He's making me go crazy

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Confuzzled
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Some backstory on me.. I am a 26 year old leo woman, who's been single since October 2015 (I ended a 3 year relationship ).

I saw a guy on Instagram and ended up DMing him. Flash forward to now and we've been talking every day, since July 5th. The convo vibes have been hot and cold, mostly hot though. Side note: sexual chemistry is definitely there. He has expressed that he really wants to get to know me, yet he doesn't put in the effort to ask me questions other than, "how's your day?" Or "what about you?" When I've asked him something. I've never had a guy not play the question game with me.. it makes me question if he truly wants to get to know me. Is this normal cap men behavior?

Btw we haven't met yet, I'm in Texas and he's in Cali. We've actually talked about me flying up there but I'm still thinking it over. Also, he's 27
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ARollingRock
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I dont normally have alot of questions when I talk to women either. I kind of figured that out from using dating apps in the past, it would be them asking the random questions not the other way around. I think we can come off as cold sometimes or distant in a sense.

Doesn't mean he isn't thinking those questions to himself.. I'm sitting here thinking of all these questions I have for a girl I'm getting to know, and I'm not asking them because I don't want to text her, because we texted yesterday, and I just don't want to feel like I'm bugging her. But maybe I should talk to her now that I think about it lol. Caps minds work in weird ways, or at least mine does :p
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LadyNeptune
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I'm sure your not the only thirsty ho to hit him up. Sexual chemistry and talk of you coming to him just means he would fuck you. But only if you bring the pussy to him.

He doesn't ask in depth questions because he's not trying to pop the hood and get to know what your about.

If you want something more I would wait until he comes to you or there is more of a connection built up between you too.