Alley08
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Capricorn dating multiple women at the same time?
Posted by kitten_Posted by Alley08Posted by kitten_
What are your sign?
libra click to expand
and the other guy? What is his sign? click to expandclick to expand
The guy i'm seeing? cap
It's normal. We talk to many women but that does not mean we are dating everyone. And him comparing himself with the other guy shows he does not see you just as a friend.
Posted by Capricorn91
It's normal. We talk to many women but that does not mean we are dating everyone. And him comparing himself with the other guy shows he does not see you just as a friend.
Right, but he said he's hooking up with 2 other girls. At the same time he's saying he wants a serious thing with me and not just a hook-up. It just doesn't make sense to me, like if you're looking for the one you don't want to hook-up or am i wrong?
Posted by Alley08He might not be sure with any one yet but might feel more for you. You better clarify him that you want it exclusive. Once we set eyes on one person we don't do hookups.Posted by Capricorn91
It's normal. We talk to many women but that does not mean we are dating everyone. And him comparing himself with the other guy shows he does not see you just as a friend.
Right, but he said he's hooking up with 2 other girls. At the same time he's saying he wants a serious thing with me and not just a hook-up. It just doesn't make sense to me, like if you're looking for the one you don't want to hook-up or am i wrong? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Capricorn91Exactly, that's why i thought maybe he's just a player because i never had a guy before tell me so boldly that he's hooking up with another girl. I mean it's just the first date and i already told him that i want something serious, so him saying he wants the same thing, but is sleeping with other girls is puzzling me about how faithful he is in generalPosted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91
It's normal. We talk to many women but that does not mean we are dating everyone. And him comparing himself with the other guy shows he does not see you just as a friend.
Right, but he said he's hooking up with 2 other girls. At the same time he's saying he wants a serious thing with me and not just a hook-up. It just doesn't make sense to me, like if you're looking for the one you don't want to hook-up or am i wrong? click to expand
He might not be sure with any one yet but might feel more for you. You better clarify him that you want it exclusive. Once we set eyes on one person we don't do hookups. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Alley08Did he openly say he is sleeping with them or just casually talking? Give him some time and then see.Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91
It's normal. We talk to many women but that does not mean we are dating everyone. And him comparing himself with the other guy shows he does not see you just as a friend.
Right, but he said he's hooking up with 2 other girls. At the same time he's saying he wants a serious thing with me and not just a hook-up. It just doesn't make sense to me, like if you're looking for the one you don't want to hook-up or am i wrong? click to expand
He might not be sure with any one yet but might feel more for you. You better clarify him that you want it exclusive. Once we set eyes on one person we don't do hookups. click to expand
Exactly, that's why i thought maybe he's just a player because i never had a guy before tell me so boldly that he's hooking up with another girl. I mean it's just the first date and i already told him that i want something serious, so him saying he wants the same thing, but is sleeping with other girls is puzzling me about how faithful he is in general click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91
It's normal. We talk to many women but that does not mean we are dating everyone. And him comparing himself with the other guy shows he does not see you just as a friend.
Right, but he said he's hooking up with 2 other girls. At the same time he's saying he wants a serious thing with me and not just a hook-up. It just doesn't make sense to me, like if you're looking for the one you don't want to hook-up or am i wrong? click to expand
He might not be sure with any one yet but might feel more for you. You better clarify him that you want it exclusive. Once we set eyes on one person we don't do hookups. click to expand
Exactly, that's why i thought maybe he's just a player because i never had a guy before tell me so boldly that he's hooking up with another girl. I mean it's just the first date and i already told him that i want something serious, so him saying he wants the same thing, but is sleeping with other girls is puzzling me about how faithful he is in general click to expand
Did he openly say he is sleeping with them or just casually talking? Give him some time and then see. click to expandclick to expand
Well when i said "haha JUST hanging out!! i'm sure she wants to make a move on you" he said "oh yeah i know that we will hook-up" which means they will have sex
Posted by Alley08Oh okay. Then better clarify that you want exclusivity. Otherwise you will be just a friend.Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91
It's normal. We talk to many women but that does not mean we are dating everyone. And him comparing himself with the other guy shows he does not see you just as a friend.
Right, but he said he's hooking up with 2 other girls. At the same time he's saying he wants a serious thing with me and not just a hook-up. It just doesn't make sense to me, like if you're looking for the one you don't want to hook-up or am i wrong? click to expand
He might not be sure with any one yet but might feel more for you. You better clarify him that you want it exclusive. Once we set eyes on one person we don't do hookups. click to expand
Exactly, that's why i thought maybe he's just a player because i never had a guy before tell me so boldly that he's hooking up with another girl. I mean it's just the first date and i already told him that i want something serious, so him saying he wants the same thing, but is sleeping with other girls is puzzling me about how faithful he is in general click to expand
Did he openly say he is sleeping with them or just casually talking? Give him some time and then see. click to expand
Well when i said "haha JUST hanging out!! i'm sure she wants to make a move on you" he said "oh yeah i know that we will hook-up" which means they will have sex click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Capricorn91Right, yeah i guess so. I doubt he sees me as a friend as he mentioned at the end of the date he really likes me, plus we kissed. Thanks though 🙂Posted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91
It's normal. We talk to many women but that does not mean we are dating everyone. And him comparing himself with the other guy shows he does not see you just as a friend.
Right, but he said he's hooking up with 2 other girls. At the same time he's saying he wants a serious thing with me and not just a hook-up. It just doesn't make sense to me, like if you're looking for the one you don't want to hook-up or am i wrong? click to expand
He might not be sure with any one yet but might feel more for you. You better clarify him that you want it exclusive. Once we set eyes on one person we don't do hookups. click to expand
Exactly, that's why i thought maybe he's just a player because i never had a guy before tell me so boldly that he's hooking up with another girl. I mean it's just the first date and i already told him that i want something serious, so him saying he wants the same thing, but is sleeping with other girls is puzzling me about how faithful he is in general click to expand
Did he openly say he is sleeping with them or just casually talking? Give him some time and then see. click to expand
Well when i said "haha JUST hanging out!! i'm sure she wants to make a move on you" he said "oh yeah i know that we will hook-up" which means they will have sex click to expand
Oh okay. Then better clarify that you want exclusivity. Otherwise you will be just a friend. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Alley08You're welcome😊. Yeah that's so confusing. How old are you guys?Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91
It's normal. We talk to many women but that does not mean we are dating everyone. And him comparing himself with the other guy shows he does not see you just as a friend.
Right, but he said he's hooking up with 2 other girls. At the same time he's saying he wants a serious thing with me and not just a hook-up. It just doesn't make sense to me, like if you're looking for the one you don't want to hook-up or am i wrong? click to expand
He might not be sure with any one yet but might feel more for you. You better clarify him that you want it exclusive. Once we set eyes on one person we don't do hookups. click to expand
Exactly, that's why i thought maybe he's just a player because i never had a guy before tell me so boldly that he's hooking up with another girl. I mean it's just the first date and i already told him that i want something serious, so him saying he wants the same thing, but is sleeping with other girls is puzzling me about how faithful he is in general click to expand
Did he openly say he is sleeping with them or just casually talking? Give him some time and then see. click to expand
Well when i said "haha JUST hanging out!! i'm sure she wants to make a move on you" he said "oh yeah i know that we will hook-up" which means they will have sex click to expand
Oh okay. Then better clarify that you want exclusivity. Otherwise you will be just a friend. click to expand
Right, yeah i guess so. I doubt he sees me as a friend as he mentioned at the end of the date he really likes me, plus we kissed. Thanks though click to expandclick to expand
It sounds weird to me. Depends how he said it. I think the previous comments are very logical, but it’s not the point, in logical robot talk yes ask him if he means exclusive and all that. To me it sounds like he’s bragging a bit at how many women want to sleep with him, sounds pathetic if it is. Or maybe he’s saying he has a total of two other women he’s friendly with, also sounds pathetic. And why tell you in this way? And then ask you several questions when you see at the same thing. Honestly the whole thing is weird and you feel a certain way about it for a reason. I wouldn’t talk to him about it, it’s a red flag. See him again but proceed with caution. It’s up to you though. Did he also show you a picture of the Porsche he might buy? Look I get it, if you’re still dating multiple people, then fine, say that, but don’t say how many and act like they might hook up with you. Lol, you don’t think it’s weird? Does he want a serious relationship with you or one of the other women he wants to hook up with? And yes he does want to hookup with them, because it’s on his mind so much, that he has to tell you. Of course you feel like a friend.
I bet he tells all the women he knows other women he might hook up with
Lol - so romantic!
Lol - so romantic!
Posted by AriesJoWell this is how the conv started. After he said he is looking for long term with me and not just a hook-up i said me too and then i asked if he's dating anyone and he said nope but i'm just going to hangout with this girl next week, i laughed and said JUST hanging out and he said it's honestly just a walk around town and i pushed it and said oh so you're telling me she doesn't want to make a move on you? and he said umm well she mentioned that she wants to hook-up so i'm pretty sure it will happen and i just acted normal then i said and that's everyone? he said there's another girl i'm talking to but it's not serious as she's immature. and then he asked me saying i'm sure you're talking to other guys too? i said i'm talking to a couple of them and dating one atm and he started in a joking way asking me so many questions about the one i'm dating, he didn't seem happy the more i talked about him, but tried to be friendly about it!!
It sounds weird to me. Depends how he said it. I think the previous comments are very logical, but it’s not the point, in logical robot talk yes ask him if he means exclusive and all that. To me it sounds like he’s bragging a bit at how many women want to sleep with him, sounds pathetic if it is. Or maybe he’s saying he has a total of two other women he’s friendly with, also sounds pathetic. And why tell you in this way? And then ask you several questions when you see at the same thing. Honestly the whole thing is weird and you feel a certain way about it for a reason. I wouldn’t talk to him about it, it’s a red flag. See him again but proceed with caution. It’s up to you though. Did he also show you a picture of the Porsche he might buy? Look I get it, if you’re still dating multiple people, then fine, say that, but don’t say how many and act like they might hook up with you. Lol, you don’t think it’s weird? Does he want a serious relationship with you or one of the other women he wants to hook up with? And yes he does want to hookup with them, because it’s on his mind so much, that he has to tell you. Of course you feel like a friend.
Unless there is an agreement of exclusivity on the table, ALWAYS assume he is dating/fuckin other people.
Posted by Pio
apologized if anything I've said based on assumption was wrong.
Haha no worries. I welcome any thoughts as i am not that experienced. 🙂
Posted by ScorpioTruthThis is very interesting and helpful for sure. But do you know what worries me the most!
He’s feeling you out and seeing if you’re trustworthy and trying to see how much competition he has. Be straight forward with him if you can potentially see yourself falling for him or wanting to be serious. Set boundaries now saying if you want to be exclusive and let him know if you’re willing to end that other thing you’ve got going with the other guy and let him know if he’s serious about you, that you expect for him to be only with you. Don’t pretend to be ok with the casual roll if you’re not.
If he thinks you’re entertaining other men he will continue entertaining the other girls and will keep you in the casual but not serious zone. Caps are very insecure and need to know they are the only ones .. will never admit it but they are.
I’m not a cap but have been with one for 10 years. Good luck!
is that i can tell he's verrry sexual more than me, plus i like to wait a few months before i sleep with a guy,
so if i say to him i want to be exclusive he might think he'll get it and if i tell him the truth he might go behind my back and get it because he needs it. That's why i want it to be casual until i'm sure about him and in the meantime he can get it from someone else. I feel i'm messed up!
Posted by LadyNeptune
Unless there is an agreement of exclusivity on the table, ALWAYS assume he is dating/treetrunkin other people.
True true, my girlfriends keep saying if a guy does that while dating even if we're not exclusive then he's a player and will keep talking to girls even in a relationship!! ugh i'm not sure anymore
Posted by Alley08Are these girlfriends of yours successful at dating?Posted by LadyNeptune
Unless there is an agreement of exclusivity on the table, ALWAYS assume he is dating/treetrunkin other people.
True true, my girlfriends keep saying if a guy does that while dating even if we're not exclusive then he's a player and will keep talking to girls even in a relationship!! ugh i'm not sure anymore click to expandclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Alley08Posted by LadyNeptune
Unless there is an agreement of exclusivity on the table, ALWAYS assume he is dating/treetrunkin other people.
True true, my girlfriends keep saying if a guy does that while dating even if we're not exclusive then he's a player and will keep talking to girls even in a relationship!! ugh i'm not sure anymore click to expand
Are these girlfriends of yours successful at dating? click to expandclick to expand
LMFAO
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Alley08Posted by LadyNeptune
Unless there is an agreement of exclusivity on the table, ALWAYS assume he is dating/treetrunkin other people.
True true, my girlfriends keep saying if a guy does that while dating even if we're not exclusive then he's a player and will keep talking to girls even in a relationship!! ugh i'm not sure anymore click to expand
Are these girlfriends of yours successful at dating? click to expandclick to expand
haha i guess so, one just got married and the other she's been with her bf for 4 years
Posted by Alley08Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Alley08Posted by LadyNeptune
Unless there is an agreement of exclusivity on the table, ALWAYS assume he is dating/treetrunkin other people.
True true, my girlfriends keep saying if a guy does that while dating even if we're not exclusive then he's a player and will keep talking to girls even in a relationship!! ugh i'm not sure anymore click to expand
Are these girlfriends of yours successful at dating? click to expand
haha i guess so, one just got married and the other she's been with her bf for 4 years click to expandclick to expand
Long term relationships aren’t helpful to navigating the current dating trends. Js.
Posted by LadyNeptuneWell the married one she is very closed minded and pretty traditional like doesn't believe in online dating and stuff lol and the other friend she slept with every guy she met before her current one (like casual dating), luckily he turned out to be a good one haha.. But yeah i agree it's a different trend.Posted by Alley08Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Alley08Posted by LadyNeptune
Unless there is an agreement of exclusivity on the table, ALWAYS assume he is dating/treetrunkin other people.
True true, my girlfriends keep saying if a guy does that while dating even if we're not exclusive then he's a player and will keep talking to girls even in a relationship!! ugh i'm not sure anymore click to expand
Are these girlfriends of yours successful at dating? click to expand
haha i guess so, one just got married and the other she's been with her bf for 4 years click to expand
Long term relationships aren’t helpful to navigating the current dating trends. Js. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Alley08I think its naive to think men (and women) aren't dating multiple people in this age of infinite options. Doesn't mean they are 'bad people' or 'players'. Its just how it is in this age of Aquarius/ dating apps.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Alley08Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Alley08Posted by LadyNeptune
Unless there is an agreement of exclusivity on the table, ALWAYS assume he is dating/treetrunkin other people.
True true, my girlfriends keep saying if a guy does that while dating even if we're not exclusive then he's a player and will keep talking to girls even in a relationship!! ugh i'm not sure anymore click to expand
Are these girlfriends of yours successful at dating? click to expand
haha i guess so, one just got married and the other she's been with her bf for 4 years click to expand
Long term relationships aren’t helpful to navigating the current dating trends. Js. click to expand
Well the married one she is very closed minded and pretty traditional like doesn't believe in online dating and stuff lol and the other friend she slept with every guy she met before her current one (like casual dating), luckily he turned out to be a good one haha.. But yeah i agree it's a different trend. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Alley08Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Alley08Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Alley08Posted by LadyNeptune
Unless there is an agreement of exclusivity on the table, ALWAYS assume he is dating/treetrunkin other people.
True true, my girlfriends keep saying if a guy does that while dating even if we're not exclusive then he's a player and will keep talking to girls even in a relationship!! ugh i'm not sure anymore click to expand
Are these girlfriends of yours successful at dating? click to expand
haha i guess so, one just got married and the other she's been with her bf for 4 years click to expand
Long term relationships aren’t helpful to navigating the current dating trends. Js. click to expand
Well the married one she is very closed minded and pretty traditional like doesn't believe in online dating and stuff lol and the other friend she slept with every guy she met before her current one (like casual dating), luckily he turned out to be a good one haha.. But yeah i agree it's a different trend. click to expand
I think its naive to think men (and women) aren't dating multiple people in this age of infinite options. Doesn't mean they are 'bad people' or 'players'. Its just how it is in this age of Aquarius/ dating apps. click to expandclick to expand
Totally, i just can't find anyone around me who sees it this way too, we're all free to do what we want until both people agree to be serious, and then here is where i suck haha because of my extreme trust issues
Posted by ScorpioTruthI agree that i should be myself, i need to get over this fear of losing a guy. You're very wise i wish you're in my life haha. Thanks a lot 🙂Posted by Alley08Posted by ScorpioTruth
He’s feeling you out and seeing if you’re trustworthy and trying to see how much competition he has. Be straight forward with him if you can potentially see yourself falling for him or wanting to be serious. Set boundaries now saying if you want to be exclusive and let him know if you’re willing to end that other thing you’ve got going with the other guy and let him know if he’s serious about you, that you expect for him to be only with you. Don’t pretend to be ok with the casual roll if you’re not.
If he thinks you’re entertaining other men he will continue entertaining the other girls and will keep you in the casual but not serious zone. Caps are very insecure and need to know they are the only ones .. will never admit it but they are.
I’m not a cap but have been with one for 10 years. Good luck!
This is very interesting and helpful for sure. But do you know what worries me the most!
is that i can tell he's verrry sexual more than me, plus i like to wait a few months before i sleep with a guy,
so if i say to him i want to be exclusive he might think he'll get it and if i tell him the truth he might go behind my back and get it because he needs it. That's why i want it to be casual until i'm sure about him and in the meantime he can get it from someone else. I feel i'm messed up! click to expand
Don’t change who you are... if you’re not ready, you’re not ready. Don’t let your concerns about what he will do or whether or not he will wait cause you to lower your standards. Just be who you are, and if he waits, he waits. If he doesn’t, you’ll be glad that you waited and never slept with him. Caps like women who are strong and set boundaries, so that may be what sets you apart from the rest. Just be yourself. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by ScorpioTruthAwww i'm so sorry it sucks to go through stuff like that, but it made you a stronger woman who values herself. I wish i'm as strong haha.. Can i message you in the future if i have a question?Posted by Alley08Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by Alley08Posted by ScorpioTruth
He’s feeling you out and seeing if you’re trustworthy and trying to see how much competition he has. Be straight forward with him if you can potentially see yourself falling for him or wanting to be serious. Set boundaries now saying if you want to be exclusive and let him know if you’re willing to end that other thing you’ve got going with the other guy and let him know if he’s serious about you, that you expect for him to be only with you. Don’t pretend to be ok with the casual roll if you’re not.
If he thinks you’re entertaining other men he will continue entertaining the other girls and will keep you in the casual but not serious zone. Caps are very insecure and need to know they are the only ones .. will never admit it but they are.
I’m not a cap but have been with one for 10 years. Good luck!
This is very interesting and helpful for sure. But do you know what worries me the most!
is that i can tell he's verrry sexual more than me, plus i like to wait a few months before i sleep with a guy,
so if i say to him i want to be exclusive he might think he'll get it and if i tell him the truth he might go behind my back and get it because he needs it. That's why i want it to be casual until i'm sure about him and in the meantime he can get it from someone else. I feel i'm messed up! click to expand
Don’t change who you are... if you’re not ready, you’re not ready. Don’t let your concerns about what he will do or whether or not he will wait cause you to lower your standards. Just be who you are, and if he waits, he waits. If he doesn’t, you’ll be glad that you waited and never slept with him. Caps like women who are strong and set boundaries, so that may be what sets you apart from the rest. Just be yourself. click to expand
I agree that i should be myself, i need to get over this fear of losing a guy. You're very wise i wish you're in my life haha. Thanks a lot click to expand
These are just lessons I had to learn the hard way ❤️ Trying to save you the heartache and grief click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91Posted by Alley08Posted by Capricorn91
It's normal. We talk to many women but that does not mean we are dating everyone. And him comparing himself with the other guy shows he does not see you just as a friend.
Right, but he said he's hooking up with 2 other girls. At the same time he's saying he wants a serious thing with me and not just a hook-up. It just doesn't make sense to me, like if you're looking for the one you don't want to hook-up or am i wrong? click to expand
He might not be sure with any one yet but might feel more for you. You better clarify him that you want it exclusive. Once we set eyes on one person we don't do hookups. click to expand
Exactly, that's why i thought maybe he's just a player because i never had a guy before tell me so boldly that he's hooking up with another girl. I mean it's just the first date and i already told him that i want something serious, so him saying he wants the same thing, but is sleeping with other girls is puzzling me about how faithful he is in general click to expand
Did he openly say he is sleeping with them or just casually talking? Give him some time and then see. click to expand
Well when i said "haha JUST hanging out!! i'm sure she wants to make a move on you" he said "oh yeah i know that we will hook-up" which means they will have sex click to expand
Oh okay. Then better clarify that you want exclusivity. Otherwise you will be just a friend. click to expand
Right, yeah i guess so. I doubt he sees me as a friend as he mentioned at the end of the date he really likes me, plus we kissed. Thanks though click to expandclick to expand
He may like you and the other girl at same time. Question is are you okay with him hooking up with both of you.
Every time my cap talks about other girls i die lol
Personally I wouldn’t raise it with him, focus on more fun and positive conversations and enjoy the process of working out who he is.
To a woman, a man with more than one women chasing him is attractive. women cannot decide like men can so they need other women to tell them he’s a guy worth having. Stupid I know, but true, look around. Married men are more attractive to women than single men. However for a guy, a women with more than one man chasing her, that can be hassle he can’t be bothered with. So the rules are different. A guy implies subtly women chase him, it’s a attractive. A women implies it, and she seems a serial dater, or a branch climber, not attractive.
From what you’ve said, I’m not sure he is dating more than one woman, those women sound like friends to me.
Csn you guys check my post out. Need advice 😢
A few cap men are players, but they'll still test the waters looking for one they can be serious about. He'll see how you are with him at first to judge how you are with other men. If you sleep with him before dating excusively, he'll feel like you'll be doing that with anyone in his eyes. He says the other women are no big deal cause 1) he wants you to know he's desireable to others and hopefully you'll want him too (because after all, everybody else does lol) and 2) he's letting you know, in a really immature way, that he's available to you because they're easy to get rid of in case you want him and because you're just that special lol. Just be careful and again, hold off on sex until you know he's zeroed in on you as an excusive girlfriend. They'll fall in love with you cause you're different/special and nobody else is a challenge. If he's young, he may just be immature and really not be that way or if he's older (29 on up) he may be a player and he'll probably cheat on you eventually, even if you're married. You can't change anyone's ways, they'll treat you in the long run like they treat the others. I'm a cap woman married to a cap man (different one, said no to the one mentioned above), but most are very good and want to be faithful.
Posted by VenusgirlHe's almost 27, i'm out of town so we still haven't gone on our 2nd date. He texts me everyday though, have full conversations with me mostly asking me about this other guy like oh is he taking you on a third date? where? are you going to drink haha? and the same night i was gonna go with the other guy he texted me a LOT saying oh you seems to be falling for him blah blah and that you will forget about me, and he puts a laughing emoji as if he's joking but i know he's not. Next day he said how did it go, did he make a move on you? did you go to his place? and i just blew up at him and told him you keep thinking i'm gonna hook-up with him and stuff, like if you think so then i'm not that type and that applies to you too.. He blew up back saying maybe this guy is for you and i'm happy for you blah blah. I waited a day to calm down and texted him saying i think you and i are fine and stuff like that then he told me "oh thank god, i really like you more now and i didn't mean anything i said in that text, i was just testing you to see how genuine you are" !!
A few cap men are players, but they'll still test the waters looking for one they can be serious about. He'll see how you are with him at first to judge how you are with other men. If you sleep with him before dating excusively, he'll feel like you'll be doing that with anyone in his eyes. He says the other women are no big deal cause 1) he wants you to know he's desireable to others and hopefully you'll want him too (because after all, everybody else does lol) and 2) he's letting you know, in a really immature way, that he's available to you because they're easy to get rid of in case you want him and because you're just that special lol. Just be careful and again, hold off on sex until you know he's zeroed in on you as an excusive girlfriend. They'll fall in love with you cause you're different/special and nobody else is a challenge. If he's young, he may just be immature and really not be that way or if he's older (29 on up) he may be a player and he'll probably cheat on you eventually, even if you're married. You can't change anyone's ways, they'll treat you in the long run like they treat the others. I'm a cap woman married to a cap man (different one, said no to the one mentioned above), but most are very good and want to be faithful.
Posted by capitalismHahahah i'm very faithfulPosted by Alley08Posted by kitten_
What are your sign?
libra click to expand
I would be more worried about your cheating ass. click to expandclick to expand
One question to ask yourself if this individual you're seeing "is a player" would be: why is he being so honest about it?
To inspire you, a player wouldn't straightforwardly tell you if there was another girl that he is seeing. They are hidden and never mentioned at any point of the day when you're both together. OFFICALLY CLASSIFIED.
The Cap man told you honestly there was a few others he was seeing, that should be a sign that he isn't a player.
He is casually dating to see who he fancies more, have more in comman, how the vibes feels, how entertaining the relationship is without putting too much effort, and who he will settle down with.
There is really no point about figuring this person out.
To inspire you, a player wouldn't straightforwardly tell you if there was another girl that he is seeing. They are hidden and never mentioned at any point of the day when you're both together. OFFICALLY CLASSIFIED.
The Cap man told you honestly there was a few others he was seeing, that should be a sign that he isn't a player.
He is casually dating to see who he fancies more, have more in comman, how the vibes feels, how entertaining the relationship is without putting too much effort, and who he will settle down with.
There is really no point about figuring this person out.
Posted by EchoThank you so much for your point.. I am really clueless about guys, i've been burnt before so i try my best to not repeat the same thing again
One question to ask yourself if this individual you're seeing "is a player" would be: why is he being so honest about it?
To inspire you, a player wouldn't straightforwardly tell you if there was another girl that he is seeing. They are hidden and never mentioned at any point of the day when you're both together. OFFICALLY CLASSIFIED.
The Cap man told you honestly there was a few others he was seeing, that should be a sign that he isn't a player.
He is casually dating to see who he fancies more, have more in comman, how the vibes feels, how entertaining the relationship is without putting too much effort, and who he will settle down with.
There is really no point about figuring this person out.
Posted by capitalismok that makes me feel good hahaPosted by Alley08Posted by capitalismHahahah i'm very faithful click to expandPosted by Alley08Posted by kitten_
What are your sign?
libra click to expand
I would be more worried about your cheating ass. click to expand
Capricorn men are all good, it's the capricorn females you need to worry about. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Alley08No problem. If a man is playing you, there is no reason to fear.Posted by Echo
One question to ask yourself if this individual you're seeing "is a player" would be: why is he being so honest about it?
To inspire you, a player wouldn't straightforwardly tell you if there was another girl that he is seeing. They are hidden and never mentioned at any point of the day when you're both together. OFFICALLY CLASSIFIED.
The Cap man told you honestly there was a few others he was seeing, that should be a sign that he isn't a player.
He is casually dating to see who he fancies more, have more in comman, how the vibes feels, how entertaining the relationship is without putting too much effort, and who he will settle down with.
There is really no point about figuring this person out.
Thank you so much for your point.. I am really clueless about guys, i've been burnt before so i try my best to not repeat the same thing again click to expandclick to expand
At the end of the day, they are not paying your Bills
Posted by Echohaha kinda true, but a player will tear my heart apart "if say i fell for him"Posted by Alley08Posted by EchoThank you so much for your point.. I am really clueless about guys, i've been burnt before so i try my best to not repeat the same thing again click to expand
One question to ask yourself if this individual you're seeing "is a player" would be: why is he being so honest about it?
To inspire you, a player wouldn't straightforwardly tell you if there was another girl that he is seeing. They are hidden and never mentioned at any point of the day when you're both together. OFFICALLY CLASSIFIED.
The Cap man told you honestly there was a few others he was seeing, that should be a sign that he isn't a player.
He is casually dating to see who he fancies more, have more in comman, how the vibes feels, how entertaining the relationship is without putting too much effort, and who he will settle down with.
There is really no point about figuring this person out.
No problem. If a man is playing you, there is no reason to fear.
At the end of the day, they are not paying your Bills click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Alley08Posted by EchoPosted by Alley08No problem. If a man is playing you, there is no reason to fear.Posted by Echo
One question to ask yourself if this individual you're seeing "is a player" would be: why is he being so honest about it?
To inspire you, a player wouldn't straightforwardly tell you if there was another girl that he is seeing. They are hidden and never mentioned at any point of the day when you're both together. OFFICALLY CLASSIFIED.
The Cap man told you honestly there was a few others he was seeing, that should be a sign that he isn't a player.
He is casually dating to see who he fancies more, have more in comman, how the vibes feels, how entertaining the relationship is without putting too much effort, and who he will settle down with.
There is really no point about figuring this person out.
Thank you so much for your point.. I am really clueless about guys, i've been burnt before so i try my best to not repeat the same thing again click to expand
At the end of the day, they are not paying your Bills click to expand
haha kinda true, but a player will tear my heart apart "if say i fell for him" click to expandclick to expand
Yes, but that's really your choice of you want to be hurt forever. 🙂
Posted by EchoVery true 🙂 annnnd wisePosted by Alley08Posted by Echohaha kinda true, but a player will tear my heart apart "if say i fell for him" click to expandPosted by Alley08Posted by Echo
One question to ask yourself if this individual you're seeing "is a player" would be: why is he being so honest about it?
To inspire you, a player wouldn't straightforwardly tell you if there was another girl that he is seeing. They are hidden and never mentioned at any point of the day when you're both together. OFFICALLY CLASSIFIED.
The Cap man told you honestly there was a few others he was seeing, that should be a sign that he isn't a player.
He is casually dating to see who he fancies more, have more in comman, how the vibes feels, how entertaining the relationship is without putting too much effort, and who he will settle down with.
There is really no point about figuring this person out.
Thank you so much for your point.. I am really clueless about guys, i've been burnt before so i try my best to not repeat the same thing again click to expand
No problem. If a man is playing you, there is no reason to fear.
At the end of the day, they are not paying your Bills click to expand
Yes, but that's really your choice of you want to be hurt forever. click to expandclick to expand
He's almost 27, i'm out of town so we still haven't gone on our 2nd date. He texts me everyday though, have full conversations with me mostly asking me about this other guy like oh is he taking you on a third date? where? are you going to drink haha? and the same night i was gonna go with the other guy he texted me a LOT saying oh you seems to be falling for him blah blah and that you will forget about me, and he puts a laughing emoji as if he's joking but i know he's not. Next day he said how did it go, did he make a move on you? did you go to his place? and i just blew up at him and told him you keep thinking i'm gonna hook-up with him and stuff, like if you think so then i'm not that type and that applies to you too.. He blew up back saying maybe this guy is for you and i'm happy for you blah blah. I waited a day to calm down and texted him saying i think you and i are fine and stuff like that then he told me "oh thank god, i really like you more now and i didn't mean anything i said in that text, i was just testing you to see how genuine you are" !!
You handled that perfectly. He's curious and trying to see if you are open to dating him, plus now he completely respects you. Cap men can blow up and say all kinds of things, but never mean it. I've noticed that they all seem to do that, but they don't mean a word of it. So, the fact that you also handled his blow up well speaks very highly of you because he'll do it again. The main thing is...is this one a player? Most caps aren't, but they're out there. The way to tell is to look for signs like how he treats other women. The one I referred to (not the Cap I married) did some bad things like break a date date with a girl on the night I said I would have my first date with him and also his last serious relationship ended because he ex found too many receipts for hotel rooms in his pockets, plus his two brothers were married and had put their wives in the hospital with broken arms!!! He said he'd never do that. I still dated him for 8 months exclusively because he was very persistent and he wanted to get married...uh no. He knew it was over when I refused to wear the perfume he bought me (his mother's favorite). So, they can be charming, but see how he treats others. If they're in love with you, you are the queen. But, still, I'm pretty sure I'd be in the hospital if I'd have married that one so, look for red flags and how they treat other women (do that with every man you date).
Posted by VenusgirlThanks 🙂 .. well this cap you mentioned is very dishonest for sure. Yeah my cap when i asked him "testing me for what?" he refused to tell me in details what is he testing me for he said you just passed. It's tough to know how he is with other women while dating, he doesn't have many friends nor a sister and his mother is on the other side of the planet. So i guess it's about time, from what i saw he's pretty nice to everyone around him but we'll see. Mine is very persistent too that's weird. I remember i asked him what do you look for in a girl? He said "you know loyalty, friendship, independent the normal stuff" .
He's almost 27, i'm out of town so we still haven't gone on our 2nd date. He texts me everyday though, have full conversations with me mostly asking me about this other guy like oh is he taking you on a third date? where? are you going to drink haha? and the same night i was gonna go with the other guy he texted me a LOT saying oh you seems to be falling for him blah blah and that you will forget about me, and he puts a laughing emoji as if he's joking but i know he's not. Next day he said how did it go, did he make a move on you? did you go to his place? and i just blew up at him and told him you keep thinking i'm gonna hook-up with him and stuff, like if you think so then i'm not that type and that applies to you too.. He blew up back saying maybe this guy is for you and i'm happy for you blah blah. I waited a day to calm down and texted him saying i think you and i are fine and stuff like that then he told me "oh thank god, i really like you more now and i didn't mean anything i said in that text, i was just testing you to see how genuine you are" !!
You handled that perfectly. He's curious and trying to see if you are open to dating him, plus now he completely respects you. Cap men can blow up and say all kinds of things, but never mean it. I've noticed that they all seem to do that, but they don't mean a word of it. So, the fact that you also handled his blow up well speaks very highly of you because he'll do it again. The main thing is...is this one a player? Most caps aren't, but they're out there. The way to tell is to look for signs like how he treats other women. The one I referred to (not the Cap I married) did some bad things like break a date date with a girl on the night I said I would have my first date with him and also his last serious relationship ended because he ex found too many receipts for hotel rooms in his pockets, plus his two brothers were married and had put their wives in the hospital with broken arms!!! He said he'd never do that. I still dated him for 8 months exclusively because he was very persistent and he wanted to get married...uh no. He knew it was over when I refused to wear the perfume he bought me (his mother's favorite). So, they can be charming, but see how he treats others. If they're in love with you, you are the queen. But, still, I'm pretty sure I'd be in the hospital if I'd have married that one so, look for red flags and how they treat other women (do that with every man you date).
Wow, that's so interesting! He's going to ask you out now. He wants to date you and not just for a hookup, but will still manipulate things slowly, but surely to have sex asap (this will never stop with a Capricorn male - just preparing you lol). But really, you have total control/power over when and if that happens. He sounds happy and he thinks he's found someone worth it for a possible relationship. He sees you as special and not like the others. If he treats you disrespectfully like he has the others, don't put up with it and be gone. He'll beg for you back (if you want him). If this is a repeated test/game, then he hasn't grown up yet and doesn't know what he's doing. Again, watch for red flags, but also how he treats his mom too, or at least how he talks about her since she's so far away, cause that's how he'll treat a future wife and ask him about past relationships, why they ended, etc. and you'll learn a lot. If he treats you like a queen, exclusively, and you learn he's loyal to you, you're in for a great relationship.
Posted by VenusgirlHaha i really hope he wants something serious.. We did go on one date though, and he keeps saying he wants to see me again once i come back. He's always pretty respectful with me, up until today. We were texting and joking then he said "you're flirty in texts, but not naughty" i said i know i'm not because i'm bad at it, he said "i wish we did more naughty texts and you let your guards down" i said i don't get any satisfaction from it, i said what do you get out of it? he said "omg! it's fun and it turns me on, you're for sure terrible at this" i got upset at this and said i know i am then he said "i really liked the feeling of your tongue when we kissed lol, i wanna kiss you again" i said me too, and he said "i'm very tired now, we'll talk tomorrow, good night" no smily face or anything so i got the feeling he's angry or something which i don't care if he's upset because i'm not sexting with him, i'm not a slut. I don't know!!!
Wow, that's so interesting! He's going to ask you out now. He wants to date you and not just for a hookup, but will still manipulate things slowly, but surely to have sex asap (this will never stop with a Capricorn male - just preparing you lol). But really, you have total control/power over when and if that happens. He sounds happy and he thinks he's found someone worth it for a possible relationship. He sees you as special and not like the others. If he treats you disrespectfully like he has the others, don't put up with it and be gone. He'll beg for you back (if you want him). If this is a repeated test/game, then he hasn't grown up yet and doesn't know what he's doing. Again, watch for red flags, but also how he treats his mom too, or at least how he talks about her since she's so far away, cause that's how he'll treat a future wife and ask him about past relationships, why they ended, etc. and you'll learn a lot. If he treats you like a queen, exclusively, and you learn he's loyal to you, you're in for a great relationship.
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