Sudi
@Sudi
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Need Help from all the lovely Capricorn women
please need your advice guys! especially from Capricorn women..cheers!
Posted by Capri-sun+1
She sees you as only a friend
And she is trying to be nice about it. Time to walk away my friend.
BUT, how do one show their feelings? Ive been crazy about someone and accused of the same...not showing or sharing how I feel. I like to know where we stand, but I don't care as much to know how one feels because I guess I feel I can tell, and I hope they can tell with me, which it doesn't seem so.
So to you other Caps, in what ways do you share your feelings?
So to you other Caps, in what ways do you share your feelings?
Posted by daron76I agree with this. More emotions and hope you put into something that isn't meant to be, the more hurt you're going to be when she turns you down.Posted by Capri-sun+1
She sees you as only a friend
And she is trying to be nice about it. Time to walk away my friend.click to expand
Thanks
I always express my feelings though caring, verbally.
I'm not blaming her, she is my friend and i respect her a Lott and also i know she cares about me......
I have notice, she always care abt my life, health, job etc... she keep asking my friends about me whenever i dont text her, she started sharing her personal stories with me nowdays, crack jokes on me! lol,
she is happy whenever she is around!
I'm just confused with her cold attitude, sometime she just disappear 😢 after few days she comes back
uffff! i just love her for what ever she is.....
she is amazing, i just wanted her to see happieeeeee!
I always express my feelings though caring, verbally.
I'm not blaming her, she is my friend and i respect her a Lott and also i know she cares about me......
I have notice, she always care abt my life, health, job etc... she keep asking my friends about me whenever i dont text her, she started sharing her personal stories with me nowdays, crack jokes on me! lol,
she is happy whenever she is around!
I'm just confused with her cold attitude, sometime she just disappear 😢 after few days she comes back
uffff! i just love her for what ever she is.....
she is amazing, i just wanted her to see happieeeeee!
Posted by daron76I'm not sure this means she just sees you as a friend. Capricorn women are usually quite guarded about their feelings and she clearly cares for you, otherwise wouldn't invest her time or be there for you the way she has been so far.Posted by Capri-sun+1
She sees you as only a friend
And she is trying to be nice about it. Time to walk away my friend.click to expand
If she flirts back it is a good sign imho.
I'm not verbally expressive at all.
Just straight up ask her do you think you'd ever have a chance at dating her because if not, you like her too much to continue on as friends.
Just be 100% honest.
Just straight up ask her do you think you'd ever have a chance at dating her because if not, you like her too much to continue on as friends.
Just be 100% honest.
Posted by lnana04i used to be diffident
BUT, how do one show their feelings? Ive been crazy about someone and accused of the same...not showing or sharing how I feel. I like to know where we stand, but I don't care as much to know how one feels because I guess I feel I can tell, and I hope they can tell with me, which it doesn't seem so.
So to you other Caps, in what ways do you share your feelings?
but now i show my feelings w/ my words, the way i behave, the way i touch and look at him, and via every decision i make
I can definitely show what I feel through touch, but I'm mute mouth when it comes to saying how or what I feel, but I don't have a lot of experience. Not sure if a verbally expressive guy would change that are not.
That's why I think the OP should ask if it's possible they can have a romantic future because every Cap is different.
That's why I think the OP should ask if it's possible they can have a romantic future because every Cap is different.
i am only capable to be this emotionally expressive with the one my heart is truly committed. i do not treat others the same
Posted by Sudi
Hey Guys!
wassup! i just need help from all Capricorn women out there! plz....
Since 1 year and 6 months Im very attached and friendly with Capricorn girl.[ Dec 24 born ]. My day starts with her and it ends with her. We chat all day even though we both are busy at work! I feel she is my best friend in the world.
She knows that I like her, but still she never show her feelings, she is cold, practical about life! '
she says i always wanted to talk to you as a friend ' but she always there for me with her advice,care and support!.
she always reply to my MSG even in her busy time & smile whenever I flirt with her.
Being a cancer [June 27 Born] sometime i get emotionally hurt when I don't see her feelings 7 emotions!
I think im attracted and in love and recently without any hesitation I have shared my feelings indirectly with her!
because i dont want to scare her wit my emotional stuffs! she said - we are cool friends, please dont hurt yourself,
i will never break your friendship, u can talk to me anytime! she cares a lot!
I need your advice ! capricorn women! does she really loves me and hiding her emotions—
"She knows that I like her" "I have shared my feelings indirectly with her!"
How do you know she knows? May be she has some hint , may be she is not sure exactly how you feel.
I will give you an example from my life . I have had known a person who would start his day by msging me and end it by msging me . Write mails to me every day if he was travelling . Who would give me many hints ..eventually told me that he likes me very much . I however took his "like" word as only like . Did i act on it ? No . Not his fault but i had a background story that made me learn that never assume a single thing . My instinct tells me every thing but i shut it down . If he had told me clearly then i would have been honest with him. if i liked him back my response would have been yes and if i didnt then would have said no clearly .
So dont assume that she knows and that she will act on hints only .
Another thing . We are shy in bold letters, but equally transparent with those who are transparent with us .
Posted by BadBoyPosted by AnnabelleJamesIf a cap woman is so guarded of her feelings....then...Posted by daron76I'm not sure this means she just sees you as a friend. Capricorn women are usually quite guarded about their feelings and she clearly cares for you, otherwise wouldn't invest her time or be there for you the way she has been so far.Posted by Capri-sun+1
She sees you as only a friend
And she is trying to be nice about it. Time to walk away my friend.
If she flirts back it is a good sign imho.
do tell of this time investment thing you are speaking of. why invest this stuff called time if you are so guarded of your true feelings? thats like like holding back and trying to play a mind game or the woman may be scared of failure or something else....as time really means nothing with out justification of feelings?
whats the take on this?
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It can be a general thing (regardless of romantic feelings) as capricorns take some time to trust others with how they feel. You need to have shown yourself to be trustworthy, or having integrity before you get to pass the trust threshold. Friendship can then ensue, for love, it will take something more.
For this reason, I don't think many caps "invest" time in people who may not be worthy of trust. You basically have to be able to lower down the guard of a capricorn enough for them to consider it a good idea to spend time with you, or for them to be there in your time of need. I think it may be an intuitive thing. I personally try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt in the beginning, and will gradually lower my guard and show how I feel. I would also try to help anyone I consider to be a friend (even distant).
Basically time (invested) is what is need for the guard to go down, in most situations.
Our original poster is definitely considered a friend, it's the lengths his capricorn friend will go to to please him that will indicate whether there is maybe more.
Another thing . We are shy in bold letters, but equally transparent with those who are transparent with us .
This is so true.
Posted by BadBoyOk, I sense you have had some difficult experiences...Posted by AnnabelleJamesNo one wants, 'benefit of the doubt in the beginning' but they want 'your' trust which is never given.Posted by BadBoyPosted by AnnabelleJamesIf a cap woman is so guarded of her feelings....then...Posted by daron76I'm not sure this means she just sees you as a friend. Capricorn women are usually quite guarded about their feelings and she clearly cares for you, otherwise wouldn't invest her time or be there for you the way she has been so far.Posted by Capri-sun+1
She sees you as only a friend
And she is trying to be nice about it. Time to walk away my friend.
If she flirts back it is a good sign imho.
do tell of this time investment thing you are speaking of. why invest this stuff called time if you are so guarded of your true feelings? thats like like holding back and trying to play a mind game or the woman may be scared of failure or something else....as time really means nothing with out justification of feelings?
whats the take on this?
It can be a general thing (regardless of romantic feelings) as capricorns take some time to trust others with how they feel. You need to have shown yourself to be trustworthy, or having integrity before you get to pass the trust threshold. Friendship can then ensue, for love, it will take something more.
For this reason, I don't think many caps "invest" time in people who may not be worthy of trust. You basically have to be able to lower down the guard of a capricorn enough for them to consider it a good idea to spend time with you, or for them to be there in your time of need. I think it may be an intuitive thing. I personally try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt in the beginning, and will gradually lower my guard and show how I feel. I would also try to help anyone I consider to be a friend (even distant).
Basically time (invested) is what is need for the guard to go down, in most situations.
Our original poster is definitely considered a friend, it's the lengths his capricorn friend will go to to please him that will indicate whether there is maybe more.
Caps do want you 'there in your time of need' but the problem is that you guys are silent, never saying a word about what's wrong and think people should read your minds. That does not work as evidence shows.
When you do show yourself to be trustworthy to a cap or be 100, that's where the cap begins to try and manipulate you. Then is when the squabbling begins as much as the fuck, fight, spend the night thing.
You take a cap woman to the edge, she will fail every time bc she can't take it, much less endure it (she gets anxiety and wants to give up and be an instant quitter).
#!caplifetimelove!#
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For me (and most caps) trust has to be earned, it is not automatically given. Starting with the benefit of the doubt is not a bad place to start.
I don't see caps as manipulative or players of mind games at all. Most are straight talkers, sincere, most even outspoken and true to their word. What you are describing is most likely the result of other influences (sagittarius? gemini?).
Quite curious to know why you would feel the urge to 'take a cap woman to the edge'?
Posted by BadBoySHYPosted by AnnabelleJames
Another thing . We are shy in bold letters, but equally transparent with those who are transparent with us .
This is so true.
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It was the second part I would mostly agree with 🙂
Posted by BadBoyI knew I would get it out of you.. 😉Posted by AnnabelleJamesIt was the second part I would mostly agree with 🙂Posted by BadBoySHYPosted by AnnabelleJames
Another thing . We are shy in bold letters, but equally transparent with those who are transparent with us .
This is so true.
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Happy to be of service :-)
Posted by BadBoyYou're going to have to help me out and explain some of this stuff to me, because I have no idea what you mean by being "taken to the edge"... Also, whose bs are we falling for, and why (in your opinion) is that such a problem?Posted by AnnabelleJamesAll the cap women with a virgo have been taken to the edge, whether it is a cliff way up or some other method. You guys fall for a lot of bs and believe other peoples bs to much.Posted by BadBoyOk, I sense you have had some difficult experiences...Posted by AnnabelleJamesNo one wants, 'benefit of the doubt in the beginning' but they want 'your' trust which is never given.Posted by BadBoyPosted by AnnabelleJamesIf a cap woman is so guarded of her feelings....then...Posted by daron76I'm not sure this means she just sees you as a friend. Capricorn women are usually quite guarded about their feelings and she clearly cares for you, otherwise wouldn't invest her time or be there for you the way she has been so far.Posted by Capri-sun+1
She sees you as only a friend
And she is trying to be nice about it. Time to walk away my friend.
If she flirts back it is a good sign imho.
do tell of this time investment thing you are speaking of. why invest this stuff called time if you are so guarded of your true feelings? thats like like holding back and trying to play a mind game or the woman may be scared of failure or something else....as time really means nothing with out justification of feelings?
whats the take on this?
It can be a general thing (regardless of romantic feelings) as capricorns take some time to trust others with how they feel. You need to have shown yourself to be trustworthy, or having integrity before you get to pass the trust threshold. Friendship can then ensue, for love, it will take something more.
For this reason, I don't think many caps "invest" time in people who may not be worthy of trust. You basically have to be able to lower down the guard of a capricorn enough for them to consider it a good idea to spend time with you, or for them to be there in your time of need. I think it may be an intuitive thing. I personally try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt in the beginning, and will gradually lower my guard and show how I feel. I would also try to help anyone I consider to be a friend (even distant).
Basically time (invested) is what is need for the guard to go down, in most situations.
Our original poster is definitely considered a friend, it's the lengths his capricorn friend will go to to please him that will indicate whether there is maybe more.
Caps do want you 'there in your time of need' but the problem is that you guys are silent, never saying a word about what's wrong and think people should read your minds. That does not work as evidence shows.
When you do show yourself to be trustworthy to a cap or be 100, that's where the cap begins to try and manipulate you. Then is when the squabbling begins as much as the fuck, fight, spend the night thing.
You take a cap woman to the edge, she will fail every time bc she can't take it, much less endure it (she gets anxiety and wants to give up and be an instant quitter).
#!caplifetimelove!#
For me (and most caps) trust has to be earned, it is not automatically given. Starting with the benefit of the doubt is not a bad place to start.
I don't see caps as manipulative or players of mind games at all. Most are straight talkers, sincere, most even outspoken and true to their word. What you are describing is most likely the result of other influences (sagittarius? gemini?).
Quite curious to know why you would feel the urge to 'take a cap woman to the edge'?
Most cap women are ready to fight in an instant and very different than being able to sustain being at the brink of edge for some time. It equates to being a lifetime partner or not.
I have not really had bad experiences with cap women......not realllllyyyy. I have one that haunts me, it seems....lol.
If you have to earn trust, then you were never trusted from the start and that is a disgrace.click to expand
What is a virgo's take on needing to have trust to the get-go? Why do you feel you are entitled to automatically being considered trustworthy?
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wassup! i just need help from all Capricorn women out there! plz....
Since 1 year and 6 months Im very attached and friendly with Capricorn girl.[ Dec 24 born ]. My day starts with her and it ends with her. We chat all day even though we both are busy at work! I feel she is my best friend in the world.
She knows that I like her, but still she never show her feelings, she is cold, practical about life! '
she says i always wanted to talk to you as a friend ' but she always there for me with her advice,care and support!.
she always reply to my MSG even in her busy time & smile whenever I flirt with her.
Being a cancer [June 27 Born] sometime i get emotionally hurt when I don't see her feelings 7 emotions!
I think im attracted and in love and recently without any hesitation I have shared my feelings indirectly with her!
because i dont want to scare her wit my emotional stuffs! she said - we are cool friends, please dont hurt yourself,
i will never break your friendship, u can talk to me anytime! she cares a lot!
I need your advice ! capricorn women! does she really loves me and hiding her emotions—