Is it possible to get back with my Capricorn man?

Hi! I'm a Cancer woman, and I would like to know if it is possible for me and this Capricorn man to get back together in the future?

What happened was that we broke up about a month ago because our relationship has been a long distance relationship from the start, and he told me he was sad all along that he couldn't see me regularly. Now that we're leaving this country where we met (I'm going back to my own country, and he's going to another country for his one-year work and travel project.), he wanted to stop our relationship because he thought that it can get worse and he didn't want to invest in maintaining this long distance relationship although he was really into me. This is also because of our ages and where we are in our lives; we both have to work on fulfilling our dreams which go in different ways, which are the main causes of us not being able to live together.

But being with him was the most precious love life I've ever had, and so I want to know whether I can do something in order to be able to be with him again. The thing is although I have my goal set for what kind of job I want to do, I'm not sure whether I will get that job either because that's not for me alone to decide. So of course there's a chance that, instead of that job, I can opt for a job that allows me to be with him. Anyway, I understand very well that his point is that he didn't want to bear with the distance that makes us apart and our paths that, for now, will not make my thing better in the future. I don't want him to continue being sad like when we were together and had to be apart of course. However, I really don't want to lose him.

*Also in case you think it's possible, what should I do?

Thank you in advance for you advices!

If you give up your career for him (something he's not willing to do) and the relationship still doesn't work out you'll be filled with regret and self loathing.

Pursue your dreams for your career. Keep in contact as friends. If it's meant to be you'll find you way back to each other.

But there's plenty of other men out there who can be your soulmate. Just date locally. Long distance isn't plausible.

Long distance relationships are tough with partners like them.. They already don't have a lot of time because of their hectic work schedules so they have to "fit you in" when they can.. Being far away would not help. They are more'so action than talk.. not really phone ppl, in my experience.. and they love "physical touch" with their partners so I can see why this would make your cap sad.. At least he was honest with you about his feelings, which most of them are.. You may do better with someone closer to you but that doesn't mean his feelings are lost for you..

& trust me, I know how it is to be far from your S/O... I'm in a LDR now and its so hard.. My cap says he wishes we had more time together and so do I but we balance the best way we can.. He already has a ton of patience and I'm learning to be patient as well.. It's not for the faint of hearts so if you decide to make it work consider the "downfalls" .. When we argue we can't talk face to face & "makeup" afterwards, when we wanna be intimate we have to wait, when we are both free, something else usually gets in the way, like work early the next day, or our kids etc.. It's tough

Think about it.. 😢

what this user said...... i also want to add that ive noticed that male CAPS can move on more easily when it comes to things like this. they will be sad but soon get over it.

If you give up your career for him (something he's not willing to do) and the relationship still doesn't work out you'll be filled with regret and self loathing.

Pursue your dreams for your career. Keep in contact as friends. If it's meant to be you'll find you way back to each other.

But there's plenty of other men out there who can be your soulmate. Just date locally. Long distance isn't plausible.