SamCancergirl. you never visit the Crab board, why ppl missed it

Thank you CC - I was on there the other day n posted in the cancer with gem moon post 🙂

I think that I'm it'll be hard to get over a cancer each AND every time...my first love was one...he was cheating all the time too which he got me and another girl pregnant at the same time i miscarried while she went to full term...we stayed together for a while after BUT eventually broke up...this case now is identical to back then because it was the same case scenario...they cheat on their then girlfriends for me...fall badly in love...don't WANT either disappointed AND last case i won the head off basically because i acted the craziest lol...i was young AND had way less self control than now...i walked over to his house bare footed in January weather because i was told she was over there trying to get my man back...so when he called me and told me that i instantly jumped up AND flew too his house where he gave ME his shoes and a coat...told her off in my face AND left wit me...I'm NOT proud of this situation but it was a lot like this one is now...

Caps and Cancers are in opposition to each other. Two sides of the same coin. They are the parental axis of the zodiac. Ruling the 4th and 10th houses, the IC and MC. Your humble roots and your peak.

Cancer is ruled by the moon, waxing and waning along the sky, reflecting the sun's light and controling the tides of the sea.

Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, the task master who humbles all with ego. Placing challenges for you to overcome and remind you that time is valuable and that life is not forever. Reality.

These two signs bring out the best and reveal the worst in each other. Patience and understanding is needed from both sides in order to even try to be anything more than friends. As lovers, they hold the other to a higher standard.

Cancer has to toughen up, be more direct, and learn to either ask or figure out the difference between Cap's bluntness and their disdain/rage.

Capricorn has to understand Cancer's shell isn't as thick as with others, so they're more sensitive. Communicating in a softer manner needs to be learned along with working through their apprehension of showing affection/doting on their partner along with saying you appreciate what they do.

Tall orders for both, since it forces both to grow and leave their conform zones. It's reward, yet difficult to deal with. Since both signs will feel under attack at times and unable to be themselves without hurting the other.

Trust. Loyalty. Devotion. Patience. All will be needed in building the foundation of the relationship. Both signs need alone time as well, so that's another thing that can't be ignored.

In the end, for all this struggle, the signs would bring out the best in each other by helping the other conquer the worst within them with the help of the other.

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This statement is exactly what we all said inn different wording...I'm sure everybody read the profile of their compatibility BUT have they ever experienced it was why this thread was made...BUT thanx for giving us the profile posted here because this exactly what happens with every case it's just all in the individuals involved

That cancer is a piece of work...tell y'all how he justifies his ignorance by telling ME all these lies...we had a text agreement last night...two hours later he text AND said,"If that's how yhu feel ok bye man dnt have time for dis shit. . . Yhu doin nd sayin man leave me alone bye ... im tired of the bs"...That happened at two thirds morning...8am he was calling my phone...i had him on my call rejection list so it sent him to voice mail...so he text saying,"dwu i know you see i just called you"...i called him bax where we picked up from arguing BEFORE he went to Sleep...he tells me I'm on that bs because I'm the one who wants to get feelings and shyttt...i told him we're NOT on the same page or levels of things...AND hes too contradictory for me AND passive aggressive...only a mentally unstable person would go thru what they don't have to AND I'm NOT his property AND he will NOT Treat ME like such,by doing whatever he wants to me AND control what i told him was uncontrollable (which was my mind AND emotions)AND i told him I'm done he doesn't have to call or text me anymore cause his actions NOT adding to what was said in the initial greeting...now I'm feeling terrible cuz my cycle came on AND it's my lilth time being a cancer...so I'm more inside of myself now than he is

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Cancer 13.11
Moon Libra 11.03
Mercury Gemini 22.28
Venus Cancer 0.29
Mars Virgo 20.58
Jupiter Sagittarius 6.42 R
Saturn Pisces 24.45
Uranus Capricorn 29.07 R
Neptune Capricorn 24.29 R
Pluto Scorpio 28.08 R
Lilith Gemini 20.34
Asc node Scorpio 2.51


His lilth is Gemini...whirlpool is exactly what is going on right now...i felt during our conversation this morning he wasn't gone for good as if he was another person AND he didn't even know what was going on with his previous life like he had amnesia...that twin living out in the open right now...AND he told me I'm tripping BUT he didn't even have a response for half our conversation this morning to say anything

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Capricorn 28.04
Moon Virgo 8.04
Mercury Aquarius 1.58
Venus Sagittarius 11.14
Mars Aries 7.08
Jupiter Pisces 20.38
Saturn Sagittarius 17.16
Uranus Sagittarius 24.36
Neptune Capricorn 6.22
Pluto Scorpio 9.48
Lilith Cancer 6.20
Asc node Aries 14.56

This i my chart...

You're old than him.
You're both in your early twenties.
Give it a decade and see if he mellows out and if you both still care at that point.

A decade would definitely mean it's over

This man is officially adding insult to injury...
He calls ME like nothing ever even happened...AND was asking ME who was all at my house...was i expecting anybody AND after i told him the usual...no...AND...no...here asked if i could come to him...i told him no...AND basically i seen he was just trying to feel more emotions from ME to see if i left him alone AND was i still mad...then he said hey I'm about to goo to step ttyl tomorrow...i just don't understand all...if he doesn't WANT me why would he be even doing all this right lol...but i realize i CAN make him come to me if i just sit back AND wait

Ps it's what all is NOT said that bothers ME...im Always wondering what's in his mind...i leave it alone When we do talk because he gets Moody...BUT i show my moodiness then he gets in compliance...i understand this is just one sign that can't bare with Having anyone mad at them...BUT he doesn't have to pity CARE about me...or pity anything...he is one of the finest men in this world so if it were just sex then he doesn't have too waste time on myself either because women throw themselves at him...it's as if he just REALLY is drawn to Me

Yeah, the last one I dated was a bitch to break up with. He wouldn't listen, wouldn't accept the answers he got, kept pestering me by texting late at night calling me names and a liar and making accusations, etc. I just ignored him and he finally left me alone.

Then, after a few months he made sure I knew he had a new girlfriend and how she kept pestering him for sex and how much she wanted him. Wtf? I didn't care.

I guess he thought he was making me jealous.

Sounds to me like he wanted you to want him...why wasn't You into him

It's a long story, but I had a legitimate reason for ending the relationship. A reason that the head ruled over the heart and I had to make the best decision for my son and I at the time. I suppose he didn't understand it.

Dang no wonder this Crab is soo wishy washy, he is one of the airy types. I heard the airy Cancers are kinda tough to pin down. Usually if a Cancer is really serious about you, his actions will reflect that. I'm sorry on the behalf of the Cancers who caused you Capricorns hell. I do understand with this pairing, it takes deep love, understanding, & great communication. I do agree with us Cancers learning to speak up more. I think we can learn a lot from Capricorns. I don't find it hard to understand y'all

The cancer i have actions show differently from his words too...so heart verses head been going in with us...his moon in Libra AND lilth in Gemini...i notice when I'm in my lilth I'm the cancer then that makes me seem so bipolar lol BUT he'll always check that I'm ok AND still there...i really love him it was love as first sight not saying its about looks BUT astrology compatibility test in cafe astrology even showed that inn our test off each of our ends BUT he doesn't WANT what i DO but if he does I'm no mind reader so I'm not trying to anticipate his next move out...BUT I'm patient enough to but have no more time to waste...

Lol ok then. Well if his actions match his sweet words he telling, then don't waste your time worrying about him. All i can tell you is, go by what your heart think is best for you, not your feelings. Decide is this really the kinda guy worth a future with. If he don't respect you, & honor you, then forget him ok. I wish you the best Capricorn lady. Take Care! alright 🙂

That's just the thing...he says he don't want too get involved...but he shows he be thinking about me allot. ..he text and calls to check on me;that's what he says...text sometimes says"Just thinking about you"...lately he's been calling and texting more than before...so it's just really confusing...right now i actually do need my emotions stirred up

Maybe he's just thinking about the booty call.....??

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
The sex is good.... 🙂

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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
The sex is good.... 🙂

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Veeeeery good! 🙂

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:-) :-) :-) very true !