Befriending SeaGoat Ladies

Hello dear Goats,


This is my first time upon your green pastures and I have an open ended question for you lot-


What advice would you offer a Stinger in regards to the best ways to befriend a SeaGoat lady? (or simply your preferred ways to be befriended)


Give me the do(s) and the don't(s).

Well CC, that is hardly manipulation. You normally notice a person before you actually befriend them and people enjoy being approached differently, this could largely affect how they respond to you.

[shrugs]


Although in this case, I already stuck a friendship with this SeaGoat lady but was wondering how I could improve this friendship and make it grow, thus a closer bond. Since I do appreciate her company, enjoyable lot you Goats are. 🙂

I have a hard time trusting people. So show that you're trustworthy. It will take a long time for a cap to trust. It is hard for me to make new friends because of this. So, don't dish or gossip about other people. And don't ever, ever repeat anything she says to anyone. Especially if she opens up about how she feels about something or someone, she will feel vulnerable so make sure she knows she can be secure with you. Open up to her and show her that you trust her.

Another thing is humor. If you bring humor and fun to her life, she will want to hang out with you. I'm drawn to people I can make laugh.

Go out for drinks a few times. That helps me relax and open up to people. In my young years, I bonded with people through partying together, but I'm way past that age now. lol!

Make sure you are sincere and genuine. Caps can smell fakeness from a mile away. We can also see manipulation, though we may never let on. Oh, I'm sure a few get past our spidey senses, but usually we know when someone's trying to manipulate. We may let it go, and continue to be friendly and hang with them, but we won't ever bond with them. Not completely, there will be some distance.

Anyway, just be yourself. I find some scorpios are hard talk to, so be a conversationalist. Caps can be shy occasionally, so seek her out and continue to invite her to do things. Activities build bonds as well.

I'm sure you'll be fine. Just be patient and give the friendship time to build. The friends I have now, I've had for 15 years.

Posted by truecap
I I'm drawn to people I can make laugh.

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I meant I'm drawn to people who can make me laugh. And I appreciate someone who gets my off the wall humor, so if I make you laugh, that works too.

🙂

this is my take on what cap ladies gravitate towards when it comes to friendship??_

one on one time. personally, i'm ok in a crowd, but my attention is extremely divided. in a small group, i listen way more than i engage. one on one time is the best.

not sure about other cap chicks but i'm really easy going with what i like to do when i'm hanging out??_ i'm that chick that likes to go to art museums, natural history museums, botanical gardens, a wine bar, a hike ??_love being outside, salon, lunch??_ antique store. if there's a hobby you both like??_ do that together. my cap gf loves to cook as much as i do??_ so we cook dinners together while enjoying wine or cocktails. so chill. it's great.

i like comedy shows, clubs every once in a while, fairs and concerts too??_ but if we're still getting to know each other, that might be a lot of extraneous stimulation.

i agree with true cap??_ my thoughts even before skimming her post??_ i tend to gravitate towards people i sense genuine character from. i think scorps and caps bring that out of each other in abundance though. at least in my experience.

also, it's always really meaningful to me when someone really tries to care about my life and lets me care about theirs. if we can have good times and "real" times, it goes a long god damn way. if i can make that kind of exchange with someone and their life, then i feel a deep and loyal bond. chances are you've got a place in my heart for good.

last part. caps need laughter more than we realize sometimes. scorpios generally possess my favorite kind of humor in all of the zodiac. my lil scorpio sister, and one of my best friends??_ she might be the funniest person i know. we also have the best silly banters. many a good memory with that woman??_ many. love the scorp-cap dynamic.

Not a chick, and not sure about befriending Cap ladies, but myself (male Cap) and Scorps (esp. females), seem to have a natural chemistry. Always have.

Peas and carrots, I tell ya.