Capricorn husband?

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Does anyone have any experience with a Cappy husband? What are they like? Trustworthy? Loyal? etc.

Thanks 🙂



Where do I start?
30+ years ago my husband was a...slut.
He was 23 when married first time married to a young woman
who used to cheat on him but he was cheating on her as well so...
No one got hurt.
After divorce he married again at 27 or so.
Same thing. Friends, girls, drinking. You name it.

After divorce he remarried again at 34. To a woman who did him
wrong with his good friend who he was going to the girls with.
So his friend was telling his wife who her husband was doing in
order to get her in a sack.

Then I came in his life. And everything changed. He was 37.
I was 27. I can tell he was never cheating on me. Ever.
Loyal, everything is just as supposed to be for 20+ years.

So I guess it is age thing. or just a right woman who will not stand
her husband cheating on her. Go figure. And good luck
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So, he was married three times, cheated on each of his wives (regardless of reason, he broke the vow and cheated). But you think he's different (or will be different) with you? What makes you so special?
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Posted by truecap
Posted by Gemi9
Posted by SunMoonStars
Does anyone have any experience with a Cappy husband? What are they like? Trustworthy? Loyal? etc.

Thanks 🙂



Where do I start?
30+ years ago my husband was a...slut.
He was 23 when married first time married to a young woman
who used to cheat on him but he was cheating on her as well so...
No one got hurt.
After divorce he married again at 27 or so.
Same thing. Friends, girls, drinking. You name it.

After divorce he remarried again at 34. To a woman who did him
wrong with his good friend who he was going to the girls with.
So his friend was telling his wife who her husband was doing in
order to get her in a sack.

Then I came in his life. And everything changed. He was 37.
I was 27. I can tell he was never cheating on me. Ever.
Loyal, everything is just as supposed to be for 20+ years.

So I guess it is age thing. or just a right woman who will not stand
her husband cheating on her. Go figure. And good luck



So, he was married three times, cheated on each of his wives (regardless of reason, he broke the vow and cheated). But you think he's different (or will be different) with you? What makes you so special?
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Because she's been married to him for 20+ years. I think she would know 🙂
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Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by truecap
Posted by Gemi9
Posted by SunMoonStars
Does anyone have any experience with a Cappy husband? What are they like? Trustworthy? Loyal? etc.

Thanks 🙂



Where do I start?
30+ years ago my husband was a...slut.
He was 23 when married first time married to a young woman
who used to cheat on him but he was cheating on her as well so...
No one got hurt.
After divorce he married again at 27 or so.
Same thing. Friends, girls, drinking. You name it.

After divorce he remarried again at 34. To a woman who did him
wrong with his good friend who he was going to the girls with.
So his friend was telling his wife who her husband was doing in
order to get her in a sack.

Then I came in his life. And everything changed. He was 37.
I was 27. I can tell he was never cheating on me. Ever.
Loyal, everything is just as supposed to be for 20+ years.

So I guess it is age thing. or just a right woman who will not stand
her husband cheating on her. Go figure. And good luck



So, he was married three times, cheated on each of his wives (regardless of reason, he broke the vow and cheated). But you think he's different (or will be different) with you? What makes you so special?



Because she's been married to him for 20+ years. I think she would know 🙂
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And she cheats on him.
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Posted by Gemi9
Posted by truecap
Posted by SunMoonStars
Does anyone have any experience with a Cappy husband? What are they like? Trustworthy? Loyal? etc.

Thanks 🙂



I know only one cap man that is married. He treats his lady like a queen and he is the most loyal and trustworthy husband there is. Very stable. Very committed.



That is what he became. At 37.

And what is making me so special?
I made Scorpio man tell me I love you without asking.
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the guy you are having an emotional affair with?
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Instead of hi-jacking the thread, why not keep it on point and enlighten the OP
with some Cap reality info? 😛
I know two married cap men, both loyal, hardworking and sincere in their everyday lives.
They do everything for their families and their children, and I have never sensed any coldness from either of them at any point.
I see a reluctance to end things when they get hard, rather a determination to work harder on relationships that require effort - Cappys' rise to the occasion- almost revitalized by the challenge of struggling in marital love.
(This is pertaining to demonstrably mature Cap men).
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I am a capricorn woman and married to a capricorn guy. I am 30 and he just turned 50 a few months ago.

Despite the age gap, he is very young looking for his age like he's in his early 40s. He is very loving, affectionate and spends time with me and we try to have dinner out once a week. He is Very trustful. We got married in November last year after being introduced by mutual friends 15 months prior.

Hubby had been married before at 27 yrs old and divorced his wife after 17 yrs of marriage because she was seeing other men, would not take care of their 3 children, wouldn't cook/clean the house etc, would take her family on 5 star holidays with husbands money. Husband would come home from work and wife had locked herself in their bedroom and he couldn't shower and get fresh clothes and he'd go to work in his clothes the day before. his dad told him to divorce her many years sooner as she was holding him back career wide and eventually he stopped wanting to have sex with her. After a year or so of no sex, he initiated the divorce. She managed about 1-2 yrs before divorce to get hubby to transfer money to her from his savings to make it easier paying for bills etc. He never got that money back. She also manage to somehow wire 250k out of his account into hers, don't know how but he could never be bothered to fight with her about it. Once he initiated divorce she wanted half of everything as they usually do. Courts said she was entitled to $ 25k cash and half of profits from sale of family home and child support for their 2 daughters she wanted to raise. She stopped allowing him visitation rights to his 2 girls which she cannot do as it's against the courts judgement and hubby can't be bothered taking her to court as she is a crazy peasant type woman. I am a step mom to his son and get along fine. I guess he never experienced home cooked meals.

After all this he declared to his family 1 month before meeting me that he couldn't trust women and never would marry. His family were shocked to hear about me and know I must be super special to his mind about love and marriage as not everyone out there is horrible and He has a lovely and big family too.

After being with a useless immature playboy kind of Taurus man, I'm glad to stick to someone with same personality as me but still be different enough.

I am not the king of woman wanting to waste time in a relationship where the guy wants to fool around and in the end I settled for a maturer man than an im