Capricorn man doesn't answer my questions

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by bbiee on Tuesday, October 23, 2018 and has 24 replies.

Why a Capricorn man may not respond to your messages

A Capricorn man may not reply if he feels overwhelmed or prefers limited communication. He tends to be reserved and values meaningful conversations. If he's busy or not interested, his responses might be brief or infrequent. Respecting his pace and giving him space can improve communication and help you understand his intentions better.

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@bbiee
7 Years

i met him and slept with him. he left the country.

i continued texting him but he doesn't write much. he replied one liners.

so one day i said something like, 'i like you. i want to talk to u but im not sure if i should continue sending messages like a fool.' no response. i sent another text maybe 1 or 2 days later asking, 'do u not want to talk to me anymore?' he replied where he was heading off to for work and said he doesn't like to text much.

i sent other texts too and i gave him loads of compliments as well. but replies were one line, matter-of-fact stuff. like meh. lol i'm leo. should i just move on? my fire is dying hahahaha

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

So you bring your pussy to him. Offer it up on a platter.

Chase him after.

Despite him ignoring you, you lavish him with compliments.

Not to be harsh...but. Surely you can see your acting a bit desperate?

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@bbiee
7 Years

Haha the compliments were there all along. Before during and after. I just wanted to hide the demanding side of a Leo by complimenting. Guess I was overdoing it.

That is true about the LDR and ONS. Oh dear but I’m not even upset about it. I feel a sense of euphoria swelling up in me every time I think of him. Haha am I being a lovelorn?

But why can’t he just tell me he doesn’t want me to text him anymore? I was already very blunt with asking and telling him it’s a waste of my time if he doesn’t want to talk to me (in a nice way).

I always experience this kind of weird attraction to Capricorn men. In the past there was this guy I was so attracted to him but somehow I just didn’t have much to talk to him about. But he’s nice with the places we go for food before or after 😂

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@Pandora101
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by bbiee

i want to let him go but i cannot stop thinking of him! oh dear what misery haha

the euphoria thing will wear out gradually, its a fairly fresh event, right?

but its nice to feel euphoria, focus on the feeling, not the man 🙂

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@Parkourler
10 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

It was just sex he doesnt have the heart to tell you this so he is not very talkative hoping that you get the message. Dont complicate this u cannot have sex without emotion cause thats whats it about.

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@Endless
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by bbiee

should i just move on? my fire is dying hahahaha

Yes.....

well if you want to hold onto something, is still venus retrograde, and I think the venus opposite uranus is going strong too, which means people might want some emotional distance, so, Idk, wait for venus direct? 😅 I think the opposition go well into november too 😆

I'm going through some heavy heart stuff too tbh

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@bbiee
7 Years

ehhh? sorry, i do not really study these movements! haha so what should i do? just move on? hahaha my heart is fluttering all the time

my rising is in cap! haha are u going through unrequited love? maybe we should all move on since there are so many men out there hahaha

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@HeavyEntertainmentShow
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@bbiee
7 Years

is an aries dominant pisces man a cusp? gosh if i could find one i would love it. i love how easy going aries people are and they are always up for things but can get rather selfish in their own pleasures.

i need my attention and my emotion shower but pisces men really bring it to another level. i felt tired actually lol it's like a reversal of roles.

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@HeavyEntertainmentShow
9 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by bbiee

is an aries dominant pisces man a cusp? gosh if i could find one i would love it. i love how easy going aries people are and they are always up for things but can get rather selfish in their own pleasures.

i need my attention and my emotion shower but pisces men really bring it to another level. i felt tired actually lol it's like a reversal of roles.

No cusp.

Pisces sun, Aries Mercury/Venus/Mars (throw in Sag ascendant for the lulz). More and more Leos seem to be gradually swarming around me these days. The one I'm dating is very unwilling to let me go, even though he claims he's not even properly gay.

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@bbiee
7 Years

Posted by hippiecrite

Leading with the pussy is almost never a good idea. If he wanted to be a part of your life, he would be. Move on.

ok i will move on then hahaha he will always be in my heart ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ kiss kiss haha

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@bbiee
7 Years

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Posted by bbiee

is an aries dominant pisces man a cusp? gosh if i could find one i would love it. i love how easy going aries people are and they are always up for things but can get rather selfish in their own pleasures.

i need my attention and my emotion shower but pisces men really bring it to another level. i felt tired actually lol it's like a reversal of roles.

No cusp.

Pisces sun, Aries Mercury/Venus/Mars (throw in Sag ascendant for the lulz). More and more Leos seem to be gradually swarming around me these days. The one I'm dating is very unwilling to let me go, even though he claims he's not even properly gay.

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ur effort in putting up those gifs make me want to fall in love with u already

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@bbiee
7 Years

Posted by -Romz-

Its very forthcoming of you to divulge all of that. I know it's not easy to say it/type it aloud when you're somewhat on the losing end of that situation.

It's very easy and astrology aside...your self worth depreciates every single time you put up with a situation where you are being disrespected. Of course not everyone will work on your timeline and that is something you seemed to have given time (few days between responses on his part) but at a certain point you have to realize that, that person is not reciprocating or respecting their communication with you. Why that is so essential: respect and communication are typically the building blocks in a relationship that isn't just bound by sex/attraction.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you reaching out to him to have him validate your concerns. If anything he seems to be lacking some very key aspects such as genuine respect for women and if he had a healthier outlook/view of women he'd be able to respond to you with some honesty rather than avoidance and disrespect.

My advice: Stop validating him with text messages. You should be focused on your happiness and your desires and what you want from a partner. Don't focus on what you are NOT getting, focus on what you desire and continue to date people and enjoy life.

Painful advice: typically guys like him wont respond to you but also wont tell you to move on because a lot of satisfaction is received with your messages and it feeds their ego. They have no intention of being anything to you but the validation is always wanted. There is no way to reverse that or change that.

Don't feel bad about wanting more from someone you were intimate with, as it's very natural.

You won't feel better about it right away but you will with time.

heyyy thanks for ur reply! actually yeh he lives in another country so i guess he's still being polite to reply . but yes it has been some time since so it's getting longer for him to reply but it's cool haha

im not upset about the sex part. i had fun so it's cool! hahahha maybe im being greedy? haha

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Posted by bbiee

is an aries dominant pisces man a cusp? gosh if i could find one i would love it. i love how easy going aries people are and they are always up for things but can get rather selfish in their own pleasures.

i need my attention and my emotion shower but pisces men really bring it to another level. i felt tired actually lol it's like a reversal of roles.

No cusp.

Pisces sun, Aries Mercury/Venus/Mars (throw in Sag ascendant for the lulz). More and more Leos seem to be gradually swarming around me these days. The one I'm dating is very unwilling to let me go, even though he claims he's not even properly gay.

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In his defense it’s must be hard to break away from the 30+ year old abuser (you) who groomed him from age 14.

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@bbiee
7 Years

gosh someone please help me snap out of this. i cannot stop thinking about him. i already met other guys for dinner / talk / sex but i cannot stop thinking about this one. good lord it's insane. is this love?! hahaha

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9 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by LadyNeptune

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Posted by bbiee

is an aries dominant pisces man a cusp? gosh if i could find one i would love it. i love how easy going aries people are and they are always up for things but can get rather selfish in their own pleasures.

i need my attention and my emotion shower but pisces men really bring it to another level. i felt tired actually lol it's like a reversal of roles.

No cusp.

Pisces sun, Aries Mercury/Venus/Mars (throw in Sag ascendant for the lulz). More and more Leos seem to be gradually swarming around me these days. The one I'm dating is very unwilling to let me go, even though he claims he's not even properly gay.

In his defense it’s must be hard to break away from the 30+ year old abuser (you) who groomed him from age 14.

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In times when Seraphine is the borderline rational one and you're the raving nutjob = comedy gold. You didn't nip your Gemitati fixation in the bud fast enough and you've become her. Albeit a more sexually frustrated version.

I'd normally say "next time get your numbers & your facts straight before coming at anyone, O Feeble One", but you're clearly not smart enough to get the gist of it. Or, you are & you're purposefully ignoring the facts and pulling fiction out of your stank ass.

Either way, same end result: you come out the other side looking like a retarded failtroll. Sad to see how low you've fallen. Or maybe I gave you too much credit. All cheap flash, no substance. And obviously miserable.

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9 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by bbiee

gosh someone please help me snap out of this. i cannot stop thinking about him. i already met other guys for dinner / talk / sex but i cannot stop thinking about this one. good lord it's insane. is this love?! hahaha

Might be. But I never imagined Leos and Caps being a good match longterm. Unless you have multiple earth placements that make you a couch potato, I would think he would bore you off your tit much sooner than later. They're not exactly known for their spontaneity and love of adventure.

You're better off with someone who can match your energy level in most aspects, not just the nookie. So I'd say focus on his negative traits long enough to convince yourself he ain't all your "downstairs brain" is cracking him up to be 😄

And distract yourself with other people. Once the rose tint fades, you'll see it was the smart thing to do and you might even find yourself wondering what on earth you saw in him.

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@bbiee
7 Years

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Posted by bbiee

gosh someone please help me snap out of this. i cannot stop thinking about him. i already met other guys for dinner / talk / sex but i cannot stop thinking about this one. good lord it's insane. is this love?! hahaha

Might be. But I never imagined Leos and Caps being a good match longterm. Unless you have multiple earth placements that make you a couch potato, I would think he would bore you off your tit much sooner than later. They're not exactly known for their spontaneity and love of adventure.

You're better off with someone who can match your energy level in most aspects, not just the nookie. So I'd say focus on his negative traits long enough to convince yourself he ain't all your "downstairs brain" is cracking him up to be 😄

And distract yourself with other people. Once the rose tint fades, you'll see it was the smart thing to do and you might even find yourself wondering what on earth you saw in him.

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i love how happy he is and how happy he looks. the shimmer in his eyes is mesmerising.

i have a cap rising! well technically i don't know him well hahaha but he has this set of qualities that im looking for in a partner - so i'm in love ! hahahaha

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@bbiee
7 Years

mercury: virgo

mars: taurus

saturn: capricorn

uranus:capricorn

neptune: capricorn

is this earthy enough haha

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Posted by bbiee

mercury: virgo

mars: taurus

saturn: capricorn

uranus:capricorn

neptune: capricorn

is this earthy enough haha

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Holy Mary Magdalene.......ooh shit.

Well, in most cases I say "astrology is loose guidelines at best" so don't get too much into it. You should focus on the man, not his chart. Get to know him the old fashioned way, by experiencing him. The good and the bad. *speaking generally, not specifically this guy*

After all, astrology does not account for personal circumstances. If he doesn't see you as a relationship contender, I don't know if there's much you can do about that. He wants what he wants, and he is who he is. You can't change him.

Maybe I sound a tad defeatist because I've had my fair share of challenges with all 3 men I've been in love with so far, but I also believe that life is too short to waste time chasing after someone who doesn't want you as much as you want him. Find someone who DOES want to be with you and appreciates everything you bring to the table.