Do Capricorn's Ever Open Up?

I've been seeing this capricorn male on and off for close to two years now. I remember when we first met, I felt safe, taken care of, like i was with a real man which was a great change from the last gemini I had been with. The chemistry and sexual attraction was unparallelled. He had all the traits of a typical "man" and I was his feminine counterpart. He loved how much effort i put into my looks, my cooking, my desire to please him in the bedroom etc.

But everytime we would get close...he would push me away. We would go from seeing each other every day, to scheduled three hour visits every two weeks...I never knew what he was up to and that was concerning for me. This wall he built created a great deal of distrust and eventually eroded our relationship. I felt he was using me for sex, and he felt i was too immature and inconsistent to have a real relationship with. In response to him pulling back, I became vindictive and started seeing other men. He then found a mature, older, accomplished woman to settle down with. But throughout their relationship he communicated his lack of sexual interest in her and how they were more friends than partners.

Just recently he has come back to me, now apparently out of his former relationship and i'm worried all my insecurities will come up to the surface. Can i expect a capricorn male to ever come out of his shell? Will I always feel this distrust? Am i just being an irrational and insecure scorpio... I have no idea.

His Sun is Cap, Moon Taurus, Mars Aqua, Venus Cap and Ascending Pisces.

My Sun is Scorpio, Moon Cancer, Mars Cancer, Venus Cap and Ascensing Sagg.

isn't it the same with scorpio? lol

scorpio's time ....



5 years is....20 years. lol

I do

Am very open.....despite my five Scorp planets

Posted by DeadInside
this relationship has no future

What's the deal breaker

Posted by lesenfantterribles
getting a capricorn to open up is like finally prying open an iron chest & seeing it is filled w/ gold coins!!!

😕 lol

I guess I don't understand what it means to open up.

I often feel like Im an open book sometimes, but people expect or assume that more is there.

I think people don't realize how simple we can be.

Reminds me of my little Cancer niece who was in deep thought once. She was about maybe 4 or 5. I asked her what was she in deep thought about, and she looked at me and said "chickens" lol.

I tend to think its similar with Caps, or again, maybe I don't know what it means to open up to someone.

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"feminine counterpart. He loved how much effort i put into my looks, my cooking, my desire to please him in the bedroom etc."

This is gold, I would put a ring on it if I were him.

Just be persistent without being clingy. You can show your cards , but if you want something with this guy dating other men isn't going to help.

umm...it sounds all great from one speaking about themselves BUT how does it sound like from his side? From the story it's pretty obvious he had certain fears...and he was right. That's why he didn't put ring on it. He sensed it. You probably would as well if you were in his place. If it was based to the sentence you quoted I'd have stash of Caps in my sleeve...not even to mention the patience and reassurance I have for the men I'm with...but hey Sag can't possibly be like that, Cap would think right? Won't even try getting much into it when they hear Sag word lol It's not all about that, there's a lot more to it than just that sentence...and even that much more isn't enough sometimes to make it work

Well you need the whole package... maybe he likes the confidence and stability that comes with maturity of the older woman? I think a Capricorn can be with someone that they're not sexually attracted to if everything else meets the requirements and you fit the mold. Most people could give a shit or even know what a sag is so that's not it at all. I think a capricorn wants someone that has their shit together, that they can take places that they don't have to worry about and be proud of. It sounds shallow but kinda true... maybe OP could have been the side piece, I don't know. I'm not even sure what you're asking.

That's it, exactly what you said is how I see it too. I think they could do same but would still want a side that they have attraction to in some cases...I know one who spoke with a lot older woman for quite long time, they're still in contact...think that's the maturity part you mentioned. OP showed up as very immature and confirmed his fears being vindictive and going out with other men while she should have been there for him and been persistent to gain his trust and be devoted despite his fears and pulling back. That description of herself looks great but it's not all that Cap would look for in SO, they need someone trustworthy, devoted and loyal, am I right? And yeah you're right, not everyone even looks at zodiac at all, I know many people who know nothing about it and don't care at all about it, but those who do would run away from let's say Sag or Gem or something like that that seems to not be a match or stable person

Well yes, it's a maturity thing if you're judging a person based solely off their zodiac sign and refuse to be in a relationship with that person because of it. As a capricorn I can say that loyalty, respect and trust is one of the biggest factors in my relationships but if the guy is mature he will not think much about her dating other guys because technically they weren't even a thing.

Well if he was serious about her, he would have become exclusive with her. He would not let that wall down for someone who he cannot trust. Based on what he said before he went to the mature woman, he did not trust her. Why should he now?

Too black and white, we capricorns are much more complex.

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Posted by hollyhock
Idk, but look at his NN. I'm talking to a Cap and it is like pulling teeth having a conversation with him. And he disappears and comes back. I'm kind of getting over it because I like to talk and don't like the disappearing acts. He better shape up fast or I'm done.

Take from one who had one for 25! Years!

Talk to the wall! Same effect! But it doesn’t make you feel like you don’t know what you saying...because it doesn’t talk back!

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"feminine counterpart. He loved how much effort i put into my looks, my cooking, my desire to please him in the bedroom etc."

This is gold, I would put a ring on it if I were him.

Just be persistent without being clingy. You can show your cards , but if you want something with this guy dating other men isn't going to help.

umm...it sounds all great from one speaking about themselves BUT how does it sound like from his side? From the story it's pretty obvious he had certain fears...and he was right. That's why he didn't put ring on it. He sensed it. You probably would as well if you were in his place. If it was based to the sentence you quoted I'd have stash of Caps in my sleeve...not even to mention the patience and reassurance I have for the men I'm with...but hey Sag can't possibly be like that, Cap would think right? Won't even try getting much into it when they hear Sag word lol It's not all about that, there's a lot more to it than just that sentence...and even that much more isn't enough sometimes to make it work

Well you need the whole package... maybe he likes the confidence and stability that comes with maturity of the older woman? I think a Capricorn can be with someone that they're not sexually attracted to if everything else meets the requirements and you fit the mold. Most people could give a shit or even know what a sag is so that's not it at all. I think a capricorn wants someone that has their shit together, that they can take places that they don't have to worry about and be proud of. It sounds shallow but kinda true... maybe OP could have been the side piece, I don't know. I'm not even sure what you're asking.

That's it, exactly what you said is how I see it too. I think they could do same but would still want a side that they have attraction to in some cases...I know one who spoke with a lot older woman for quite long time, they're still in contact...think that's the maturity part you mentioned. OP showed up as very immature and confirmed his fears being vindictive and going out with other men while she should have been there for him and been persistent to gain his trust and be devoted despite his fears and pulling back. That description of herself looks great but it's not all that Cap would look for in SO, they need someone trustworthy, devoted and loyal, am I right? And yeah you're right, not everyone even looks at zodiac at all, I know many people who know nothing about it and don't care at all about it, but those who do would run away from let's say Sag or Gem or something like that that seems to not be a match or stable person

Well yes, it's a maturity thing if you're judging a person based solely off their zodiac sign and refuse to be in a relationship with that person because of it. As a capricorn I can say that loyalty, respect and trust is one of the biggest factors in my relationships but if the guy is mature he will not think much about her dating other guys because technically they weren't even a thing.

Well if he was serious about her, he would have become exclusive with her. He would not let that wall down for someone who he cannot trust. Based on what he said before he went to the mature woman, he did not trust her. Why should he now?

Too black and white, we capricorns are much more complex.

Oh! Really—

Yeah, and you had 25 years to crack the puzzle but couldn't.

Gemini fail

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You have NO idea...LMAO!!!

It’s been cracked! I just don’t want to hurt your Cap feelings...😂💦😭

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Posted by lesenfantterribles
getting a capricorn to open up is like finally prying open an iron chest & seeing it is filled w/ gold coins!!!

😕 lol

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Lol!!

I can be the most loyal partner. But if you are projecitng shit onto me, saying I could be adulterous... overtime i'll push you away and become your worst nightmare. I hate having to explain to someone how much i love them. If you go over and above for someone you're dating, they shouldn't harbour thoughts like "she will eventually turn me into a cuckhold."

Someone whose paranoid about cheating is probably themselves a cheater.

I went out with him on the weekend and am reminded about how difficult capricorn men can be. Too much earth in his chart, means the only emotion he allows himself is melancholic self-recrimination over a lack of perfection. He was in a bad mood at the begining of the night talking about his failures. He sensed I was in high spiritis so is first impulse was to bring me down to his level. That gave him a sense of control and power. So sadistic.

But at least he was happy and warm after we had sex. Only think cap men are good for. Lusty sex.

Posted by tumultous_scorpio
I can be the most loyal partner. But if you are projecitng shit onto me, saying I could be adulterous... overtime i'll push you away and become your worst nightmare. I hate having to explain to someone how much i love them. If you go over and above for someone you're dating, they shouldn't harbour thoughts like "she will eventually turn me into a cuckhold."

Someone whose paranoid about cheating is probably themselves a cheater.

I went out with him on the weekend and am reminded about how difficult capricorn men can be. Too much earth in his chart, means the only emotion he allows himself is melancholic self-recrimination over a lack of perfection. He was in a bad mood at the begining of the night talking about his failures. He sensed I was in high spiritis so is first impulse was to bring me down to his level. That gave him a sense of control and power. So sadistic.

But at least he was happy and warm after we had sex. Only think cap men are good for. Lusty sex.

😂

Posted by tumultous_scorpio
This wall he built created a great deal of distrust and eventually eroded our relationship. I felt he was using me for sex, and he felt i was too immature and inconsistent to have a real relationship with. In response to him pulling back, I became vindictive and started seeing other men.

Next time TELL HIM that his actions are pushing you away and creating distance and because he can't fully commit you will be dating other men who can. Don't operate in the shadows.

My ex was a Taurus sun/ cap moon and I know what you mean about the wall. Its weird AF.

My advice to you is.. We are all different people, don't expect him to open up emotionally the way you do. Best to not expect people to react the way you would. Consider whether you would be happy in a relationship with limited emotional connection... as a Scorpio.

I am a scorpio too, lack of emotional connection and communication makes it hard for sure