The Capricorn - Virgo Connection (Page 2)

Of course none of what I mentioned applies to my...erm, *coughs* wife-to-be cappysweetie the coolest under 30" girl around here

LOL!!!!! *kisses Shaka on his forehead*

Cappysweetie, it really isn't important if Virgos click or not. I don't like Capricorns, but I like you. It's all an individual thing after awhile.

🙂 , but you have to like the capricorn side of me too Brandon, it's not enough just ot like the Saggie side, you have to like the cappy side too, because those traits are apart of my personality 😄

Well I did make a positive post about Cappy women a few years ago. I do like Capricorn women because they are willing to go out there and work a job, and hold their own. To me this shows a lot of respect of the man they are with, because they definitely hold down their part of the deal. As a Virgo, I like someone who can get out there and do for themselves, it's a very attracted quality of a woman.

YAY!!! My guy friend told me the same thing. But he also said that it's important not to work too hard. Much reminds me, I have to work all weekend 😢

Another thing is that Cap women are usually reserved. In this day and age where women are honored for being loose, it is admirable to see women who are comfortable in their reserved nature. I personally think a reserved woman has a lot of redeeming quality. I also like the fact that Cap women are very opionated and stand up for themselves. Although I noticed when Cap women deal with water signs, they become very submissive, and take a lot of crap. They seem so willing to hide this in order not to step on the water signs sensitivity, and they don't seem to have the same resolve in their opinions.

LOL, standing up for myself sometimes is troublesome. Especially with certain people ? like this stupid cancer woman that I work with. Well, she's in another dept. but she use to be my boss. She is by fair the stupidiest woman I've ever met ? in terms of character.

So it annoys me when Cap women say they don't like Virgos, because they CAN be opionated and strong-willed with Virgos. Where as with other signs they have to modify their approach, which I don't think is always comfortable to them.

There's some truth to this I must say ? a certain cancer man along with a scorpio (before the cancer) got away with murder LOL, well until I learned better.

I read your thread and you said you had figured out what you wanted to do. By the time I read the PM, I had already read your post, so I didn't see a point in responding. I'll send you an email sometime this weekend, just to touch base.

NOOOO!!!! Brandon, afterwards I stated that I didn't solve it and that I still had problems 😢

Depending on his upbringing, Virgo men are very focus on what they want in life professionally. I love men who are ambitious along with having a good understanding of what it takes to accomplish goals. There are many in my generation who rather stay home with their parents or have their parents support them, instead of seeking their own life. So, when I see a man who doesn't fit that terrible stigma, I'm attracted to that.

Also, Virgo men are truthful ? they are not always truthful about themselves but surface information is a no-brainer. Except from an emotional standpoint, you can count for a Virgo to be upfront and honest; he may even add humor, which makes everything better 🙂

Virgo men are dependable, even when it's not convenient for them ? you never have to worry about them standing you up. I must say, they are very reliable. Most aren't phony, if they agree with you, then it is what it is; if they don't, then they just don't. Not many people are like that 🙂

I just wish that all those good qualities would translate into their personal relationships. If they feel they are getting close to someone emotionally, then that back down, why—— But, it's fine for Virgo men to just be with someone, just as long as the woman doesn't know what he's thinking ? hahaha, there's no point in being in a relationship if you don't connect emotionally. LOL, sex will not always be the same, so there has be something else that holds the relationship together. LOL, besides the fact that they just don't like change 🙂

Virgo men would be alright if they would stop hiding themselves away from those who try to get emotionally close. Every women is not out to take their souls away, some actually want to aid in helping the soul 😉

Out of all the signs, I feel I can be myself around virgos the most, but when I'm being myself, I'm accused of not being real LOL!!!!

I haven't known that many Cappies in the real world; but, I didn't like most of them... we rub each other the wrong way. Some similarities, but not enough to overcome the differences -- mutual stubbornness being one of the "negative" similarities...

The Cappy women were not sexy to me. Sharp. Brittle. Dry. Virgo wit, but no Virgo tact. Smart enough, but not intellectual at all. No mystery. No fire. No humor.

I can work with Cappies -- hell, I can work with just about anyone! But friendship? Unlikely. Romance? Hell, naw!

On the positive side: I trust Cappies, but not Gems. I like Cappy seriousness. They tend to be fair.

They're just no fun...

Awww DY 😢

Well, we are not that bad, it just takes alot for us to open up.

The Cappy women were not sexy to me. Sharp. Brittle. Dry. Virgo wit, but no Virgo tact. Smart enough, but not intellectual at all. No mystery. No fire. No humor.

It's because of the millitary -- they have to be that way. As a Cappy, I know that we have to put on a tough front with powerful men or else they will not take us seriously. LOL, I just hope that don't find out that I'm buffing LOL!!!!

Hi all ...

This has been great reading, and informative. Let me (cap man) just give an aside about my relationship with a Virgo girl.

We've been together for 15 months. We broke up once for about 36 hours. I was quite vexed at times seven months in because she wasn't returning what I was giving. But what I've learned, with the help of some of you who answered my kvetching posts back then, is that patience is integral to a relationship with a Virgal.

We have great physical and mental chemistry and conversation and always have fun. She is not one to shout her emotions and since I'm verbal that's been an issue. She invests in everything she does and sometimes to the neglect of others and other things, but that's just who she is, and the more I accept the more she more closer to me.

I've had good relationships with Taurus, but they weren't cerebral. Same wuth Scorpio. My ex was a Cap and we only split because of child issues (she didn't want them). Same with Scorpio. I've dated Cancer and Pisces women and had good relationships. I've been attracted to fire signs but, as the saying goes, always came back burnt.

I'd suggest any Cappy give a Virgo a try if they have the patience to let it develop.

ddsk

I'd suggest any Cappy give a Virgo a try if they have the patience to let it develop.

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Absolutely....

And once it develops the virgo will COPY many things you do!!

ddsk,does your virgo do that? My virgo has been copying me and now some how I see myself doing the same!!!!

So both of us are copying what the other does, I mean he now likes the same news channel as I do and I like the same "boring" stuff he likes!!!!!

Can you believe this? Today it went so far we both laughed a lot about it!!!
DOES YOUR VIRGO COPY YOU? IT HAS STARTED AGAIN FOR ME IN A GREATER AMOUNT. I LIKE IT NOW, IT MAKES ME FEEL SPECIAL.

Virgo's are a strange group of people!
The nastiest, most vile person ive ever met was a Virgo (im capricorn) and i mean NASTY in all ways!
Yet one of my closest work colleagues is a Virgo and the kindest, sweetest person you could ever meet!
One extreme to the other!
I get on with Virgo's but id NEVER trust them.
I get on much better with a Taurus or Scorpio

Virgos can be cool, but yeah, taurus is usually more compatible with me. The virgos I know are very intellectual which I find appealing. However, then their critical nature emerges, and I gotta go.

WOW! Cappiesweety you are so right on in your earlier response. I'm new to this message board and have fallen really hard for a Cap and you just described us perfectly.

Thank you 🙂 I've been friends with enough of you 😉 LOL J/K its hard to reach virgos emotionally -- you almost have to trick them 😛 I'm kind of in the process of doing that but I don't know if I have the energy LOL!!!!!

Haha, well I haven't perfected my plans yet. I'm still working on it. Honestly, its easy to get a cap to fall for you 🙂 Well, easier then getting a virgo to fall for you 😉

I've been attracted to many capricorn guys. Right now, the boyfriend i have is a capricorn. Its the most amazing relationship i've ever had. So there you go, Im a virgo & hes a capricorn.

i see virgo men as fds, there isn't much chemistry tho =/

It's strange but many astrological sites mention that while the Earth-to-Earth combos are generally harmonious, it seems for Caps, it's been mentioned many times that the Pisces and Caps were made for each other (at least for Pisces females/Cap male combos) while other sites mention that Cancer & Caps are a perfect match.

I certainly see that in real life and it struck me as strange (or at least it used to) that someone as fluid and intuitive as a Pisces or a Cancer (Water signs) could look so happy with someone as 'stiff' & cold as a as a Cap (extreme Earth sign).

THEN I realized that Caps are not fully Earth. They are half Water. Mer-Goats.
There seems to be a more intuitive and spiritual side that they only show a rare few people.

**THEN I realized that Caps are not fully Earth. They are half Water. Mer-Goats.**

Could this be the reason why Caps & Virgos sometimes have communication problems? It certainly might be linked to why Pisces & Virgos always (ok, maybe not ALWAYS) seem to have communication problems. Cap's half-fish nature might have something do with it.

**THEN I realized that Caps are not fully Earth. They are half Water. Mer-Goats.**

Could this be the reason why Caps & Virgos sometimes have communication problems? It certainly might be linked to why Pisces & Virgos always (ok, maybe not ALWAYS) seem to have communication problems. Cap's half-fish nature might have something do with it.

OHHHH!!!! Brain Blast!

Then I guess no sign is compatible with Virgos

Now you know thats not true Mister B 🙂

You don't even like caps. How is being compatible with Capricorns going to benefit you?

Oh he likes cappies all right 😄 😄 😄

Do tell.

hahahaha, oh no you don't, I can't give away the Cap weakness, oh no, it will totally be used against us.

Most caps don't know it either lol!!! Trust me, if a Virgo know about this ... oh my god the horror LOL

lol!!! Darn lurker 😄

*Gets out of character* I'm pissed ...

You know what Evan, I'm so sick and tired of your celebration of fire and air women!!!

hahaha, on a board about capricorns and virgos none the less!!!!

If you like you fire and air women, sweet -- good for you but this is not about Virgos with fire and air signs, this is about virgos with other earth signs.

So you can just stuff it!!!

Hi SB 🙂

Sorry, I had to tell Mr.Shaka off slightly 😉 He needs that, no one else will tell him lol!!!!

hahaha, I'm glad you understand. I'm in a bit of a mood tonight, no one need mess with me 😉

And yeah, I've heard it, fire women this, air women that -- blah blah blah blah blah

I mean got damn lol!!!

CaPROZACsweetie, I didnt know this was such a sensitive issue for you

Oh dear, where is Scorpius when I need him 😢

But as usual its the sheer and unadultered truth , for the first time since I can remember I have NO caps at all in my circle of friends (male and female), you know what the predominant sign is..

*Second button pushed*

yeah sorry I have to say it ONE MORE TIME..

SAGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*final button pushed*

Alright Shaka, you done it! no more nice gal 😉

SB ... you not helping the matter much my sweet and wonderful cap buddie 😉

In fact I still CANT get along with my cap housemate, no matter how much I try. Cap and Virgo males dont seem to get along as well Virguys with Capgals

hahaha, Virgos dudes mess up with cap girls only when they are being shit-heads 😉

Cap women, well ... hmmm, what is it that we do? I don't really see anything that we do really 😛

oops!

HAHAHA!!!!!

You know what, I'm going to grab my bat and knock the both of you out if you don't stop with the crap!

I'm spoken once and I AM THE LAW (jr)!!!!!

lol, DK is THE LAW (sr)

Cap gals should be advised to get drunk as often as they can as far as Im concerned

OMFG ...........

Hell no, we shouldn't get drunk, we have to stay sane enough so we can tell you Virgos where to get off 😄

If DK's the law then we live in a very fucked up world

Hey! Devil is the King my dear Evan and DK is THE LAW. Together they rule just fine 😉 Two Aquas, you can't beat it 😉

Some people have been behaving fuckin weird lately too, both a Cappy and a Virgirl who I could get along well with suddenly wont talk to me anymore..

Some serious universe conspiracy is going on..

Well darling, if you give them the same vibes you give SB and myself then there's a reason why the Cappy won't speak to you 😛 Now the virgirl ... I don't know her deal.

We cappies like warmth, you can't be warm at one point and then cold the next LOL!!!!

Plus, I must warn you, the is a crazy time for cappies right now, one false move and we will likely blow up one of the hemispheres 😄

hahaha, of course when he has enraged two cappies he runs with his tail-tucked-between-his-legs.

hahahaha, no Shaka, come on back, lets talk so more 😉

Come on now, we know you are chatty, lets talk about firy-asses and air-heads, you like talking about them. So come on back my dear buddy 🙂

::::: psst, SB, as soon as you see him, grab him, I'll put a clamp on his nuts and tie him down, but you have to hold him, alright :::

Avatar: The last Airbender—?

Why does that sound oddly familiar to me ...

*gasps*

Is Airbender that cute bald kid with the think on his head? Is so, yeah, I watched the first eps but then, I'm not sure what happened, but I only saw the first eps on Nicko.

I think my friend was pushing me to read Gravitation at the time.

hahahaha, but you worked so heard for you degree --- you mean to tell me you don't like it anymore 😉

Apart from one "Grrr"

Never met A Virgo I didnt connect with :-)
Same goes for Taurus :-)
And Leo :-)

Same wavelength, similar opinions on just about everything, Virgo's and Caps also share a similar sense of humour.
Both have their own individuality though.
Its not an effort for a Cap to be with a Virgo either as a friend or a partner.

recently.....I have been surrounded by alot more Cap people..couple of years ago..it was Scorpios.... but now it's Caps and Aquas...I get along with Capricorns, they are funny, and soo serious, I feel/sense a sensitivity coming from them......I see right thru their stern, serious expressions.......I just want to hug them lol!! tell them it will be ok...I once had a slight connection to a cap....we lock eyes for a few seconds .......it was nice, unexpected but we both got shy and blushed....nothing ever came of it .....I remembered that same look .... when I met Aqua with Cap Moon.....that same expression when we locked eyes.....they say the Moon is the expression in our eyes....well then the connection was there....when we locked eyes.....intense I must say 🙂

I get along with Capricorns, they are funny, and soo serious, I feel/sense a sensitivity coming from them......I see right thru their stern, serious expressions.......I just want to hug them lol!!

OH NO!!! You Virgos are not suppose to see that side of us damn it all lol

LOL yeah whatever......I see right thru you guys....and like I said... I just want to hug all of you!

SB
""Then I must come off as Jerkyl and Hyde since I do have a gem moon.......

I have that too. Year of 2006-08 have been the year of water for me. I ONLY meet scorpios and Pisces. Year of 2005 was air, fire and earth.""

My sis has Gemini Moon ......she is funny and we get eachother but she can be irresponsible, reckless....but she means well....her eyes have a certain sparkle

yeah literally a couple of years ago.......I had about 8 scorpios surrounding me.....mostly friends, family....I was like ""what in the world"" now it's some Caps...about 4 of them... which is the most I have had in my life... and about 7-8 Aquas......mostly born around Feb 11-17......except one.......but yeah it's strange....how certain signs come into your life in abundance

Starblue said: "yeah literally a couple of years ago.......I had about 8 scorpios surrounding me.."
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That sound scary to anybody else? 🙂

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Starblue said: "but yeah it's strange....how certain signs come into your life in abundance"

SB said: "Must be our life goals and nature that attracts certain people of a certain nature?"
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Yep, this year has been an abundance of Caps and Leos for me. I'm totally loving Capricorns nature since January. It's a light that's been shone on me. One I doubt I will ever forget or find myself not desiring to have covering me. 🙂

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I really don't like reading about "new discoveries" of Capricorns being better with signs other than Virgos (or Taurus). I know those of you (other signs) who have fallen for a Cap only want to know that your relationship is blessed but it still remains that Taurus, Capricorn and Virgo are the top dogs for each other. I can totally testify on all 12 accounts having dated every sign. There's nothing better than being with someone who understands you, listens, and makes you feel secure at the end of every day. Minus the ups and downs before getting to this point of course. Capricorns & Virgos rule!!! 🙂

HA! You ass 😉

And since that is two against one, its better for caps to have their own element.

I think this is why so many do not understand us, because we do have own one planet and we don't share.

Goodpoint SB 🙂

Evan it will be ok. 🙂

I use to have a thing for a Sag once. 😢 *runs off crying*

You know Ms.A,

Seriously, I haven't known too many Sag and Virgo relationships :O But I know of a few Sag and Capricorn relationships -- it's usually the guy that the Saggie. My ex-bf was a Sag but he was just mean (darn Taurus moon) so thats why we aren't together lol. He was alot of fun and we seem to have the same spirit which was pretty cool but (and this was the kicker) I (a capricorn) wanted my freedom and he seemed to always want to know my whereabouts.

I read a description of my Saggie/Cappy cusp nature online and it said that we are more likely to stray off then a Saggie of any decan. I'm not sure why thats the case but I think it depends on the chart because once I'm committed I'm totally there ... I mean, there are seem things I will not put up with, but I won't just leave.

I use to have a thing for a Sag once. *runs off crying*

oh no 😢

Well, actually, there's only two relationships where I just took off. I only did it because I knew the relationship was falling apart, so thats my reason. There was no need to talk, I was cheated on -- both situations. So why talk, I know what you did, its obviously that neither guy wanted to be with me because they cheated, so I didn't want all the explanations and excuses, so I needed both abruptly.

I'm still getting backlashes from both cases but at the time I thought (and I still do) believe that there was nothing really to talk about. Both men showed me what they wanted by their actions so I just left the whole situation.

The Gemini/Cancer guy is the ONLY guy I stayed under huge emotional circumstances. He cheated and I returned, but I there were other things going on with me that kept that attachment going with him, yep definitely other things, until I realized that he couldn't feel a void that I needed ... he made the void worse.