Im a scorpio he is a capricorn born in January. He fits everything I have read about caps to a T. both of us are 31.
We met and started dating and it became deep and intimate fast. we both were like this is too good to be true. saw each other multiple times a week and spent weekends together. He even met my family at christmas and my daughter loves him. All this with in 6 weeks.
We never made a commitment of "together".
He has 2 kids who live with their mother in TX. They are 4 and 1.5. When she found out he was dating she lost it. She hasn't moved on , has no job lives off the child support and belittles him every chance she gets with why don't you support your family or telling him glad he loves my daughter and not his kids. He calls his kids everyday and is a great dad, she is useless. She started telling him she wouldn't let him FaceTime his kids unless he was home also only at certain times of the day. She stressed him big time . He started pulling away from me. I questioned him and thought it was over another woman. This was prior to doing research on caps. big mistake. I would blow up his phone with why is he so distant, talk to me, whats going on. Finally I was like do you want to be with me or no? he came over and we had a convo where he told me it was about his ex and the kids situation and also because work has been so crazy. he took a few days and said he was going through so much he just couldn't be in a relationship right now. He said work was so busy (he is active army) , the stuff with his kids, and baby mother, plus he works out and he felt like he couldn't manage his time well enough to have a relationship. Surely I made it seem like i needed more time then he could provide. it's been a month since that, we still text but i normally always start it. we text every 3 or 4 days. Last friday he told me he was sorry for leaving the way he did, he said it was crappy. He then said when he gets his kids maybe his and mine could play. This was first time he has brought up seeing me since we ended it. I said of course that would be great. His childs mother denied him getting his kids for spring break and hasn't let them talk more even though he told her that he ended things with me. I have pressed him to get a lawyer but he is taking it slow (which i don't get). Anyways, Saturday night we were texting and I was out drinking with some friends. The party was breaking up so I said , hey why don't we meet for a drink. He said ok and called a place but they were closed so he invited me over. He got out of bed at about 11pm, went to the store and got us drinks and I went over. Again first time seeing him in a month. We talked, drank and laughed. it was so nice and I missed him. we sat on the couch and he started rubbing my leg while we were talking. needless to say one thing lead to another. When we woke up we cuddled a bit, and kissed bye. we texted till 1pm on Sunday and then nothing. I said r u ok? then monday night I said , is this your way of telling me that was a "one night stand" thing. He finally replied this morning , tuesday. He said " I don't really know what it was honestly. I still don't feel like I'm ready for a relationship, but i still haven't been with anyone but you so its not like im using that as an excuse i just have a lot going on and still trying to figure it out" I replied saying basically my intentions were to salvage a friendship and not sleep with you, but i don't regret it. I said when i said do you want to be with me or not I just wanted some type of commitment to know that i should wait for you to figure things to and to know the distance wasn't over another woman. I think you took it more serious then i meant it. I admit that i wanted to try some things and work it out but that was some time ago now. . I like hanging out and seeing you and If you are open to that I am as well. I haven't slept with anyone else either but have been talking to someone for 2 weeks, i don't want to lie or seem like I'm hiding it either. .. he hasn't replied but thats nothing new.
I know what we felt was real. I know i pressed him to hard when he was stressed and I wouldn't be here if I would of just let him have his space. I also expressed to him over a month ago my feelings were very strong for him and that was probably a mistake. I believe he isn't seeing or talking to anyone else just because I know him.
I have started talking to someone else even though it isn't serious and i know there is no future there it keeps my mind of the cap.
I kind of regretted telling him I was seeing someone else but wanted him to know also that my intention that night wasn't to force him back to me, also to know you can't say you aren't ready for a relationship and then expect me to wait. He has giving me nothing to say he wanted me to wait and never said anything about being together later. He has said prior that if things with his ex wouldn't of went so south then he probably would never of left.
Question is this, if or when he gets his crap settled, work on a normal schedule, the baby mother drama to a schedule or at least workable do you think he will come back to me now with the knowledge I am talking to other people or am i done ? I know caps won't really chase, or get to jealous, I want him to at least tell me if he gets to a place he wants a relationship and give me the chance to stop talking to someone else if I am. I don't want him to know that I would or that I'm caught up on him but I am. How he treated me and my daughter was just amazing. It was something I had never felt before. it was like pure happiness with not trying at all.
Hi Scorpio. I'm a capricorn woman.. And trust me, i personally enjoy being around Scorpios because i get attracted to your confidence and magnetism. I feel like I'm being with a real person. Anyone else apart from a Scorpio makes me feel the rapport too formal or dramatic. I love that Scorpios actually know what I'm thinking. Their traits amaze me. And i believe so does your Capricorn man.
He might not be responding to your msgs because he hasn't considered you as a priority for now. I believe he is in a situation where he cannot commit to you.
Few suggestions :
Show him that you are relaxed and not desperate to get into a relationship. Care for him.. Don't rush him through.. Be around him so that he thinks about you. Don't impress him, because it's his major turn off. Be frank and honest to him. Tease him, but don't get personal. Speak to him about your worries and how you feel about him. Don't be poetic, as he won't understand. Show him that you are mysterious. Don't be wishy-washy as he has not time or value for indecisive people.
Capricorns' relationships start with a crush. And every small cute behaviour of his crush keeps running in their minds.. Over and over.. Even while they are asleep.
Be yourself. And be special to him.
If this works out, you both would make a great couple with a beautiful relationship. Good luck!
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Im a scorpio he is a capricorn born in January. He fits everything I have read about caps to a T. both of us are 31.
We met and started dating and it became deep and intimate fast. we both were like this is too good to be true. saw each other multiple times a week and spent weekends together. He even met my family at christmas and my daughter loves him. All this with in 6 weeks.
We never made a commitment of "together".
He has 2 kids who live with their mother in TX. They are 4 and 1.5. When she found out he was dating she lost it. She hasn't moved on , has no job lives off the child support and belittles him every chance she gets with why don't you support your family or telling him glad he loves my daughter and not his kids. He calls his kids everyday and is a great dad, she is useless. She started telling him she wouldn't let him FaceTime his kids unless he was home also only at certain times of the day. She stressed him big time . He started pulling away from me. I questioned him and thought it was over another woman. This was prior to doing research on caps. big mistake. I would blow up his phone with why is he so distant, talk to me, whats going on. Finally I was like do you want to be with me or no? he came over and we had a convo where he told me it was about his ex and the kids situation and also because work has been so crazy. he took a few days and said he was going through so much he just couldn't be in a relationship right now. He said work was so busy (he is active army) , the stuff with his kids, and baby mother, plus he works out and he felt like he couldn't manage his time well enough to have a relationship. Surely I made it seem like i needed more time then he could provide. it's been a month since that, we still text but i normally always start it. we text every 3 or 4 days. Last friday he told me he was sorry for leaving the way he did, he said it was crappy. He then said when he gets his kids maybe his and mine could play. This was first time he has brought up seeing me since we ended it. I said of course that would be great. His childs mother denied him getting his kids for spring break and hasn't let them talk more even though he told her that he ended things with me. I have pressed him to get a lawyer but he is taking it slow (which i don't get). Anyways, Saturday night we were texting and I was out drinking with some friends. The party was breaking up so I said , hey why don't we meet for a drink. He said ok and called a place but they were closed so he invited me over. He got out of bed at about 11pm, went to the store and got us drinks and I went over. Again first time seeing him in a month. We talked, drank and laughed. it was so nice and I missed him. we sat on the couch and he started rubbing my leg while we were talking. needless to say one thing lead to another. When we woke up we cuddled a bit, and kissed bye. we texted till 1pm on Sunday and then nothing. I said r u ok? then monday night I said , is this your way of telling me that was a "one night stand" thing. He finally replied this morning , tuesday. He said " I don't really know what it was honestly. I still don't feel like I'm ready for a relationship, but i still haven't been with anyone but you so its not like im using that as an excuse i just have a lot going on and still trying to figure it out" I replied saying basically my intentions were to salvage a friendship and not sleep with you, but i don't regret it. I said when i said do you want to be with me or not I just wanted some type of commitment to know that i should wait for you to figure things to and to know the distance wasn't over another woman. I think you took it more serious then i meant it. I admit that i wanted to try some things and work it out but that was some time ago now. . I like hanging out and seeing you and If you are open to that I am as well. I haven't slept with anyone else either but have been talking to someone for 2 weeks, i don't want to lie or seem like I'm hiding it either. .. he hasn't replied but thats nothing new.
I know what we felt was real. I know i pressed him to hard when he was stressed and I wouldn't be here if I would of just let him have his space. I also expressed to him over a month ago my feelings were very strong for him and that was probably a mistake. I believe he isn't seeing or talking to anyone else just because I know him.
I have started talking to someone else even though it isn't serious and i know there is no future there it keeps my mind of the cap.
I kind of regretted telling him I was seeing someone else but wanted him to know also that my intention that night wasn't to force him back to me, also to know you can't say you aren't ready for a relationship and then expect me to wait. He has giving me nothing to say he wanted me to wait and never said anything about being together later. He has said prior that if things with his ex wouldn't of went so south then he probably would never of left.
Question is this, if or when he gets his crap settled, work on a normal schedule, the baby mother drama to a schedule or at least workable do you think he will come back to me now with the knowledge I am talking to other people or am i done ? I know caps won't really chase, or get to jealous, I want him to at least tell me if he gets to a place he wants a relationship and give me the chance to stop talking to someone else if I am. I don't want him to know that I would or that I'm caught up on him but I am. How he treated me and my daughter was just amazing. It was something I had never felt before. it was like pure happiness with not trying at all.