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Posted by rockyroadicecreamBecause the only way to get over being thin skinned it is to just man up and experience it. I resent being thin skinned, it annoys me about myself and I dont respect it.Posted by CancerLeoDynamiteYeah, I just got to that part.
I doubt it, he seemed completely clueless about the fact that I had feelings. I was really chill about everything.
genuinely he just liked this girl for a long long time and she finally became available.
simple as that
I'd have done the same
it was never meant to hurt me or push me away but it did.
Either way, he's full of shit and a lost cause. Move along. They don't get better. Not for a long while. The one that I experienced is STILL like this and our thing was like 6 years ago. POS people not worth having around.
What happened to you is what happens to a lot of girls who come here, proclaiming they're doing a fwb. The reality is that they can't handle it and usually are doing it for all the wrong reasons. Feelings are caught, and guys WILL stick to the "casual" bit as a get out of jail free card to basically do whatever the fuck they want and then hide behind that card, absolving them of any responsibility of their actions. This is probably the biggest downfall of the concept of fwb. If the female doesn't approach it correctly (she usually doesn't), she ends up getting taken for a ride, gets emotionally used and abused, and then he can wipe his hands clean of any responsibility for his shitty behavior because it was a fwb/casual arrangement. They got what they wanted, and they "bye felicia" their way out of the situation with no real remorse.
What I don't understand is that if you're so supposedly thin skinned in dating, why the HELL would you do a fwb? That just seems so fucking stupid to me.click to expand
I had THE BEST FUCKING TIME with him.
THe sex was amazing, the connection felt genuine and real to me, the motorcycle rides were soooo fun.
Walking away, immediately when it became clear I had to, while painful as fuck has made me feel like a person of high self worth and that is a good feeling.
I don't regret this!
When my best friend got cancer without ever having really lived life, because of all the same thin skinned fears and anxieties I have it felt like a slap in his face not to go and live my life. Every ounce and every drop, painful scary whatever.
IM going to live it because some people cant
Posted by champrangerBut how can you overestimate that when you KNOW you have a thin skin in dating? DATING?Posted by rockyroadicecreamProbably OP overestimated in herself handling FWB? There use to be a Scorp that also did the same thing. She keeps saying it's all for fun but in the end, admitted to catching feelings.Posted by CancerLeoDynamiteYeah, I just got to that part.
I doubt it, he seemed completely clueless about the fact that I had feelings. I was really chill about everything.
genuinely he just liked this girl for a long long time and she finally became available.
simple as that
I'd have done the same
it was never meant to hurt me or push me away but it did.
Either way, he's full of shit and a lost cause. Move along. They don't get better. Not for a long while. The one that I experienced is STILL like this and our thing was like 6 years ago. POS people not worth having around.
What happened to you is what happens to a lot of girls who come here, proclaiming they're doing a fwb. The reality is that they can't handle it and usually are doing it for all the wrong reasons. Feelings are caught, and guys WILL stick to the "casual" bit as a get out of jail free card to basically do whatever the fuck they want and then hide behind that card, absolving them of any responsibility of their actions. This is probably the biggest downfall of the concept of fwb. If the female doesn't approach it correctly (she usually doesn't), she ends up getting taken for a ride, gets emotionally used and abused, and then he can wipe his hands clean of any responsibility for his shitty behavior because it was a fwb/casual arrangement. They got what they wanted, and they "bye felicia" their way out of the situation with no real remorse.
What I don't understand is that if you're so supposedly thin skinned in dating, why the HELL would you do a fwb? That just seems so fucking stupid to me.click to expand
Maybe she should fixate less on this bs persona she hides behind and focus on who she really is. Maybe she wouldn't get burned so much. From what I've observed, she's pretty fucking stupid when it comes to dealing with men- zero logic involved and has the emotional acuity of a teenager. Yet, somehow she thinks she's superior to more educated individuals than herself.
Headsplode shit going on here...
Posted by champrangerIt was my first go at it.Posted by rockyroadicecreamProbably OP overestimated in herself handling FWB? There use to be a Scorp that also did the same thing. She keeps saying it's all for fun but in the end, admitted to catching feelings.Posted by CancerLeoDynamiteYeah, I just got to that part.
I doubt it, he seemed completely clueless about the fact that I had feelings. I was really chill about everything.
genuinely he just liked this girl for a long long time and she finally became available.
simple as that
I'd have done the same
it was never meant to hurt me or push me away but it did.
Either way, he's full of shit and a lost cause. Move along. They don't get better. Not for a long while. The one that I experienced is STILL like this and our thing was like 6 years ago. POS people not worth having around.
What happened to you is what happens to a lot of girls who come here, proclaiming they're doing a fwb. The reality is that they can't handle it and usually are doing it for all the wrong reasons. Feelings are caught, and guys WILL stick to the "casual" bit as a get out of jail free card to basically do whatever the fuck they want and then hide behind that card, absolving them of any responsibility of their actions. This is probably the biggest downfall of the concept of fwb. If the female doesn't approach it correctly (she usually doesn't), she ends up getting taken for a ride, gets emotionally used and abused, and then he can wipe his hands clean of any responsibility for his shitty behavior because it was a fwb/casual arrangement. They got what they wanted, and they "bye felicia" their way out of the situation with no real remorse.
What I don't understand is that if you're so supposedly thin skinned in dating, why the HELL would you do a fwb? That just seems so fucking stupid to me.click to expand
not a brilliant success but I feel that I learned something worthwhile, and had a positive experience before the crap one
Posted by rockyroadicecreamIt's incredibly unlikely that anyone who believes in astrology is either more educated, or logical than myself.Posted by champrangerBut how can you overestimate that when you KNOW you have a thin skin in dating? DATING?Posted by rockyroadicecreamProbably OP overestimated in herself handling FWB? There use to be a Scorp that also did the same thing. She keeps saying it's all for fun but in the end, admitted to catching feelings.Posted by CancerLeoDynamiteYeah, I just got to that part.
I doubt it, he seemed completely clueless about the fact that I had feelings. I was really chill about everything.
genuinely he just liked this girl for a long long time and she finally became available.
simple as that
I'd have done the same
it was never meant to hurt me or push me away but it did.
Either way, he's full of shit and a lost cause. Move along. They don't get better. Not for a long while. The one that I experienced is STILL like this and our thing was like 6 years ago. POS people not worth having around.
What happened to you is what happens to a lot of girls who come here, proclaiming they're doing a fwb. The reality is that they can't handle it and usually are doing it for all the wrong reasons. Feelings are caught, and guys WILL stick to the "casual" bit as a get out of jail free card to basically do whatever the fuck they want and then hide behind that card, absolving them of any responsibility of their actions. This is probably the biggest downfall of the concept of fwb. If the female doesn't approach it correctly (she usually doesn't), she ends up getting taken for a ride, gets emotionally used and abused, and then he can wipe his hands clean of any responsibility for his shitty behavior because it was a fwb/casual arrangement. They got what they wanted, and they "bye felicia" their way out of the situation with no real remorse.
What I don't understand is that if you're so supposedly thin skinned in dating, why the HELL would you do a fwb? That just seems so fucking stupid to me.
Maybe she should fixate less on this bs persona she hides behind and focus on who she really is. Maybe she wouldn't get burned so much. From what I've observed, she's pretty fucking stupid when it comes to dealing with men- zero logic involved and has the emotional acuity of a teenager. Yet, somehow she thinks she's superior to more educated individuals than herself.
Headsplode shit going on here...click to expand
Posted by CancerLeoDynamiteCancers just aren't cut out for fwb. Too emotional. I have a Cancer moon and I had to keep that shit in check when I had mine.
Because the only way to get over being thin skinned it is to just man up and experience it. I resent being thin skinned, it annoys me about myself and I dont respect it.
I had THE BEST FUCKING TIME with him.
THe sex was amazing, the connection felt genuine and real to me, the motorcycle rides were soooo fun.
Walking away, immediately when it became clear I had to, while painful as fuck has made me feel like a person of high self worth and that is a good feeling.
I don't regret this!
When my best friend got cancer without ever having really lived life, because of all the same thin skinned fears and anxieties I have it felt like a slap in his face not to go and live my life. Every ounce and every drop, painful scary whatever.
IM going to live it because some people cant
But whatever. If you consider this a learning experience, good for you. That's all you can really do with situations like this, tbh.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamit's bound to get easier over time and this hurts far far less than realizing you just wasted years of your life in a LTR that sucks and doesnt even have good sex.Posted by CancerLeoDynamiteCancers just aren't cut out for fwb. Too emotional. I have a Cancer moon and I had to keep that shit in check when I had mine.
Because the only way to get over being thin skinned it is to just man up and experience it. I resent being thin skinned, it annoys me about myself and I dont respect it.
I had THE BEST FUCKING TIME with him.
THe sex was amazing, the connection felt genuine and real to me, the motorcycle rides were soooo fun.
Walking away, immediately when it became clear I had to, while painful as fuck has made me feel like a person of high self worth and that is a good feeling.
I don't regret this!
When my best friend got cancer without ever having really lived life, because of all the same thin skinned fears and anxieties I have it felt like a slap in his face not to go and live my life. Every ounce and every drop, painful scary whatever.
IM going to live it because some people cant
But whatever. If you consider this a learning experience, good for you. That's all you can really do with situations like this, tbh.click to expand
Just saying.
Posted by CancerLeoDynamite....
It's incredibly unlikely that anyone who believes in astrology is either more educated, or logical than myself.
*looks around*
Are you retarded?
Legitimate question.
You believe the placements of the stars in any way matter.
Are you?
I just like this board, doesn't mean I 'respect' it lol.
Are you?
I just like this board, doesn't mean I 'respect' it lol.
Posted by CancerLeoDynamiteYOUR username
You believe the placements of the stars in any way matter.
Are you?
I just like this board, doesn't mean I 'respect' it lol.
Your excessive icons devoted to your username.
Your categorizing Capricorns.
You don't respect yourself either, apparently.
You are such a dipshit, it's hilarious.
What do you do for a living, sweetie? I'm seriously curious now. Your ego is out of control.
Must be all my leo placements hahaha
Moron.
Moron.
—??
Do you take lithum??
Leo placements? You must be pretty fucking dumb then, according to your previous statement. For someone who thinks they're smart, you sure are pretty fucking stupid in your statements.
I also like how you didn't answer the question.
Eh, whatever. You're a waste of time. Just like the Cap figured, apparently. Bye Felicia.
Do you take lithum??
Leo placements? You must be pretty fucking dumb then, according to your previous statement. For someone who thinks they're smart, you sure are pretty fucking stupid in your statements.
I also like how you didn't answer the question.
Eh, whatever. You're a waste of time. Just like the Cap figured, apparently. Bye Felicia.
Posted by ImpulsvBullshit.Posted by CancerLeoDynamiteWith fwb most men don't think respect is needed why he felt he can talk to you as he did.Posted by truecapI dont think you get what my issue here is.Posted by CancerLeoDynamiteHe was honest. He didn't game you, lie to you or string you along. He let you know exactly what the situation was. He gave you a choice to stay or go. Most men wouldn't be so upfront.
Keep in mind he was NOT ending things with me, he wants to keep seeing me, he thought I would wait around for a few weeks til this chick tires of him>
I mean I would have if he hadnt verbalised it in such a rude and disrespectful way, he is not the only person I am seeing either, but "i'm busy' is all that was needed
I already knew what was up
I know the rules of fwb
I didnt need him calling to remind me the details
Thats rude, and disrespectful and unnecessary..
We were both seeing other people, this was never a secret.
He didnt need to reiterate it, after I asked him not to give me details about his other lovers.
I didnt need to hear any of that.click to expand
I am seeing other men who treat me with respect/
Posted by rockyroadicecreamlol so much hate and anger.
—??
Do you take lithum??
Leo placements? You must be pretty fucking dumb then, according to your previous statement. For someone who thinks they're smart, you sure are pretty fucking stupid in your statements.
I also like how you didn't answer the question.
Eh, whatever. You're a waste of time. Just like the Cap figured, apparently. Bye Felicia.
meeeow
someone said something fantastic the other day.
Happy girls don't hate and haters aren't happy girls.
Posted by ImpulsvFWB :lol
Other fwb men? Or just men in general
Like I said I didnt take issue with him preferring a woman over me, it was just the verbalizing of it
even that wasn't a huge deal to me, the biggest issue for me is the cheating thing.
I just can't invest any more time into someone who would be involved with that.
But he didn't really do anything to 'me' other than be blunt. Which he always is, I mean, whatever lol
Posted by champrangerlol im just baiting that rude lady.Posted by CancerLeoDynamiteDon't let any earth signs hear you say that lol ...
It's incredibly unlikely that anyone who believes in astrology is either more educated, or logical than myself.click to expand
it worked pretty easily too.
Posted by Arielle83Actually she made a statement that I challenged.Posted by CancerLeoDynamiteNaw man you made a statement and she's challenging it.Posted by rockyroadicecreamlol so much hate and anger.
—??
Do you take lithum??
Leo placements? You must be pretty fucking dumb then, according to your previous statement. For someone who thinks they're smart, you sure are pretty fucking stupid in your statements.
I also like how you didn't answer the question.
Eh, whatever. You're a waste of time. Just like the Cap figured, apparently. Bye Felicia.
meeeow
someone said something fantastic the other day.
Happy girls don't hate and haters aren't happy girls.
She's getting annoyed you can't answer a simple question.
Just answer so we can move on with life.click to expand
I don't owe any of you personal information about my life.
She's always annoyed, why should I give a fuck?
if she cant move on with her life, without knowing boring details about mine, i cannot even imagine the levels of autism that must be present.
Posted by CancerLeoDynamite
he thought I would wait around for a few weeks til this chick tires of him
you've waited this long, eagerly, it seems
so what's your gripe now?
He gave you crumbs, you jumped on them like gold nuggets .. and now suddenly you've changed your mind, but, somehow don't find fault in yourself for the choices you made? ... so, then it has to be all his fault.
how bizarre
a woman of substance would have walked the moment she became aware of it .. not hang around to play head games like you have done here
A man, or any person, will treat you according to how you've taught them to treat you ... and you taught him that you're a second bitch waiting in the shadows for another crumb. You can't blame him for that. That's all on you.
Posted by CancerLeoDynamiteWow wow, look at your own words. That's what I do from the start.
if she cant move on with her life, without knowing boring details about mine, i cannot even imagine the levels of autism that must be present.
The fact that you and him in a FWB relationship, do you think he is going to hold himself back? No way, he will say what he wants to cause CAPRICORN ain't gonna be sensitive, SENSITIVE will only be in the dictionary when he is afraid people might judge him. By telling you the details, he feels fun doing that.
Yeah, I have known few Cancers who got feeling hurts easily but they tend to forget how his/her own words said tend to be the most cruel among all the other horoscopes.
The Cap is no retart nor playing game with you. IF there is chance that he LIKES you, telling you the stuff he did, would mean wanting you to be more aggressive on him, YOU GOT TO TELL HIM HOW MUCH YOU LIKE HIM.
IF he does not like you, telling you means he felt you are OPEN enough and it's true the fact that you are okay with FWB. He may consider you if along the way, what you did and said, is not too childish.
You are childish to me, though. I am just too shock to hear this post from a CANCER.
Waaooow! Just to vent nd to make ur (@CancerLeoDynamite3 ) ego feel better ,u simply bashed ol capricorns in ur post. Really sick!
I wish u good luck and closure! I know it can be hard. But men function like kids sometimes: they take and take until u say no!
Safe your own time and move on.
Safe your own time and move on.
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What happened to you is what happens to a lot of girls who come here, proclaiming they're doing a fwb. The reality is that they can't handle it and usually are doing it for all the wrong reasons. Feelings are caught, and guys WILL stick to the "casual" bit as a get out of jail free card to basically do whatever the fuck they want and then hide behind that card, absolving them of any responsibility of their actions. This is probably the biggest downfall of the concept of fwb. If the female doesn't approach it correctly (she usually doesn't), she ends up getting taken for a ride, gets emotionally used and abused, and then he can wipe his hands clean of any responsibility for his shitty behavior because it was a fwb/casual arrangement. They got what they wanted, and they "bye felicia" their way out of the situation with no real remorse.
What I don't understand is that if you're so supposedly thin skinned in dating, why the HELL would you do a fwb? That just seems so fucking stupid to me.