The Capricorn - Virgo Connection (Page 3)

I have seen taurian and virgos together and there is an almost effortless understanding between them.

I haven't seen that with caps and the others. Taurians can start the paragraph for us, but not finish it. And talking or communicating with Virgos is like pulling teeth.

Really? See I've experienced the opposite when it come to understanding. In both friendships and working relationships -- its totally understanding and the communication is effortless, no joke. Now, a butt heads with a taurus quite often which is strange lol, I have a buddies who are taurus but we do have our problems.

I've only encountered problems with virgos when it comes to dating them. Although, I've come to understand why thats the case, but I won't reveal that 🙂 Plus, its nothing I can to about it because thats just a fisxed personality trait of mine hahahaha, changing that personality trait would be like changing my whole character -- I don't think I should have to change for a guy 😉

they seem to do very well. Very quiet and frankly, quite boring couple.

Really, cool -- you know my ex virgo co-worker is going out with a Saggie but he's always complainting about her. He likes this taurus co-worker where he use to be located hahahahaha!!!!

Yep, I know what you mean -- I get the drift that things were exciting once they got together but now things seem different.

I'm not sure, she seems like a nice enough girl, I think she lets him take advantage of her too much but thats my opinion. She wants a boyfriend it seems so she just puts up with him.

He cool too, I liked him while he was here and we worked together very well -- he just had the biggiest crush on the taurus and I would get annoyed because I had to constantly remind him that he had a girlfriend lol

Cappysweetie, I can imagine that Sag and Virgo wouldn't work very well. I tried it twice, while it always starts good it just tears up in the middle and then the rest is trying to piece things back together and it's like holding on to a cup with a hole in it.

My first Sag wanted my money. The second I think just was sleeping around a lot and so wouldn't commit to be due to the distance. He was Sag/Scorp cusp (Nov 22). I also dated a Scorp/Sag cusp (Nov 21) who almost acted the same but there was no distance he just point blank told me he wanted his freedom. The sex with both was spectacular. Mainly the Nov 21st guy.

I don't think it's that your Sag guys didn't want to be with you (because of you) but that they didn't want to be in a relationship period. Some men just don't know how to communicate this.

!Cheshire_Kat! said:

Sometimes Virgo/Capricorn- Like SB stated it's like pulling teeth, Virgo can be way overboard critical and nervous also, mistrustful to point of being a cynic and Capricorn can be tensed and Virgoan energy seems to feul that tension and because of that Capricorn needs someone whose is going to be more open and sort of mellow and funny that way the Capricorn can relax.

Very interesting round-up. Got a scenario for y'all.

**Cappy's getting to know Virgo but is secretly in a current relationship.

**Virgo was approached by current love who claims Cap lives and loves them nightly.

**Virgo not wanting to be involved in third party drama told Cap about this.

**Cap became livid said it was an ex-love and that they would certainly handle it.

**Virgo gave Cap the benefit of doing this and trusted it would be handled.

**Ex never approached Virgo again and all appeared to be handled.

**Over a short time Cap loses car, cell, job and eventually internet.

**No communication devices.

**And confirmation of what the ex-love said about Cap lying about having a car.

**Suddenly without internet, Cap is (offline) for 6 days and so is the ex-love.

**Virgo doesn't change up in behavior whatsoever and anticipates Cap's return.

**Cap returns online and on the same day so does the ex-love. Exactly 6 days later.

**Virgo doesn't state this knowledge yet, wanting to see what Cap's excuse will be.

**Cap says there was a power outage; local power company tells Virgo there was none.

**Virgo comes to the conclusion that the ex-love was telling the truth all along.

**Cap believes they're getting away with everything and resumes lovey-doveyness.

**There is still no, cellphone to communicate as it fell in the toilet.

**Virgo furious about the betrayal to them and the ex-love shuts down communication.

**Cap gets highly upset and realizes that Virgo is pulling back, demands explanation.

(why would someone do that... demand a Virgo explain... muahahaha)

**Virgo reads Cap left to right, points out all holes that led to the discovery.

**Cap strongly denied the cell and car and job lies they were caught on.

**Virgo takes notice that no denial of relationship existing or power outage.

**Virgo believes evidence is definitely a smoking gun and refuses to believe Cap.

**Cap continues to deny and feigns hurt feelings because of the mistrust.

**Virgo loses patience and tells Cap stop your b*tching you f*cking liar.

**Cap finally gets the whining won't work, paints rising success in a new job.

**Virgo finds it in them to be cordial and treat Cap like an associate.

**Cap takes this to mean the relationship's back on, continues the lovey-doveyness.

**Virgo is in no way uttering a word of romance and pays the bullsh*t no mind.

**Cap realizes things have changed, doesn't push, takes the little response they get.

**Virgo's not mellow, inwardly cynical, finds nothing funny.

**Cap refuses to come clean about anything and is holding onto the lies to the end.

So...

My question: Is this pulling teeth to Caps (regarding Virgos) and going to fuel your tension? Rightly so? Or, not?

Yikes!!!

Okay, I think my observations on Virgo-Capricorn (friendly and intimate) relationships are a bit different and I'm a capricorn. True, a few of my relationships with virgos haven't worked, but I blame the guy, not the sign really. I may go on my rants but ...

this thread is suppose to be about 'Capricorn-Virgo Connection' not about their oppostion (---------> to Evan and SB) 😉

lol, I know you two are just voicing your opinion but take it easy there 😉

Virgo-Cap is only good for sex, lets face it

So that explains why you want a cap girl living with you 😉 You'd have a Aries or a Sag girlfriend but a cappy bed-mate to screw whenever you feel like hahahahahahaha!!!!!

You hound you!

hound moi?? Im just practical, imagine the Aries or Sag wont feel like having sex, I always have the cappy obediently waiting for me home , perfect situation isnt it?

Fyck no 😛 😛

Well, we know that with an Aries or Sag, you won't have to worry in the sex area so the cap will be free to good shopping, hang out with her friends and get cosy with other dudes. That's whats cool abut virgos, you are all about freedom, so you shouldn't get upset 😉

ALWAYS COMPLICATED AND VERY DEEP.

TRY TO NOT GET INTO IT, ELSE, YOU WILL BE GOOD FOR NOTHING.

PEOPLE WILL MAKE FUN OF YOU FOR GOING MAD IN LOVE!!!! WHICH IS UNUSUAL FOR CAPS AND VIRGOS...

huh?

HEY!

*coughs* ummm, ladies, Ms.A would be pissed to see this cat-fight on her thread.

This is suppose to be about good relationships between Caps and Virgs, not the bad!

Yeah, it looks pretty bad that a cap and a vir are having a spat on the thread 😉 It kind of discounts all the cool stuff that was said, just to let you know 😉

*flies away*

What? oh GB don't feel that way, its not that bad of a deal 😢 Seriously girl, do you even know how many means things were said about me? One user practially chewed my ass out on something that I was even really apart of at first -- and I'm still here 🙂

Don't leave because you get upset or offended, just talk to the ones you want to be in company with and ignore the rest, that simple.

If you think what was said above was mean then you wouldn't want to read whats been said about me 😉

Oh and I have a huge ass too lol!!! And don't think being white or whatever has anything to do with it though lol!!! But I just want to let you know that if you stay, we can share booty stories together 😛

There's the 'hound' 😄

What's up roover 😛

Dunno sweetie..

I love SB.

Oh goodness 😄 Okay, maybe that was a cruel statement to make, I should say, "who going to put you in a dog house already " 😄

I shouldn't have said pound 😢 I love doggies 😄 😄 😄

On a taller woman I hope. Its hard doing that to a short girl :O

I love spooning 🙂 Yes, I love a spooning, I adore spooning, yes yes yes 😄

Thats the best position, you have no idea ...

Spooning is the most intimate position ... it easy for the guy to play with your (.)(.)

when you back is turn and my (.)(.) are my 'spot', I go crazy -- which is weird because the (.)(.) are ruled by cancer ...

There's a certain helplessness with spooning too, like you have to trust the person behind you. I haven't been spooned in a year and I'm upset!

~sigh~ I love it, yes I do ....

Hi Sagigoat 😄

Cappy is making me have some really impure thoughts now

hehehehehe!!!!
Never mess with a cappy girl in heat, you will be surprised 😄

I like that position too really, for some reasons girls feel safe or get that "daddy" feeling out of the guy (without sounding incestous)

Oh yeah 😉 ~sigh~ Gets us every freaking time too 😢 Especially girls like me 😄

To just roll my bum from the back while he's taking it ....

AHH!!! I gotta stop 😛

cappysweetie said: "HEY!

*flies away* "

Wow, she is a sweetie. 🙂 Thank you CS and I definitely agree with you.

Everyone, there is no room for that kind of dirty debating in this thread. We are here to learn. If you have an opposition to post please at least consider it to be useful to others. If you're going to name call (Ex. Paranoia) it could be helpful to give an example as this thread may be someone's first view into your opinion on the matter.

I had no clue I would stir up emotions with my scenario which happens to be a true story. Recent even. Sometimes I'm just so interested in getting the facts and details out that I don't realize how someone unrelated to the situation can feel offended. It wasn't intentional Cappies and I'm sorry if I did offend you.

SB, please don't let my scenario bring anger out of you. I have never recognized you to be so cruel and hope you were just having a bad minute. 🙂

Ghettobooty, many of us share your feelings on wanting to leave DXP when someone has struck a nerve. Sometimes a break helps but when you come back you just really have to see that some people on here live to strike nerves. Why? No clue, don't care. So, please don't leave because of those people. What you get from DXP is worth more than if you just became invisible/re-invented/or left altogether. Please first put those who purposely try to steal your joy on ignore. Believe me it works wonders. It's like their dead. 🙂

SB said: "Ms. A pretty much joined in on the cap bashing. Sorry for sending the volley back....not."

Not exactly SB. I'm sorry if I couldn't find a happier experience to demonstrate the pulling teeth. I thought that this situation was perfect as it really happened between a Cap and Virgo.

IMO it showed where this Cap got frustrated and irritated with trying to get the Virgo to believe in them. For those who think Virgos are difficult it showed how a Virgo can become when something disturbs the natural balance (i.e. ex-gf/gf entering the picture). This situation was suppose to show the struggle and the question was asked at the end if this is what Caps consider pulling teeth when it comes to Virgo. Shutting down is kind of serious behavior of Virgos and I would personally liken the task of getting things back on track as pulling teeth.

SB said: "They don't even trust us."

I agree with SB here. It's kind of ridiculous to classify something as a deep or spiritual or whatever connection when there is mistrust. I actually mistrust many people of different signs. Not all in the same way though. And, I am born on the Cusp of Exposure so my trust level is pretty ridiculous. And it's not because I think people lie, steal, or cheat. It has to do with motives and interests.

False advertisement lol! No, I'm kidding but so far I haven't worked out w/ any caps romantically.... As of yet!

I love spooning! Lmao! I had my first sesh a few days ago w/ a Virgo! So tender, so romantic *sigh*.... Idk why I never spooned in high school!! Hahaha I'm such a square!😛

I'm a Cap-aqua cusp and bf is virgo. The sex isn't mind blowing. He has some major issues. But you know what? whether or not the relationship works out, we know we'll always be friends. We were friends for 12 years before a relationship and I can't explain it, but we'd never not be friends regardless of anything else. We simply get one another.

I'm a cap surrounded by virgos...my sisters are both virgos, my dad and I don't know how many aunts in my family are virgos...I have like four virgo friends. But I'm only close to one...now.

My bestfriend is a different type of virgo. She is funky, she is intellectual, she's the life of the party yet you can sit down with her and talk about things that matter. She gets me, I get her. She says crazy things like 'if I was lesbian u would be my ideal partner' lol...

We talk about everything.
Virgos are great...but the rest are so dull! And they love to indulge in the dullness of it all.lol I get sooo bored...this connection hardly produces any kinda vibe at all. At first I loved it cz it was safe, I even dated a virgo...but afterwards, it kills u mehn!

Growing up, I was shy and really quiet...but that's the time I attracted so many virgo friends and all. And now...I'm the loudest in the group lol, and I don't see them anywhere no more lol

My sisters are always so hard on themselves...and in the end, theyr not happy. Virgo = slave. Cap = slavemaker