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Posted by elllesqueMissing my points..
The fuq out of here.....you would be pissed. Especially if there was zero explanation.
You don't realise what that does to someone. It's left very open ended with no answers. I am sorry, but that is just not right.
You also leave it open ended so if the opportunity fits you, you'll try to walk thru that door again.
If someone does not meet your qualifications.....sit their ass down and tell them. At least have the balls to do that. It's called respect.
Numero uno duh I would be mad in your hypothetical situation...
But I wasn't qualified to begin with...THEY LIED
OP from what we know isn't qualified from what we know ( SHE WAS PROMISED NOTHING)
Contract=Promise
She expected...
Expectations can get u f'd over...
Happens to everyone
The social contract is what every decent human being including myself believes in.
He " should communicate more" but does he have to?
Some people do read the signs...
Women avoid mfs too
Humans let you down...
Posted by elllesqueHahaPosted by frostey91 Are all relationships supposed to last forever?Realistically? No.
But you goats don't even let them unfold naturally.
You have some stop watch timer that goes off telling you...."Time is up!"
What are you afraid of? That you might actually have a successful relationship.....and you won't be able to bitch and moan the rest of your life?
You pessimistic miserly old men! 😛click to expand
Not one bit
If you got burned by the other person was it meant to be successful?
You are describing Tiger Woods not me...
Virgo makes me picky too but everything is situational
Posted by elllesqueYou think Cap man lied to her ?Posted by frostey91bingo!
But I wasn't qualified to begin with...THEY LIEDclick to expand
Posted by champrangerExplain please... Because it's not worse it's different.Posted by elllesqueSeems more Virgo than Cap, to me ...
....they will always pick at something.
Posted by elllesqueHow so?
They are control freaks....worse then scorpios.click to expand
Posted by elllesqueLaughs at the Capricorn part because that is an evil side.Posted by champrangervirgos pick for the greater god...LOL....they think they are helping you. bless them. I can handle a virgo criticism session all day, every day.Posted by elllesqueSeems more Virgo than Cap, to me ...
....they will always pick at something.
Posted by elllesqueHow so?
They are control freaks....worse then scorpios.
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caps pick.....because cap......god forbid if your 'image' isn't on queue with theirs or they will straight up disown you to others. lol
control freaks as in......you WILL do it THEIR way or you are just being a brat and unruly.click to expand
And true Capricorn is a rule maker ( run from these Caps)
I used to be like that-- expecting people to behave a certain way and give a certain way
Will do...unruly she's not lying.
Caps will sit alone in that mountain if they have to.
My evil side has come out since it became Capricorn season is that strange?
Posted by elllesqueYou have to find out first before you unleash Saturn's limitations saying this ends now.Posted by frostey91then don't deal with them at all.....not even a 'little' bit.Posted by GreenteaGod yes
Cause some people aren't worth the bullshit that come along with them.
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Posted by elllesqueHow do we find out if we can't deal with the bs if we don't get to know you though. It's impossible. You have to get to know someone to find out because a lot of people like to put up a facade at first.Posted by frostey91then don't deal with them at all.....not even a 'little' bit.Posted by GreenteaGod yes
Cause some people aren't worth the bullshit that come along with them.
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Posted by elllesqueWe just want the best for you, like we want for ourselves, you're a part of me of course I want best for that person. some see that as.controlling, I can see that, but that's not the intent.Posted by champrangervirgos pick for the greater god...LOL....they think they are helping you. bless them. I can handle a virgo criticism session all day, every day.Posted by elllesqueSeems more Virgo than Cap, to me ...
....they will always pick at something.
Posted by elllesqueHow so?
They are control freaks....worse then scorpios.
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caps pick.....because cap......god forbid if your 'image' isn't on queue with theirs or they will straight up disown you to others. lol
control freaks as in......you WILL do it THEIR way or you are just being a brat and unruly.click to expand
We just want what is best for people we love and care for.
Posted by elllesqueI agree with that. The ones I left in the dust are people I had no past or friendship with before dating them.
simply date until you are ready to make it exclusive or stay the friends route until you are ready to get past that hurdle.
don't pretend you care when you really don't. that crap hurts people.
most people who make it to the point of being exclusive....have some natural REALISTIC expectations.
They do not expect to have the carpet pulled from under them because they ended up not being 'qualified'.
Posted by GreenteaGod yes once morePosted by elllesqueHow do we find out if we can't deal with the bs if we don't get to know you though. It's impossible. You have to get to know someone to find out because a lot of people like to put up a facade at first.Posted by frostey91then don't deal with them at all.....not even a 'little' bit.Posted by GreenteaGod yes
Cause some people aren't worth the bullshit that come along with them.
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Posted by GreenteaInsert quespionage mark. Colour me confused.
We just want what is best for people we love and care for.
Posted by champrangerSomeone needs to make a business contract with her 😛Posted by elllesqueLOL, good business deal there 😛Posted by frostey91smh.Posted by elllesqueYou have to find out first before you unleash Saturn's limitations saying this ends now.Posted by frostey91then don't deal with them at all.....not even a 'little' bit.Posted by GreenteaGod yes
Cause some people aren't worth the bullshit that come along with them.
I need cap repellent then.
you guys should start manufacturing it. I don't even want a single eyeball from a capricorn to even LOOK in my general direction.
can you make that happen? I'll take three cases......and re-occuring monthly ones after that. 😄
I have to be safe!click to expand
Posted by AndalusiaWhat are you confused about?Posted by GreenteaInsert quespionage mark. Colour me confused.
We just want what is best for people we love and care for.click to expand
Posted by AndalusiaI meant question mark, not quespionage mark. But I somehow feel both are accurate.Posted by GreenteaInsert quespionage mark. Colour me confused.
We just want what is best for people we love and care for.click to expand
I am going to have to revisit the last two or so pages of this thread tomorrow when I am thinking clearer.
Posted by GreenteaWhat about those who aren't " qualified" enough for us to love them?
We just want what is best for people we love and care for.
@Iamarollin.
Now I'm trolling
Posted by frostey91Is this for me to answer or lmarollin?Posted by GreenteaWhat about those who aren't " qualified" enough for us to love them?
We just want what is best for people we love and care for.
@Iamarollin.
Now I'm trollingclick to expand
Posted by GreenteaU... Imarollin was mentioned for alternative reasons...Posted by frostey91Is this for me to answer or lmarollin?Posted by GreenteaWhat about those who aren't " qualified" enough for us to love them?
We just want what is best for people we love and care for.
@Iamarollin.
Now I'm trollingclick to expand
Posted by frostey91It depends....Posted by GreenteaU... Imarollin was mentioned for alternative reasons...Posted by frostey91Is this for me to answer or lmarollin?Posted by GreenteaWhat about those who aren't " qualified" enough for us to love them?
We just want what is best for people we love and care for.
@Iamarollin.
Now I'm trolling
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I will still treat them with respect, on a friend level. I won't give them the same as I would someone that I actually love though. No way.
Posted by GreenteaWhat people need to look at is the Aquapiscescusp's post about how Cap's love.Posted by frostey91It depends....Posted by GreenteaU... Imarollin was mentioned for alternative reasons...Posted by frostey91Is this for me to answer or lmarollin?Posted by GreenteaWhat about those who aren't " qualified" enough for us to love them?
We just want what is best for people we love and care for.
@Iamarollin.
Now I'm trolling
I will still treat them with respect, on a friend level. I won't give them the same as I would someone that I actually love though. No way.
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what would cause use to suddenly stop speaking to you probably isnt so sudden in our eyes. Long story short you pissed us of one too many times. We are very picky and sensitive towards those we have relations with. The ignoring is the end of a friendship for now... leave them alone for at least a month or until ur handle yr chet
And TBH, any of the given possible explanations could absolutely be correct.. Just because I don't see things a certain way doesn't mean he doesnt. From my point of view, there was no conversation or explanation given for his current silence. But conversely, he could feel like it was brought up numerous times and this current state of affairs is/was a last resort.
Or he could be completely oblivious and unbothered.
I guess regardless of the reasoning (or lack thereof), the larger lesson I need to take from this is our obvious discrepancy in the area of communication.
Can't promise I'll quit posting about him. But hopefully I'll at least continue to grow and learn my lessons and post about different aspects; not the same ones 🙂.
Or he could be completely oblivious and unbothered.
I guess regardless of the reasoning (or lack thereof), the larger lesson I need to take from this is our obvious discrepancy in the area of communication.
Can't promise I'll quit posting about him. But hopefully I'll at least continue to grow and learn my lessons and post about different aspects; not the same ones 🙂.
And he just wished me Merry Christmas..
Oh bother.
Oh bother.
Posted by AndalusiaDid you reply? They come back around to see how the land lies and if you will reply or not
And he just wished me Merry Christmas..
Oh bother.
Posted by SamCancerGirlI said "Merry Christmas!" as well, yes.Posted by AndalusiaDid you reply? They come back around to see how the land lies and if you will reply or not
And he just wished me Merry Christmas..
Oh bother.click to expand
Posted by gvccihvcciIt's such a Cap thing.
what would cause use to suddenly stop speaking to you probably isnt so sudden in our eyes. Long story short you pissed us of one too many times. We are very picky and sensitive towards those we have relations with. The ignoring is the end of a friendship for now... leave them alone for at least a month or until ur handle yr chet
It's like when you get fired and they say we just don't think you are a good fit for us.
You thought you were doing alright but you didn't meet there expectations.
Cap energy decides it internally--the other person might not always know. Especially early on this behavior is more likely.
In this situation the relationship never progressed anyway enough to feel one way or the other.
I find it interesting that the majority times he has contacted me lately, said contact has coincided with holidays... and full moons.
Posted by cheekyfaerieYou and me both.
It reminds me of some hang n bangs I've had. Chemistry was there, affectionate in public, birthday/holiday texts... but at their discretion. It's not that we didn't hit it off. It's that we did. Otherwise, I'd have never heard from them again. But they didn't want a serious relationship. They didn't want a girlfriend. They wanted a girlfriend replacement. You can have many girlfriend replacements to fill your sexual and emotional needs and never get tied down or bored. I clarified it and allowed it because, at the time, a boyfriend replacement was all I wanted... so it worked.
But you said you're not currently having sex and made it clear you intended to keep it that way, so I'm baffled.
It's like he can sense me detaching. And feels it's "safe again" once I reach a certain point.
Posted by AndalusiaOr even more likely he is acting this way based on one of his last relationships ended.
And TBH, any of the given possible explanations could absolutely be correct.. Just because I don't see things a certain way doesn't mean he doesnt. From my point of view, there was no conversation or explanation given for his current silence. But conversely, he could feel like it was brought up numerous times and this current state of affairs is/was a last resort.
Or he could be completely oblivious and unbothered.
I guess regardless of the reasoning (or lack thereof), the larger lesson I need to take from this is our obvious discrepancy in the area of communication.
Can't promise I'll quit posting about him. But hopefully I'll at least continue to grow and learn my lessons and post about different aspects; not the same ones 🙂.
Something about this cautions him of not long term likely for that reason.
Dissapointment is something Caps avoid religiously.
Sounds likes things are improving.
That is good
That is good
Posted by frostey91Ugh. I hope not. I'm so sick of that shit. The whole "I'm treating you this way now because of how things were back then with someone else."Posted by AndalusiaOr even more likely he is acting this way based on one of his last relationships ended.
And TBH, any of the given possible explanations could absolutely be correct.. Just because I don't see things a certain way doesn't mean he doesnt. From my point of view, there was no conversation or explanation given for his current silence. But conversely, he could feel like it was brought up numerous times and this current state of affairs is/was a last resort.
Or he could be completely oblivious and unbothered.
I guess regardless of the reasoning (or lack thereof), the larger lesson I need to take from this is our obvious discrepancy in the area of communication.
Can't promise I'll quit posting about him. But hopefully I'll at least continue to grow and learn my lessons and post about different aspects; not the same ones 🙂.
Something about this cautions him of not long term likely for that reason.
Dissapointment is something Caps avoid religiously.
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Take the lessons forward. Leave the bullshit behind.
Posted by AndalusiaI agree w u. It's not even a Cap thing although a Cap moon did that exact thing to me so maybe...Posted by frostey91Ugh. I hope not. I'm so sick of that shit. The whole "I'm treating you this way now because of how things were back then with someone else."Posted by AndalusiaOr even more likely he is acting this way based on one of his last relationships ended.
And TBH, any of the given possible explanations could absolutely be correct.. Just because I don't see things a certain way doesn't mean he doesnt. From my point of view, there was no conversation or explanation given for his current silence. But conversely, he could feel like it was brought up numerous times and this current state of affairs is/was a last resort.
Or he could be completely oblivious and unbothered.
I guess regardless of the reasoning (or lack thereof), the larger lesson I need to take from this is our obvious discrepancy in the area of communication.
Can't promise I'll quit posting about him. But hopefully I'll at least continue to grow and learn my lessons and post about different aspects; not the same ones 🙂.
Something about this cautions him of not long term likely for that reason.
Dissapointment is something Caps avoid religiously.
Take the lessons forward. Leave the bullshit behind.click to expand
I would ask him about past relationships you guys make it past New Year's a little bit.
He's mentioned one before (a couple years ago when we first started hanging out).
From what I remember/gather, they were together for awhile during high school.. I think he even lived with her/her family at one point. They did drugs recreationally together and with friends, but she maybe got into worse than he did. She might have stripped for a minute after graduating.. I honestly can't remember and he didn't talk about it in great detail.
I do remember him saying he and his friends saw her at a concert or festival after they broke up and his friends being like "Oh hey, there's so-and-so! We should go say hi!" And him being like ".... no." Because he didn't want to see or speak to her or for her to know he was there and start asking about him again.
From what I remember/gather, they were together for awhile during high school.. I think he even lived with her/her family at one point. They did drugs recreationally together and with friends, but she maybe got into worse than he did. She might have stripped for a minute after graduating.. I honestly can't remember and he didn't talk about it in great detail.
I do remember him saying he and his friends saw her at a concert or festival after they broke up and his friends being like "Oh hey, there's so-and-so! We should go say hi!" And him being like ".... no." Because he didn't want to see or speak to her or for her to know he was there and start asking about him again.
Ugh.. I am so tempted to block his number, cut him off and be done with it.
I hate liking people. Romantically speaking.
I'm all over the place. I know.
I hate liking people. Romantically speaking.
I'm all over the place. I know.
Hey it's just a phase give it a few days and it will get better hugs xxx
Posted by SamCancerGirlIt's a pattern.. it's been.going on long enough to call it that, me thinks.
Hey it's just a phase give it a few days and it will get better hugs xxx
This current full moon is Cancer and that is interesting considering he is a Capricorn.
Posted by DonnaElvira77Yeah, I agree with all of the above.Posted by AndalusiaIf it didn't have your name it was just a message sent out to lots of peeps.
And he just wished me Merry Christmas..
Oh bother.
Listen this thing is over. That's a fact. You can waste a lot of time wondering why and I can sense you are going to. But it's over.
I think you are better off to be frank. He is not for you. He didn't have what you require.
Don't go wishing you were different or someone else etc. He didn't want to be with you or be friends with you that's why he stopped talking.
HIS LOSS.click to expand
And I didn't think about it being a group text until after I posted.
Fuck it. I just downloaded an app and blocked his number. Hopefully it works. Both ways.
I'm too fucking old for this shit. His AND mine.
I'm too fucking old for this shit. His AND mine.
Is there an app that'll block him out of your head?
(You can run, but you can't hide from yourself...)
(You can run, but you can't hide from yourself...)
I will but up with someone for so long ,but once the straw gas broken the camels back. That's it!
Posted by frostey91He could just be respectful of the relationship on a friend level, so he reaches out when it's safe to do so...like holidays.Posted by AndalusiaOr even more likely he is acting this way based on one of his last relationships ended.
And TBH, any of the given possible explanations could absolutely be correct.. Just because I don't see things a certain way doesn't mean he doesnt. From my point of view, there was no conversation or explanation given for his current silence. But conversely, he could feel like it was brought up numerous times and this current state of affairs is/was a last resort.
Or he could be completely oblivious and unbothered.
I guess regardless of the reasoning (or lack thereof), the larger lesson I need to take from this is our obvious discrepancy in the area of communication.
Can't promise I'll quit posting about him. But hopefully I'll at least continue to grow and learn my lessons and post about different aspects; not the same ones 🙂.
Something about this cautions him of not long term likely for that reason.
Dissapointment is something Caps avoid religiously.
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So the Cappie lives with a mutual friend/acquaintance and her boyfriend. Said mutual friend/acquaintance texted me earlier and invited me to go see a movie with her.
I get there and it's the mutual friend, her boyfriend, another acquaintance, HER boyfriend, me..... and the Cap. Wtf.
The Cap, the friend, and the BF (the housemates) all rode together, so I know there's no way he didn't know I was coming. And the friend wouldn't have invited me just randomly out of the blue.. we're friends, but not *that* good of friends..
Idk what to think.. should I just not think anything about it?
I get there and it's the mutual friend, her boyfriend, another acquaintance, HER boyfriend, me..... and the Cap. Wtf.
The Cap, the friend, and the BF (the housemates) all rode together, so I know there's no way he didn't know I was coming. And the friend wouldn't have invited me just randomly out of the blue.. we're friends, but not *that* good of friends..
Idk what to think.. should I just not think anything about it?
Some things have come to light, and the more I think about it, the more I think the Cappie chap is just really super fucking awkward with women..
Is that a Cap guy thing? Being awkward around the opposite sex?
Is that a Cap guy thing? Being awkward around the opposite sex?
Posted by AndalusiaHow was the movie?
Some things have come to light, and the more I think about it, the more I think the Cappie chap is just really super fucking awkward with women..
Is that a Cap guy thing? Being awkward around the opposite sex?
What did you all go watch?
Maybe he knew you were coming and this was his way of moving forwards and not be awkward
Plus could be triple date and get to know you more
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