Tell about my situation. Allmost 1 year ago i met a very nice carpicorn man. He live in another city, but his home city is where i live. We chat 2 month and then we had a date, because he came to my city for 2-3 weeks. Date was very nice, calm, sweet. we talk about so much things. 2 days later afer date he write me again, but then... he lost... dont write me anymore, dont interest anymore.... i was worried because i like him so much, then i decided ask what is wrong? i write him and say if you dont like, or dont want contact with me, just say it. and write that i like him and would like to contact with him, but he say that he is busy. Then we had a little conflic, but i apologize about it, because i was wrong. after this conflict next day i saw, that he delete me from friendlist. and i ask why you do this? and not to reveice answer - he didnt read this message allmost 3 month and still ignoring me... i know there is my flaut that i dont give him space and i was intrusive... what i cant do? what can i do that he will trust me again, write me again? how i can correct my mistake? Please, help me because i cant do nothing i cant think about him. every day just he is my mind. i try to forgot, but this is impossible... thats want try to get him back....
You chatted. You had a date. That was it. No need to be all desperate and whining to him 'why won't you talk to me?' It was what it was. So he didn't want to take it further. No big thing.
And you like him so much? How? You barely know him. You don't know ALL of him. You like what he showed you, and I guarantee that was only one layer of who he is.
I'm just saying move on, don't worry about it. It's not about anything you did or didn't do. He just didn't feel the chemistry as much as you did. Can't fault him for that. Can't help who you have chemistry with and who you don't.
Stop beating yourself up. There's more fish in the sea.
Think about this. He just disappeared. Didn't give you closure. Obviously didn't care how you were feeling. All about him avoiding saying so. So, now, do you really like someone that does that to somebody?
It's all about perspective, so you need to change your perspective.
You didn't do anything wrong. That's your perspective.
i know there is my flaut that i dont give him space and i was intrusive... what i cant do? what can i do that he will trust me again, write me again? how i can correct my mistake?
Please, help me because i cant do nothing i cant think about him. every day just he is my mind. i try to forgot, but this is impossible... thats want try to get him back....