Did I handle this appropriately? What should I expect?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by areyyyy on Wednesday, May 10, 2017 and has 5 replies.

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@Chuckcem
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Just realized this was a double post: I answered you here, though this thread is probably more appropriate: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/were-my-actions-appropriate--8464906/?checkpg=1

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Posted by areyyyy
Hello all, Im new here & I have just had a question burning in my head. Typical Cancer female (July 13, 1993), I cant stop mulling over it. I have dated an Aquarius man before. I like to think I am pretty familiar w their ways. Anyways, I had an aqaurian guy ( Feb 2, 1988) attempting to persue me for about 2 weeks strait. I wasnt playing hard to get, but i didnt feel i knew his motives, so I was watching him closely. We wouldn't talk unless he hit me up, but I was however open. If he asked to meet up we would. He would randomly txt me asking if he could come "get a hug." We would legitimately sit in front of my apartment in his car talking for about an hr & a half , then i wouldgive him a hug & he would go home. I made it clear to him that I was taking things slowly... having dealt w an aqaurius before & moving to fast w him, i felt this was best. Anyways, he asked me if he could take me out for dinner & a movie the nxt night & i agreed. The nxt day there was no word from him until 10:30 PM. He finally called, but after feeling stood up & tested ( in perfect aquarius style ) I declined the call. We haven't spoke since then & that was about 3 days ago. I'm not really bothered... i just want to know why the vanishing act on a day I was invited out was even necessary. Someone explain please

Hi there perty girl ? I'm a July 13 S well! I dunno about Aquas for dating but I need to see your placements...

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@areyyyy
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Posted by rochellea
I think you should have answered his call to set the date to have dinner and see a movie with him.

that was the night we had set up to go out. he said specifically, "wanna go for a movie & dinner tomorrow?" i agreed. then the day of he didnt call me until 10:30 PM. i dont catch dinner dates that late unfortunately. so i felt stood up.

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I'd say it depends on his reasons. If he had an emergency that's fine, but if he just got "cold feet" after making plans, that's no go.