need some enlightenment

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Capricorn 15.38 Ascendant Leo 12.59
Moon Libra 0.31 II Virgo 10.57
Mercury Sagittarius 24.14 III Libra 11.49
Venus Aquarius 1.36 IV Scorpio 13.41
Mars Taurus 27.54 V Sagittarius 14.26
Jupiter Leo 11.25 R VI Capricorn 13.51
Saturn Capricorn 26.18 VII Aquarius 12.59
Uranus Capricorn 10.04 VIII Pisces 10.57
Neptune Capricorn 14.20 IX Aries 11.49
Pluto Scorpio 19.46 Midheaven Taurus 13.41
Lilith Sagittarius 17.43 XI Gemini 14.26
Asc node Capricorn 28.10 XII Cancer 13.51


Hi, I'm kinda new to this and I find myself reflecting about my life more recently.. My cap ex and my current gemini gf seems to have similar problems with me, like being as they say insensitive and they get jealous and mad often. They say this and that girl likes me, but I myself didn't notice these things if they didn't made me realize it in the first place. Also most of the time I dunno what to say or do when they pour their hearts out which again makes them mad because they think I don't listen or care, but really I feel like I'm slow in processing this kind of moments. I also feel exhausted and depressed whenever there is drama. Is there something wrong with me according to my chart?

Also about family and old friends. I love them and think of them often but I rarely even contact them. My family loves me and most of time contacts me. But I think my old friends resent me. but I always get new friends pretty easily though I'm not that outgoing.

So does these things reflect on my chart or something?

You sound normal to me bro. I was super cold when I was younger, no sympathy for anyone. As you get older it gets easier to understand others emotions. Practice reading body language, after a while of practice you won't even listen to words unless they match the body language. Everything else will come natural...

You have no personal planets in water signs, so emotional situations are out of your comfort zone.
Own it by being the friend that can take charge when said friends are too emotional to think properly.
To deal with it, body language reading and if possible just hanging out with water signs and asking them to read someones emotional state could help you learn a few tricks.

You have Scorpio ruling your 4th house, so while love may be there, you need your alone time. Family might have so secrets running around in the undercurrents. Wanna say somewhat intense childhood.

You have an Aquairus 7th house and Gemini 11th house. Those signs aren't famous for deep long lasting bonds as much as they. Are for lighthearted relationships.