Does a Capricorn Woman love to be chased ?

if i showed i cared about a co worker after she had a huge drinking night...you know checking up on her. would she notice that? or read into it?

question my motive? im concerned. she was plastered...lol. sickly drunk. but nah shes just a work mate. we get along...guess we have that cap understanding. shes even better than me in some areas. lol

Many have seen me over on the Cancer board and I'm having problems with just the opposite. I tried something new this time and open up a little as it relates to the fact that I am interested in getting to know him. This hasn't produced the expected reaction so I'm ready to go back to the typical MO. Yes, I want to be chased but really it's just getting a little attention. Don't smoother though....I can so fast your head would spin.

Posted by spritescream
Hi crzydiam63, im sorry you are having a bad time. What's your typical MO? Back to being cold, icy and aloof? Because thats how the cappy lady is to me on the front initially. She's slowly opening up and 99% of the time, we are enjoying a good laugh.

Dating is like dancing...both body and mind must sync and flow naturally....I think its beautiful when two person can 'coordinate' so well without any verbal language.

Thanks Spritescream, it is very frustrating when you don't do anything intentionally and always seem to screw things up even with the best intentions. Yes, cold and aloof, don't let anyone get any type of inner view. Apparently though, as I was told, it has more to be with creating distance than being open.

I think we need a psychology board.....that would be a busy one I have a feeling.

I hope this doesnt sound critical, but I dont think you can generalize Cap suns. As it really depends on age and what kind of chart she has.


Like, I've been directly approached by a cap girl who had an aries moon. With the age, younger women tend to be more passive sexually in terms of approach/esculation. Unless they're liqoured up or high. Cause they tend to be more self-conscious.

Older women are more comfortable in their skin. And dont care. They'll approach and be direct. To be honest with you Im gonna steer clear of Female Caps from now. They're just too passive. You have to do everything. even after getting in a relationship. I dont mind initiating, but there should an equal balance.

I get bored with passive women. I like someone who is equally as aggressive. But that's just my thing, to each their own, I guess.

I like when someone shows interest, smothering not so much. But, the thing is, similar to CappyLuv, if I'm interested, I'm going for it. Men don't have a chance to chase me and woo me. If they NEED to do the chasing, I'm just not that interested. If I am interested, then there is no stopping me. After that, I'm hard to get rid of LOL.

Actually, thinking back, men that I've met out, if they openly expressed interest in me from the get go I tend to not like so much. I suppose that's a control issue though, I determine whether I'm going to let you like me, and if I haven't made that determination yet and you make a move, I'm out...

I seriously think game playing or strategies or whatever dating rules to get someone is definitely not my style of getting a girl. Even if you managed to get the girl, I doubt it can last once the 'games' are over, what is left? And I cant agree more than what you have just said , TG!

I think any woman loves being pursued if it's the right man doing the pursuin'.

I seem to attract the worst kind of Cap girls around. Every one of them has been super arrogant and conceited. But Scorp girls seem to be just as bad. In my experiences in friendships/dating them. Believe me I can tell when a gal is genuinely shy vs in my moms words "Think her s--t doesnt stink.

I always laugh when people complain about Leos. Unless they're a double Leo (Sun and moon), or Aries Moon, I have never encountered the mega ego trips.

Scorp and Cap Suns to me are more egomaniacal than fire signs. They just happen to be more quiet about it is all. And that's sad to say coming from me who's a scorp sun. But I guess having good parenting iced out a lot of those traits.

Hey TG, a question for you and all the other cappy ladies out here...how long would you normally date someone before opening up to them your interest/liking? How would it usually progress on from friends to partnership and how do you actually show it to the other party?

Hey peeps Im back on my thread that I started. Just some updates...

Things are going on pretty well, been doing lots of different activities with the cappy , outdoor sports, fine dining/wining, movies, operas, plays, theaters and the likes. Cap women definitely make great friends and they are so loyal to them. Last weekend, I was out drinking with my business associates on a business dinner/drinks at a club she frequents and I was so smashed with all the mix of drinks, on impulse, and perhaps the doings of alcohol in the body, I text her 'I need you to send me home'. She knew I was out drinking with my business associates and the night before I was also smashed up from buddies drink night, she almost immediately replied that she would be coming over to the club to pick me up and send me home. Should I read from this particular gesture that she do like me more than a friend? Or does cappies are so loyal to their friends, they would do anything even if there is no romantic interest?

Posted by CappyyLuv30


We're loyal as friends.

Until the words out of her mouth say anything about being more than friends and her actions match those words, she's just a loyal friend.

Thanks cappyluv30 for bringing me back to reality. I think it would be rather difficult for her to express it directly because I feel we are one of the same kind. Fear of rejection.

Posted by FlyingBurritos80
I seem to attract the worst kind of Cap girls around. Every one of them has been super arrogant and conceited. But Scorp girls seem to be just as bad. In my experiences in friendships/dating them. Believe me I can tell when a gal is genuinely shy vs in my moms words "Think her s--t doesnt stink.

I always laugh when people complain about Leos. Unless they're a double Leo (Sun and moon), or Aries Moon, I have never encountered the mega ego trips.

Scorp and Cap Suns to me are more egomaniacal than fire signs. They just happen to be more quiet about it is all. And that's sad to say coming from me who's a scorp sun. But I guess having good parenting iced out a lot of those traits.

Yes, some of us are egomaniacs, but I don't think it's all in the way you described. Our egos rival the egos of some men in that we don't like to be viewed as weak, vulnerable, emotional or incapable of being able to do anything a man can. You like to run the show, well newsflash to all men, so do we. We are really down to earth, you just have to break through our wall and defenses to see it. Very nurturing, thoughtful, supporting, caring and graceful women. All with a slight rawness and edge. Don't be intimidated by us and you will see.

i love this cappy girl

she a smartass sometimes bt thats what i like bout her, she's sarcastic like

Is it a good sign that she's telling me that she's glad to have met me because I was able to give her directions in life, like a mentor?

Aahhh...oh wells...what can I say about that....

Posted by spritescream
I read alot about capricorn women being very patient but would she do the chasing herself or would she prefer to be chased?

Ummmm, if I answer truthfully then I may not be consider a capricorn anymore xD

Ummmm, if I answer truthfully then I may not be consider a capricorn anymore xD

Oh cappysweetie, please do tell! I think everyone have their own uniqueness about them, so it doesnt really matter if you are not considered a capricorn anymore! I aint an Aries too if thats the case!

That is me right there! Hard work pays 😄

I didn't read all the posts, but i reply to your original question.

If i take "chasing" literally, then the answer is: NO.

BUT!

If by chasing you mean: kindness, showing warm feelings, paying attention, expressing your feelings with gifts (no need to buy expensive stuff. Me myself like handmade gifts, or small lovely things. If it shows your feelings or have a message it's more than enough. Well, depends on the lady!).
If by chasing you mean: you listen to what she says, believe in her, and encourage her, i'd say it's good.

You are Aries, so you have a natural gift to energise her life, or make her mood better when she is down. 🙂

If you can tell me what you interests' Moon sign, maybe i can help you with more information.

Wish you the best!

Spritescream:

Do you know the Cappy lady's moon sign? I probably wrote it wrong, i was asking about hers. I know Gemini moon people very well. My father is an Aries with Gemini Moon. 😉 What is your ascendant sign?

Oh, do you have similar interests with this lady, or you try fit her interests? Has she invited you to meet her friends? If that comes that's some indication that she became very comfortable with you.


I finally read your whole thread. One more thing came into mind. I know that if i compliment an Aries he/she will immediately think that i am playing in his orchestra, and he/she already has me as an ally. It's a bit troubling, because just one compliment doesn't mean that i am head over heels. I don't like when my kindness or honesty is seen as weekness. So when she compliment you just take it with a nice smile, and be happy. If she see that you still see her with the same respect she will like it, and probably will compliment you more. 😄

I really hope you can get together with her, and enjoy yourself as a couple. You sound like a gentleman.

I am not sure about her moon sign but if I am not wrong, it should be Moon in Leo with ascendant in Saggitarius(how do you even ask a girl for her moon signs without trying too hard to let her know that you are actually interested in her and wants to know more about her through horoscope?).


Yes, that's the most amazing thing, we discovered we have many similarities, I don't need to fit into her interests and neither does she. We do have our differences though. Yes I have met some of her very good friends and was invited to dinner with one of her best girlfriend and we have plans for some outdoor activities together for the coming new year 2011!

Lastly, my ascendant is Aries.

Lol, you are right. It's difficult to ask. Btw my aunt is a Capricorn with Leo Moon. She is very lovely, and has an amazingly big heart.

After what you write, i'd say just do what you are already doing. I don't know how close you are with her intimately, but if she introduces you to her good friends, i think she start to think about you seriously. Are you in "dating" mode or in friendly mode? Have you ever told her that you like her? (Sorry, for asking this, but it wasn't clear in your posts.)

I never expressed my liking for her verbally/directly but I reckon through the little acts of kindness and giving her little nice gifts whenever I misses her. The biggest surprise I am preparing for her is her birthday which is coming soon in mid Jan.

Well, so I am not exactly sure if I would define us as dating or in friendly mode. How would you define dating? I guess everyone's got their own interpretation of dating. But if you are talking about dating means holding hands, kissing, nope, we are not at that stage yet and being a gentlemen, one should not behave with disrespect to a lady during courtship.

Posted by cappysweetie

Posted by spritescream
I read alot about capricorn women being very patient but would she do the chasing herself or would she prefer to be chased?

Ummmm, if I answer truthfully then I may not be consider a capricorn anymore xD

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K 🙂

Well, I've come to terms with the fact that if a guy doesn't at least put forth a effort to show me he is interested (even if I think it's weird) I lose interest or I think he's not interested at all.

However, at the same time, too much attention from a guy can scare me to death but I don't want to get confused, so it's good that he does show some interest but not too much ... does that make sense?

Here are my planets:

Sun: Capricorn
Moon: Aquarius
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Aquarius
Ascendant: Libra

CappieSweetie, that absolutely make sense, I know what you mean. If I think it in an Arien sense, I wouldn't want a girl to come on to me by giving too much attention, just enough of attention to hold my interest and allow me to reciprocate back. So probably capgirl's a little confused whether I am liking her romantically or just as a friend because I have not expressed anything if I am looking at it from my POV.

Ummmm, if I answer truthfully then I may not be consider a capricorn anymore xD
K 🙂

Well, I've come to terms with the fact that if a guy doesn't at least put forth a effort to show me he is interested (even if I think it's weird) I lose interest or I think he's not interested at all.

However, at the same time, too much attention from a guy can scare me to death but I don't want to get confused, so it's good that he does show some interest but not too much ... does that make sense?

Here are my planets:

Sun: Capricorn
Moon: Aquarius
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Aquarius
Ascendant: Libra

Yes, i a bit agree with this. I don't know the traditions or customs of your country, so i only share my view on this. You courted her for 2 months if i count it right, and you had many dates, but if you never talk about that you are interested in her more than a friend, she may start to think of you as only a friend.

I am not you, i don't know the right balance, but probably simply touching her hand wouldn't mean you disrespect her. I don't know.

I'd like to see how other are see this!

Hey I am a cappy girl and I met a Taurus boy who first made me think he was interested in me (his eyes!). An important note: when I feel like I would be trapped/attracted too much I just get out of there (to evade pain that follows the heartbreak). Yet, this one acted very friendly and approached me in a non-threatening way. He was a gentleman and very subtle. Then, we started seeing each other as friends for a year. He was giving me flowers and taking me to places. But he never told me that he was interested in me. He always avoided touching me. He was also talking about his ex who gave him such heartache. Especially when he started talking about another girl, this turned me off so much that even flowers he gave me did not make me think that he might be interested in being more than friends with me. Then I moved to another city and met a Leo with whom I fell in love instantly. I called the Taurus friend to talk about this and then, the Taurus boy panicked. He told me he would send me a letter. In the letter he was confessing that he was having feelings for me just from the beginning. He did never see me as a friend! I was surprised but it was really too late! I was already in love.