cap man falling or just sweet? Opinion?

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I'm casually seeing this Cap guy.

I say casual because the terms are casual I said I was looking for fwb) but it does not feel all that casual on his end

He spoons me, and nuzzles me, gives me long sensual kisses when I first arrive. He has asked me whether or not id ever want kids, in bed together.
a bootycall turns into 2 nights of cuddling, turned into him driving me around one day on his motorcycle to run some errands, including visiting a friend of mine for a moment.She noticed the way he fixed my helmet strap on our way out and thinks he wants to gf me hah

He took me to a local mall recently and dragged me to one of those old school photo booths, and the photos of us are just really sweet, kissing and cuddling, he insisted on keeping half the strip of photos.
Another time we broke onto a roof to have sex, and afterwards he took photos of us cuddling on the edge of the roof with the timer/tripod.
The way he's staring at me in the pics, smiling is like a puppydog

I gave him a joke teddybear we saw on sale at walmart, after valentines day (we were there for cheap chocolate), it was like 2 bucks and stupid like, we laughed at how dumb it was and how no one would ever want such a terribly dumb thing, (I'm a bit of a troll) but it's still where he first tossed it near his bed, and not shoved in a bin or given away or any other number of things he could have done with it.

-he got me a tooth brush to keep at his place
-he replaced a chair with a more comfortable one, and welded it himself, and was pretty excited to ask my opinion of the chair he 'put together for me'

What is cap like when he is falling?

Is this all just normal behaviour for a FWB cap or what? cause like.. I'm a little confused but I am really starting to like him now, he's more boyfriendy to me than any of my boyfriends 😆

**confused**
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d this conversation and agreed on these terms:

Posted by CancerLeoDynamite
I'm casually seeing this Cap guy.

I say casual because the terms are casual I said I was looking for fwb)
Then you have to have this conversation and clarify things:

Posted by CancerLeoDynamite
. I'm a little confused but I am really starting to like him now, he's more boyfriendy to me than any of my boyfriends 😆

**confused**
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Honestly I''m starting to fall for him too, I'm realllly new to FWB never done this before, (plus you know.. a cancer/leo so right away that was a bad idea lol)
but turns out we make incredibly good friends too and have parallel life goals/hobbies that arent exactly normal or easily compatible with other people, so that was a big one we were both pleasantly surprised to discover.

I was pretty scared about how much I was starting to like this guy but now I'm just excited to see where it all goes!

We've only been seeing one another for about 5 weeks now, it's waaay tosoon to have a talk, no?



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Posted by tcta
lol first, I'm too old to even know what fwb is - and second my moon is Capricorn so he will most like put it like this in between the grunts "it is what it is" and then finish up with another grunt lololol - gotta love the Capricorns!!!
HAHAHAHAHAHA

*dead*

and FWB = friends with benefits.

I was married, divorced and celibate for a looong time, then got into another serious long term thing that ended in August, so I was trying out the casual sex but less casual than one night stand sorta thing cause I was NOT looking to be in another relationship but celibacy is for the birds.

but now?

Oh dear.
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fwb do similar stuff. But he was crazy as fuck, so...

I just figured it was the ego getting possessive and weird because his dick went into vagina and that equated "mine" to him. He acted like he was being relationshippy, but it still boiled down to "no, this isn't serious."

It was weird and annoying as fuck. It's like okay if you have feelings, say so. If you don't stop acting like a freak. But like I said, he was a bit off his rocker (he still is, apparently). He was like that with most females he came into contact with- very "I want my cake and to eat it too" mentality.

As others have mentioned, you need to have a conversation. I don't care if it's been 5 weeks. You need to figure this out now before it gets really messy and damaging to both of you.

How did you meet this guy and come across bringing up fwb to begin with?


Posted by truecap
**confused**
This feeling comes up with FWB arrangements almost every single time.
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Because people don't communicate. It's slightly understandable because of the bit of fear that dwells in these ponderings of bringing it up. It's either fear of rejection because the feels are involved, or fear of losing the benefit of sex.