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Posted by AndalusiaThey do and they will. With no remorse.
With no warning or conversation?
They have their reasons, reasons that they think are valid, but may in fact be a figment of their own imaginations.
Posted by champrangerCapricorn values efficiency over alternative opinions.Posted by frostey91Well, there are benefits for getting a different view. It's essentially what a lot of threads on DXP is about. As good as your or any one person's judgment is, I think bias always creeps in and can affect how you reach your conclusion.
I actually admire Libra's diplomacy and teamwork , what gets me is having to always ask about everyone else's opinion on the dumbest shit... I prefer self judgment.
Also not saying how they really feel unless really pushed.
IMO 🙂click to expand
Opinions are only needed the topic is important.
As one of my professors once said, " Opinions are like assholes everyone has one."
It's being indecisive and needing to be reassured about small stuff again my opinion.
That is the opinion of a first house Mercury and nothing in the 7th but guess what I have Libra Midheaven.
I act very Libra like in the diplomatic sense but less do u think this shirt and tie is a good combo?
In know what looks good
That's a bad example
Libras need to be reassured a lot
Honestly I could ask for more advice but I only ask advice about career shit and shit that will effect my life long term.
Posted by elllesqueI said the clothing was a bad example.Posted by frostey91you say 'caring too much' because you are seeing it from your perspective only. because 'you' care too much of what others may think.Posted by elllesqueIt's not my opinion it's everyone's. Caring too much about social desirability and afraid to rock the boat.Posted by frostey91lol @ you thinking that libra is asking your opinion because they really give a shit. 😛
I actually admire Libra's diplomacy and teamwork , what gets me is having to always ask about everyone else's opinion on the dumbest shit... I prefer self judgment.
Also not saying how they really feel unless really pushed.
libras could give a rats ass about your opinion......they ask to *appease* you. it's called social etiquette.
hell, they already know what tie they are wearing with that suit....they are a fucking libra! 😄click to expand
U see it your way I see it my way.
They do care.
They are not appeasing me. I'm appeasing when I give my opinion. Because they probably aren't talking about anything important anyway
It's not they always care, they always don't care. You act like they don't care it's just social etiquette.
I think most social etiquette is stupid and counterproductive...
Posted by elllesqueI went to college I know about biases
all air signs are intellectuals and information gatherers.
when you attempt to describe them, you really need to take your perspective completely out of it.
"They do this because....."I do this because I feel this"......". No.
Just because you feel something doesn't mean their actions have the same triggers.
Posted by frostey91Perfect example of Libra being to concerned with social etiquette. There are like 4 or 5 us going out and everyone is cutting in line. Everyone not just us a lot of people. The other people were not even mad that they were getting cut (did not voice opinions or give off body language. Libra doesn't cut he stays behind. Too scared to step on someone's toes.It was also like his 2nd time out... College town u cut if u can.Posted by elllesqueI said the clothing was a bad example.Posted by frostey91you say 'caring too much' because you are seeing it from your perspective only. because 'you' care too much of what others may think.Posted by elllesqueIt's not my opinion it's everyone's. Caring too much about social desirability and afraid to rock the boat.Posted by frostey91lol @ you thinking that libra is asking your opinion because they really give a shit. 😛
I actually admire Libra's diplomacy and teamwork , what gets me is having to always ask about everyone else's opinion on the dumbest shit... I prefer self judgment.
Also not saying how they really feel unless really pushed.
libras could give a rats ass about your opinion......they ask to *appease* you. it's called social etiquette.
hell, they already know what tie they are wearing with that suit....they are a fucking libra! 😄
U see it your way I see it my way.
They do care.
They are not appeasing me. I'm appeasing when I give my opinion. Because they probably aren't talking about anything important anyway
It's not they always care, they always don't care. You act like they don't care it's just social etiquette.
I think most social etiquette is stupid and counterproductive...
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Posted by elllesqueWhat makes you think their triggers are the same as mine. I know they are different. That's blantantly obvious. For you to think that I can't understand their motives whatever. I know about Libras my brother is one and I lived with them.
all air signs are intellectuals and information gatherers.
when you attempt to describe them, you really need to take your perspective completely out of it.
"They do this because....."I do this because I feel this"......". No.
Just because you feel something doesn't mean their actions have the same triggers.
Understanding something and liking it is different
Posted by elllesqueThe one that beat ND in basketball
*your
btw.....Indiana......
are you left, right, top or bottom?
I'm in one of the largest university towns.
Libra friend only listens to his fraternity boy's. If they told him to cut off his dick he would
Posted by elllesqueSmh I like Libra women more.
smh.....lol
you really don't like libras. 😛
I don't hate Libras.
I'm programes differently
I don't need others approval.
They do...
..gem and cancer moon with Aires Mars agrees w me and he has lived there an extra year. He sees all the a qualities I see..
Libra boy is Cancer moon and Scorp Mars
He has no idea who he is
Thank God he is good at CPUS.
LIBRA doesn't like me but could never talk to me about it.
Every set of his friends he introduced me too I always felt out of place. I had nothing in common with them.
I only related with his frat bros.
His frat bros thought he was a pussy too.
He transferred schools that had to do with it. He was looked at as both a black sheep and a pussy.
He didn't even say happy birthday start convo with someone who had the same birthday as him at the bar on his 21st...
Pussy... Shy pussy
Wouldn't talk to anyone at the bar outside his circle...
In had to start convo with some girls to make things interesting BC they were being lame.
I was the only one of the 3 roomies who went out with him for his 21st on a fucking Wednesday when he should have gone out Tuesday at midnight. Oh I have to have to study....
Weak get your work done before.
Tuesday nights are millions of times better
I hate Libra's but it was me the bitter Cap who dealt with him while the other roomies ditched him.
How inconsiderate of me 🙂
Posted by elllesque😄Posted by frostey91lol wut?
I don't hate Libras.
I hate Libra's
now you sound like a libra 😄click to expand
Posted by elllesqueYes but I'm more independent and decisive is themPosted by frostey91no, your aqua venus doesn't need approval at all.....but your cap sun is very concerned about image. it's all over your last post.
I don't need others approval.click to expand
When my money is right everything is in place.
Yes caps care about image more so status and position
I just feel like Libras are too obsessed w others appproval and social etiquette.
Posted by elllesqueAgreedPosted by frostey91you are obsessed with money, status, position and image.Posted by elllesqueYes but I'm more independent and decisive is themPosted by frostey91no, your aqua venus doesn't need approval at all.....but your cap sun is very concerned about image. it's all over your last post.
I don't need others approval.
When my money is right everything is in place.
Yes caps care about image more so status and position
I just feel like Libras are too obsessed w others appproval and social etiquette.
they are obsessed with others approval and social etiquette.
is there really one worse than the other?
to a scorpio, both lists of those priorities suck salty rocks. 😈click to expand
You are a formidable debater.
Even though you miss some of my key points at times( maybe BC your different values 🙂
Trust me I see your view.
Scorps want power and control--you might not but that is the shadow side of Scorp.
Posted by elllesqueI know. It's just how you feel about Caps you understand them there is just things about them you don't like. I pointed out the Libra ones.Posted by frostey91....and this is what I was talking about in Rein's thread about the measuring stick.
Yes but I'm more independent and decisive then them .
Nobody cares. The "Royal" nobody. Only *you* care.
We all have something different to bring to the table. Nobody is better than the other. We are all just different.click to expand
The one I hate more than any is how they don't confront people when they have a problem, another notorious Libra thing. Just like aforementioned Libra boy who would dog his bear his best friend behind his back and never would say anything to him.
Virgo moon would nicely point out what it doesn't like.
Take the advice or not.
If something really bothers me about a friend, they either won't be my friend or we will discuss it.
Posted by elllesqueThat's why I get INTJ on my personality test thing a lot.Posted by frostey91....and this is what I was talking about in Rein's thread about the measuring stick.
Yes but I'm more independent and decisive then them .
Nobody cares. The "Royal" nobody. Only *you* care.
We all have something different to bring to the table. Nobody is better than the other. We are all just different.click to expand
INTJS place value on everything- is a hierarchy to them.
I'm actually an ambivert and my judging goes to percieving sometimes too.
Well it's established...
If you are not important enough Cappy can and will leave because we lack the social etiquette of Libras
Hahaha
If you are not important enough Cappy can and will leave because we lack the social etiquette of Libras
Hahaha
Posted by elllesqueWhat house is your Mercury?Posted by frostey91it's because we both have mercury in sag.....we probably get about 85% of what each other is trying to say.....the rest is still sitting in our heads 😄Posted by elllesqueAgreedPosted by frostey91you are obsessed with money, status, position and image.Posted by elllesqueYes but I'm more independent and decisive is themPosted by frostey91no, your aqua venus doesn't need approval at all.....but your cap sun is very concerned about image. it's all over your last post.
I don't need others approval.
When my money is right everything is in place.
Yes caps care about image more so status and position
I just feel like Libras are too obsessed w others appproval and social etiquette.
they are obsessed with others approval and social etiquette.
is there really one worse than the other?
to a scorpio, both lists of those priorities suck salty rocks. 😈
You are a formidable debater.
Even though you miss some of my key points at times( maybe BC your different values 🙂
Trust me I see your view.
Scorps want power and control--you might not but that is the shadow side of Scorp.
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I got ESTP this time
For personality.
Mercury has a lotlot to do with me being more extraverted. It's usually close to 50 50 intra vs extra
http://www.16personalities.com/estp-personality
For personality.
Mercury has a lotlot to do with me being more extraverted. It's usually close to 50 50 intra vs extra
http://www.16personalities.com/estp-personality
Wow. Talk about hijacking a thread.
Lol. It's cool; the exchanges were informative.
Which "hoes" are you referring to, frenchie? -_-
Posted by GreenteaYou're a CAP??Posted by SamCancerGirlWe are not forgetful if we care about the person (rarely we are forgetful) unless they made us not give af.
The cap didn't like something you said or did the last time you were in touch
They are sulking about something
They are too busy in their own world to notice that they haven't been in touch
They are forgetfulclick to expand
Where's your moon?
Hmm.. I'm beginning to think Caps and Virgos are not compatible. At least romantically speaking.
Posted by AndalusiaOr maybe it's my other placements that are chomping at the bit. Idk.
Hmm.. I'm beginning to think Caps and Virgos are not compatible. At least romantically speaking.
Posted by cheekyfaerieOh grrrr. I hope that's not the case. I'm not a child!Posted by AndalusiaSounds like he put you in time out, until you get yourself sorted. He'll check back in at some point and gauge your reaction.Posted by champrangerWe hung out on Thanksgiving (he invited me). Chatted briefly the next couple of days or so. I invited him out a week after Thanksgiving. He never responded or showed up. I texted him the next day "So I'm guessing you are either busy/preoccupied, or you changed your mind. Again." He immediately responded "ANDALUSIA CHILL OUT! Get out of your head. You're worrying too much." I've reached out a couple times since then but haven't heard back. I told/texted him this past weekend "You are hurting my feelings." No response.Posted by AndalusiaHow long since he stopped responding?
Hmm.. I don't feel any of these explanations are the reason this particular Cap stopped talking to me in particular.
But then agsin, maybe it is for one of these reasons. He won't respond though, so I don't know.
So it's been 3 weeks to a month since I've heard from or seen him.click to expand
When you say behavior modification, do you mean Withholding until the other falls in line and modifies their behavior? Or seeing how much the Withholding hurts the other person and modifying your own behavior?
Posted by cheekyfaerieNo, you're probably right. He's mentioned before his family is not good with open communication.. or communication in general.Posted by AndalusiaThe former. Good communication is something I've learned over the years, but it's totally not our strong suit. Don't wanna speak for all of us, but I've noticed it with other Cappies as well. Making the mistake of thinking we're speaking volumes with our silence. Remember, we're sea goats. The passive aggression can be strong with the unevolved.
When you say behavior modification, do you mean Withholding until the other falls in line and modifies their behavior? Or seeing how much the Withholding hurts the other person and modifying your own behavior?click to expand
Whether it is actually a family trait or specific to him remains to be seen.
Posted by SpiceNSugarThe question was answered.
Wow. Talk about hijacking a thread.
This is classic where did Cappy go?
Why isn't he talking to me
Answer-- he's not ready to be in a relationship w and you don't even know him well but you want him to be your everything.
Proper etiquette is to say hey I am Mr. Capricorn and I don't think this will work.
Or Mr. Capricorn should say hey maybe we can do something x time when I'm not busy.
For bow she is not apart of his agenda.
Like it or not
At least frostey has social etiquette and would have told her something.
Though any sign can ignore people--it's just one is hot the other is cold.
Posted by frostey91I disagree with the bolded part. Completely.Posted by SpiceNSugarThe question was answered.
Wow. Talk about hijacking a thread.
This is classic where did Cappy go?
Why isn't he talking to me
Answer-- he's not ready to be in a relationship w and you don't even know him well but you want him to be your everything.
Proper etiquette is to say hey I am Mr. Capricorn and I don't think this will work.
Or Mr. Capricorn should say hey maybe we can do something x time when I'm not busy.
For bow she is not apart of his agenda.
Like it or not
At least frostey has social etiquette and would have told her something.
Though any sign can ignore people--it's just one is hot the other is cold.click to expand
Posted by AndalusiaHere is why it could easily be a disaster with Cap and Virgo.
Hmm.. I'm beginning to think Caps and Virgos are not compatible. At least romantically speaking.
Virgos are nicer than Caps and giving.
Virgos are very critical, probaly more so than Caps (maybe this is my sag traits talking not my Cap)
Anyways a Capricorn could easily take advantage of a Virgo, because they are loving and giving and don't see things as a business exchange.
Virgo doesn't see things like a business exchange that's why in many ways they are like an Earthy Libra. Difference between Virgo will critique the hell out of people in whatever form, but Libras are usually " nice" about it.
Even though they are both practical and earth signs Cap is more likely to take advantage of Virgo then the other way around. A Virgo should never take advantage of a Cap, unless the Cap is desperate or that Virgo is Beyonce or somebody like that.
Remember relationships are less on the totem pole for Caps.
Virgo like to serve others and IMO are more dependent on others and what they think.
One of the Virgo mottos is I want ri be appreciated, they need to feel appreciated so they are more prone to seek that through relationships.
Caps only have relationships BC it's almost a taboo. It takes a while for Caps to be ready for love while all you fire and air signs are playing the field especially younger, Caps watches all of you cry in dissapointment as it is much more protective of its heart.
It's just what people do.
Cap would rather get to the top of the mountain first and then invite people and its mate.
If Cap is only half way up the mountain--you better be the shit stopping him for reaching the top---
Some Caps just want to be happy and aren't ambitious, but your values have to match.
This is a pairing where it clearly is important.
Both is these signs usually have strong values.
Posted by AndalusiaWhat are your other placements?Posted by AndalusiaOr maybe it's my other placements that are chomping at the bit. Idk.
Hmm.. I'm beginning to think Caps and Virgos are not compatible. At least romantically speaking.click to expand
Posted by AndalusiaYou care more than him that's my larger pointPosted by frostey91I disagree with the bolded part. Completely.Posted by SpiceNSugarThe question was answered.
Wow. Talk about hijacking a thread.
This is classic where did Cappy go?
Why isn't he talking to me
Answer-- he's not ready to be in a relationship w and you don't even know him well but you want him to be your everything.
Proper etiquette is to say hey I am Mr. Capricorn and I don't think this will work.
Or Mr. Capricorn should say hey maybe we can do something x time when I'm not busy.
For bow she is not apart of his agenda.
Like it or not
At least frostey has social etiquette and would have told her something.
Though any sign can ignore people--it's just one is hot the other is cold.click to expand
Posted by frostey91Ahh, gotcha. That makes more sense.Posted by AndalusiaYou care more than him that's my larger pointPosted by frostey91I disagree with the bolded part. Completely.Posted by SpiceNSugarThe question was answered.
Wow. Talk about hijacking a thread.
This is classic where did Cappy go?
Why isn't he talking to me
Answer-- he's not ready to be in a relationship w and you don't even know him well but you want him to be your everything.
Proper etiquette is to say hey I am Mr. Capricorn and I don't think this will work.
Or Mr. Capricorn should say hey maybe we can do something x time when I'm not busy.
For bow she is not apart of his agenda.
Like it or not
At least frostey has social etiquette and would have told her something.
Though any sign can ignore people--it's just one is hot the other is cold.click to expand
Posted by frostey91Sun virgoPosted by AndalusiaWhat are your other placements?Posted by AndalusiaOr maybe it's my other placements that are chomping at the bit. Idk.
Hmm.. I'm beginning to think Caps and Virgos are not compatible. At least romantically speaking.click to expand
Moon cancer
Merc virgo
Venus Leo
Mars Leo
Saturn Scorpio
Jupiter Aqua
Ascendant Cancer... cancer/Leo cusp I guess. If there is such a thing for rising signs.
I'm not looking at dating you I'm just comparing charts 🙂
I see lot's of problems how would they work with your moon (hit or misss--can be many misses if they are not emotionally mature)
I have Virgo moon so that works
Leo Venus is very loving--outgoing and affectionate but needy IMO
I have Cuspy Aqua who knows about that one
You have Mars Leo too damn
They probably think you are needy af (Caps, especially this one)
Then of course Cancer moon (emotionally needy)
Cappy needs some fire
You have a lot of fixed and yes cuspy Ascendants matter in regards to aspects.
Cuspy Ascendants can make it hard for others to read you as you vacillate.
I would almost recommend Scorpios but they need air or fire for your Leo placements--and hopefully their sun doesn't square it BC Sun square Mars is hell. (Especially for women)
Actually Cancer would be better match if they have some fire and are manly.
You could even go Leo depending on his placements.
I see lot's of problems how would they work with your moon (hit or misss--can be many misses if they are not emotionally mature)
I have Virgo moon so that works
Leo Venus is very loving--outgoing and affectionate but needy IMO
I have Cuspy Aqua who knows about that one
You have Mars Leo too damn
They probably think you are needy af (Caps, especially this one)
Then of course Cancer moon (emotionally needy)
Cappy needs some fire
You have a lot of fixed and yes cuspy Ascendants matter in regards to aspects.
Cuspy Ascendants can make it hard for others to read you as you vacillate.
I would almost recommend Scorpios but they need air or fire for your Leo placements--and hopefully their sun doesn't square it BC Sun square Mars is hell. (Especially for women)
Actually Cancer would be better match if they have some fire and are manly.
You could even go Leo depending on his placements.
Hmm.. everyone is needy in one way or another, imo. I think I just need more communication and consistency than he is either willing or able to give.
Posted by frostey91Oh. Well if cusps matter, then my Mars is on the cusp too between Leo and virgo.. 29 degrees Leo.
I'm not looking at dating you I'm just comparing charts 🙂
I see lot's of problems how would they work with your moon (hit or misss--can be many misses if they are not emotionally mature)
I have Virgo moon so that works
Leo Venus is very loving--outgoing and affectionate but needy IMO
I have Cuspy Aqua who knows about that one
You have Mars Leo too damn
They probably think you are needy af (Caps, especially this one)
Then of course Cancer moon (emotionally needy)
Cappy needs some fire
You have a lot of fixed and yes cuspy Ascendants matter in regards to aspects.
Cuspy Ascendants can make it hard for others to read you as you vacillate.
I would almost recommend Scorpios but they need air or fire for your Leo placements--and hopefully their sun doesn't square it BC Sun square Mars is hell. (Especially for women)
Actually Cancer would be better match if they have some fire and are manly.
You could even go Leo depending on his placements.
Posted by AndalusiaI don't think it's just the cap energy idk.
Hmm.. everyone is needy in one way or another, imo. I think I just need more communication and consistency than he is either willing or able to give.
I used to be communication needy too.
Then I realized I was communication needy and pumped my breaks.
I don't know. So you just gonna move on?
Lol @ the term communication needy. I'm ruled by Mercury.. I don't think there's any other way for me to be 😛
Posted by MontgomeryLibra moonPosted by GreenteaYou're a CAP??Posted by SamCancerGirlWe are not forgetful if we care about the person (rarely we are forgetful) unless they made us not give af.
The cap didn't like something you said or did the last time you were in touch
They are sulking about something
They are too busy in their own world to notice that they haven't been in touch
They are forgetful
Where's your moon?
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Posted by iCloud9They avoid sensitivity and control it
the caps close to me are very giving. far more than any other signs. they are just insensitive.
Posted by JahliaI forget to BC I've met so many people they do the same shit to me so we are even 😄
Um well it could be a variety of reasons really. On the negative end, if I feel as though someone has no purpose(as in all take and no give)in my life-I withdraw.
On the opposite end of the spectrum, often I just have nothing to say. I forget often, regardless if it's a close friend or not. I often just don't feel the need to text Or talk to the same person often. With friends there's just no need, ironically sometimes more So if we're close. The iron bond has been established-superficial conversation isn't necessary.
It's just something that I(not sure about other caps)do. I never think much of it-is this regarding a relationship where constant correspondence is standard? Like in a partnership? Or datingwise?
Posted by elllesqueWhen I said I hate Libras I was being fecetious. I was actually mocking the fact that u think I hate them.Posted by frostey91lol wut?
I don't hate Libras.
I hate Libra's
now you sound like a libra 😄click to expand
I feel about them the way you probably feel about Caps
You might admire things about them but your values are different on maybe something important enough to cause tension.
I know how Libras operate...
Posted by FrenchKpricornVraiment?Posted by FrenchKpricornWe want to cut it fast, but some people wont cut it fast, so we dissapear and that's WHY WE
ITS BECAUSEclick to expand
Posted by GreenteaOh.Posted by MontgomeryLibra moonPosted by GreenteaYou're a CAP??Posted by SamCancerGirlWe are not forgetful if we care about the person (rarely we are forgetful) unless they made us not give af.
The cap didn't like something you said or did the last time you were in touch
They are sulking about something
They are too busy in their own world to notice that they haven't been in touch
They are forgetful
Where's your moon?
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Posted by VanishHaving someone who makes you proud is shallow?Posted by frostey91That's like the definition of shallow. Whatever works for you though.Posted by VanishA trophy is something you are proud of.Posted by Chance_11NOT YOU. I was talking about what frostey said about how capricorns treat their girlfriends (I dont actually believe all caps are like that...or are you?), but now, yes you. And you're the sensitive one! :pPosted by VanishSorry, didn't mean to offend your whiny, sensitive moon vicariously through Elle. I'll be more careful next time 😉
Lol capricorns sound like jerks.
What is wrong with a woman who makes you proud.
Don't you want someone who makes you proud?
In the end all relationships are business contracts whether you want to use that terminology or not they are.
Person x offers this
Person y offers this
Can we work together and be profitable (happy and grow together)
That's how it worksclick to expand
Blatantly knowing that you offer this and I offer that and this is how it can or can't work is shallow?
You just don't like the word trophy it means something different to Cap energy.
You are looking at it as if it is an object (in this situation) you can't look at it that way. That's not how I mean it.
A trophy is something you worked hard for and accomplished and won.
In this case you won someone's heart and hopefully they win yours.
Everyone shows their mates off like trophy's because they are proud that they won their hearts.
If you don't feel proud when showing off your mate the mate is probably just a rebound or lame.
Relationships are business contracts...
You look at terminology like trophy and business contract and it abhors you. You look at the words but not how it is being used.
Kitten La Rouge understands perfectly.
We all have resumes that are presented to the other person and it's either accept or decline, mutually or one way.
You act as if I straight up say hey what do you offer me. Oh you offer me nothing fu.
It's done internally through my thought process and then I discuss things in a Libra like manner unless my bad side comes out and they piss me off.
Posted by elllesqueI know about LA Rouge. The what if post was like 300 pages. I wish I could read it.
You really don't want to compare anything to kittenlarouge..... I know you are fairly new to the boards.....she is the biggest catfish here.....like verified catfish-seen-with-our-own-eyes....she has also bend 23 for the past five years. Take care with that.
We don't even know if she is a capricorn.....all we know is the chic's Facebook page and pictures she was trying to use as her own was a capricorn.
Posted by elllesqueIt's not like a tangible business deal...yikes this is the 15% where we don't agree. I can't make you understand.
It is the definition of shallow though.....no matter how you try to explain that away.
Just because you are okay with that doesn't mean unsuspecting potential partners are.
Give them the same opportunity to take a look at that and let them decide whether they want to sign up for such things.
Your response is probaly I know it's not tangible.
Still there probaly isn't away for us to understand or agree in this.
Posted by elllesque
It is the definition of shallow though.....no matter how you try to explain that away.
Just because you are okay with that doesn't mean unsuspecting potential partners are.
Give them the same opportunity to take a look at that and let them decide whether they want to sign up for such things.
Posted by elllesqueThat means I really wasn't qualified to begin with 🙂Posted by frostey91Let's say you get an internship at this kick ass company and you have all the qualifications. You are doing so well, working overtime, fitting in....you absolutely love it....boss has even mentioned several times that you are likely to be hired in as a permanent employee....Posted by elllesqueIt's not like a tangible business deal...yikes this is the 15% where we don't agree. I can't make you understand.
It is the definition of shallow though.....no matter how you try to explain that away.
Just because you are okay with that doesn't mean unsuspecting potential partners are.
Give them the same opportunity to take a look at that and let them decide whether they want to sign up for such things.
Your response is probaly I know it's not tangible.
Still there probaly isn't away for us to understand or agree in this.
Then one day, you go into the office and all your shit is gone....and there is a security guard there waiting to escort you off the premises....you look around and nobody will even make eye contact with you. The boss's door is closed and the blinds drawn so you can't see in.
You grab your shit that was packed in a recycled box and the guard walks you all the way out to the parking garage and watches you like a hawk until you leave.
How would that make you feel?
Regardless of the situation, it's the same damn feels. 😄click to expand
So how does that relate to my metaphors?
I'm assuming both parties are aware and on board and both fulfill it.
Of course you could have early termination.
Are all relationships supposed to last forever?
Nottt...
We all get hurt...
Aw. I was hinting that both parties will assess the relationship (business contract and no funny business takes place).
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you only know this after years of knowing them and you don't need to be in the same place or even close by they just do
Cappies, do you find the traits to be similar? Or do you find Saturnian dominant folks understanding you more than others? What's your experience?
After being very close and intimate all of sudden they stop sex? They're still v close but except the sex.
I actually happened to see such a side back in June with a lady who happened to be on the cusp of Sag. Do you think there's a whorey side to Capricorn? Have you seen it either the men or women?
I'm a Scorpio (sun, Mercury, Venus & Gemini moon/Mars, Sagittarius rising) who's confused over a Capricorn (sun/Mercury, Gemini moon & Sagittarius Venus, Aries Mars & Pisces Rising). Gonna try to keep this short & sweet. We met in the middle of Octobe
Is it me or are Caps really messy?
So i literally just got back from seeing my cap friend who I have known for quite a few years, she's someone very dear to me. Anyway I am normally bubbly and able to help her in difficult situations and we both go home feeling so great and recharged.
Post your favorites here. We're pretty diverse in the music department. Dr. Milo Aukerman (Lead vocalist of the Descendents)- http://www.vancouversun.com/cms/binary/10161895.jpg?size=620x400s John Paul Johns (former bassist of Led Zeppelin)- https
Just wondering from an Aries point of view.. :)
Do caps chase when you don't respond to them much or avoid them, I've noticed that. That if you don't spend enough time with them & you're out doing your own thing that's when they want to give you attention. But when you want to give them attention, they
Its been almost one year to my breakup and still now I can't just simply kick that person out of my mind . He is on my mind 24/7. Let me know what you caps do to deal with these kinda situations and do you think rebound relationships work for that ? I
I'm curious to see some new faces around here. So I've decided do something to encourage you all to post a bit more. In this thread, introduce yourself and share something about yourself. Like a hobby you enjoy, favorite genre of books, music, movies..
I'm an Aquarius who is head over heels for this Capricorn. I've had a crush on him for a long time. We ended up running into eachother at a concert and hung out for a while then he invited me back to his place which I gladly accepted. We hooked up and exc
☺ï¸ I never meet caps I mean never ! So a couple weeks ago there's this new guy at work. Totally chill laid back dry humor and we have esp I swear . Anyways today I find out he's a cap . I'm excited! Never had a cap friend before .yay
I read something that I believe applies: "Capricorn prefers to plan sexual encounters and then proceed according to plan. A seduction feels like cooperation, foreplay like a warm-up, and intercourse like work. It should take time, and it should have a
One of the biggest complaints I see about Caps is that we don't open up to people. People say that's the way to really get to know one another and they have a hard time getting to know us because we don't open up. Yes, we are definitely selective with who
Hello to all, thanks for taking the time to read. I'm strongly attracted to this Capricorn, but don't know if I should proceed. I believe I already may have pushed him away with my emotional and being bipolar and what not we started talking on face
So I met this Capricorn a week ago. He gave me his number the Friday so I messaged him the Saturday afternoon. Every thing seemed great lots of chat getting to know each other we have a few things in common which is good. We were speaking for the whole we
This is a pretty good article on cappy, especially the men. Capricorn Capricorn, like Virgo, gets a bad rap. Cap may not have the pizazz of a Gemini or the downright sultriness of a Scorpio.However, Cap is the real deal. Gemini can be here today and
We went for a drive yesterday. Cap says " i'm hungry". Stops at a bakkery. Asks what i want. I say " 2 croissants". He came back 10 minutes later with 3 pastries. I say " where are the croissants" He says " didn't ask for them", " those pastries did lo